Buckle up for a heart-warming, heart-felt, side-splittingly funny adventure in life and learning aboard the Struggle Bus!
Authenticity surges through this book like an electrical current. No canned answers or pious platitudes here. This is Real Life 101. Or maybe, Real Life 11, because it’s told by a father of nine. Yep, nine.
That’s why this upbeat, engaging narrative begins with the Craigslist sale ad for the family’s geriatric 15 passenger Ford van. The “full disclosure” ad generates scores of responses from families “sharing eerily similar stories.” Ditto messages urging the author to “write more.” So he does. Hence, this hilarious, cogent book about the struggles, successes, and adventures of a large family. Each chapter is based on sections from the Craigslist ad.
Struggle Bus is a worthy read. It nimbly charts the nitty-gritty details of failure, exhaustion, disappointment, embarrassment, laughter, discovery, forgiveness, connectivity, exhilaration, love, hope, and faith encountered along the Woods’s parental highway (and maybe yours, too). Topics include making mistakes in marriage and child rearing. Teaching, training, nurturing and starting over. Also learning how, when, and where to find joy in the journey.
Chapter standouts include chapter six, The Ghost of Vomit Past and chapter eleven, The Oil Change. Any parent who’s ever traveled with a sick kid or two or nine will relate to the former. Anyone who’s ever fogged a mirror will relate to the latter. I laughed out loud so many times it started to freak out the dog.
Also: ‘Daddy, did Jesus make that lady fat?” Unsolicited advice about unsolicited advice. The “vomit comet.” Grocery store line evangelism on proper parenting. (Been there. Heard that.) Sometimes life is better when we quit things. “Embrace the crazy.” Quit counting to ten. It’s okay to not have all the answers. Preventative maintenance. The Wood family songbook. “Get up, dust yourselves off, learn, and try again.”
A strong stream of truth swirls through every chapter. The style is nimble and quick. The voice is fresh and lithe. Both clever and lively, observations are keen, incisive, and peppered with a generous dose of self-deprecating humor. In light-hearted, lyrical prose, the author conveys some pretty weighty life lessons and observations while neatly side-stepping pedantic or preachy.
Indeed, the gentle, homespun wisdom imparted isn’t the kind that’s shouted from a mountain top or thundered from a pulpit. It’s quiet. Mellow. It sneaks up on you and gently smacks you upside the head when you’re not looking.
A delightful collection of stories and excruciatingly insightful prose, this light-hearted, free-wheeling romp through Real Life 101 is a gem. There’s an “every person” quality to this book that will appeal to anyone with at least half of a functional funny bone. Highly recommended for anyone who’s vertical and breathing or has ever had to say, over a driver’s seat, “We’ll get there when we get there!”
I loved this book. It’s just… "fantastic."