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¡No te compares!: Aprende a vivir libre de la tiranía del yo y del mundo obsesionado con la competencia
Un recurso b�blico necesario para las mujeres de hoy en d�a que quieren vivir libremente en una cultura de continua comparaci�n. �Te comparas constantemente con otras personas? En los medios sociales, en tu vecindario, en la iglesia, o al dejar a tus hijos a la puerta de la escuela, �te esfuerzas por demostrar que est�s a la altura... y luego te sientes avergonzada cuando no es as�? Medirse a s� mismo de acuerdo a los est�ndares de los dem�s no es saludable. Y no es el plan de Dios. De hecho, el camino de Jes�s va completamente al rev�s del camino de este mundo sumergido en la competencia y la comparaci�n. Jes�s nos invita a seguirlo y a recuperar la libertad, la confianza y el gozo.
�nete a Shannon Popkin mientras explica lo que ha descubierto acerca de sus propios temores de al competir y compararse y su orgullo al sentirse adelante. Con su caracter�stico humor y honestidad directa, ha creado este estudio b�blico de seis semanas para explorar las conversaciones que Jes�s mantuvo y las historias de las que habl� con personas que, como nosotros, se comparaban entre s�.
Deja atr�s la competencia y la comparaci�n y con�ctate con los que te rodean eligiendo la forma de vida de Jes�s, en la que no hay lugar para el yo: �animando y siendo generoso con los dem�s!
A needed biblical resource for today's women who want to live freely in a culture of continual comparison.
Do you constantly compare yourself with others? On social media, in your neighborhood, at church, or in the school drop-off lane, do you push yourself to prove that you measure up . . . and then feel ashamed when you don't? Measuring yourself against others isn't healthy. And it isn't God's plan. In fact, the way of Jesus is completely upside down from this measure-up world. He invites us to follow him and be restored to freedom, confidence, and joy.
Join Shannon Popkin as she shares what she has discovered about her own measure-up fears and get-ahead pride. With her trademark humor and straightforward honesty, she's created this six-week Bible study to explore the conversations Jesus had and the stories he shared with people who--like us--were comparing themselves.
Leave measure-up comparison behind and connect with those around you by choosing Jesus's me-free way of living: lifting others up and pouring yourself out!
�nete a Shannon Popkin mientras explica lo que ha descubierto acerca de sus propios temores de al competir y compararse y su orgullo al sentirse adelante. Con su caracter�stico humor y honestidad directa, ha creado este estudio b�blico de seis semanas para explorar las conversaciones que Jes�s mantuvo y las historias de las que habl� con personas que, como nosotros, se comparaban entre s�.
Deja atr�s la competencia y la comparaci�n y con�ctate con los que te rodean eligiendo la forma de vida de Jes�s, en la que no hay lugar para el yo: �animando y siendo generoso con los dem�s!
A needed biblical resource for today's women who want to live freely in a culture of continual comparison.
Do you constantly compare yourself with others? On social media, in your neighborhood, at church, or in the school drop-off lane, do you push yourself to prove that you measure up . . . and then feel ashamed when you don't? Measuring yourself against others isn't healthy. And it isn't God's plan. In fact, the way of Jesus is completely upside down from this measure-up world. He invites us to follow him and be restored to freedom, confidence, and joy.
Join Shannon Popkin as she shares what she has discovered about her own measure-up fears and get-ahead pride. With her trademark humor and straightforward honesty, she's created this six-week Bible study to explore the conversations Jesus had and the stories he shared with people who--like us--were comparing themselves.
Leave measure-up comparison behind and connect with those around you by choosing Jesus's me-free way of living: lifting others up and pouring yourself out!
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First published May 1, 2020
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Shannon Popkin
15 books123 followersShannon Popkin is a wife and mom, a speaker and teacher, and a leader of small group studies. She's been published by Family Fun, MOMsense, Focus on the Family Magazine, and other outlets. She is a contributing blogger for True Woman.com and has blogged for several years at shannonpopkin.com.
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January 18, 2021
Ouch. This book hurt. In the best possible way. I don't often think of myself as someone who struggles with jealousy. I don't (often) struggle with envy over cars or houses or other people's vacations. But Shannon dug deep into other ways that we compare, are prideful, and struggle. It dug into my heart and has been so impactful on me already. Every woman needs to read this ASAP. Whether you struggle from more classic jealousy, or you think you don't ;)
May 31, 2020
Have you ever been made fun of, judged, and talked about because you didn't measure up to someone else especially their achievements in life? Like the awards they get, how a lot of people follow a certain person in high school around making fun of others because of their station in life. I've had this happen to me and it's no fun. Being compared to others does hurt.
I think this book speaks to many of us men, women and children alike.
After reading this it made me remember many times in my childhood because of comparisons.
I enjoyed this book and it has reminded me that we are each different just as God has intended for us. It wasn't meant for us to compare or be compared to each other. That's Satan at work.
Jesus teaches us to love one another and to help one another out.
I can see Him up there just shaking His head at what's going on down here today. I'm sad too.
In my opinion this is a great six week Bible study that can be used as study guides for Wednesday nights or you can read straight through it like I did. I had to laugh at some of her paragraphs though. She tickled me pink so to speak.
I really like the Bible references that she has added in along with her stories.
This is a wonderful thing to have
I'll be looking for more by her.
My thanks to Read with Audra for a complimentary copy of this book.
I was NOT required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
I think this book speaks to many of us men, women and children alike.
After reading this it made me remember many times in my childhood because of comparisons.
I enjoyed this book and it has reminded me that we are each different just as God has intended for us. It wasn't meant for us to compare or be compared to each other. That's Satan at work.
Jesus teaches us to love one another and to help one another out.
I can see Him up there just shaking His head at what's going on down here today. I'm sad too.
In my opinion this is a great six week Bible study that can be used as study guides for Wednesday nights or you can read straight through it like I did. I had to laugh at some of her paragraphs though. She tickled me pink so to speak.
I really like the Bible references that she has added in along with her stories.
This is a wonderful thing to have
I'll be looking for more by her.
My thanks to Read with Audra for a complimentary copy of this book.
I was NOT required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
February 17, 2020
I am a Comparison Girl. I didn’t know it until I found myself in these pages. Shannon expertly and biblically walks us through several markers and mistakes of living according to comparison and gently points us to a better way. Written with humor and brutal honesty, Shannon sheds pretense and fights for her readers’ hearts with her humble storytelling.
July 20, 2023
There are so many good and helpful thoughts in this book. I need the reminder of if my focus is on my “spout” (what I pour out to others) or my “lines” (how I measure up, focus on self).
It’s hard to always realize when comparison is creeping in, but her points about comparison and pride keeping us from celebrating when someone else gets something good is a great start. I know I have spent a lot of years “reigning in my excitement” for someone else, when all that really is, is pride and comparison and me trying to say to God, “But *I* deserved that.” Very convicting!
It was a good reminder of “little ways to serve Jesus” and not comparing to the seemingly “big ways” others serve Jesus.
Highly recommend.
It’s hard to always realize when comparison is creeping in, but her points about comparison and pride keeping us from celebrating when someone else gets something good is a great start. I know I have spent a lot of years “reigning in my excitement” for someone else, when all that really is, is pride and comparison and me trying to say to God, “But *I* deserved that.” Very convicting!
It was a good reminder of “little ways to serve Jesus” and not comparing to the seemingly “big ways” others serve Jesus.
Highly recommend.
June 9, 2020
With the invention of social media, it's never been easier to compare ourselves with others. We are always struggling to be the best at something, or just be enough. We use faulty measurements and waste precious hours trying to be someone we are not.
But Shannon Popkin's "Comparison Girl" shows us how to break up with the idea of being perfect or at least as perfect as the people on our Facebook or Twitter feed. Popkin shares her struggles with us as she shows us how to deal with the various areas we use to compare ourselves with our friends, family and acquaintances on social media. We don't just compare our physical traits or our parenting skills; we also compare our sins, our finances and even our ministries.
Isn't it time we stop? "Comparison Girl" is not just a book. It's a devotional, a Bible study and a self-help book on the issue of comparison.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Kregel Publications through Audra Jennings PR. I was not required to write a review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
But Shannon Popkin's "Comparison Girl" shows us how to break up with the idea of being perfect or at least as perfect as the people on our Facebook or Twitter feed. Popkin shares her struggles with us as she shows us how to deal with the various areas we use to compare ourselves with our friends, family and acquaintances on social media. We don't just compare our physical traits or our parenting skills; we also compare our sins, our finances and even our ministries.
Isn't it time we stop? "Comparison Girl" is not just a book. It's a devotional, a Bible study and a self-help book on the issue of comparison.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Kregel Publications through Audra Jennings PR. I was not required to write a review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
July 3, 2020
"It settled my heart to know that greatness wasn't tied to a paycheck or title." ~ Shannon Popkin
For as long as I can remember, I have compared who I am to everyone else. Being raised by a mother who only strived for more, for better. I quickly learned I would never measure up. Comparison Girl shows each reader that no matter what your station in life, we each have a God given purpose. None more important than the other.
For as long as I can remember, I have compared who I am to everyone else. Being raised by a mother who only strived for more, for better. I quickly learned I would never measure up. Comparison Girl shows each reader that no matter what your station in life, we each have a God given purpose. None more important than the other.
May 28, 2020
"Wow, I will never be like her!" Do you remember thinking this about another teenage girl who had pretty hair, a perfect complexion, or a great figure? Well, the comparison game doesn't end with maturity. Adult women see other women who appear to be terrific mothers and "June Cleaver" homemakers and what happens? Comparison once again!
Most of us are guilty and author Shannon Popkin wants to help us change. Comparison Girl is a six-week Bible study based on lessons that Jesus used when he was showing his followers the evils of comparing themselves with others. Conversations and parables from Jesus are shared and Poplin uses her own experiences to inspire us to stop being a "Comparison Girl". Popkin also reminds us that it is Satan who is the ruler of the "Measure-Up World" and, by causing us to feel hurt by comparing ourselves with others, he is able to continue his attack on God. It was, after all, Satan's prideful comparison of himself to God that caused his expulsion from Heaven!
Comparison Girl encourages us to think less about ourselves by doing more for others. It is a wonderful resource that can be used individually or in a group Bible study and I highly recommend it.
I received a copy of this book from Kregel Publications but I wasn't obligated to write a positive review. These are my own thoughts.
Most of us are guilty and author Shannon Popkin wants to help us change. Comparison Girl is a six-week Bible study based on lessons that Jesus used when he was showing his followers the evils of comparing themselves with others. Conversations and parables from Jesus are shared and Poplin uses her own experiences to inspire us to stop being a "Comparison Girl". Popkin also reminds us that it is Satan who is the ruler of the "Measure-Up World" and, by causing us to feel hurt by comparing ourselves with others, he is able to continue his attack on God. It was, after all, Satan's prideful comparison of himself to God that caused his expulsion from Heaven!
Comparison Girl encourages us to think less about ourselves by doing more for others. It is a wonderful resource that can be used individually or in a group Bible study and I highly recommend it.
I received a copy of this book from Kregel Publications but I wasn't obligated to write a positive review. These are my own thoughts.
May 28, 2020
I am impressed with this study. I found it well written and very challenging. I liked the format. There are six chapters but a total of 25 lessons. One could do a chapter a week for a six week study or do a lesson a week for a longer study. Each lesson contains a Bible reading, a story illustration, a teaching from Jesus, a meditation on lesson truths, and questions for application. I would suggest having a journal near by to write down thoughts and answers to the questions.
My favorite section was the lessons involving church. One explored the gifts we are given to use in ministry. Popkin reminds us that the gifts are differences meant to unify us. Another whole chapter was devoted to women's ministries. She uses the parable of the workers coming at different times yet all getting paid the same. She notes that equality is one of the wrong assumptions we have about the Kingdom. Wow. Those were hard hitting lessons.
This is a good study encouraging us to live by kingdom standards, not the measure of the world. Popkin encourages us to get the focus off ourselves and rather focus on helping others. This is a good study and I highly recommend it.
Food for thought: “Instead of measuring ourselves against each other, let's exalt God and serve one another.” (23)
I received a complimentary digital copy of this book through Read With Audra. My comments are an independent and honest review.
My favorite section was the lessons involving church. One explored the gifts we are given to use in ministry. Popkin reminds us that the gifts are differences meant to unify us. Another whole chapter was devoted to women's ministries. She uses the parable of the workers coming at different times yet all getting paid the same. She notes that equality is one of the wrong assumptions we have about the Kingdom. Wow. Those were hard hitting lessons.
This is a good study encouraging us to live by kingdom standards, not the measure of the world. Popkin encourages us to get the focus off ourselves and rather focus on helping others. This is a good study and I highly recommend it.
Food for thought: “Instead of measuring ourselves against each other, let's exalt God and serve one another.” (23)
I received a complimentary digital copy of this book through Read With Audra. My comments are an independent and honest review.
January 13, 2024
This book provides a biblical response to a common malady among women, that of making comparisons between ourselves and other women. The author draws from Jesus's teaching on and His life example of me-free living to encourage readers to pour out rather than "measure up." This is a useful tool for self-counsel as well as for counseling other women.
November 19, 2022
Some interpretations of some Biblical passages I felt were out of context BUT as a whole this book was excellent!
August 27, 2025
3.5 Stars
Some points were helpful, convicting, and eye-opening, but others fell flat. There was one section I disagreed with as well. Grateful to study this book with a group of women at my church!
Some points were helpful, convicting, and eye-opening, but others fell flat. There was one section I disagreed with as well. Grateful to study this book with a group of women at my church!
November 11, 2022
MUST READ
May 18, 2020
Wow! This book has quickly shown me how much I compare myself to others. (It is certainly a miserable way to live, am I right?!!) I'm thankful for books like this because honestly, I want to change! Comparison Girl is helping me to see my struggles, but it is also helping me to make the necessary changes to live right and have freedom!
June 2, 2020
Are you in the habit of constantly comparing yourself to others? Do you measure your success, in part, by identifying the things you have achieved in life and assessing how they measure up to others? Do you strive to achieve perfectionism so that others will not be privy to your failures, shortcomings and inadequacies?
If so, you may be a “comparison girl”, but there’s good news – Shannon Popkin can help you break this destructive cycle!
Shannon, the popular author of Control Girl, has just released her follow-up book, Comparison Girl: Lessons From Jesus On Me-Free Living In A Measure-Up World. This easy-to-read book is full of biblical teachings that will take everything you thought you knew about comparison and turn it upside down on its head!
In this Bible study, Shannon focuses on six “red-letter” teachings of Jesus featuring Bible stories and comparisons that can help you to realign your thinking from the me-centered comparison traps of the world to the me-free mindset of Christ. As you move through the study, you’ll focus less on yourself and your inadequacies (which lead to a host of undesirable feelings and behaviors) and more on the unique gifts God has given you that you can use to serve others (which leads you to focus on others, identify their needs, and serve them with joy!)
Comparison Girl is a wonderful book to study on your own or with your friends. I appreciate Shannon’s authenticity and her transformational biblical insights into this topic!
I originally published this review on my blog. To read more of my reviews, please visit Create With Joy.
If so, you may be a “comparison girl”, but there’s good news – Shannon Popkin can help you break this destructive cycle!
Shannon, the popular author of Control Girl, has just released her follow-up book, Comparison Girl: Lessons From Jesus On Me-Free Living In A Measure-Up World. This easy-to-read book is full of biblical teachings that will take everything you thought you knew about comparison and turn it upside down on its head!
In this Bible study, Shannon focuses on six “red-letter” teachings of Jesus featuring Bible stories and comparisons that can help you to realign your thinking from the me-centered comparison traps of the world to the me-free mindset of Christ. As you move through the study, you’ll focus less on yourself and your inadequacies (which lead to a host of undesirable feelings and behaviors) and more on the unique gifts God has given you that you can use to serve others (which leads you to focus on others, identify their needs, and serve them with joy!)
Comparison Girl is a wonderful book to study on your own or with your friends. I appreciate Shannon’s authenticity and her transformational biblical insights into this topic!
I originally published this review on my blog. To read more of my reviews, please visit Create With Joy.
February 9, 2020
This book pointed out ways I didn't even realize I was comparing myself with others, and helped me think more biblically about myself and others. I appreciated the thoroughness of the content, addressing issues related to comparison that are not often talked about, but important to consider.
June 10, 2020
Comparison is a disease that infects all of us at one time or another in varying degrees. It's one of the Enemy's tools and strategies for making us stumble and sin and keeping us from being useful and fruitful for the Kingdom of God. Comparing ourselves with others either causes shame, discontent, and jealousy (feeling inferior) or pride, arrogance, and contempt (feeling superior). Either way is unhealthy and unproductive. In Comparison Girl, the author shows us there's a better way to live our lives by learning from Jesus how to be free from self-absorption in this measure-up world.
Do you struggle with not measuring up? Do you worry about how others think of you? Or do you think, "I would never..." when others make wrong choices? Do you easily find faults in others while being clueless about your own faults? This book addresses all these issues (insecurities, envy, fear, pride, arrogance, self-importance) and more. Shannon Popkin invites us women to tip our measuring cup and pour ourselves out to love and serve others like Jesus. "When I tip my measuring cup, the lines become beautifully irrelevant." (p. 31) When our focus is on Jesus, on following Him, and on how we can honor & uplift others, we are set free from the me-focused bondage and the comparison trap. It's far better (more blessed) to empty out our lives completely and love others unconditionally, selflessly, sacrificially, to serve others with humility, and give generously.
The book is convicting, eye-opening, and encouraging at the same time. It helps us readers be aware that the Enemy uses comparison to steal our peace & joy, kill our contentment & confidence, and destroy our authenticity and relationships. Comparison divides people; that's what Satan wants but not what God wants (God wants unity). The author challenges us to examine our hearts and attitudes.
While I read the book, there were several moments of "I've been there done that" :). Sometimes we even subconsciously compare ourselves with others without realizing it. The temptation to compare tends to rear its ugly head every now and then. Beware of this spiritual warfare. May we rest contentedly in Christ's righteousness and sufficient grace! May we look to Christ alone for our value, significance, and worth, instead of striving to prove them to the world!
The author effectively combines examples from the Bible, real life stories, and her own personal experiences to make her messages relatable and applicable. The book is easy to read and is packed with much-needed wisdom and insights. Comparison Girl is an excellent resource for women; it makes a great six-week Bible study for small groups or individual study. The book is divided into six main sections: From Measuring Up to Pouring Out, Comparing Your Sin and Mine, Comparing Wealth, Comparing Skin-Deep Packaging, Comparing Our Ministries, and Comparing Status. Each section contains 4-5 lessons. Each lesson includes a relevant Bible passage/story and ends with thought-provoking questions & more Bible verses that help stir us to make positive changes, Scriptures for meditation, and a prayer. I highly recommend this book to all women.
~I received a free copy of this book via Audra Jennings PR in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
Do you struggle with not measuring up? Do you worry about how others think of you? Or do you think, "I would never..." when others make wrong choices? Do you easily find faults in others while being clueless about your own faults? This book addresses all these issues (insecurities, envy, fear, pride, arrogance, self-importance) and more. Shannon Popkin invites us women to tip our measuring cup and pour ourselves out to love and serve others like Jesus. "When I tip my measuring cup, the lines become beautifully irrelevant." (p. 31) When our focus is on Jesus, on following Him, and on how we can honor & uplift others, we are set free from the me-focused bondage and the comparison trap. It's far better (more blessed) to empty out our lives completely and love others unconditionally, selflessly, sacrificially, to serve others with humility, and give generously.
The book is convicting, eye-opening, and encouraging at the same time. It helps us readers be aware that the Enemy uses comparison to steal our peace & joy, kill our contentment & confidence, and destroy our authenticity and relationships. Comparison divides people; that's what Satan wants but not what God wants (God wants unity). The author challenges us to examine our hearts and attitudes.
While I read the book, there were several moments of "I've been there done that" :). Sometimes we even subconsciously compare ourselves with others without realizing it. The temptation to compare tends to rear its ugly head every now and then. Beware of this spiritual warfare. May we rest contentedly in Christ's righteousness and sufficient grace! May we look to Christ alone for our value, significance, and worth, instead of striving to prove them to the world!
The author effectively combines examples from the Bible, real life stories, and her own personal experiences to make her messages relatable and applicable. The book is easy to read and is packed with much-needed wisdom and insights. Comparison Girl is an excellent resource for women; it makes a great six-week Bible study for small groups or individual study. The book is divided into six main sections: From Measuring Up to Pouring Out, Comparing Your Sin and Mine, Comparing Wealth, Comparing Skin-Deep Packaging, Comparing Our Ministries, and Comparing Status. Each section contains 4-5 lessons. Each lesson includes a relevant Bible passage/story and ends with thought-provoking questions & more Bible verses that help stir us to make positive changes, Scriptures for meditation, and a prayer. I highly recommend this book to all women.
~I received a free copy of this book via Audra Jennings PR in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
April 4, 2025
One of the most life-changing books outside the Bible that I have ever read.
It may not be life-changing or even necessary for those who don't struggle with comparison, but for me it revealed some hard truths about myself that no other book or person has been able to do.
I came to this book seeking relief from the almost constant bitterness and jealousy I felt towards other women who were/are having babies around me while I and my husband remain childless despite years of prayer, tears, and extensive health research and habit changes.
Little did I know that my comparison habit was with me way before we ever struggled with infertility and expanded into almost every area of my life –causing me grief, shallow relationships, and self-centered pride all along the way.
In Comparison Girl, Shannon Popkin gently, though firmly, helped me see the truth of how I have been living. She explored the topic of comparison in all areas of life: ministry, status, beauty, etc. She used excellent and relatable real-life examples and always pointed to the words of Christ to soothe, convict, and teach how to live without the burden of comparison.
Though this book was published in 2020, it was refreshingly free from the empty fluff that I see in a lot of modern non-fiction. Popkin wrote clearly and with the perfect amount of informality that still held on to proper grammar. It didn't feel like she was writing to be trendy, but to sincerely help those of us struggling with the real horrors of comparison.
Each chapter ended with discussion questions that can be done in a group or alone. I did them alone and took the extra time to write them out in a journal. Though a lot of readers may not have the time to go that far, at least taking the time to answer them out loud will help reveal a lot and bring home the message in each chapter.
Throughout the book Popkin uses a very helpful illustration of a measuring cup. She describes how we each have one and how we often compare how full ours is next to those around us. Then she shows us how the measuring lines become irrelevant when we tip our measuring cups to poor ourselves out for others –Christ being the ultimate example of one who, though has the fullest cup, tipped his completely out, focusing on the spout instead of the lines.
Popkin writes, ". . . living by the spout, not the lines, is the way Jesus reinstates our freedom, confidence, and joy." Oh, how this has already been shown to be true in my own life since reading this book and putting into practice living by the spout!
I am so thankful to Popkin for having the courage to write about this topic. And if you are reading this, Shannon, THANK YOU!
It may not be life-changing or even necessary for those who don't struggle with comparison, but for me it revealed some hard truths about myself that no other book or person has been able to do.
I came to this book seeking relief from the almost constant bitterness and jealousy I felt towards other women who were/are having babies around me while I and my husband remain childless despite years of prayer, tears, and extensive health research and habit changes.
Little did I know that my comparison habit was with me way before we ever struggled with infertility and expanded into almost every area of my life –causing me grief, shallow relationships, and self-centered pride all along the way.
In Comparison Girl, Shannon Popkin gently, though firmly, helped me see the truth of how I have been living. She explored the topic of comparison in all areas of life: ministry, status, beauty, etc. She used excellent and relatable real-life examples and always pointed to the words of Christ to soothe, convict, and teach how to live without the burden of comparison.
Though this book was published in 2020, it was refreshingly free from the empty fluff that I see in a lot of modern non-fiction. Popkin wrote clearly and with the perfect amount of informality that still held on to proper grammar. It didn't feel like she was writing to be trendy, but to sincerely help those of us struggling with the real horrors of comparison.
Each chapter ended with discussion questions that can be done in a group or alone. I did them alone and took the extra time to write them out in a journal. Though a lot of readers may not have the time to go that far, at least taking the time to answer them out loud will help reveal a lot and bring home the message in each chapter.
Throughout the book Popkin uses a very helpful illustration of a measuring cup. She describes how we each have one and how we often compare how full ours is next to those around us. Then she shows us how the measuring lines become irrelevant when we tip our measuring cups to poor ourselves out for others –Christ being the ultimate example of one who, though has the fullest cup, tipped his completely out, focusing on the spout instead of the lines.
Popkin writes, ". . . living by the spout, not the lines, is the way Jesus reinstates our freedom, confidence, and joy." Oh, how this has already been shown to be true in my own life since reading this book and putting into practice living by the spout!
I am so thankful to Popkin for having the courage to write about this topic. And if you are reading this, Shannon, THANK YOU!
May 24, 2020
In a world where we sit and compare our lives and our pictures on social media, Comparison Girl by Shannon Popkin has a message that all women would benefit from reading. So many times we are looking for those likes and shares, getting others to notice our achievements, and comparing ourselves to others around us. Popkin shares personal stories and stories from friends, as well as lessons from the Bible, to demonstrate why this behavior is self-destructive. There is a better life out there for us, and she presents this in an understandable and relatable way.
One thing that I really appreciated about this book is that it got me in my Bible. There are 30 lessons, and each lesson starts with scripture references. Following that, there are personal stories, and lessons from the Bible that tie into these verses. The lessons are only a few pages each, making it an easy to manage daily reading. Each lesson then ends with discussion/reflection questions, that usually have scripture references to look up as well. So, I felt like this book was the perfect mixture of entertainment, relatability, and scripture. I enjoyed sitting down in the evenings with my Kindle and Bible to read, study, and reflect each evening.
Some quotes that stood out to me from this book were:
“If we could see how great and pure and holy God is, we would never elevate ourselves in his presence. Instead of gossiping to God about some other sinner, we would know we need to talk to him about ourselves.”
“As a Comparison Girl who struggles with wanting to measure up, here is the question I’m learning to ask myself before I go back into the courtroom: Why does it matter so much if someone knows my sin and imperfections? Hasn’t the cross already exposed me?”
“Friends, sin is a disease that we all share. It’s terrible. It hurts everyone it touches. But you and I have found the cure! We’ve met Jesus – the one who is not defiled by our sinfulness but instead reverses it and makes us clean.”
Comparison Girl was definitely a book that with wisdom that I needed to hear at this point in my life. I would recommend it for any woman who wants to work on finding her worth in Christ, not in comparing herself to others and striving to be the best.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher, through the Read with Audra blogging program, in return for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
One thing that I really appreciated about this book is that it got me in my Bible. There are 30 lessons, and each lesson starts with scripture references. Following that, there are personal stories, and lessons from the Bible that tie into these verses. The lessons are only a few pages each, making it an easy to manage daily reading. Each lesson then ends with discussion/reflection questions, that usually have scripture references to look up as well. So, I felt like this book was the perfect mixture of entertainment, relatability, and scripture. I enjoyed sitting down in the evenings with my Kindle and Bible to read, study, and reflect each evening.
Some quotes that stood out to me from this book were:
“If we could see how great and pure and holy God is, we would never elevate ourselves in his presence. Instead of gossiping to God about some other sinner, we would know we need to talk to him about ourselves.”
“As a Comparison Girl who struggles with wanting to measure up, here is the question I’m learning to ask myself before I go back into the courtroom: Why does it matter so much if someone knows my sin and imperfections? Hasn’t the cross already exposed me?”
“Friends, sin is a disease that we all share. It’s terrible. It hurts everyone it touches. But you and I have found the cure! We’ve met Jesus – the one who is not defiled by our sinfulness but instead reverses it and makes us clean.”
Comparison Girl was definitely a book that with wisdom that I needed to hear at this point in my life. I would recommend it for any woman who wants to work on finding her worth in Christ, not in comparing herself to others and striving to be the best.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher, through the Read with Audra blogging program, in return for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
June 2, 2020
Me? A Comparison Girl? Yep. Every single day. Every single second of each day it seems. Shannon Popkin in her book Comparison Girl – Lessons from Jesus on Me-Free Living in a Measure-up World pointed it out to me vividly. In her new book, Shannon shares her Bible knowledge and God’s truth in a very easy, relatable way.
Short chapters chock full of Biblical truths show us, Comparison Girls, how to free ourselves from bondage in the areas of sin, wealth, appearance, ministries, and status. She reinforces our need to stop trying to measure up but to spend our time and resources by pouring out on others.
I found myself saying “ouch” in almost every chapter as she seemed to identify many of my struggles as a woman today in a world full of Facebook posts, filters, and airbrushed pictures. And, whether I have an over-inflated or under-inflated opinion of myself, my opinion still focuses on self.
In chapter 2, Comparing your sin and mine, she gives a great example of how we notice others’ sin and not our own at times. Shannon defines the “sin of disgust” as she shares a story of someone walking into the church and this person “doesn’t belong.” She points out that some people would choose to not sit with this individual. Just as I was reading and believing that I was one of the “good ones” who would sit with her, she prompted me to examine how I was viewing those who wouldn’t. Was I comparing down with disgust? ” We comparison girls tend to minimize our own sin of looking down on sinful people …we fail to see our contempt as sin. Each eye-roll horrified gasp, or look of disgust cast toward others is offensive to God, their Maker.” Ouch! But Wait! After she points out our shortfalls or shortcomings she recuses us with Jesus’s words in a clear Bible study with relevant questions for self-discovery and scripture leading us to resolve and renewal. Finally, each chapter closes with a pertinent scripture meditation.
This book would make a wonderful Bible study for a group of friends or a Mother/Daughter book club. I believe this information is important for women of all ages and I believe we would benefit by learning these truths sooner rather than later. I’m going to go share some notes with my 14-year-old daughter now!
My thanks to Read with Audra for a complimentary copy of this book.
I was NOT required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
Short chapters chock full of Biblical truths show us, Comparison Girls, how to free ourselves from bondage in the areas of sin, wealth, appearance, ministries, and status. She reinforces our need to stop trying to measure up but to spend our time and resources by pouring out on others.
I found myself saying “ouch” in almost every chapter as she seemed to identify many of my struggles as a woman today in a world full of Facebook posts, filters, and airbrushed pictures. And, whether I have an over-inflated or under-inflated opinion of myself, my opinion still focuses on self.
In chapter 2, Comparing your sin and mine, she gives a great example of how we notice others’ sin and not our own at times. Shannon defines the “sin of disgust” as she shares a story of someone walking into the church and this person “doesn’t belong.” She points out that some people would choose to not sit with this individual. Just as I was reading and believing that I was one of the “good ones” who would sit with her, she prompted me to examine how I was viewing those who wouldn’t. Was I comparing down with disgust? ” We comparison girls tend to minimize our own sin of looking down on sinful people …we fail to see our contempt as sin. Each eye-roll horrified gasp, or look of disgust cast toward others is offensive to God, their Maker.” Ouch! But Wait! After she points out our shortfalls or shortcomings she recuses us with Jesus’s words in a clear Bible study with relevant questions for self-discovery and scripture leading us to resolve and renewal. Finally, each chapter closes with a pertinent scripture meditation.
This book would make a wonderful Bible study for a group of friends or a Mother/Daughter book club. I believe this information is important for women of all ages and I believe we would benefit by learning these truths sooner rather than later. I’m going to go share some notes with my 14-year-old daughter now!
My thanks to Read with Audra for a complimentary copy of this book.
I was NOT required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
June 4, 2020
A few years ago, I read Shannon Popkin's first book Control Girl, which I thought was a gem. Now she's back with Comparison Girl, and once again I found this book to be just as good as her first.
Just as in the first book, I found that I was able to relate to the author herself. Yep, I do tend to compare myself with others, mind you, not as much as when I was younger. I do have more self-confidence now as a mature woman, and I don't care as much what people think. But the tendency is there.
Shannon Popkin does not shy away from talking about her own experiences. She also peppers her text with anecdotes to illustrate or drive home the point. Sometimes, I found myself laughing outright, but most of the time I found myself asking the hard questions that bring about reflection, introspection, and change. And that's a good thing because we can always improve in our worship to God and in applying Bible principles.
This book has the same layout as Control Girl. Besides being easy to read, it's formatted as a Bible study aid with questions and scriptures at the end of each lesson to read and meditate upon. This is the kind of book you need to take the time to read with pen and highlighter in hand. I read the Bible daily and have a special time of day to meditate on what I read. This book can help with that if your goal is to do more Bible reading and increase your faith.
If you are a Christian woman who struggles with comparing yourself to others, who is a perfectionist, who is always trying to measure up, or who is willing to humbly look into Bible scripture for help with these issues, this book is just what you need.
Just as in the first book, I found that I was able to relate to the author herself. Yep, I do tend to compare myself with others, mind you, not as much as when I was younger. I do have more self-confidence now as a mature woman, and I don't care as much what people think. But the tendency is there.
Shannon Popkin does not shy away from talking about her own experiences. She also peppers her text with anecdotes to illustrate or drive home the point. Sometimes, I found myself laughing outright, but most of the time I found myself asking the hard questions that bring about reflection, introspection, and change. And that's a good thing because we can always improve in our worship to God and in applying Bible principles.
This book has the same layout as Control Girl. Besides being easy to read, it's formatted as a Bible study aid with questions and scriptures at the end of each lesson to read and meditate upon. This is the kind of book you need to take the time to read with pen and highlighter in hand. I read the Bible daily and have a special time of day to meditate on what I read. This book can help with that if your goal is to do more Bible reading and increase your faith.
If you are a Christian woman who struggles with comparing yourself to others, who is a perfectionist, who is always trying to measure up, or who is willing to humbly look into Bible scripture for help with these issues, this book is just what you need.
June 21, 2020
*Disclaimer: I received an advance copy of the book “Comparison Girl” in advance to help facilitate my review. All my opinions are 100% my own.
Have you ever compared yourself to others thinking that your life isn’t as cool as theirs? I have been guilty of doing that many times thinking of how lucky someone is based on where they live, their life decisions and more. But now that I have a teenager who yes we homeschool, still compares herself to other too. I feel that no matter who we are, we will always try to compare ourselves to others. I know that when I scroll through social media it can seem like someone has their stuff together compared to myself…but what we don’t know is what is really going in their lives. Are they really as happy as they seem or is it a show for everyone else?
I received the book “Comparison Girl” in advance by Shannon Popkin and after reading it made me think, I need to stop comparing myself to others. Jesus didn’t want us to compare to everyone else, he made us all different and that’s the way it should be. I need to stop thinking that everyone else is better than me or has a better house or their life is so much more exciting than mine. I also need to remember to make sure Olivia doesn’t compare herself to others either. This book will walk you through on getting past comparing yourself and just learn to measure up to God. This book is available for purchase now and I highly suggest that you go get it. This can be for not only yourself, but for your daughter, or anyone else in the family who needs to hear this message. I will be handing it over to Olivia in the near future to read!
Have you ever compared yourself to others thinking that your life isn’t as cool as theirs? I have been guilty of doing that many times thinking of how lucky someone is based on where they live, their life decisions and more. But now that I have a teenager who yes we homeschool, still compares herself to other too. I feel that no matter who we are, we will always try to compare ourselves to others. I know that when I scroll through social media it can seem like someone has their stuff together compared to myself…but what we don’t know is what is really going in their lives. Are they really as happy as they seem or is it a show for everyone else?
I received the book “Comparison Girl” in advance by Shannon Popkin and after reading it made me think, I need to stop comparing myself to others. Jesus didn’t want us to compare to everyone else, he made us all different and that’s the way it should be. I need to stop thinking that everyone else is better than me or has a better house or their life is so much more exciting than mine. I also need to remember to make sure Olivia doesn’t compare herself to others either. This book will walk you through on getting past comparing yourself and just learn to measure up to God. This book is available for purchase now and I highly suggest that you go get it. This can be for not only yourself, but for your daughter, or anyone else in the family who needs to hear this message. I will be handing it over to Olivia in the near future to read!
May 18, 2020
This book is written on a very timeless topic for women--comparison. What one of us has not compared up or down with someone else on just about anything in life? Who among us wishes that we could tame the comparison beast?
Comparison has its helpful side and its damaging side. This book focuses on the latter. When I began the book, I didn't realize that it was a combination book/study. Each chapter has an introduction and then is divided up into 3-5 lessons. Even so, it was very relatable and reading through the lessons without stopping to answer all of the questions was not disruptive to the train of thought.
There were times in the chapters/lessons that my life perspective was the opposite or shades of different from the author's. Realizing that gave me the exercise to "see" things from another angle. This is what a group study would be like--everyone would come with a different life experience. It helps to keep that in mind!
My favorite chapter was Chapter 5, "Comparing Our Ministries"--the lesson titles really reached me where I am currently-- "Expecting More", "Lumped In as Equals", "Frustrated 'Firsts'", and "Lifting up 'Lasts'". I'm looking forward to re-reading it and thinking through it further.
I believe that this would make a great women's group study (of all ages and stages and seasons) and highly recommend it in that context or for personal reading.
Comparison has its helpful side and its damaging side. This book focuses on the latter. When I began the book, I didn't realize that it was a combination book/study. Each chapter has an introduction and then is divided up into 3-5 lessons. Even so, it was very relatable and reading through the lessons without stopping to answer all of the questions was not disruptive to the train of thought.
There were times in the chapters/lessons that my life perspective was the opposite or shades of different from the author's. Realizing that gave me the exercise to "see" things from another angle. This is what a group study would be like--everyone would come with a different life experience. It helps to keep that in mind!
My favorite chapter was Chapter 5, "Comparing Our Ministries"--the lesson titles really reached me where I am currently-- "Expecting More", "Lumped In as Equals", "Frustrated 'Firsts'", and "Lifting up 'Lasts'". I'm looking forward to re-reading it and thinking through it further.
I believe that this would make a great women's group study (of all ages and stages and seasons) and highly recommend it in that context or for personal reading.
May 19, 2020
With her relatable style and constant stream of examples of scripture, Shannon completely illuminates and unpacks a struggle that is common to women of all ages and stages--comparison. I am about halfway through Shannon's book, Comparison Girl, and highly recommend it to women of all ages. Shannon's winsome way of using relatable and honest examples from her own life and using the words of Jesus and the stories we find in scripture opens the reader's eyes to see in stark light our own tendencies to compare ourselves with others. Whether we struggle with insecurity and shame over our shortcomings, or with pride and arrogance because we feel superior, the root of the struggle is the same--an unconscious obsession with self that, at its heart, is a spiritual battle. This struggle can spill over into so many areas of life, and Shannon walks through a wide range of areas such as comparing our sin, wealth, appearance, ministry, and status. On each page of the book I can see myself and the struggles previously mostly unconscious in my own heart, and I know as I finish reading there will be more eye-opening moments for me. But the encouraging thing is that on each page Shannon points to the source of release from the comparison trap--knowing that we belong to Jesus--and the freedom of living me-free. Suitable for individual reading, book clubs, or small group studies, I highly recommend it!
June 10, 2020
When you read someone's first book and enjoy it, you tell your friends, "I love this book." When you read someone's second book and enjoy it, you say, "This was written by one of my favorite authors". That, quite frankly, is how I feel after reading Comparison Girl by Shannon Popkin.
It is so refreshing when an author is willing to share experiences from her own life that display her weaknesses, struggles, mistakes and insecurities--not in a way that makes the book about her, but rather creates an atmosphere that shows her desire to connect with you. Popkin uses biblical truths to expose Satan's lies and solidify who we are in Christ.
The layout of Comparison Girl is a chapter by chapter revealing of truth; stories taken straight from everyday life that are then examined through the eyes of Christ. The reflection and transformation as we let go of the bondage of Satan's lies comes because Scripture remains the sounding board. The personal response questions and For Meditation at the end of each chapter help the book not just be a feel-good read, but a "let's put it into action" resource.
Time to get away from the insecurities and the "keeping up withs" and get back to "Jesus's me-free way of living". And Comparison Girl is designed to help Christian women do just that.
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher, but was under no obligation to write a review. My honest opinion has been provided without any requirement to write a positive review.
It is so refreshing when an author is willing to share experiences from her own life that display her weaknesses, struggles, mistakes and insecurities--not in a way that makes the book about her, but rather creates an atmosphere that shows her desire to connect with you. Popkin uses biblical truths to expose Satan's lies and solidify who we are in Christ.
The layout of Comparison Girl is a chapter by chapter revealing of truth; stories taken straight from everyday life that are then examined through the eyes of Christ. The reflection and transformation as we let go of the bondage of Satan's lies comes because Scripture remains the sounding board. The personal response questions and For Meditation at the end of each chapter help the book not just be a feel-good read, but a "let's put it into action" resource.
Time to get away from the insecurities and the "keeping up withs" and get back to "Jesus's me-free way of living". And Comparison Girl is designed to help Christian women do just that.
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher, but was under no obligation to write a review. My honest opinion has been provided without any requirement to write a positive review.
December 7, 2025
4.5 stars
Comparison Girl was an amazing and refreshing read. Shannon Popkin writes with such warmth and honesty that it often felt like I was sitting across from a good friend, simply talking about life, faith, and the pressures we all face. Her willingness to share her own struggles made the message feel deeply relatable and helped me connect with the themes on a personal level.
I especially appreciated the way she wove biblical truth into everyday experiences. The connection between her stories and the teachings of Jesus felt natural and meaningful, offering both encouragement and conviction without coming across as heavy-handed. It was the kind of reminder I didn’t know I needed—an invitation to step away from comparison and lean into the freedom God offers.
Listening to this as an audiobook was a great experience, but it also made me realize how much richer it could be as a full study. There were so many moments I wanted to pause, take notes, or work through questions more deeply. My only regret is not reading it as a study the first time—but that’s something I hope to do in the future.
Overall, Comparison Girl is thoughtful, uplifting, and full of gentle wisdom. If you’ve ever struggled with measuring yourself against others, this book offers both practical insight and spiritual encouragement. I highly recommend it.
Comparison Girl was an amazing and refreshing read. Shannon Popkin writes with such warmth and honesty that it often felt like I was sitting across from a good friend, simply talking about life, faith, and the pressures we all face. Her willingness to share her own struggles made the message feel deeply relatable and helped me connect with the themes on a personal level.
I especially appreciated the way she wove biblical truth into everyday experiences. The connection between her stories and the teachings of Jesus felt natural and meaningful, offering both encouragement and conviction without coming across as heavy-handed. It was the kind of reminder I didn’t know I needed—an invitation to step away from comparison and lean into the freedom God offers.
Listening to this as an audiobook was a great experience, but it also made me realize how much richer it could be as a full study. There were so many moments I wanted to pause, take notes, or work through questions more deeply. My only regret is not reading it as a study the first time—but that’s something I hope to do in the future.
Overall, Comparison Girl is thoughtful, uplifting, and full of gentle wisdom. If you’ve ever struggled with measuring yourself against others, this book offers both practical insight and spiritual encouragement. I highly recommend it.
May 28, 2020
This book has been such an eye opener and so convicting. I think we all struggle with comparisons in one form or another. This is such a hard subject because everyone does it. I have to admit that some of the chapters were hard for me due to this. I found myself in so many of the authors stories. We would all be happier if we stopped comparing ourselves and loved ourselves and others like God does.
One of my favorite parts of the book is how the author talks about when she walks into a room. She used to compare herself right off to everyone, either putting herself down or others. Then she decided to walk in with a serving heart, asking herself how she can help others. This focus of of me and on others is a great way to stop comparing yourself.
Each chapter starts with a personal story, then has some scripture to read, then a lesson, and finishes with some activities or questions. You definitely want your Bible handy, a pencil and even some highlighters. This would be a great book to journal to and take notes. This would a wonderful book to do in a group or by yourself, and also terrific for tweens and teens. Make it a family study!
I received a free copy from the publisher but was not required to leave a review.
One of my favorite parts of the book is how the author talks about when she walks into a room. She used to compare herself right off to everyone, either putting herself down or others. Then she decided to walk in with a serving heart, asking herself how she can help others. This focus of of me and on others is a great way to stop comparing yourself.
Each chapter starts with a personal story, then has some scripture to read, then a lesson, and finishes with some activities or questions. You definitely want your Bible handy, a pencil and even some highlighters. This would be a great book to journal to and take notes. This would a wonderful book to do in a group or by yourself, and also terrific for tweens and teens. Make it a family study!
I received a free copy from the publisher but was not required to leave a review.
June 9, 2020
Comparison Girl takes a deep dive into the side of us that is constantly comparing. I was pleasantly surprised at how in-depth Shannon Popkin goes into digging up the root of what causes our issues in our lives. She really relies heavily on scripture to help us grow in specific areas and to help us see how these unhealthy ideas really hurt us.
The book is set up for a group study or even as a small group of friends. There are 6 main chapters with 4 sections in each chapter. It would work really well as a 6 week study! Talking about the points and ideas in the book would really help facilitate a greater amount of growth.
Shannon writes in a way that helps us realize our issues without feeling like she is judging us. I appreciate that, sometimes an author can sound like they have conquered the issue they are writing about in a way that feels judgmental, but Shannon does not come across that way, instead I feel like I am listening to a trusted friend help me work through things.
Comparison Girl is a great devotion book, and one that would really facilitate a healthier self image and a heart for others.
Note : I received a copy of Comparison Girl in exchange for an honest review.
The book is set up for a group study or even as a small group of friends. There are 6 main chapters with 4 sections in each chapter. It would work really well as a 6 week study! Talking about the points and ideas in the book would really help facilitate a greater amount of growth.
Shannon writes in a way that helps us realize our issues without feeling like she is judging us. I appreciate that, sometimes an author can sound like they have conquered the issue they are writing about in a way that feels judgmental, but Shannon does not come across that way, instead I feel like I am listening to a trusted friend help me work through things.
Comparison Girl is a great devotion book, and one that would really facilitate a healthier self image and a heart for others.
Note : I received a copy of Comparison Girl in exchange for an honest review.
May 30, 2020
Have you ever looked at your Instagram or Facebook feed and started to judge your life by what you see? Those feelings of discontent start to plague your thoughts and you begin to want more and not appreciate what is in front of you.
I’ve been that girl, that Comparison girl. I’ve wanted my family to be more organized and less messy, my marriage to be more romantic and flowers, my friendships the list goes on and on.
Then a light bulb hit as I read the pages of Comparison Girl by Shannon Popkin. I realized that I wasn’t being grateful or enjoying the beautiful life God has blessed me with.
You are not meant to be anyone else. God created you to be unique, different, and blessed. Shannon teaches Me-free living through using a measuring cup and upside down teaching unlike the world teaches.
If you like me are a Comparison Girl, this book is real, raw, honest, and takes you to the most vulnerable places bringing healing to your soul. Using stories, scripture, and honest girl talk Shannon takes you through the process to break being a comparison girl and appreciate what you’ve been blessed with.
I’ve been that girl, that Comparison girl. I’ve wanted my family to be more organized and less messy, my marriage to be more romantic and flowers, my friendships the list goes on and on.
Then a light bulb hit as I read the pages of Comparison Girl by Shannon Popkin. I realized that I wasn’t being grateful or enjoying the beautiful life God has blessed me with.
You are not meant to be anyone else. God created you to be unique, different, and blessed. Shannon teaches Me-free living through using a measuring cup and upside down teaching unlike the world teaches.
If you like me are a Comparison Girl, this book is real, raw, honest, and takes you to the most vulnerable places bringing healing to your soul. Using stories, scripture, and honest girl talk Shannon takes you through the process to break being a comparison girl and appreciate what you’ve been blessed with.
June 6, 2020
I am amazed how much I got out of this read. Not only did it help bring to light different areas where comparison can lurk and steal our joy, but how to consider and work through those emotions in a healthy, biblical way. I appreciated that it not only recognized but discussed how women can handle their emotions and ways of comparison differently based on their own personalities, and so how they need to address them may look differently as well. The author also made sure to say that not all comparison is sinful, but the heart behind it along with the voice we are listening to is what makes the difference. There was a lot of good material to ponder and mediate on in this read and I'm sure I'll be processing it long after I've finished. I would highly recommend this to any and all women. Because whether you think you might have a problem with comparison or not, you might learn something about yourself and what to do about it. I'm glad I picked up this read and am interested in reading more from this author in the future as well.
*I received a copy of this book through I Read with Audra Tours. Thoughts and opinions expressed are mine alone.
*I received a copy of this book through I Read with Audra Tours. Thoughts and opinions expressed are mine alone.
June 6, 2020
Have you ever negatively compared yourself to someone else after reading a Facebook or Instagram post, or maybe even after a conversation after church? Have you ever tried to “boost” your own self-image in the same way?
After reading this book, I’m convinced that all of us—no matter our age, economic status, appearance, family, position—are “Comparsion Girls”.
I’m also convinced that Shannon Popkin has read our thoughts about comparing ourselves to others. This is an excellent Bible study on the many ways we allow ourselves to fall into the comparison trap. Using Scripture to show us the love that God has for each one of us and our true position as believers in Him, she shows us that we should neither exalt ourselves or run ourselves down. Her personal illustrations had me thinking, “Oh, you’ve felt that way, too?”
This open look at the struggle with comparsion is both convicting and encouraging. It would be an excellent study to do with a friend or Bible study group. I’m glad I read this book. Five stars from me.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
After reading this book, I’m convinced that all of us—no matter our age, economic status, appearance, family, position—are “Comparsion Girls”.
I’m also convinced that Shannon Popkin has read our thoughts about comparing ourselves to others. This is an excellent Bible study on the many ways we allow ourselves to fall into the comparison trap. Using Scripture to show us the love that God has for each one of us and our true position as believers in Him, she shows us that we should neither exalt ourselves or run ourselves down. Her personal illustrations had me thinking, “Oh, you’ve felt that way, too?”
This open look at the struggle with comparsion is both convicting and encouraging. It would be an excellent study to do with a friend or Bible study group. I’m glad I read this book. Five stars from me.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
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