4.5 stars. Dr. Greyson has studied "near-death experiences" (NDEs) for 50 years, collecting over 1000 cases, and he culminates his findings in this book. This is a topic I find particularly fascinating, as well as comforting, inspiring, and faith-promoting, so I loved hearing these stories that corroborate each other. He approaches his research (and this book) from a skeptics perspective, as he has no religious background. Since I am a believer, I didn't need all the exploration of side theories disproved, but I did appreciate the process of science and spirituality coming together for the discovery of truth. I recommend this to anyone who is interested in this topic or wonders about life after death.
-People with NDEs report: ability to think and understand clearer and faster, to understand based on impressions more than words, a recollection of life events with a greater clarity and understanding, the feeling of timelessness, the heightening of senses, colors, light, beauty, feelings of peace and love, interactions from loved ones who have passed away, interactions with God, a feeling of truth remembered but long forgotten, these experiences are more real to them than their earthly/physical ones, experiencing the pain you caused others from their point of view, the feeling that mortal words can't begin to describe the beauty and vastness of experience
-Transformative power of NDEs: life-changing, they come back more compassionate, altruistic, and connected to others, don't fear death (restful, peaceful, loving place), their life now has more meaning, purpose, and they feel more alive, less worldly, they come back feeling more loved and more loving, feeling of interconnectedness, a feeling of the good they need to do, wanting to enjoy life and live it to its fullness
-*I feel like everyone could use an NDE at some point in their life as a wake up call and reminder.
-The personal experiences were the best part of the book for me. Here are a couple:
"I felt embraced by such a feeling of bliss that there are no words to describe the feeling. The nearest I can come to it in human terms is to recall the rapture of being in love, the emotion one feels when one's first born is put into one's arms for the first time, the transcendence of spirit that can sometimes occur when one is at a concert of classical music, the peace and grandeur of mountains, forests, and lakes or other beauties of nature that can move one to tears of joy. Put all these together and magnify a thousand times and you will get a glimpse of the state of being one is in when the restriction to one's true heritage is partially removed."
-"It wasn't scary moving through the black, I was just watching. Then there was this light at the end. It wasn't just a light like a transparent color, it was intense love. When you are in it it doesn't just surround you like water does when you jump into a pool. It was like sun going through a piece of glass. It went completely through every spot on your body and everywhere else. It was warm and comforting. It was like warmth, comforting, a peaceful silence, and love surrounding everything and within. There were no walls or boundaries or anything solid, just light and beings. The light was like a magnet too. You just cannot be apart from it, you want to be with it more than anything you have ever wanted. Everyone loved each other more than can be comprehended here because of what we were, not who we were. We are limited but they are not. I don't know how to explain how we talked. We didn't talk like we do here, we just knew." Later when he woke from his accident: "As long as I am on earth I will never be able to comprehend it, because I only have a human brain. Here we can really think about only one thing at a time and there you know, really know, everything. You can't compare it to earth things. Talking about it or trying to draw it diminishes it entirely. It would be like trying to talk to an infant about DNA or some kind of medical technology in space. An infant couldn't even speak the language and he definitely couldn't even understand the idea. He could know about things only on his level like we do. We are just like babies and contrary to what a lot of people think, we know nothing. I will never be able to feel what I felt there while I am here because I am back in this human body again. It is way beyond superior, bigger than anything a human brain can comprehend, and more wonderful too."