A very quick and informative read, “Taking Children” was a riveting telling of the history in our country in separating families — both at home and abroad. Structured as an argument against family separation at the southern border, “Taking Children” delves into our countries history of using child separation as a racist warfare tactic to keep oppressed communities “in their place”, and avoid rebellion. This psychological attack kept BIPOC communities living in fear for centuries, losing their children as retribution for fighting for their own rights, including the right to raise their own children.
Starting with slavery, it had me in tears. Reading about the women who lost their children, the children being raised by strangers, white slaveholders raping enslaved women and selling the child for a profit, it taught me so many things that they never teach you about slavery. We always knew families were separated, but it’s never explained to us that this tactic was used specifically to sustain the institution of slavery and (more importantly) to prevent a slave rebellion — a detail they leave out so we won’t recognize that the practice (and the racist motives that fueled it) continued long after the Emancipation Proclamation.
The book goes on to discuss how these very tactics are used through Native American Boarding Schools, civil wars in Latin America (financially supported by the US), repressing BIPOC uprising in America, the war on drugs, separating families at the southern border, and more. How common this tactic is, is absolutely abhorrent. I would (and could) go into detail about each, but that would make this review so long nobody would read it in its entirety.
I wholeheartedly recommend this book to absolutely anybody, left or right, that claims to hold “family values” at a high esteem in their life. That value needs to be spread beyond the white, nuclear family. The author holds both political parties in the US accountable for their actions or their implicitly in the racist evils being done. Both sides have separated families, and both sides are strongly to blame.
Children need their parents, and the situations where a child is better off with a stranger are few and far between. Instead of spending money to separate families, that money would be put to better use keeping them together.