I picked up this book at Drury Lane book store in Grand Marais, MN on our annual family camping trip (10 years!) (also we are from Duluth so… you know… its easy to do that haha). I picked it up while waiting for my mother to help me decide between a few picks, and immediately had to have it. While I do occasionally read memoirs, I never read travel books, and I never ever have read a travel memoir. But the cover and the title (and sub title) absolutely drew me in. I had to have it.
I devoured this book, had my mom not broken her leg and ankle on a trail cutting the trip short, I am certain I would have read this book easily in the couple days we had left. Instead it got spread out for a few weeks between…. Life.
Anyway enough complaining. I loved this book. I mean it was really wonderful. There were a few moments that I got a little irritated with repeated ideas, but in hindsight I think they were important ideas to hammer in. I loved the details and I loved Ann and Natalie. She took us on the adventure with them. Their successes were my successes, and their failures, mine too. I couldn’t help but feel triumphant in this book, many times over. It was all so easy to connect to. It is not a book about “you” but it caused me to reflect.
I loved the imagery in this book, I’ve grown up in Minnesota and spent a few years living in Ontario (and visiting other provinces throughout my life) and this imagery felt so relatable AND foreign. There are many places in this book I’ve always wanted to visit but now I have very specific locations in mind that I’ve never had before. It was all so beautiful, and heart breaking. This journey took place in 2011 and I can only imagine the environmental concerns have worsened, maybe drastically. But its heartening to know people like Ann and Natalie and many, many others are working hard to save it.
This book got me thinking about adventures I’d love to take with my boyfriend(and my best friend, but I think that would be harder to coordinate, haha). I have never had the desire to do anything beyond the casual camping trip but now? I don’t know.. now I’m craving a bigger adventure. I’ve always loved the water… its just something to think about I suppose. A much smaller version but the sights… the sights would be unimaginable. It would be worth it. Bugs though…. I really hate bugs.
Myhan- I cant be the only one who spent half the book thinking “so… where’s the dog?” I guess I just assumed they���d be two girls and a dog the whole time. I was DEFINITELY not expecting that origin story!!! In the afterward Natalie talks about being on other expeditions and the group shutting down unique or unexpected ideas and how she loved that she and Ann went along with this. Yes! Thats amazing. Ive been trying to be more open to new things for exactly this reason.
Complaints about this book? I wish it had been longer, had gone even more in depth about the camping portions, especially the two (nude apparently? Lol!) days on that island. It sounds like paradise! I want to do that! And seeing that abandoned lodge after such a killer day of canoeing! That was incredible. I loved how real Natalie got about all the people she met along the way, even if I felt a little bad for the well-meaning but potentially overbearing folks. Maybe thats why this book came out ten years later, haha!
Basically I loved this book. I will be rereading it one day. I really relate to Natalie being stressed about life after college. I hope to read this again in a time where things work out as well for me as they seemed to have for her! Will I be reading it as a Canadian Citizen? Or back in the US? Only time will tell!
I have some quotes I have to share. Normally I don’t do quotes from physical books because its such a pain in the ass, but here I had to.
“Sometimes when I get too "inside my own head" I try to simplify my surroundings. Where once I may have been thinking, "Holy crap, I don't want this dog. I feel bad telling this amazing family that there is no way we are going to take this fragile fluff ball on trail," I transitioned to thinking, "I am a woman on a canoe trip, currently in Norway House, Manitoba. A family that I've never met before is trying to convince me and my best friend to take a stray dog on a big journey." That exercise, usually paired with a deep breath, reminds me that I am both painfully insignificant and extremely lucky to be alive. That nothing matters but everything needs caring for. And that it is okay to tell the Muswagons there is no flipping way we are taking this dog out on the river!”
•Really good advice!! I need to reframe like this more often, but its something I’ve been doing lately as well.
“For two nights we lived comfortably on our very own island. We decided that clothes were not necessary. We played music and took naps in hammocks. We fished and swam and wrote poems that no one will ever read. Myhan barked for the first time at a fish flopping on a granite slope before we killed it, filleted it, and fried it for dinner.”
•I just really want to do something like this before I die.
“Ann and I had found the world to be much
more gentle and welcoming than what was typically portrayed in the news. We learned over several cups of hot chocolate that he was a musician before he went into the Air Force.”
•this is a really lovely sentiment, and something about it being followed up by hot chocolate and conversation really seals the comforting deal. It is so easy as an adult in 2022 to be afraid of the world. And I don’t want to be. Not all the time.
A fierce-looking woman approached the van and took the passports from Megan. “What were you doing in Canada?" she asked sternly. "Well, these two women just paddled all the way to Hudson
Bay! Megan exclaimed. "No shit! That's awesome!" said the agent. "Go on ahead." "We picked up a stray dog and we have a gun!" I blurted from the back seat. Ann gave me a loving but exasperated look that
said, "You can't just stay quiet for once, can you?" "Sounds like you had a great trip. Come back soon.”
•CLASSIC Canadian border crossing energy right here. I would love to say something like this someday.