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In Search of Gay America: Women and Men in a Time of Change
Represents the author's nationwide survey of gay America--a sampling including an openly gay mayor in Missouri, a Latin lesbian community in San Antonio and a black gay church in Washington, D.C.
319 pages, Paperback
First published May 1, 1990
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August 31, 2026
Let me be clear: I found this to be incredibly dense, repetitive, and at times genuinely painful to get through.
That being said, I’m bravely giving it three stars because I suppose it feels like something that I’m glad to have read. I’ve never really delved much into gay history, and it was interesting to read about some of these experiences. I certainly don’t agree with a lot of the takes presented, but I appreciated the wide variety of backgrounds and experiences that were explored.
In the end, I’m genuinely ecstatic to be done with this. I didn’t know if it would ever happen. But I stood strong, I persevered, and I proved the doubters wrong—because that’s what gay people do.
That being said, I’m bravely giving it three stars because I suppose it feels like something that I’m glad to have read. I’ve never really delved much into gay history, and it was interesting to read about some of these experiences. I certainly don’t agree with a lot of the takes presented, but I appreciated the wide variety of backgrounds and experiences that were explored.
In the end, I’m genuinely ecstatic to be done with this. I didn’t know if it would ever happen. But I stood strong, I persevered, and I proved the doubters wrong—because that’s what gay people do.
January 15, 2023
Although Miller gets the date wrong (by a full year) for the anti-gay harassment of the dance in Wolverton, Minnesota in 1983, this is still a valuable and well-written picture of gay and lesbian lives in the late 1980s, particularly of people's lives away from the coasts.
June 7, 2016
An informative and touching time capsule of gay and lesbian life across America in the late 1980s. The author Neil Miller makes a valiant attempt as a white, likely middle-class man to track down gay and lesbian communities of color and working-class folks with varying degrees of success. Happy to have it on my shelf as a reminder of how much things have changed and how much may never completely change, particularly for those of us living in rural and Southern communities.
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August 13, 2011Written after the advent of AIDs but well before a majority of the population accepted gays in everyday life.
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September 22, 20132 copies
June 3, 2025
i read this quite a while ago but i’ve found myself thinking about it recently. so awesome to read about how varied the queer experience is.
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