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Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-first Century
A groundbreaking collection of first-person writing on the joys and challenges of the modern disability experience: Disability Visibility brings together the voices of activists, authors, lawyers, politicians, artists, and everyday people whose daily lives are, in the words of playwright Neil Marcus, “an art…an ingenious way to live.” A Vintage Books Original.
According to the last census, one in five people in the United States lives with a disability. Some are visible, some are hidden—but all are underrepresented in media and popular culture. Now, just in time for the thirtieth anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act, activist Alice Wong brings together an urgent, galvanizing collection of personal essays by contemporary disabled writers. There is Harriet McBryde Johnson’s “Unspeakable Conversations,” which describes her famous debate with Princeton philosopher Peter Singer over her own personhood. There is columnist s. e. smith’s celebratory review of a work of theater by disabled performers. There are original pieces by up-and-coming authors like Keah Brown and Haben Girma. There are blog posts, manifestos, eulogies, and testimonies to Congress. Taken together, this anthology gives a glimpse of the vast richness and complexity of the disabled experience, highlighting the passions, talents, and everyday lives of this community. It invites readers to question their own assumptions and understandings. It celebrates and documents disability culture in the now. It looks to the future and past with hope and love.
According to the last census, one in five people in the United States lives with a disability. Some are visible, some are hidden—but all are underrepresented in media and popular culture. Now, just in time for the thirtieth anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act, activist Alice Wong brings together an urgent, galvanizing collection of personal essays by contemporary disabled writers. There is Harriet McBryde Johnson’s “Unspeakable Conversations,” which describes her famous debate with Princeton philosopher Peter Singer over her own personhood. There is columnist s. e. smith’s celebratory review of a work of theater by disabled performers. There are original pieces by up-and-coming authors like Keah Brown and Haben Girma. There are blog posts, manifestos, eulogies, and testimonies to Congress. Taken together, this anthology gives a glimpse of the vast richness and complexity of the disabled experience, highlighting the passions, talents, and everyday lives of this community. It invites readers to question their own assumptions and understandings. It celebrates and documents disability culture in the now. It looks to the future and past with hope and love.
309 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 30, 2020
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Alice Wong
10 books742 followersAlice Wong (she/her) was a disabled activist, media maker, and consultant based in San Francisco. She was the Founder and Director of the Disability Visibility Project® (DVP), an online community dedicated to creating, sharing and amplifying disability media and culture.
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September 3, 20202/9/20
This was just a great piece of literature! Incredibly insightful, heartfelt -- I learned so much from this and I'm thankful that this exists. Will definitely be discussing this on my Youtube channel in the future :)
1/7/20
I have been looking for exactly this kind of book and it came in the mail today -- so so happy to have it!! :D
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This was just a great piece of literature! Incredibly insightful, heartfelt -- I learned so much from this and I'm thankful that this exists. Will definitely be discussing this on my Youtube channel in the future :)
1/7/20
I have been looking for exactly this kind of book and it came in the mail today -- so so happy to have it!! :D
You can find me on
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August 18, 2022
not going to review this one beyond saying - a must read.
March 6, 2020
In a world where the disabled voice is often viewed through the lens of what disability rights activist Stella Young coined as "inspiration porn" or with the rah-rah sympathies of the latest Lifetime Channel movie, a book like "Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-First Century" is an act of revolutionary love and claiming of space.
There is no "Chicken Soup for the Soul" to be found here. In its place, you find #CripLit at its finest - bold and brash, heartfelt and passionate, and incredibly well-informed essays and reflections on the vast diversity of the disability experience as told by a relatively small smattering of the leading disability voices in the 21st century.
Trust me, there are more. Lots more. However, "Disability Visibility" editor Alice Wong has chosen her subjects well in representing the remarkable love and chaos of the disability experience. The writers themselves, representing a broad spectrum of disabilities both visible and invisible, have written with tremendous authenticity, remarkable transparency, and a vulnerability that frequently had me in tears throughout this rewarding collection.
Being released just in time for the 30th anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), "Disability Visibility" doesn't mute the harshness of the disability experience. Indeed, many of the essays in the collection begin with content warnings regarding the subject matter about to be discussed - "Disability Visibility" is relentless and fierce in its commitment to an honest portrayal of the disability experience.
It begins with Wong's own introduction to the collection, an introduction birthed out of Wong's own life experiences and her own work with the Disability Visibility Project, a collaboration with StoryCorps, that serves as the framework for this collection.
It would be unjust to describe the essays in "Disability Visibility" with any detail, though some highlights include Harriet McBryde Johnson's riveting and squirm-inducing account of her debate with Princeton University philosopher Peter Singer, an animal rights activist who doesn't possess the same kind of regard for the lives of persons with disabilities. Upcoming authors Keah Brown and Haben Girma share involving original pieces, while some of my own favorites included s.e. smith's essays on crip space, Jamison Hill's poignant and beautiful "Love Means Never Having to Say...Anything," Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha's "Still Dreaming Wild Disability Justice Dreams at the End of the World," the intelligent and angry Harriet Tubman Collective's "Disability Solidarity," Britney Wilson's disturbing essay on NYC's Paratransit program, and Mari Ramsawakh's "Incontinence Is a Public Health Issue And We Need To Talk About It," the latter being an essay that truly connected with pieces of my own disability experience as a 54-year-old writer, creator, and film journalist who is also a paraplegic/double amputee with spina bifida.
There were more essays that I loved, truly loved. There were essays that flew over my head including Jillian Weise's "Common Cyborg." I felt like I wanted to find Wong or Weise on social media and say "Explain this to me, because I have the feeling it's brilliant and I just don't quite get it."
The truth is that I'd be hard-pressed to cite a single weak essay. These essays are revolutionary proclamations of the incredible richness and complexity of the disability experience. While there is much pain and anger within the pages of "Disability Visibility," it is also filled with much love and hope and wonder. As Neil Marcus so beautifully stated "Disability is not a brave struggle or "courage in the face of adversity." Disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live."
That truth, that disability is an ingenious way to live, is brought to life again and again in this groundbreaking collection of first-person stories from the twenty-first century that challenge and confront, claim space and serve as a literary companion of sorts. There's so many enlightening truths to be explored here, truths that will be easily embraced and understood by those with disabilities and their allies yet truths that also invite readers to challenge their own assumptions and understandings of the disability experience and disability culture.
"Disability Visibility" is a book that illuminates the disability experience with equal parts intelligence and authentic emotional resonance. It's a book that is, at times, difficult to read yet a book that is necessary to read. It's a book I will undoubtedly revisit time and again, yet it's also a book that required I pace myself due to its stark honesty and and the often trauma-tinged stories of individual disability experiences. It's a book that captures it all and for that I am grateful and for that I highly recommend it.
There is no "Chicken Soup for the Soul" to be found here. In its place, you find #CripLit at its finest - bold and brash, heartfelt and passionate, and incredibly well-informed essays and reflections on the vast diversity of the disability experience as told by a relatively small smattering of the leading disability voices in the 21st century.
Trust me, there are more. Lots more. However, "Disability Visibility" editor Alice Wong has chosen her subjects well in representing the remarkable love and chaos of the disability experience. The writers themselves, representing a broad spectrum of disabilities both visible and invisible, have written with tremendous authenticity, remarkable transparency, and a vulnerability that frequently had me in tears throughout this rewarding collection.
Being released just in time for the 30th anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), "Disability Visibility" doesn't mute the harshness of the disability experience. Indeed, many of the essays in the collection begin with content warnings regarding the subject matter about to be discussed - "Disability Visibility" is relentless and fierce in its commitment to an honest portrayal of the disability experience.
It begins with Wong's own introduction to the collection, an introduction birthed out of Wong's own life experiences and her own work with the Disability Visibility Project, a collaboration with StoryCorps, that serves as the framework for this collection.
It would be unjust to describe the essays in "Disability Visibility" with any detail, though some highlights include Harriet McBryde Johnson's riveting and squirm-inducing account of her debate with Princeton University philosopher Peter Singer, an animal rights activist who doesn't possess the same kind of regard for the lives of persons with disabilities. Upcoming authors Keah Brown and Haben Girma share involving original pieces, while some of my own favorites included s.e. smith's essays on crip space, Jamison Hill's poignant and beautiful "Love Means Never Having to Say...Anything," Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha's "Still Dreaming Wild Disability Justice Dreams at the End of the World," the intelligent and angry Harriet Tubman Collective's "Disability Solidarity," Britney Wilson's disturbing essay on NYC's Paratransit program, and Mari Ramsawakh's "Incontinence Is a Public Health Issue And We Need To Talk About It," the latter being an essay that truly connected with pieces of my own disability experience as a 54-year-old writer, creator, and film journalist who is also a paraplegic/double amputee with spina bifida.
There were more essays that I loved, truly loved. There were essays that flew over my head including Jillian Weise's "Common Cyborg." I felt like I wanted to find Wong or Weise on social media and say "Explain this to me, because I have the feeling it's brilliant and I just don't quite get it."
The truth is that I'd be hard-pressed to cite a single weak essay. These essays are revolutionary proclamations of the incredible richness and complexity of the disability experience. While there is much pain and anger within the pages of "Disability Visibility," it is also filled with much love and hope and wonder. As Neil Marcus so beautifully stated "Disability is not a brave struggle or "courage in the face of adversity." Disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live."
That truth, that disability is an ingenious way to live, is brought to life again and again in this groundbreaking collection of first-person stories from the twenty-first century that challenge and confront, claim space and serve as a literary companion of sorts. There's so many enlightening truths to be explored here, truths that will be easily embraced and understood by those with disabilities and their allies yet truths that also invite readers to challenge their own assumptions and understandings of the disability experience and disability culture.
"Disability Visibility" is a book that illuminates the disability experience with equal parts intelligence and authentic emotional resonance. It's a book that is, at times, difficult to read yet a book that is necessary to read. It's a book I will undoubtedly revisit time and again, yet it's also a book that required I pace myself due to its stark honesty and and the often trauma-tinged stories of individual disability experiences. It's a book that captures it all and for that I am grateful and for that I highly recommend it.
July 10, 2021
I was expecting a collection of essays with people talking about their experiences living with disability and how it's impacted their lives. I really wanted to be able to take this and give it to people and be like, "This is what's it's like. Read this if you want to understand." And there are a handful of good essays in here, such as "Imposter Syndrome and Parenting with a Disability" by Jessica Slice. "The Isolation of being Deaf in Prison" is a really powerful essay about how poorly one disabled man was treated in prison. Whenever someone just sticks to telling their story, it's good. I also really liked "The Anti-Abortion Bill You Aren't Hearing About" which is a really clear articulate argument about why disability advocates should rethink their stance on abortion. I would have welcomed more debate style essays like that.
But lot of this writing (especially in the first half of the book) is just inarticulate anger that's directed at the reader. A lot of it is vague and chaotic and, I hate to say, cringy.
Like this isn't a book I would give to someone to help them understand, and I wouldn't give it to someone to help them feel less alone. Even though there are a few solid essays, there are more bad ones.
I feel like this book tries to have lots of diversity, and there's a lot of focus on having authors who are POC, or queer, or trans, or of different religions. Which isn't in itself a problem of course, but there isn't as much diversity of disabled experience. Like why aren't there essays on what it's like to live with an invisible illness? Why aren't there essays on how different disabled people have different needs and disability isn't a monolith? Why aren't there super specific essays on issues that are only mentioned in passing in some of these essays? Like disabled people being seen as undeserving of life if they're not productive enough, or how hard it is to deal with doctors, or what it's like to relate to able bodied people like friends, families, partners. There are so many conversations to be had and this book doesn't have them. I think there's only one essay about mental illness. That doesn't seem like enough.
I think I assumed when I saw the title that this book was about disabled experiences, and visibility through story telling, but I think it's more about...being loud and proud about being disabled? Maybe? I don't even know. I think this book is trying to be too many things at once so it lacks focus and kind of ends up being about nothing. It's even divided into four arbitrary sections: Being, Becoming, Doing, and Connecting. I think there could have been way clearer sections like: Political, Personal, Activism, Working, and Creating like...really tie the essays together by what they're about.
So yeah. I would skip this.
But lot of this writing (especially in the first half of the book) is just inarticulate anger that's directed at the reader. A lot of it is vague and chaotic and, I hate to say, cringy.
Like this isn't a book I would give to someone to help them understand, and I wouldn't give it to someone to help them feel less alone. Even though there are a few solid essays, there are more bad ones.
I feel like this book tries to have lots of diversity, and there's a lot of focus on having authors who are POC, or queer, or trans, or of different religions. Which isn't in itself a problem of course, but there isn't as much diversity of disabled experience. Like why aren't there essays on what it's like to live with an invisible illness? Why aren't there essays on how different disabled people have different needs and disability isn't a monolith? Why aren't there super specific essays on issues that are only mentioned in passing in some of these essays? Like disabled people being seen as undeserving of life if they're not productive enough, or how hard it is to deal with doctors, or what it's like to relate to able bodied people like friends, families, partners. There are so many conversations to be had and this book doesn't have them. I think there's only one essay about mental illness. That doesn't seem like enough.
I think I assumed when I saw the title that this book was about disabled experiences, and visibility through story telling, but I think it's more about...being loud and proud about being disabled? Maybe? I don't even know. I think this book is trying to be too many things at once so it lacks focus and kind of ends up being about nothing. It's even divided into four arbitrary sections: Being, Becoming, Doing, and Connecting. I think there could have been way clearer sections like: Political, Personal, Activism, Working, and Creating like...really tie the essays together by what they're about.
So yeah. I would skip this.
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December 22, 2024really enjoyed this! learned so much about the topic of eugenics within the disability community, and appreciated the variety of disabilities represented here. my fave is the first essay, and i'll definitely be checking out the authors in this anthology's other works.
January 14, 2021
Absolutely stellar.
November 22, 2025
Deeply appreciated this essay collection. As a whole I found these disabled writers to be vulnerable, bold, self-aware, authentic, and honest about their lived experiences. They shared about the messy parts of disability, the community they cultivated, and both their struggles and their fortitude. I also liked that the collection featured a sizable amount of diversity in terms of intersecting identities such as race, gender identity, mental health status, among others. Rest in paradise to the editor, Alice Wong.
July 27, 2020
Wow, what a force of a book.
For many who read Alice Wong's Disability Visibility, this anthology will serve as an important jumping-off point into disability discourse as opposed to a final or concluding work. If you go in knowing that it'll leave you with an infinite number of experiences to read more about elsewhere, you'll get a lot out of this book.
As with any anthology, some essays are a little more solidly constructed than others, but every single one touches on an important part of what it means to live with a disability in a modern world. And as one essay touches on, ableist standards of what's "complete" in publishing often keep disabled writers and editors from sharing their truths.
In terms of notes for reading, I recommend taking on a few essays at time to really let them sink in, especially because they run the gamut in terms of subject matter and structure. I also commend Wong for including an incredibly thorough list of resources at the end for those who want to learn more about the disability community as well as key conversations and debates.
Another shout out goes to Wong for including specific content warnings at the top of every essay, making it easy for people to decide what they're okay reading about or maybe need to skip.
For many who read Alice Wong's Disability Visibility, this anthology will serve as an important jumping-off point into disability discourse as opposed to a final or concluding work. If you go in knowing that it'll leave you with an infinite number of experiences to read more about elsewhere, you'll get a lot out of this book.
As with any anthology, some essays are a little more solidly constructed than others, but every single one touches on an important part of what it means to live with a disability in a modern world. And as one essay touches on, ableist standards of what's "complete" in publishing often keep disabled writers and editors from sharing their truths.
In terms of notes for reading, I recommend taking on a few essays at time to really let them sink in, especially because they run the gamut in terms of subject matter and structure. I also commend Wong for including an incredibly thorough list of resources at the end for those who want to learn more about the disability community as well as key conversations and debates.
Another shout out goes to Wong for including specific content warnings at the top of every essay, making it easy for people to decide what they're okay reading about or maybe need to skip.
November 20, 2022
A fabulous dive into the experiences and perspectives of an oft-marginalized group. As someone shamefully ignorant about disability and its many facets, my eyes were opened. The essays bring together a diverse group of voices. Many are in agreeance with each other, but others take opposing perspectives. An argument can be made that even greater diversity would give the collection better scope, but that just means there's plenty of room left for a volume two.
Ultimately it achieves precisely what it sets out to do: bring visibility to disability. Considering disability is a fact of life, found on the entire globe, and can/will occur at any point in the human experience, it really is remarkable how taboo it can be to talk about. Why don't we talk about this all the time?
Any book that gets me thinking, breaks down barriers, and offers fresh perspective in a winner in my opinion, and this one hit all the marks. Highly recommended!
Ultimately it achieves precisely what it sets out to do: bring visibility to disability. Considering disability is a fact of life, found on the entire globe, and can/will occur at any point in the human experience, it really is remarkable how taboo it can be to talk about. Why don't we talk about this all the time?
Any book that gets me thinking, breaks down barriers, and offers fresh perspective in a winner in my opinion, and this one hit all the marks. Highly recommended!
January 23, 2022
There are highs and lows in this collection, but overall, this is an incredibly wide ranging group of essays exploring the lived experiences of disabled people. While the writing itself is not likely to stick with me too much, the topics and stories covered certainly will, and I highly recommend this as a consciousness raising book for those seeking to work through internalized ableism (which is basically impossible for us all not to have)
July 12, 2021
This book is a perfect example of how to waste good intentions. “Disability Visibility”, edited by Alice Wong, is a collection of 37 essays by Americans with disabilities, few of whom are actually authors. Sadly, it shows. I don’t remember last time I read such badly written texts, which would however get such positive reviews. It suggests to me that people focus on the fact that it’s good this book exists, and its mere existence is more important than its quality. I can’t share this sentiment.
Many of the authors are queer, many are also POC. They have various disabilities and quite a few actually do not specify what their disabilities are. I expected to find personal stories that would shed light either on the disabilities and their implications in the authors’ lives or describe what in the American system is wrong and what and how it could be corrected. The few conclusions I was able to make is that Americans with disabilities, especially if they belong to ethnic minorities and are not straight are routinely discriminated against, abused as children and harassed as adults. The healthcare system is an abomination (which I knew before reading this book) and the whole country is terribly unsafe for people with disabilities. I learned a little - though too little - from brilliant essays about dealing with disabilities in prison, about awful New York City’s paratransit service and about the treatment of indigenous people with disabilities. Not much more. Most essays were full of undirected anger at just about anyone, many were simply unfocused, incoherent ramblings and over and over again I was asking: “Author, what are you trying to say?”. So much chaos, in such bad need of thorough editing. Several authors reflected on the notion of identity and whether disabilities are an intrinsic part of who they are - when well articulated these thoughts were fascinating to read.
The biggest failure of this book is that it really doesn’t open a discussion. Most authors have such a condescending, patronising tone that they really don’t encourage readers to ask questions and engage more deeply - and that’s exactly what readers should be doing after reading.
Many of the authors are queer, many are also POC. They have various disabilities and quite a few actually do not specify what their disabilities are. I expected to find personal stories that would shed light either on the disabilities and their implications in the authors’ lives or describe what in the American system is wrong and what and how it could be corrected. The few conclusions I was able to make is that Americans with disabilities, especially if they belong to ethnic minorities and are not straight are routinely discriminated against, abused as children and harassed as adults. The healthcare system is an abomination (which I knew before reading this book) and the whole country is terribly unsafe for people with disabilities. I learned a little - though too little - from brilliant essays about dealing with disabilities in prison, about awful New York City’s paratransit service and about the treatment of indigenous people with disabilities. Not much more. Most essays were full of undirected anger at just about anyone, many were simply unfocused, incoherent ramblings and over and over again I was asking: “Author, what are you trying to say?”. So much chaos, in such bad need of thorough editing. Several authors reflected on the notion of identity and whether disabilities are an intrinsic part of who they are - when well articulated these thoughts were fascinating to read.
The biggest failure of this book is that it really doesn’t open a discussion. Most authors have such a condescending, patronising tone that they really don’t encourage readers to ask questions and engage more deeply - and that’s exactly what readers should be doing after reading.
May 25, 2022
۳/۵ ستاره
خواندن این مجموعه نوشتار مثل این میمونه که در جمع افرادی که با معلولیتهای مختلف زندگی میکنند بشینی و از مشکلات، دغدغهها، آرزوها و پیروزیهاشون بشنوی. وقتی که بحث حقوق و مسائل جامعهی معلول مطرح میشه، اکثر ما که بدون این مشکلات زندگی میکنیم شاید فقط بتونیم به پایهایترینِ این مشکلات فکر کنیم. درمان، آموزش، دسترسی و حمایت مالی
این نوشتارهای شخصی برای افرادی که در این زمینه مطالعهی زیادی ندارند سه جنبه داره
یک: آشنا شدن با گسترهی معلولیت
معلولیت فقط نابینایی، ناشنوایی و معلولیت حرکتی نیست. بیمارانی که با سرطان و ایدز زندگی میکنند یا از مشکلات خاصی مثل عدم کنترل روی ادرار رنج میبرند هم معلول به حساب میان و مسائل خاص خودشون رو دارند. برام جالب بود که در این کتاب از ترنسجندرها، کوییرها و اِیسکشوالها هم صحبت شده
دو: درک اینکه اصلاً حقوق و مشکلات افراد معلول چه هست؟
صداهای این کتاب از مشکلاتی مثل دسترسی به البسهی مناسب، نگاه جامعه از نظر زیبایی و جذابیت به افراد معلول و مشکلاتی که والدین برای فرزندپروری دارند شروع میکنند و به معضلات پایهای میرسند. سواستفاده جنسی، اختهکردن و نرخ بالای کشتهشدن به اشتباه توسط پلیس
سه: مشکل جوامع پیشرفته، آرزوی جامعهی ما
در بعضی از مقالهها نویسندهها از نقطه ضعفهای سیستمها و امکانات کنونی میگن. مثلاً نویسندهای از مشکلات سیستم مخصوص جابجایی معلولان در نیویورک میگه و دیگری از قیمت نجومی تجهیزات کمکی پیشرفته صحبت میکنه. مشکلاتی که در عین اینکه باید در موردشون صحبت بشه، سالها با دغدغههای جامعهما فاصله دارند و این دردناکه
مورد سه دقیقاً مسئلهای بود که باعث شد من با کتاب به حدی که باید ارتباط برقرار نکنم. این اصلا به معنی بد بودن کتاب یا غیر مهم بودنش نیست. کاملاً برعکس. اینجور کتابها درهای جدیدی رو باز میکنند که قبل از خواندنشون حتی وجود هم نداشتند. ولی الان این موضوعات برای من خیلی خام هستند و بیشتر باید بخونم تا درکشون کنم
پینوشت
چون در مورد این مسائل به انگلیسی میخونم، کلمات مناسب برای استفاده در فارسی رو نمیدونم. با اطلاعات محدودم میدونم که استفاده از کلماتی مثل توانخواه یا روشندل برخلاف چیزی که به نظر میاد جالب نیست. برای همین در ریویو هم از کلمهی معلولیت استفاده کردم. اگر بیشتر در این مورد میدونید، لطفاً راهنمایی کنید
M's Books :کتاب و صوتیش
۱۴۰۱/۲/۱۶
خواندن این مجموعه نوشتار مثل این میمونه که در جمع افرادی که با معلولیتهای مختلف زندگی میکنند بشینی و از مشکلات، دغدغهها، آرزوها و پیروزیهاشون بشنوی. وقتی که بحث حقوق و مسائل جامعهی معلول مطرح میشه، اکثر ما که بدون این مشکلات زندگی میکنیم شاید فقط بتونیم به پایهایترینِ این مشکلات فکر کنیم. درمان، آموزش، دسترسی و حمایت مالی
این نوشتارهای شخصی برای افرادی که در این زمینه مطالعهی زیادی ندارند سه جنبه داره
یک: آشنا شدن با گسترهی معلولیت
معلولیت فقط نابینایی، ناشنوایی و معلولیت حرکتی نیست. بیمارانی که با سرطان و ایدز زندگی میکنند یا از مشکلات خاصی مثل عدم کنترل روی ادرار رنج میبرند هم معلول به حساب میان و مسائل خاص خودشون رو دارند. برام جالب بود که در این کتاب از ترنسجندرها، کوییرها و اِیسکشوالها هم صحبت شده
دو: درک اینکه اصلاً حقوق و مشکلات افراد معلول چه هست؟
صداهای این کتاب از مشکلاتی مثل دسترسی به البسهی مناسب، نگاه جامعه از نظر زیبایی و جذابیت به افراد معلول و مشکلاتی که والدین برای فرزندپروری دارند شروع میکنند و به معضلات پایهای میرسند. سواستفاده جنسی، اختهکردن و نرخ بالای کشتهشدن به اشتباه توسط پلیس
سه: مشکل جوامع پیشرفته، آرزوی جامعهی ما
در بعضی از مقالهها نویسندهها از نقطه ضعفهای سیستمها و امکانات کنونی میگن. مثلاً نویسندهای از مشکلات سیستم مخصوص جابجایی معلولان در نیویورک میگه و دیگری از قیمت نجومی تجهیزات کمکی پیشرفته صحبت میکنه. مشکلاتی که در عین اینکه باید در موردشون صحبت بشه، سالها با دغدغههای جامعهما فاصله دارند و این دردناکه
مورد سه دقیقاً مسئلهای بود که باعث شد من با کتاب به حدی که باید ارتباط برقرار نکنم. این اصلا به معنی بد بودن کتاب یا غیر مهم بودنش نیست. کاملاً برعکس. اینجور کتابها درهای جدیدی رو باز میکنند که قبل از خواندنشون حتی وجود هم نداشتند. ولی الان این موضوعات برای من خیلی خام هستند و بیشتر باید بخونم تا درکشون کنم
پینوشت
چون در مورد این مسائل به انگلیسی میخونم، کلمات مناسب برای استفاده در فارسی رو نمیدونم. با اطلاعات محدودم میدونم که استفاده از کلماتی مثل توانخواه یا روشندل برخلاف چیزی که به نظر میاد جالب نیست. برای همین در ریویو هم از کلمهی معلولیت استفاده کردم. اگر بیشتر در این مورد میدونید، لطفاً راهنمایی کنید
M's Books :کتاب و صوتیش
۱۴۰۱/۲/۱۶
October 18, 2020
I can't express my love and joy at this book through words! My disabled self is LIVING! So many emotions I had while reading this book! Anger, at ableism and injustice, seeing that i'm not alone and relating to others on things that most just don't get, and joy at all the disabled joy! This is a book I HIGHLY recommend to EVERYONE! If you are disabled you'll find stuff to relate to and to love in this book. If you aren't I truly think it'll help you understand disabled people, disability justice and the ableism we face more.
These essays (37 if I counted right) feature a huge diversity of disabled people! Queer, Trans, People of Color, physical and mental disabilities, all very much featured in here! It's accessible and so very much needed. If I could ask everyone to read just ONE book, it'd be this one! No question about it!
Some of my favorite essays include:
"I'm tired of chasing a cure" by Liz Moore, which I found here https://liminalnest.wordpress.com/201...
"Why my novel is dedicated to my disabled friend Maddy" by A.H. Reaume, which I found here http://open-book.ca/Columnists/Interd...
"The antiabortion bill you aren't hearing about" by Rebecca Cokley, which I found here https://rewirenewsgroup.com/article/2...
"Unspeakable Conversations" by Harriet McBryde Johnson, which I found here https://www.nytimes.com/2003/02/16/ma...
as well as (I didn't look up all of them)
"For Ki'tay D. Davidson, who loves us" b Talila A. Lewis
"Radical Visibility: A disabled queer clothing reform movement manifesto" by Sky Cubacub (website here AKA the most beautiful thing i've ever seen after reading this essay!) http://rebirthgarments.com/
"Incontinence is a public health issue- and we need to talk about it" by Mari Ramsawakh
"Six Ways of looking at Crip time" by Ellen Samuels
Those are just SOME of them and truly I loved this entire book! Every single essay. It gave me stuff to think on, stuff to relate to that no one I know in RL understands, learned things, joy. So much. Highly recommend this book❤️.
https://linktr.ee/Wickedjr
These essays (37 if I counted right) feature a huge diversity of disabled people! Queer, Trans, People of Color, physical and mental disabilities, all very much featured in here! It's accessible and so very much needed. If I could ask everyone to read just ONE book, it'd be this one! No question about it!
Some of my favorite essays include:
"I'm tired of chasing a cure" by Liz Moore, which I found here https://liminalnest.wordpress.com/201...
"Why my novel is dedicated to my disabled friend Maddy" by A.H. Reaume, which I found here http://open-book.ca/Columnists/Interd...
"The antiabortion bill you aren't hearing about" by Rebecca Cokley, which I found here https://rewirenewsgroup.com/article/2...
"Unspeakable Conversations" by Harriet McBryde Johnson, which I found here https://www.nytimes.com/2003/02/16/ma...
as well as (I didn't look up all of them)
"For Ki'tay D. Davidson, who loves us" b Talila A. Lewis
"Radical Visibility: A disabled queer clothing reform movement manifesto" by Sky Cubacub (website here AKA the most beautiful thing i've ever seen after reading this essay!) http://rebirthgarments.com/
"Incontinence is a public health issue- and we need to talk about it" by Mari Ramsawakh
"Six Ways of looking at Crip time" by Ellen Samuels
Those are just SOME of them and truly I loved this entire book! Every single essay. It gave me stuff to think on, stuff to relate to that no one I know in RL understands, learned things, joy. So much. Highly recommend this book❤️.
https://linktr.ee/Wickedjr
August 18, 2020
5/5stars
Wonderful. Perfect. A great book for people unfamiliar with disability literature or theory as this is very accessible and easy to read as all the essays are very short and narrative-based.
My favorites included:
- Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson
- If you can't fast, Give by Maysoon Zayid
- The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison originally told by Jeremy Woody
- Guide Dogs Don't Lead Blind People. We Wander as One. by Haben Girma
- Nurturing Black Disabled Joy by Keah Brown
- Why My Novel is Dedicated to my Disabled Friend Maddy by A. H. Reaume
- Lost Cause by Reyma McCoy McDeid
- Disability Solidarity by Harriet Tubman Collective (a GREAT essay for people who are interested in learning more about the BLM movement and Black Lives in America as this touches on disabled/Deaf Black people and how they are not as represented in the BLM movement and what we can do to correct that!!)
- Time's Up For Me, Too by Karolyn Gehrig
Wonderful. Perfect. A great book for people unfamiliar with disability literature or theory as this is very accessible and easy to read as all the essays are very short and narrative-based.
My favorites included:
- Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson
- If you can't fast, Give by Maysoon Zayid
- The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison originally told by Jeremy Woody
- Guide Dogs Don't Lead Blind People. We Wander as One. by Haben Girma
- Nurturing Black Disabled Joy by Keah Brown
- Why My Novel is Dedicated to my Disabled Friend Maddy by A. H. Reaume
- Lost Cause by Reyma McCoy McDeid
- Disability Solidarity by Harriet Tubman Collective (a GREAT essay for people who are interested in learning more about the BLM movement and Black Lives in America as this touches on disabled/Deaf Black people and how they are not as represented in the BLM movement and what we can do to correct that!!)
- Time's Up For Me, Too by Karolyn Gehrig
April 22, 2026
"Hereabouts, the rule is that if you're not prepared to shoot on sight, you have to be prepared to shake hands."
Found in the essay, Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson. A favorite quote from today's reading.
Found in the essay, Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson. A favorite quote from today's reading.
November 6, 2021
A really fantastic, powerful and enlightening read. I would highly recommend this.
July 17, 2021
I appreciated the essays on their own. Glimpses into the vast world of disability. A reminder of my own ableism and ghat disabilities are not one size fits all. I didn’t think the collection had any flow and I was sometimes confused why certain essays were chosen/included and how the essays fit into each section.
April 19, 2022
So many incredible disabled voices, this was a phenomenal read
January 6, 2022
I finished this book yesterday, but I haven't finished thinking about it. Full review to come
January 6, 2021
Finally a book that lets those of us who struggle with disabilities feel seen and heard and validated. A wonderful collection of so many different voices and experiences. Raw and deeply honest. Wonderful. Alice Wong is flipping amazing!
December 30, 2021
Everyone should read this. That is all.
Disability Visibility is a collection of essays from disabled authors of various backgrounds. There's no way to summarize all the types of disability because the community is vast and diverse. This book is beautiful in how it celebrates and uplifts all kinds of disability and disabled authors. Disability representation is still incredibly low in the publishing industry, I really hope it's something we see more of. Disabled people deserve so much better than what society and publishing has given them. It's long past time we had a seat at the table, accommodations to get there and are not boxed in to what we can write.
This book will make you rethink about disability and what you know. It will challenge you to learn more and do better. It will make you think about the books that you pick up. I hope it helps open more doors and start conversations that we desperately need to have. I cannot recommend this book enough.
CWs from each story as provided by the contributor:
Unspeakable Conversations: eugenics, infanticide, assisted suicide.
There's a Mathematical Equation that Proves I'm Ugly: bullying, suicidal ideation.
The Erasure of Indigenous People in Chronic Illness: settler colonialism, genocide, racism, sexism, ableism, erasure, sexual assault, violence, suicide, suicidal ideation.
The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison: sexual assault, language deprivation, isolation, incarceration, trauma, audism.
Common Cyborg: hate, misogyny, harassment, rape threats, death threats, racism, suicide, sterilization, ableism, eugenics.
We Can't Go Back: institutionalization, abuse.
Last but Not Least: body shaming, groping, sexual harassment.
The Antiabortion Bill You Aren't Hearing About: bodily autonomy, eugenics, ableism, trauma, sexual assault, medical trauma, objectification, carceral state, sterilization.
Incontinence is a Public Health Issue...: suicidal ideation, bullying, body shaming, infantilization.
Failing/Burning: suffering, medication, spoilers for Hannah Gadsby's Nanette.
Lost Cause: abuse, racism, ableist language, child neglect, torture, poisoning, self-harm.
Disability Solidarity: state violence, anti-Blackness, racism, ableism, audism, police brutality, incarceration, murder, white supremacy.
Time's Up for Me, Too: sexual assault, intimate partner violence, abuse, trauma.
Disability Visibility is a collection of essays from disabled authors of various backgrounds. There's no way to summarize all the types of disability because the community is vast and diverse. This book is beautiful in how it celebrates and uplifts all kinds of disability and disabled authors. Disability representation is still incredibly low in the publishing industry, I really hope it's something we see more of. Disabled people deserve so much better than what society and publishing has given them. It's long past time we had a seat at the table, accommodations to get there and are not boxed in to what we can write.
This book will make you rethink about disability and what you know. It will challenge you to learn more and do better. It will make you think about the books that you pick up. I hope it helps open more doors and start conversations that we desperately need to have. I cannot recommend this book enough.
CWs from each story as provided by the contributor:
Unspeakable Conversations: eugenics, infanticide, assisted suicide.
There's a Mathematical Equation that Proves I'm Ugly: bullying, suicidal ideation.
The Erasure of Indigenous People in Chronic Illness: settler colonialism, genocide, racism, sexism, ableism, erasure, sexual assault, violence, suicide, suicidal ideation.
The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison: sexual assault, language deprivation, isolation, incarceration, trauma, audism.
Common Cyborg: hate, misogyny, harassment, rape threats, death threats, racism, suicide, sterilization, ableism, eugenics.
We Can't Go Back: institutionalization, abuse.
Last but Not Least: body shaming, groping, sexual harassment.
The Antiabortion Bill You Aren't Hearing About: bodily autonomy, eugenics, ableism, trauma, sexual assault, medical trauma, objectification, carceral state, sterilization.
Incontinence is a Public Health Issue...: suicidal ideation, bullying, body shaming, infantilization.
Failing/Burning: suffering, medication, spoilers for Hannah Gadsby's Nanette.
Lost Cause: abuse, racism, ableist language, child neglect, torture, poisoning, self-harm.
Disability Solidarity: state violence, anti-Blackness, racism, ableism, audism, police brutality, incarceration, murder, white supremacy.
Time's Up for Me, Too: sexual assault, intimate partner violence, abuse, trauma.
April 29, 2021
This was a solid collection of essays from voices rarely heard in publishing, or elsewhere. Ableism is baked into our culture. I read this for Read Harder this year, and this is why I like participating in that challenge every year, because there is always a couple books I probably would never have read otherwise, and this is one of those.
Like most essay collections, there are ones that are stronger than others. The standouts for me were the very first essay by Harriet McBryde Johnson, in which she famously took on a debate with a man who was advocating aborting fetuses with disabilities and genetic conditions, so basically a eugenicist, which means she was effectively advocating for her own right to exist for public spectacle. It was gobsmacking.
Other standouts were the essays by Ariel Henley (which takes on the Golden Ratio), Haben Girma (about seeing eye dogs), Keah Brown (about nurturing Black disabled joy), Zipporah Arielle (about Selma Blair and her fabulous cane), Wanda Diaz-Merced (about innovations in science that makes it possible to hear instead of see results), Shoshana Kessock (about being bipolar, in which she muses on Hannah Gadsby), and Britney Wilson (about NYC's paratransit network).
Read Harder Challenge 2021: Read an own voices book about disability.
Like most essay collections, there are ones that are stronger than others. The standouts for me were the very first essay by Harriet McBryde Johnson, in which she famously took on a debate with a man who was advocating aborting fetuses with disabilities and genetic conditions, so basically a eugenicist, which means she was effectively advocating for her own right to exist for public spectacle. It was gobsmacking.
Other standouts were the essays by Ariel Henley (which takes on the Golden Ratio), Haben Girma (about seeing eye dogs), Keah Brown (about nurturing Black disabled joy), Zipporah Arielle (about Selma Blair and her fabulous cane), Wanda Diaz-Merced (about innovations in science that makes it possible to hear instead of see results), Shoshana Kessock (about being bipolar, in which she muses on Hannah Gadsby), and Britney Wilson (about NYC's paratransit network).
Read Harder Challenge 2021: Read an own voices book about disability.
November 26, 2021
An anthology of essays and speeches by authors with disabilities, collected loosely under the headings, "Being," "Becoming," "Doing," and "Connecting." It was a very worthwhile read, and makes me want to read more about disability justice and by authors with disabilities. Many of the pieces were quite brief and overly general/broad in focus, but some really stood out and made me look at things with fresh eyes, in particular:
- "Unspeakable Circumstances," by Harriet McBryde Johnson, in which the author is hosted at Princeton by philosopher Peter Singer to debate his views on euthanasia of infants with disabilities.
- "The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison," by Jeremy Woody, as told to Christie Thompson, which was absolutely infuriating and heart-breaking ("They housed us sometimes with blind folks, which for me made communication impossible. They couldn't see my signs and gestures, and I couldn't hear them.")
- "Common Cyborg," by Jillian Weise, which was really mind-blowing in claiming and problematizing a 'cyborg' identity, and contrasting it with non-disabled 'tryborg' enthusiasts ("It can be, can be, a bit intimidating to claim cyborg identity. I feel like I risk getting it wrong...I worry that the cyborg is just a sexy way to say, 'Please care about the disabled,' and why should I have to say that? I worry that the cyborg is too much an institution, an illusion of the nondisabled, the superhero in the movie, the mixed martial artist, the bots who either make life easy or ruin everything. Yet I recognize the disabled who double as cyborgs. ... There is a cyborg hierarchy. They like us best with bionic arms and legs. They like us Deaf with hearing aids, though they prefer cochlear implants. It would be an affront to ask the Hearing to learn sign language. Instead they wish for us to lose our language, abandon our culture, and consider ourselves cured. They like exoskeletons, which none of us use. They don't count as cyborgs those of us who wear pacemakers or go to dialysis. Nor do they count those of us kept alive by machines, those of us made ambulatory by wheelchairs, those of us on biologics or antidepressants. They want us shiny and metallic and in their image.")
- "The Antiabortion Bill You Aren't Hearing About," by Rebecca Cokley, in which the author argues from a prochoice perspective ("The right to decide what happens to our bodies is a fundamental principle in the disability community, and with good reason.")
- "Six Ways of Looking at Crip Time" by Ellen Samuels, a very moving reflection ("Crip time is time travel. Disability and illness have the power to extract us from linear, progressive time with its normative life stages and cast us into a wormhole of backward and forward acceleration, jerky stops and starts, tedious intervals and abrupt endings. Some of us contend with the impairments of old age while still young; some of us are treated like children no matter how old we get. The medical language of illness tries to reimpose the linear, speaking in terms of the chronic, the progressive, and the terminal, of relapses and stages. But we who occupy the bodies of crip time know that we are never linear, and we rage silently - or not so silently - at the calm straightfowardness of those who live in the sheltered space of normative time.")
- "On NYC's Paratransit, Fighting for Safety, Respect, and Human Dignity," by Britney Wilson, a young disabled lawyer on the indignities and outrages of getting around the city ("As the driver got off the bus to let the lift down, he yelled, 'You're lucky I didn't leave you. It's been more than five minutes.' 'Five minutes?' she asked. 'I've been waiting for this ride for over three hours. The people in the McDonald's let me sit down and wait inside, and I didn't see you when you first pulled up.' 'You're over the bag limit,' the driver added. The limit is two. You have three. That's what's wrong with Access-A-Ride people. You take advantage. You're spoiled and entitled.'").
These are essays I'll be thinking about for a long time. 3.5.
- "Unspeakable Circumstances," by Harriet McBryde Johnson, in which the author is hosted at Princeton by philosopher Peter Singer to debate his views on euthanasia of infants with disabilities.
- "The Isolation of Being Deaf in Prison," by Jeremy Woody, as told to Christie Thompson, which was absolutely infuriating and heart-breaking ("They housed us sometimes with blind folks, which for me made communication impossible. They couldn't see my signs and gestures, and I couldn't hear them.")
- "Common Cyborg," by Jillian Weise, which was really mind-blowing in claiming and problematizing a 'cyborg' identity, and contrasting it with non-disabled 'tryborg' enthusiasts ("It can be, can be, a bit intimidating to claim cyborg identity. I feel like I risk getting it wrong...I worry that the cyborg is just a sexy way to say, 'Please care about the disabled,' and why should I have to say that? I worry that the cyborg is too much an institution, an illusion of the nondisabled, the superhero in the movie, the mixed martial artist, the bots who either make life easy or ruin everything. Yet I recognize the disabled who double as cyborgs. ... There is a cyborg hierarchy. They like us best with bionic arms and legs. They like us Deaf with hearing aids, though they prefer cochlear implants. It would be an affront to ask the Hearing to learn sign language. Instead they wish for us to lose our language, abandon our culture, and consider ourselves cured. They like exoskeletons, which none of us use. They don't count as cyborgs those of us who wear pacemakers or go to dialysis. Nor do they count those of us kept alive by machines, those of us made ambulatory by wheelchairs, those of us on biologics or antidepressants. They want us shiny and metallic and in their image.")
- "The Antiabortion Bill You Aren't Hearing About," by Rebecca Cokley, in which the author argues from a prochoice perspective ("The right to decide what happens to our bodies is a fundamental principle in the disability community, and with good reason.")
- "Six Ways of Looking at Crip Time" by Ellen Samuels, a very moving reflection ("Crip time is time travel. Disability and illness have the power to extract us from linear, progressive time with its normative life stages and cast us into a wormhole of backward and forward acceleration, jerky stops and starts, tedious intervals and abrupt endings. Some of us contend with the impairments of old age while still young; some of us are treated like children no matter how old we get. The medical language of illness tries to reimpose the linear, speaking in terms of the chronic, the progressive, and the terminal, of relapses and stages. But we who occupy the bodies of crip time know that we are never linear, and we rage silently - or not so silently - at the calm straightfowardness of those who live in the sheltered space of normative time.")
- "On NYC's Paratransit, Fighting for Safety, Respect, and Human Dignity," by Britney Wilson, a young disabled lawyer on the indignities and outrages of getting around the city ("As the driver got off the bus to let the lift down, he yelled, 'You're lucky I didn't leave you. It's been more than five minutes.' 'Five minutes?' she asked. 'I've been waiting for this ride for over three hours. The people in the McDonald's let me sit down and wait inside, and I didn't see you when you first pulled up.' 'You're over the bag limit,' the driver added. The limit is two. You have three. That's what's wrong with Access-A-Ride people. You take advantage. You're spoiled and entitled.'").
These are essays I'll be thinking about for a long time. 3.5.
September 30, 2020
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 (five stars, as ranked in confetti because this book is ABSOLUTELY PHENOMENAL!)
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Real talk: if you only read one book for the rest of the year - make it this one. This was outstanding from start to finish. Disability Visibility is made up of 37 short stories, written from the perspectives of thirty seven uniquely impressive and experienced individuals. Their stories touch on everything from the shortcomings of the fashion industry to the abject horror that is the prison industrial complex. Alice Wong has done an exemplary job of compiling essays and speeches into one, profoundly engaging and indisputably important piece of non-fiction. 🎉
The stories are earnest, fast paced and gripping while also densely factual. Further, everything that was first laid in front of the reader at the beginning is masterfully brought back around by the end. Truly remarkably. I found myself obsessively researching nearly each author’s respective body of work and am now following many of them. I am blown away that one such impressive collection of people can be so well represented within a single book and can not recommend your reading it highly enough.
April 18, 2024
"I believe I am living in a time where disabled people are more visible than ever before. And yet while representation is exciting and important, it is not enough. I want and expect more. We all should expect more. We all deserve more.”
This rich, vunerable and diverse essay-collection brings together the stories and voices of various disabled American people. The collection's main point is to show (able-bodied) readers what it's like to continuously deal with physical, legal, racial or mental problems in a world that wants you to be inspirational. To be grateful for the minimum amount of care that you're given.
The authors' experiences offer many infuriating examples, among the lines off: "We welcome you to give a speech, but our facility has no ramps and an elevator on the other side of the building. We diagnose you with bipolar disorder, but give no explanation about the illness or coping skills. We understand you are a deaf man in prison, but we don't offer any ASL interpreters."
But while many of these stories lay bare the injustices and social problems that are out there, writers also tell us about the (online) community they've found, the friendships, the romance blossoming between non-abled or abled partners.
As Ricardo T. Thornton Sr. writes: "the only thing that's special about me is that people believed in me and in my potential to learn in spite of my disability, and they took the time to help me learn."
A a Dutch reader, not every problem regarding American (mental) health-care was recognizable, but it did make me more aware of our (lack of) laws and rules regarding disabilities. For example, it took until the Covid pandemic to have a sign language interpreter present during the cabinet press conferences.
Like any social group, disabled people are not a monolith and this important essay-collection is a wonderful example of that. Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-first Century made me think, made my furious, made me laugh, and aware of the world around me, and that is always a good thing.
This rich, vunerable and diverse essay-collection brings together the stories and voices of various disabled American people. The collection's main point is to show (able-bodied) readers what it's like to continuously deal with physical, legal, racial or mental problems in a world that wants you to be inspirational. To be grateful for the minimum amount of care that you're given.
The authors' experiences offer many infuriating examples, among the lines off: "We welcome you to give a speech, but our facility has no ramps and an elevator on the other side of the building. We diagnose you with bipolar disorder, but give no explanation about the illness or coping skills. We understand you are a deaf man in prison, but we don't offer any ASL interpreters."
But while many of these stories lay bare the injustices and social problems that are out there, writers also tell us about the (online) community they've found, the friendships, the romance blossoming between non-abled or abled partners.
As Ricardo T. Thornton Sr. writes: "the only thing that's special about me is that people believed in me and in my potential to learn in spite of my disability, and they took the time to help me learn."
A a Dutch reader, not every problem regarding American (mental) health-care was recognizable, but it did make me more aware of our (lack of) laws and rules regarding disabilities. For example, it took until the Covid pandemic to have a sign language interpreter present during the cabinet press conferences.
Like any social group, disabled people are not a monolith and this important essay-collection is a wonderful example of that. Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-first Century made me think, made my furious, made me laugh, and aware of the world around me, and that is always a good thing.
August 23, 2022
4.5/5
August 31, 2020
This is a collection of essays by people with various disabilities, all of whom challenge the status quo, push back against ableist views, and write about their own unique life experiences. I found this very educational, and some of the essays are extremely engaging, like the one about the disability advocate who publicly debated Peter Singer about his eugenicist views. However, the quality varies widely. I ended up skimming some of the essays, especially as I got further into the book, because many of them are very repetitive and lack thought diversity.
There is nothing wrong with various people reinforcing the same points, but many of them did so in the exact same way. This was especially common when people were sharing political messages, and even though some writers conveyed political ideas in a meaningful way through their personal stories, others just repeated the same canned ideas again and again. I don't doubt the sincerity of the individual writers, but I began to wonder if disabled people who hold different political views, or who don't use the same slogans and phrases, would have even been invited to contribute to this collection.
This book would also have benefited from religious diversity. There is an essay from a Muslim about the challenges of choosing whether or not to fast for Ramadan, and a Christian woman wrote about learning to love and enjoy church apart from other people's expectation that she should seek divine healing. However, aside from one mention of someone else's involvement in a disability ministry at their church, that's it. Out of thirty-seven essays, two connect with someone's religious experiences, and a third mentions church in passing. The vast majority of the essays are completely secular, and a large number explicitly express atheist views.
I wish that this book were more inclusive and balanced, because even though it's fine for someone to create an essay collection that focuses on secular views or particular political philosophies, this book isn't billed that way. Its back cover description says that it conveys the "vast richness and complexity of the disabled experience," and its goal is to uplift the voices of marginalized people and help them share their stories to a wide audience. Thus, even though I would like to give this book four stars for the educational and persuasive power of the best essays, I am reducing it to three for its deceptively narrow focus.
There is nothing wrong with various people reinforcing the same points, but many of them did so in the exact same way. This was especially common when people were sharing political messages, and even though some writers conveyed political ideas in a meaningful way through their personal stories, others just repeated the same canned ideas again and again. I don't doubt the sincerity of the individual writers, but I began to wonder if disabled people who hold different political views, or who don't use the same slogans and phrases, would have even been invited to contribute to this collection.
This book would also have benefited from religious diversity. There is an essay from a Muslim about the challenges of choosing whether or not to fast for Ramadan, and a Christian woman wrote about learning to love and enjoy church apart from other people's expectation that she should seek divine healing. However, aside from one mention of someone else's involvement in a disability ministry at their church, that's it. Out of thirty-seven essays, two connect with someone's religious experiences, and a third mentions church in passing. The vast majority of the essays are completely secular, and a large number explicitly express atheist views.
I wish that this book were more inclusive and balanced, because even though it's fine for someone to create an essay collection that focuses on secular views or particular political philosophies, this book isn't billed that way. Its back cover description says that it conveys the "vast richness and complexity of the disabled experience," and its goal is to uplift the voices of marginalized people and help them share their stories to a wide audience. Thus, even though I would like to give this book four stars for the educational and persuasive power of the best essays, I am reducing it to three for its deceptively narrow focus.
July 7, 2026
"I don’t understand it," I continued. “These things, they just keep happening, and I know it has to mean something. It has to. I want my suffering to mean something. I want this pain to matter."
3 stars 🌟
This is an important book. I loved the essays and could connect a lot to many of then as a disabled person, and definitely learnt some things as well. However, the constant usage of "abled" or "able-bodied" in reference and context as the opposite of disabled bothered me quite a bit. I originally thought it was due to the unpopularity of term "non-disabled" when this book was published (if i recall post 2023 it started being used more), but several essays do use the word, which makes the non-usage intentional. And I am afraid I do not understand why, because this aligns disability in a physical context, and dismisses other conditions. It is not inclusive language at all. I was suprised to see it here.
Apart from that, I also felt there were very few essays on mental illnesses and invisible disabilities, which was dissapointing (and futher made the above issue more problamatic for me). I also think the Title is a tad bit misleading, as this discusses disability wholly from an American context, and I was expecting more global and broader perspectives as well.
(Also, the essay "Falling/Burning Hannah Gadsby, Nanette, and Being a Bipolar Creator" by Shoshana Kessock literally ends in a sentence "Thank you, Hannah, for your strength. May you find your inspiration wherever you walk.", which made me go "Seriously", because why are we giving the physical act of walking such connotations in a book ABOUT disability??)
However apart from these complaints, I did like it, and many things hit me enough that I had to take constant breaks from reading it. And I have lots of appreciation for Alice Wong, rest in peace.
"I know only that in chasing to achieve the person I once was, I will miss the person I have become."
#Book 110 of 2026.
Review written on 5th July, 2026.
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How I Rate-
1 star- Hardly liked anything/ was disappointed
2 star- Had potential but did not deliver/ was disappointed
3 stars- Was ok but could have been better/ was average / Enjoyed a lot but something was missing
4 stars- Loved a lot but something was missing
5 stars- Loved it/ new favourite
July 22, 2023
it turns out i’ve spent my entire life starving for disabled community and ownvoices theory, and this book is the first thing that’s ever really given me those. so, um. thanks and i’ll never be the same again.
the essays that realigned fundamental parts of my psyche, if you’re curious, or if you want some suggestions of ones to prioritize if you don’t have the spoons to read the whole collection, are as follows:
- Six Ways of Looking at Crip Time by Ellen Samuels
- Common Cyborg by Jillian Weise
- Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson
- On the Ancestral Plane: Crip Hand-Me-Downs and the Legacy of Our Movement by Stacey Milbern
but there are so many other valuable pieces in this collection, and even the ones i didn’t find insightfully written granted me awareness of another disabled person, stuck another pin in the map. we’re here. we’re meant to find each other, this book says.
and the type of centrality this book allows disability—letting it be a defining point of people’s lives and selves, instead of insisting that it’s small enough to be looked past or overcome—was so healing to me. this is straight up the first time anyone has told me that this is a good and valuable way to be alive. not as a close-enough shadow of an abled life, but as its own reality. i don’t know if i believe it yet, but Harriet McBryde Johnson did, and i want to learn to honor that.
the essays that realigned fundamental parts of my psyche, if you’re curious, or if you want some suggestions of ones to prioritize if you don’t have the spoons to read the whole collection, are as follows:
- Six Ways of Looking at Crip Time by Ellen Samuels
- Common Cyborg by Jillian Weise
- Unspeakable Conversations by Harriet McBryde Johnson
- On the Ancestral Plane: Crip Hand-Me-Downs and the Legacy of Our Movement by Stacey Milbern
but there are so many other valuable pieces in this collection, and even the ones i didn’t find insightfully written granted me awareness of another disabled person, stuck another pin in the map. we’re here. we’re meant to find each other, this book says.
and the type of centrality this book allows disability—letting it be a defining point of people’s lives and selves, instead of insisting that it’s small enough to be looked past or overcome—was so healing to me. this is straight up the first time anyone has told me that this is a good and valuable way to be alive. not as a close-enough shadow of an abled life, but as its own reality. i don’t know if i believe it yet, but Harriet McBryde Johnson did, and i want to learn to honor that.
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January 31, 2022very grateful to have been able to read this anthology. i read a few pieces each day throughout the past few months and cannot recommend this enough!
some standout pieces for me were
- “unspeakable conversations” by harriet mcbryde johnson
- “the isolation of being deaf in prison” by jeremy woody (as told to christie thompson)
- “incontinence is a public health issue - and we need to talk about it” by mari ramsawakh
- “on nyc’s paratransit, fighting for safety, respect, and human dignity” by britney wilson
- “love means never having to say… anything” by jamison hill
brilliant overall! will be checking out more from the “further reading” section at the end as well
some standout pieces for me were
- “unspeakable conversations” by harriet mcbryde johnson
- “the isolation of being deaf in prison” by jeremy woody (as told to christie thompson)
- “incontinence is a public health issue - and we need to talk about it” by mari ramsawakh
- “on nyc’s paratransit, fighting for safety, respect, and human dignity” by britney wilson
- “love means never having to say… anything” by jamison hill
brilliant overall! will be checking out more from the “further reading” section at the end as well
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