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Stories That Bind Us
Betty Sweet is still recovering from the loss of her husband when she becomes the temporary guardian of a five-year-old nephew she never knew she had. As they struggle to move forward, they build a relationship upon the foundation of storytelling and its special kind of magic.
384 pages, Paperback
First published June 1, 2020
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Susie Finkbeiner
10 books1,003 followersSusie Finkbeiner is the author of The All-American, All Manner of Things, and A Cup of Dust. She lives in West Michigan with her husband and three children.
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May 31, 2020
I love everything about Stories That Bind Us. The tone, the warmth, the beautiful family, gorgeous pieces of wisdom. I don't know how Susie Finkbeiner does it, but somehow she always strikes the perfect balance in her stories. Her God-given talent as a writer is to show that both grief and joy co-exist in life, that it's a continuous reconciliation between the two. Betty Sweet is one of the best characters I have met this year, and the rest of the family can be included in that as well. The issues here are relevant and timeless. Finkbeiner addresses heavy topics in this story, including mental illness, grief, and prejudice. She doesn't exaggerate or sensationalize any of theses themes, but rather lets them play out as a part of life, both the good and the bad.
Betty Sweet is a widow, who suddenly has to take care of her nephew, Hugo. She goes from not even knowing Hugo existed to realizing that her life will never be the same without him. Their relationship is not without bumps along the way, but it is a beautiful unfolding. Through the power of story and unconditional love, both begin to heal from their griefs, while still holding out hope that Hugo's mother will one day be well enough to come home.
I just love when I read a story at the exact time I needed to read it. I was right in the middle of this story when I received some unexpected and upsetting news. Life is full of griefs, big and small, unspeakable and mundane. But it's full of joy, too. Big, bold, beautiful joy. And stories that remind me to cling to those joys are keepers. It's not denying the grief or the heartache, but it's acknowledging that it doesn't win the day. It doesn't have the final say:
"...I imagined the bird perched in a nearby tree, not willing to be scared off by anything. As the night got darker, the bird would stay right where she was, singing even as the sun went down."
I could say more about this story, but sometimes fewer words are best; Stories That Bind Us is in my top five favorite novels of the year so far and is definitely on my keeper shelf. Highly recommended.
I received a complimentary copy of this novel from the publisher; I was not required to post a positive review, and these are my honest thoughts and opinions.
Betty Sweet is a widow, who suddenly has to take care of her nephew, Hugo. She goes from not even knowing Hugo existed to realizing that her life will never be the same without him. Their relationship is not without bumps along the way, but it is a beautiful unfolding. Through the power of story and unconditional love, both begin to heal from their griefs, while still holding out hope that Hugo's mother will one day be well enough to come home.
I just love when I read a story at the exact time I needed to read it. I was right in the middle of this story when I received some unexpected and upsetting news. Life is full of griefs, big and small, unspeakable and mundane. But it's full of joy, too. Big, bold, beautiful joy. And stories that remind me to cling to those joys are keepers. It's not denying the grief or the heartache, but it's acknowledging that it doesn't win the day. It doesn't have the final say:
"...I imagined the bird perched in a nearby tree, not willing to be scared off by anything. As the night got darker, the bird would stay right where she was, singing even as the sun went down."
I could say more about this story, but sometimes fewer words are best; Stories That Bind Us is in my top five favorite novels of the year so far and is definitely on my keeper shelf. Highly recommended.
I received a complimentary copy of this novel from the publisher; I was not required to post a positive review, and these are my honest thoughts and opinions.
February 28, 2020
Stories That Bind Us is another masterpiece from Susie Finkbeiner. I cried at several places. Finkbeiner is never melodramatic about anything, she just lets the drama of the human condition unfold on the page without fanfare or embellishment, because it doesn't need any of that. As an author, she has this uncanny ability to touch on really hard things while never being dark about it. There is always hope. Even in the middle of the HARD HARD HARD, there is hope and light.
I loved living in this story, for that is what it felt like to me. It didn't feel like reading a book, it felt like walking around and living a full life with a family who is just the most dear ever.
Ahhhh... I feel full to the brim after reading this book. Completely satisfied.
I loved living in this story, for that is what it felt like to me. It didn't feel like reading a book, it felt like walking around and living a full life with a family who is just the most dear ever.
Ahhhh... I feel full to the brim after reading this book. Completely satisfied.
June 5, 2020
A read of the times, topics such as mental heath, racism, and death. Family that is not perfect. I found it a refreshing read. I loved Aunt Betty so much her kind heart. She was Hugo's hero as much as he was her hero.
I was worried that the story was not going to turn out well with Aunt Betty's sister. But I will tell you it's all good.
I recommend this 4 star book . Grab your copy and kick back to relax it's a good read.
The Mary Reader received this book from the publisher for review. A favorable review was not required and all views expressed are our own.
I was worried that the story was not going to turn out well with Aunt Betty's sister. But I will tell you it's all good.
I recommend this 4 star book . Grab your copy and kick back to relax it's a good read.
The Mary Reader received this book from the publisher for review. A favorable review was not required and all views expressed are our own.
November 20, 2021
What a soothing, relaxed book to get caught up in.....sad at times but realistic with its portrayal of life at the time, yet heartwarming too! I liked this :)
June 3, 2020
I don't know how Finkbeiner does it. She puts her characters in horrendously difficult circumstances, makes me weep, and yet feel good all at the same time. She creates powerful characters that manage to be deep, light, fun, serious . . . so real and likable. How does she do it in every single book?
And Stories That Bind Us is no exception. Finkbeiner tackles racism, mental health, loss all while forming a story about the real meaning of love and constancy. The love story between Betty and her husband is poignant, one of the best romances I've ever read. The unconditional love Betty has for her sister and nephew is priceless.
If you haven't read Finkbeiner, go buy this book, read it, love it, and repeat with all her other books. You will not regret it.
And Stories That Bind Us is no exception. Finkbeiner tackles racism, mental health, loss all while forming a story about the real meaning of love and constancy. The love story between Betty and her husband is poignant, one of the best romances I've ever read. The unconditional love Betty has for her sister and nephew is priceless.
If you haven't read Finkbeiner, go buy this book, read it, love it, and repeat with all her other books. You will not regret it.
May 21, 2020
My heart is full.
Such a moving, heartwarming story of family. I have found another fictional family to love in the Sweet family. Storytelling is used to unite the family, memories the glue that binds them together. Susie Finkeiner navigates the hard topics of mental illness and grief with grace and finesse.
Although this is nostalgic work set in the early 1960's, the story of family is relevant regardless of historical setting. I find it refreshing that Ms. Finkbeiner pens stories that are set in time periods that are not overwhelmed on the fictional market today. Her message that our memories of loved ones are a gift is timeless.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author/publisher and was not required to write a review. All opinions expressed are mine.
Such a moving, heartwarming story of family. I have found another fictional family to love in the Sweet family. Storytelling is used to unite the family, memories the glue that binds them together. Susie Finkeiner navigates the hard topics of mental illness and grief with grace and finesse.
Although this is nostalgic work set in the early 1960's, the story of family is relevant regardless of historical setting. I find it refreshing that Ms. Finkbeiner pens stories that are set in time periods that are not overwhelmed on the fictional market today. Her message that our memories of loved ones are a gift is timeless.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author/publisher and was not required to write a review. All opinions expressed are mine.
June 5, 2020
This book made me cry with both grief and joy at multiple moments. I didn’t expect to love it as much as I did. And I didn’t expect to love the characters as much as I did. It’s stirring while sweet, rich while simple, layered while dappled with light.
It made the world my parents grew up into more real to me, especially as they grew up in Michigan in the era this novel is set in. It made me imagine my long-gone grandparents and their stories and love as more human and real. And at the same time, it was particularly salient to the pain of racism today, inviting me to an empathy that is always, always grounded in the stories of our humanness, resilience, and love.
It made the world my parents grew up into more real to me, especially as they grew up in Michigan in the era this novel is set in. It made me imagine my long-gone grandparents and their stories and love as more human and real. And at the same time, it was particularly salient to the pain of racism today, inviting me to an empathy that is always, always grounded in the stories of our humanness, resilience, and love.
May 25, 2020
Near Detroit, Michigan summer 1963
Stories That Bind Us is a journey of healing for the characters Betty Sweet and her five year old nephew, Hugo. But for me it was a trip down memory lane. I was 14 in 1963 and lived a bit south of Detroit in a Northwest suburb of Chicago. I remember visiting my preacher uncle in Grosse Pointe and making a trip to Greenfield Village, as the characters did.
This novel was not just about stories that bind us but about shared memories of growing up that bind us together in unity. These were my memories!
The historical events depicted in this book were disruptions in a time of social unrest. In spite of that, the book came across in a comforting way. Betty’s life seemed normal. She was so fortunate to have a loving in-law family who gathered around her when tragedy struck. The author has written Betty as a strong, loyal and gentle person, whose idyllic life is torn apart. She takes on the task of keeping her nephew. She might not have been able to birth a child but her mother’s heart blooms when Hugo comes to stay with her. A quote as Betty is musing: “ Just along the horizon I saw the birth of the morning. This was the gift God had for me right that moment. I saw hope.” I love that Betty can use stories that tug at your heart and teach lessons at the same time. I would love to see a volume of her stories— hint to Ms. Finkbeiner.
This book reminded me of all the things this country has gone through in my lifetime. It caused me to be thankful for growing up in the era that I did, with parents who taught me so much of my values.
After reading two Susie Finkbeiner books, she has become a favorite author.
*A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Revell through Interviews And Reviews and Revell Reads program. I was not required to give a favorable review. All opinions are my own.*
Stories That Bind Us is a journey of healing for the characters Betty Sweet and her five year old nephew, Hugo. But for me it was a trip down memory lane. I was 14 in 1963 and lived a bit south of Detroit in a Northwest suburb of Chicago. I remember visiting my preacher uncle in Grosse Pointe and making a trip to Greenfield Village, as the characters did.
This novel was not just about stories that bind us but about shared memories of growing up that bind us together in unity. These were my memories!
The historical events depicted in this book were disruptions in a time of social unrest. In spite of that, the book came across in a comforting way. Betty’s life seemed normal. She was so fortunate to have a loving in-law family who gathered around her when tragedy struck. The author has written Betty as a strong, loyal and gentle person, whose idyllic life is torn apart. She takes on the task of keeping her nephew. She might not have been able to birth a child but her mother’s heart blooms when Hugo comes to stay with her. A quote as Betty is musing: “ Just along the horizon I saw the birth of the morning. This was the gift God had for me right that moment. I saw hope.” I love that Betty can use stories that tug at your heart and teach lessons at the same time. I would love to see a volume of her stories— hint to Ms. Finkbeiner.
This book reminded me of all the things this country has gone through in my lifetime. It caused me to be thankful for growing up in the era that I did, with parents who taught me so much of my values.
After reading two Susie Finkbeiner books, she has become a favorite author.
*A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Revell through Interviews And Reviews and Revell Reads program. I was not required to give a favorable review. All opinions are my own.*
December 19, 2021
What could be better than a story about story?
Susie Finkbeiner has woven together a tale that will keep you riveted to the page--whether the vignettes from the past, the stories Betty tells, or the story playing out in her life. One builds on and leads into the next until you realize you couldn't have one without the other.
This book tackles difficult topics: unrequited love, mental illness, death, racial issues, and so much more. The juxtaposition of political and cultural turmoil during an otherwise idyllic time in American history only adds to the richness.
Betty Sweet is just "perfect" enough to make all she goes through seem so much harsher while not so perfect as to be annoying. Her personal and spiritual growth is minimal but profound.
Clara rips your heart out even while you want to pound her at the same time. She shows a very realistic picture of what mental illness does to a person and to everyone who loves that person.
Hugo... if you don't fall in love with little Hugo, well... That breaks my heart even to think about it.
Recommended for lovers of historical women's fiction and books with a deeper, richer thread. Not recommended for readers who prefer shiny stories without troubles.
Susie Finkbeiner has woven together a tale that will keep you riveted to the page--whether the vignettes from the past, the stories Betty tells, or the story playing out in her life. One builds on and leads into the next until you realize you couldn't have one without the other.
This book tackles difficult topics: unrequited love, mental illness, death, racial issues, and so much more. The juxtaposition of political and cultural turmoil during an otherwise idyllic time in American history only adds to the richness.
Betty Sweet is just "perfect" enough to make all she goes through seem so much harsher while not so perfect as to be annoying. Her personal and spiritual growth is minimal but profound.
Clara rips your heart out even while you want to pound her at the same time. She shows a very realistic picture of what mental illness does to a person and to everyone who loves that person.
Hugo... if you don't fall in love with little Hugo, well... That breaks my heart even to think about it.
Recommended for lovers of historical women's fiction and books with a deeper, richer thread. Not recommended for readers who prefer shiny stories without troubles.
July 16, 2020
(4.5 Stars)
Susie Finkbeiner delicately unfolds a beautifully touching story of grief, hope, and love. A woman struggling with the pain of a traumatic loss, and a young boy with the desire to be loved. An unlikely pair to outsiders in the 1960’s, faced with unkind glares, and not so subtle whispers. Together, this aunt and nephew duo bond, heal, and find strength through the power of storytelling.
Whether you enjoy spiritual books, or a book that inspires hope, Stories That Bind Us is a slow paced touching read. Addressing important issues held very dear to us, Finkbeiner created a timeless read that will forever be imprinted in our hearts.
For full review: www.marvelusreads.com
Susie Finkbeiner delicately unfolds a beautifully touching story of grief, hope, and love. A woman struggling with the pain of a traumatic loss, and a young boy with the desire to be loved. An unlikely pair to outsiders in the 1960’s, faced with unkind glares, and not so subtle whispers. Together, this aunt and nephew duo bond, heal, and find strength through the power of storytelling.
Whether you enjoy spiritual books, or a book that inspires hope, Stories That Bind Us is a slow paced touching read. Addressing important issues held very dear to us, Finkbeiner created a timeless read that will forever be imprinted in our hearts.
For full review: www.marvelusreads.com
July 7, 2020
I’ve loved everything I’ve read by Susie Finkbeiner, so I had high hopes for Stories That Bind Us—luckily, it did not disappoint.
Widow Betty Sweet is unsure of her next step—until she must take care of her young (and previously unknown) nephew. Together, they make an unlikely pair, and yet, there is still so much they have to offer each other as the story progresses.
FInkbeiner has a way of writing stories and crafting characters that feels so authentic. Betty and Hugo come to life—full of dueling emotions—and their growth throughout Stories That Bind Us is just right. And the history surrounding them proves relevant, but does not overwhelm. I loved every page of this book, highly recommend it, and cannot wait to read more from Finkbeiner.
This review is also posted on Hallie Reads.
I received a complimentary copy of this book and the opportunity to provide an honest review. I was not required to write a positive review, and all the opinions I have expressed are my own.
Widow Betty Sweet is unsure of her next step—until she must take care of her young (and previously unknown) nephew. Together, they make an unlikely pair, and yet, there is still so much they have to offer each other as the story progresses.
FInkbeiner has a way of writing stories and crafting characters that feels so authentic. Betty and Hugo come to life—full of dueling emotions—and their growth throughout Stories That Bind Us is just right. And the history surrounding them proves relevant, but does not overwhelm. I loved every page of this book, highly recommend it, and cannot wait to read more from Finkbeiner.
This review is also posted on Hallie Reads.
I received a complimentary copy of this book and the opportunity to provide an honest review. I was not required to write a positive review, and all the opinions I have expressed are my own.
December 20, 2019
Well, Susie Finkbeiner has done it again, given us a heart-breaking, heart-warming story so fixed in real time that reading it feels like visiting some familiar past. Her narrator is warm and genuine and brings us along at just the right pace. I’m left wishing I could spend time with the Sweet family in person, play with the boys, taste the pastries. Is there anything more wonderful than a story full of characters that take up residence in our own history? This story is a gift.
April 23, 2025
Betty Sweet’s husband Norman dies suddenly leaving Betty a widow at forty. She wonders what life has in store for her now without Norman. How can she go on? When her younger sister Clara is committed to a sanatorium with mental health issues, Betty is left to look after five year old Hugo, whose father is a negro. He is out of the picture and does not know about Hugo. Betty finds herself solely responsible for the nephew she never knew existed until Clara recently appeareed at her door seeking help. The sisters had been estranged for years.
In the 1960s in La Fontaine Michigan this aunt and nephew come together, raising a few eyebrows because of Hugo’s colour. Betty, with the help of the Sweet family of Pop, Stan, Arnold and Marvel, who run the bakery as they have done for years, support Betty as she cares for Hugo and visits Clara n the sanatorium. Is Clara destined to follow the same path as their mother who battled till her death with mental illness? Does God have a plan in all this?
Since it is dealing with mental health issues, racism, prejudice and grief this is not always an easy read. However, it is infused with love. It is easy to get emotionally caught up in the situation with Betty, Clara and Hugo. I loved the addition of Nick and Dick Marvel’s two rough and tumble boys with generous hearts.
The book is enhanced with lovely characters like Betty, Pop, Marvel and Arnie. Generous open hearted people. It is a book about family and the challenges life throws at a person. And then there’s young Hugo who stole my heart. This story drew me right in.
This is the first book I have read by this author. It will not be the last. I adored it and definitely recommend it.
In the 1960s in La Fontaine Michigan this aunt and nephew come together, raising a few eyebrows because of Hugo’s colour. Betty, with the help of the Sweet family of Pop, Stan, Arnold and Marvel, who run the bakery as they have done for years, support Betty as she cares for Hugo and visits Clara n the sanatorium. Is Clara destined to follow the same path as their mother who battled till her death with mental illness? Does God have a plan in all this?
Since it is dealing with mental health issues, racism, prejudice and grief this is not always an easy read. However, it is infused with love. It is easy to get emotionally caught up in the situation with Betty, Clara and Hugo. I loved the addition of Nick and Dick Marvel’s two rough and tumble boys with generous hearts.
The book is enhanced with lovely characters like Betty, Pop, Marvel and Arnie. Generous open hearted people. It is a book about family and the challenges life throws at a person. And then there’s young Hugo who stole my heart. This story drew me right in.
This is the first book I have read by this author. It will not be the last. I adored it and definitely recommend it.
September 28, 2020
*grins* I expected nothing less than five stars from Ms. Finkbeiner! Her storytelling ability is phenomenal.
So, was there anything I didn't like? Well, to be honest, I finished this book quite awhile ago, and I just sat down to write a review yesterday, soooo...if there is anything I didn't like, it wasn't big enough to stick in my head!
Stories that Bind Us is, as I said on Goodreads, a fresh breath of something beautiful. I mean, I'm kinda a sucker for books set in the 1960s (don't ask me why; I don't even know), so the setting was fantastic. Diners, ice cream parlors, old cars, the clothing style for that age...just so much yes! *grins*
I adored the characters! Betty, though I expected her to be annoying, was actually a super, super endearing character. Though, being a widow and talking about how hard it is to keep going up and down the stairs, I kept forgetting that she was only forty years old, haha!
Hugo was...the most adorable thing ever. Seriously. Those that know me know that I love little kids, whether fictional or real. So to have a five-year-old little boy who is as sweet as they come and not a brat?? *grins* yessssss.
The Sweet family was so...sweet! (see what I did there? *smirks*) Not only was the fact that they owned and ran a bakery so cool (I'm a sucker for books where food plays a major point), but they were all sooooo cool. Albert and Stan and Marvel (and Pop!) were just...perfection. The twins, Dick and Nick, were hilarious.
The plot hurt but was also full of hope.
If you love a good book filled with endearing characters, a whimsical historical plot, and cinnamon rolls, you'll definitely want to check out Stories that Bind Us. ;)
(Also—the way the cover and title tied in with the book? That was pretty cool.)
*I received an e-copy of this book from Netgalley for promotional purposes. All thoughts are my own.
So, was there anything I didn't like? Well, to be honest, I finished this book quite awhile ago, and I just sat down to write a review yesterday, soooo...if there is anything I didn't like, it wasn't big enough to stick in my head!
Stories that Bind Us is, as I said on Goodreads, a fresh breath of something beautiful. I mean, I'm kinda a sucker for books set in the 1960s (don't ask me why; I don't even know), so the setting was fantastic. Diners, ice cream parlors, old cars, the clothing style for that age...just so much yes! *grins*
I adored the characters! Betty, though I expected her to be annoying, was actually a super, super endearing character. Though, being a widow and talking about how hard it is to keep going up and down the stairs, I kept forgetting that she was only forty years old, haha!
Hugo was...the most adorable thing ever. Seriously. Those that know me know that I love little kids, whether fictional or real. So to have a five-year-old little boy who is as sweet as they come and not a brat?? *grins* yessssss.
The Sweet family was so...sweet! (see what I did there? *smirks*) Not only was the fact that they owned and ran a bakery so cool (I'm a sucker for books where food plays a major point), but they were all sooooo cool. Albert and Stan and Marvel (and Pop!) were just...perfection. The twins, Dick and Nick, were hilarious.
The plot hurt but was also full of hope.
If you love a good book filled with endearing characters, a whimsical historical plot, and cinnamon rolls, you'll definitely want to check out Stories that Bind Us. ;)
(Also—the way the cover and title tied in with the book? That was pretty cool.)
*I received an e-copy of this book from Netgalley for promotional purposes. All thoughts are my own.
March 17, 2022
1963 Michigan
Beautifully woven tale about 40 year old Betty Sweet. Betty grew up in a dysfunctional home and is blessed to have married into a wonderful family. After losing her beloved husband, she's at a loss with how to fill her life. Fortunately, God had plans to fill those spaces and bringing meaning to her life and give her an opportunity to bless others as well.
Several topics included in the novel such as racism and mental illness.
My favorite character was Pop.
Beautifully woven tale about 40 year old Betty Sweet. Betty grew up in a dysfunctional home and is blessed to have married into a wonderful family. After losing her beloved husband, she's at a loss with how to fill her life. Fortunately, God had plans to fill those spaces and bringing meaning to her life and give her an opportunity to bless others as well.
Several topics included in the novel such as racism and mental illness.
My favorite character was Pop.
June 30, 2020
This was such a sweet story, with a lyrical voice to it. This was my first Susie read and I can guarantee it will not be my last. This story has a lot of things I loved about it, from the lyrical sense of the story, to the subtle wisdom peppered throughout to the Sweet family. I need more stories with this family! This was a quick read and it just has something that sets it apart from most of the books I read. I can't quite put my finger on it, whether it's Susie's storytelling style or the fact the story line offers a little "something different" or a combination of several factors. I just know I loved this story. Excited to read more of Susie's stories!
I received this book from the publisher and was not required to post a positive review. All thoughts are my own.
I received this book from the publisher and was not required to post a positive review. All thoughts are my own.
June 5, 2020
Susie Finkbeiner has a way of pulling readers deep into the heart of a story. She's not afraid to write real. This novel is full of depth and authenticity and heartache and hope and I felt it a privilege to share each of these experiences with these characters. Containing truth and beauty in the midst of the hard, this story is not about a simple fix for a sometimes messy world, it's about finding love and hope right where we are.
June 1, 2020
“When I married Lacy, I didn’t take her from God and I wasn’t borrowing her.She belonged fully to Him before and above anything.”
Susie Finkbeiner can take a simple story and create a masterpiece of a novel. It’s the messiness of every day life, the trying to do right in the midst of hardship, and the individual stories that make up our lives. Her books are what make me realize all over again that everyone has a meaningful story to tell.
Just on a personal note, I remember when I realized truly and wholly that my husband was not mine, and that I was relying on him to take care of me. I was wrong...though i am disabled, though I went from my father’s house to my husband’s house, I fully remained under the care of my Heavenly Father. When my husband lost his job a few years into our marriage, I was scared...so very scared. During that time,God spoke to my heart. I realized that God controls all...and the He was the one in whom I needed to place my trust as my precious hubby spent months finding a job. He’s been out of work since...and I’ve never experienced the extreme fear I did the first time. God is faithful.
The characters are friends...so wonderful! I love children in stories so that was special. Betty is a character I know would give anyone a hug! She struggles through some tough situations, but God is there to help.
This book had my stomach in my throat a few times, and I came close to tears. It has real life situations, wonderful believable characters, and a story that flows so well. The faith theme is an intricate part of the story, and it speaks on a personal level- at least it did to me.
“ We were God’s little ones. We belonged to Him. It didn’t take away all the worry. But it made it easier to bear.”
Several sweet nuggets of Gods truth sprinkled in a story that touches the heart in such a deep way...and brought a contented sigh at the end. It’s beautiful lyrical prose...get a copy and savor it.
I received this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
Susie Finkbeiner can take a simple story and create a masterpiece of a novel. It’s the messiness of every day life, the trying to do right in the midst of hardship, and the individual stories that make up our lives. Her books are what make me realize all over again that everyone has a meaningful story to tell.
Just on a personal note, I remember when I realized truly and wholly that my husband was not mine, and that I was relying on him to take care of me. I was wrong...though i am disabled, though I went from my father’s house to my husband’s house, I fully remained under the care of my Heavenly Father. When my husband lost his job a few years into our marriage, I was scared...so very scared. During that time,God spoke to my heart. I realized that God controls all...and the He was the one in whom I needed to place my trust as my precious hubby spent months finding a job. He’s been out of work since...and I’ve never experienced the extreme fear I did the first time. God is faithful.
The characters are friends...so wonderful! I love children in stories so that was special. Betty is a character I know would give anyone a hug! She struggles through some tough situations, but God is there to help.
This book had my stomach in my throat a few times, and I came close to tears. It has real life situations, wonderful believable characters, and a story that flows so well. The faith theme is an intricate part of the story, and it speaks on a personal level- at least it did to me.
“ We were God’s little ones. We belonged to Him. It didn’t take away all the worry. But it made it easier to bear.”
Several sweet nuggets of Gods truth sprinkled in a story that touches the heart in such a deep way...and brought a contented sigh at the end. It’s beautiful lyrical prose...get a copy and savor it.
I received this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
January 21, 2021
Well, now, that was just...unexpected. I honestly didn't know what I was getting into when I began reading (er, listening.) This book hadn't even been on my radar until it was mentioned during a Reader's Choice Week and my hearty thanks to those of you who brought it to my attention! Because...wow!
What a sweet, gentle, moving story! Deeply layered in love of both the heavenly and earthly kind and all the complications and joys that brings. I deeply grieved for Betty's husband thanks to the power of Finkbeiner's words. And though this is a story about grief (and so much more besides!), it wasn't cloying or depressing, I felt sorrow but I also felt joy and took solace in Betty's stories -- both the ones she made up and the ones she remembered.
That title -- Stories That Bind Us -- exactly sums up the heart of this novel. We are all bound by the stories we live and the people we live them with.
Tavia Gilbert's exceptional narration enriched this 'read' for me. A perfect match for Susie Finkbeiner's evocative prose. Tears and laughter and a warm feeling of belonging about sums up my feelings.
What a sweet, gentle, moving story! Deeply layered in love of both the heavenly and earthly kind and all the complications and joys that brings. I deeply grieved for Betty's husband thanks to the power of Finkbeiner's words. And though this is a story about grief (and so much more besides!), it wasn't cloying or depressing, I felt sorrow but I also felt joy and took solace in Betty's stories -- both the ones she made up and the ones she remembered.
That title -- Stories That Bind Us -- exactly sums up the heart of this novel. We are all bound by the stories we live and the people we live them with.
Tavia Gilbert's exceptional narration enriched this 'read' for me. A perfect match for Susie Finkbeiner's evocative prose. Tears and laughter and a warm feeling of belonging about sums up my feelings.
March 17, 2021
I felt like I knew the main character, Betty Sweet, from page one of this book... and loved her to pieces. This book dealt with some heavy issues, but every step of the way I felt as if I was living it along with the can't-help-but-love-them Sweet family. My daughter spilled her water bottle on my book, and I literally read it with wet pages. That's how much I wanted to continue Betty's journey with her. Bittersweet, with so much hope mixed in. I've closed the book, but the characters will stay with me for a long time!
May 23, 2020
This was a very heartwarming book! I was moved by this story. I loved all of the little stories throughout the book that talk about not being afraid and about having hope. I loved all of the details that made this story come to life. My only complaint was that the ending felt abrupt.
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are mine alone.
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are mine alone.
February 19, 2023
This book 🥺 I loved it so much. It was such a heartbreaking story, and so heartwarming at the same time.
From Betty, To Clara, to sweet Hugo, To Flannery the cat,
I loved every single character sooo much.
Highly recommend this 🥰
From Betty, To Clara, to sweet Hugo, To Flannery the cat,
I loved every single character sooo much.
Highly recommend this 🥰
August 13, 2023
If there's one thing I will say about Susie Finkbeiner is that her writing is usually consistently strong and her stories are not all the same. I've given 4 stars to every book of hers I've read except this one.
This is story about family in crisis in the early 1960s. Betty, childless, is widowed suddenly at age 40, and not all that long later her estranged sister shows up at the door with her 5 year old son. I don't like to give spoilers about anything in the actual book, but suffice it to say that there has not only been love and joy, there has also been tragedy and heartbreak in the past. The main page edition shows mental health as one of the top shelves and the blurb tells you that Betty becomes the temporary guardian of her nephew. I love how short that blurb is, because this is a book best learned about by reading. Yes, this is a Christian novel, but there is no sugar coating issues even if not everything is graphically described like in some novels.
My one complaint is that at times this book felt a bit like it was dragging, which is a first for Finkbeiner. Also it was difficult for me to relate to Betty.
This is story about family in crisis in the early 1960s. Betty, childless, is widowed suddenly at age 40, and not all that long later her estranged sister shows up at the door with her 5 year old son. I don't like to give spoilers about anything in the actual book, but suffice it to say that there has not only been love and joy, there has also been tragedy and heartbreak in the past. The main page edition shows mental health as one of the top shelves and the blurb tells you that Betty becomes the temporary guardian of her nephew. I love how short that blurb is, because this is a book best learned about by reading. Yes, this is a Christian novel, but there is no sugar coating issues even if not everything is graphically described like in some novels.
My one complaint is that at times this book felt a bit like it was dragging, which is a first for Finkbeiner. Also it was difficult for me to relate to Betty.
June 27, 2020
Betty Sweet suddenly becomes a widow at age 40 and author Susie Finkbeiner eloquently shares her journey in Stories That Bind Us. I was especially moved by the description of Betty's early days of mourning, when she stayed hidden in her house for almost a month because "I was grieving and I didn't want to talk to anyone about it." (p. 48) It is when her sister is placed into a mental institution that she experiences another life-changing event. Betty, who never had children, becomes the caregiver for her five-year-old nephew, Hugo. He is as needy as she is and it's obvious that a special bond is about to be created between a grieving widow and a sweet little boy with light brown skin and big brown eyes. As Hugo struggles with the absence of his mother, it is his Aunt Betty who chooses to comfort him with the stories that she shares. Some are true and some are made up but they become the stories that bind them together.
Stories That Bind Us is a realistic portrayal of widowhood, depression, mental illness, and the racial climate of our country in the early 1960s. It is historically accurate because I myself experienced the shock and grief of President Kennedy's assassination and felt the despair over the four little girls who were killed in a Birmingham church bombing. I lived during those events and Finkbeiner vividly depicts every emotion! She also captures the racism that existed and there is a moving moment when Betty takes Hugo to see a castle and notices how the caretaker keeps looking at them. She realizes that "the man didn't think we went together. We didn't match. Me with my light skin and Hugo with his dark." (p. 157)
I highly recommend this beautiful story that is both heartbreaking and heartwarming and I won't soon forget Stories That Bind Us. There are moments of both tears and laughter sprinkled throughout but isn't this true of life? Finkbeiner reminds us that love can heal us and that the events that threaten to break us are often preparing us for a happiness that we didn't know was waiting! "Love hurts sometimes. But it was always worth it." (p. 311)
I received a copy of this book from Revell. There was no obligation for a positive review. These are my honest thoughts.
Stories That Bind Us is a realistic portrayal of widowhood, depression, mental illness, and the racial climate of our country in the early 1960s. It is historically accurate because I myself experienced the shock and grief of President Kennedy's assassination and felt the despair over the four little girls who were killed in a Birmingham church bombing. I lived during those events and Finkbeiner vividly depicts every emotion! She also captures the racism that existed and there is a moving moment when Betty takes Hugo to see a castle and notices how the caretaker keeps looking at them. She realizes that "the man didn't think we went together. We didn't match. Me with my light skin and Hugo with his dark." (p. 157)
I highly recommend this beautiful story that is both heartbreaking and heartwarming and I won't soon forget Stories That Bind Us. There are moments of both tears and laughter sprinkled throughout but isn't this true of life? Finkbeiner reminds us that love can heal us and that the events that threaten to break us are often preparing us for a happiness that we didn't know was waiting! "Love hurts sometimes. But it was always worth it." (p. 311)
I received a copy of this book from Revell. There was no obligation for a positive review. These are my honest thoughts.
June 4, 2020
So real and true. Stories are what bring us together. Remembering connects us to our families, and I love how Susie wove the stories of these families into the storyline of what was happening in the current time of the novel. I always love how believable the characters are in Susie’s novels. I find them easy to connect to and understand. I also appreciate that Susie doesn’t shy away from addressing big issues like mental illness, civil rights, and widowhood at a young age.
February 16, 2023
1963-1964 LaFontaine, Michigan
First-time author for me. I enjoyed her writing and found the characters believable and realistic. I could relate to a couple of the characters and the situations they were going through. Betty "Birdie" has such a sweet soul. I loved how she was there for her sister, never giving up on her.
The Sweet family as a whole was a delight to read about. The story covers several difficult topics including depression, mental illness, death, and what I took as some child abuse. It was a heartwarming and loving story filled with words of wisdom—a beautiful story about everyday life.
Pop, Norman, Betty, Lacey, Stand, Clare, Hugo, Nick, Dick, Marvel, and Albert.
Rating: PG-13
Language: clean read
Recommend: yes
First-time author for me. I enjoyed her writing and found the characters believable and realistic. I could relate to a couple of the characters and the situations they were going through. Betty "Birdie" has such a sweet soul. I loved how she was there for her sister, never giving up on her.
The Sweet family as a whole was a delight to read about. The story covers several difficult topics including depression, mental illness, death, and what I took as some child abuse. It was a heartwarming and loving story filled with words of wisdom—a beautiful story about everyday life.
Pop, Norman, Betty, Lacey, Stand, Clare, Hugo, Nick, Dick, Marvel, and Albert.
Rating: PG-13
Language: clean read
Recommend: yes
December 24, 2022
I was looking for a quick read today and decided to pick up Susie Finkbeiner book, and boy was I surprised. The story of a woman who lost her husband at the young age of 40. Now she must go on with her life without him. Then her sister comes to town with the nephew she never knew. Like their Mother her sister is suffering from a mental breakdown, so they put her in the hospital and now she is in charge of her 5 year old nephew. The love she shows this little boy is amazing and will bring tears to your eyes. This story takes place in the 60's and the boy is mixed so she is faced with many prejudices. This story is beautiful. I spent the day crying and loving this beautiful story of hope and love. We don't get the life we want, we are here to face the life that God chooses for us and sometimes its hard and not want you want but its how we get up and face what lies ahead that matters. I so recommend this wonderful story just bring tissues and enjoy!!
June 10, 2020
Loved this new novel by Susie Finkbeiner. It touches on all kinds of important issues. Family, love, loss, mental illness, national crisis, and racial injustice — deep topics but with hope woven throughout. With what’s going on in our nation right now, this is the perfect time to read this powerful story set in the early 1960s. Also, as in her novel All Manner of Things, the author writes in an understated tone, yet does it in such a way it makes the story more powerful. To top it off, I must say the book's cover is even prettier in person than it is in photos. Gotta love that! :)
June 5, 2020
This book is like a balm to the soul. So well written, so thoughtful and gentle wisdom nuggets. It covers mental illness, grief, racism and some events in the 60’s. Highly recommend (unless you need a fluff book, then wait to read this one :))
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