3.5, not 3 and definitely not 4 stars.
As a marketing professional, I can tell you that the choice of the title is good. It is also misleading and a dangerous promise to people that could be at their wit’s end dealing with some difficult mental conditions. As a person interested in some actual CBT techniques, the book is ok, but lacking.
You need a mental health care provider, specialized in CBT and with some life experience behind them as well, to guide you through depression, anxiety, ocd, adhd, and whatever else might be happening with you. That’s if CBT is the right approach for you.
The book does not state it clear enough that you need a professional’s help. Put that thing on the cover, front and back, and disclose that every time you give advice.*
Mental health is/has to be like a high end custom made outfit, cut to order, specific for the wearer/patient. This “mental health care for all” approach in many “self-help” books, including this one, looks more like a greasy fast food meal delivered to your white cloth dinning table. Not what you ordered. Not what you were expecting. It is food, but it could cause some medical issues now and in the long term.
Yes, therapy helps, everyone. I’m of the belief that absolutely EVERYONE could benefit from mandatory 20 sessions every couple of years or so, from middle school on, if not earlier. I mean, who doesn’t have problems? Whose life is perfect? And I’m including here those that delude themselves about the one or the other, not having problems or their life being pure perfection.
But other than that, yes, stoicism comes through a bit, logic, Buddhism also, meditation too, so, it’s a bit like speaking “Vulcan”, but that’s why I like CBT.
As for the book title and conviction behind it, the idea that you can heal yourself of depression, etc., I’d have been a bit more cautious with stating it like that. The one thing that people with chronic depression DON’T need is false hope and another failed attempt at getting their life on track. They might need meds for a chemical imbalance, at least in the short run, and then an actual therapist that can monitor and help them walk the path towards better days.
Breathe, take what you can out of this book, because it does have some very good parts, and make an appointment with a therapist. I’d suggest* a full blood panel, too, especially iron, thyroid hormones and antibodies, vit D, and anything else that you know you’re needing to look at. Your depression could be a mineral/vitamin/hormone imbalance, it could be genetic or temporary, but it could be chemically caused. The therapy is needed no matter what, so book that appointment anyway.
*Oh, so here comes my disclaimer! I’m not a therapist, I’ve just studied clinical psychology and other therapies like somatic experiencing, etc., stoicism (the Marcus Aurelius and the Ryan Holiday version), Buddhism, yoga, etc., for the past 25 years, with a degree in psy. But, I’m not a therapist, so please, do yourself a favor, and CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL, a medical doctor for the blood panel, and a psychologist/therapist for the reasons behind depression, anxiety, etc., etc..
Good luck.