While her girlfriends complained that dating was terrible, Tam had finally found love. It didn't come easily but after dating duds and losing faith in men, she had finally understood that old school was the only way it worked. What started as a series of blog posts during her years of dating and subsequently marrying her husband, Tam became interested in creating an easy, straightforward book for her girlfriends. So many smart, single, lonely women, and they couldn't understand why. She was finally inspired to publish this book after her husband discovered her manuscript on the kitchen table. Tam had never shared her dating philosophy with him. He didn't know that while they were dating, she was working time-tested techniques on him she had learned from experience. To her surprise, he loved the book. It opened up an amazing dialogue between them that solidified the need for a book like this. You really need this book if... ...You are single and tired of it....You are dating but he won’t commit....You are not sure you want to be bothered with one more disappointing relationship but...you're a little curious. The Right Side of the Chase isn't a rule book. It is a philosophy that focuses on who you are and less about who you are trying to get. It's the value you bring that attracts the right mate to you.