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Before You Leave: For College, Career, and Eternity
Can we trust the Bible, or has it been distorted over the centuries? If Christians believe that the Bible contains the very words of Almighty God, why have most never read it cover to cover or made it part of their daily lives? How did we get the Bible? How should one respond to legitimate criticism?Everyone believes something when it comes to religion. Atheists believe there is no God. Atheists are not unreasonable, they are just arguing from a different starting point. How should we think about atheism?Are angels and demons real, or just a Hollywood invention? If the devil exists, why do so few Christians hear or talk about such a creature? Are heaven and hell real, eternal destinations? How could a loving God allow anyone to end up in hell?Does prayer work? Why and how should one pray?Drawing on scripture, trusted theologians, historical references, and cutting-edge conversations, Before You Leave was written to help you understand and discuss challenging and essential questions of faith.
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November 24, 2020
I loved my first read-through of this book. Over the last year I have been really burnt out on books like this and with everything going on in the world I think this book is a great way to have conversations about some of these issues. I never got the feeling that I was being armed to go to battle someone who thought differently than I did. I got the feeling that I was being equipped to listen to someone struggling and have a conversation with them. I loved how conversational the book felt and, from my experience, it's rare to get a book like this and feel comfortable enough to give it to someone who may not believe the same way I do because Todd welcomes the questions with compassion. I feel like we need a little more forbearance with anyone who is struggling with these questions and the way this book was written allows for patience and grace.
Todd also does a wonderful job laying the foundation for someone to go further in their own research down these paths if they need/want to. I loved that he provided sources for further study because there have been plenty of high profile people "leaving" their Christianity this year and I just found myself wishing they had picked up a copy of this book first.
If you have questions or if you want to feel better equipped to have conversations, in love, with someone who may be struggling with some of these topics PLEASE grab a copy. #noregrets
Todd also does a wonderful job laying the foundation for someone to go further in their own research down these paths if they need/want to. I loved that he provided sources for further study because there have been plenty of high profile people "leaving" their Christianity this year and I just found myself wishing they had picked up a copy of this book first.
If you have questions or if you want to feel better equipped to have conversations, in love, with someone who may be struggling with some of these topics PLEASE grab a copy. #noregrets
December 13, 2021
In the fact-facing book, Before You Leave for College, Career, and Eternity by Dr. Todd von Helms, the reader is quickly welcomed into a conversation concerning modern American Christianity. The author includes the reader into a glimpse of his life growing up and his eye-awaking experience being submersed into the college lifestyle. At college, Dr. von Helms experience many drastic changes, as most experience when leaving home for the first time. The community was no longer Christ-center, yet he built a closer relationship with the Lord through the challenges he faced. Throughout the book, the reader is taken through a journey of the author's life, which can often be related to. Dr. von Helms writes in a way that un-forcibly invites Christians, atheists, and other religions alike to learn about Christianity truly: the accuracy of the Bible, interactions with Atheism, Spiritual beings, eternity, and purposeful relationships with God.
Dr. von Helms explains the Bible in a thorough yet concise way for those interested in learning more about Christianity and even for those who are Christians. He starts by making an important point: not taking the Bible out of context (20). Moreover, through his experiences at the University of Texas in Austin, he demonstrates why it is crucial to respect others regardless of their views on your religion; because they might make you have a stronger relationship with Christ. Gradually, the author moved to the context of God's Word and the different perspectives upon it. The reader is invited to take a look at the "Problematic Passages" and witness how foreign Spiritual Leaders have worked with them, some openly preaching about their undivinely-inspired nature, whereas others have steered away from this controversial topic. Lastly, throughout Dr. von Helms's entire book, he encourages the reader to interact with the text and see what he speaks of.
He continues to speak about relationships with atheists and how we should view them. Dr. von Helms reminds us that, like Christians, they have their beliefs because of an occurrence in their past, so we should be gentle and act with respect if sharing our beliefs. As well as make sure we are not using scripture out of context. I appreciate that the author took the time to speak on atheism and other religions. I have an atheistic friend with whom I often have conversations about our beliefs. This book provides a good structure for us to speak on during our next discussion since it is constructive yet to the point and does not offend any specific system.
The main subject that stood out to me was the Spiritual chapter, which was helpful and encouraging. He spoke of how modern American Christianity often shies away from the topic of the spiritual realms and beings. This is disappointing as these are aspects are intertwined with the faith. Dr. von Helms speaks on how since we are not teaching or being taught about them, we continually allow Hollywood to push their view on us. So, we should learn, speak, and teach these subjects instead (114).
The subjects of spiritual beings in our religion are rarely spoken of, so much so I can remember four conversations I have had on them in the last eight years. This subject is fascinating, yet; it is often ignored. I believe it is rarely spoken of for two reasons: we are not sure what is correct, and we do not want to make the conversation awkward by bringing up spiritual beings. All four times this subject has arose pertained to almost a similar topic, and I have been truthful each time, saying, "yes I believe they are real," however, most of the time, I receive an unexpected response from my friend since they do not seem to believe fully. Therefore, I found this chapter useful as it felt like a conversation and allowed me to see the author's view. In addition to this discussion, I thought it was informative on spiritual warfare and the difference between evil versus bad.
Before You Leave for College, Career, and Eternity by Dr. Todd von Helms is informative for Christians and non-believers alike. It is filled with essential details while feeling more like a conversation or lecture where beliefs are not being forced, but it helps the reader understand more about Christianity and their life. This is a reliable book to return to for reference because of the detail, user interactions, and conversations over spiritual warfare and begins. I would have also enjoyed additional information over communication with others surrounding spiritual warfare and begins.
Dr. von Helms explains the Bible in a thorough yet concise way for those interested in learning more about Christianity and even for those who are Christians. He starts by making an important point: not taking the Bible out of context (20). Moreover, through his experiences at the University of Texas in Austin, he demonstrates why it is crucial to respect others regardless of their views on your religion; because they might make you have a stronger relationship with Christ. Gradually, the author moved to the context of God's Word and the different perspectives upon it. The reader is invited to take a look at the "Problematic Passages" and witness how foreign Spiritual Leaders have worked with them, some openly preaching about their undivinely-inspired nature, whereas others have steered away from this controversial topic. Lastly, throughout Dr. von Helms's entire book, he encourages the reader to interact with the text and see what he speaks of.
He continues to speak about relationships with atheists and how we should view them. Dr. von Helms reminds us that, like Christians, they have their beliefs because of an occurrence in their past, so we should be gentle and act with respect if sharing our beliefs. As well as make sure we are not using scripture out of context. I appreciate that the author took the time to speak on atheism and other religions. I have an atheistic friend with whom I often have conversations about our beliefs. This book provides a good structure for us to speak on during our next discussion since it is constructive yet to the point and does not offend any specific system.
The main subject that stood out to me was the Spiritual chapter, which was helpful and encouraging. He spoke of how modern American Christianity often shies away from the topic of the spiritual realms and beings. This is disappointing as these are aspects are intertwined with the faith. Dr. von Helms speaks on how since we are not teaching or being taught about them, we continually allow Hollywood to push their view on us. So, we should learn, speak, and teach these subjects instead (114).
The subjects of spiritual beings in our religion are rarely spoken of, so much so I can remember four conversations I have had on them in the last eight years. This subject is fascinating, yet; it is often ignored. I believe it is rarely spoken of for two reasons: we are not sure what is correct, and we do not want to make the conversation awkward by bringing up spiritual beings. All four times this subject has arose pertained to almost a similar topic, and I have been truthful each time, saying, "yes I believe they are real," however, most of the time, I receive an unexpected response from my friend since they do not seem to believe fully. Therefore, I found this chapter useful as it felt like a conversation and allowed me to see the author's view. In addition to this discussion, I thought it was informative on spiritual warfare and the difference between evil versus bad.
Before You Leave for College, Career, and Eternity by Dr. Todd von Helms is informative for Christians and non-believers alike. It is filled with essential details while feeling more like a conversation or lecture where beliefs are not being forced, but it helps the reader understand more about Christianity and their life. This is a reliable book to return to for reference because of the detail, user interactions, and conversations over spiritual warfare and begins. I would have also enjoyed additional information over communication with others surrounding spiritual warfare and begins.
December 13, 2020
I read every page of this book and, though it covers a wide range of topics, the most consistent (and most valuable) theme throughout is the indispensability of Christian humility. Todd von Helms is a rigorous thinker, theologian and apologist, but unlike so many ham-fisted Bible-heads armed with a host of cocky platitudes, his knowledge is tempered with the understanding that he doesn’t know it all—and that’s okay (for now). This is precisely the kind of intellectual honesty that Christian young people (in particular) need to see in their leaders right now—especially those headed off to college. The usual Christian clichés ring hollow in the hostile lecture halls of academia guarded by professors who are experts and scholars in their fields. It’s not enough to merely dismiss these critics as godless intellectuals who have turned their back on faith.
Von Helms is prepared and puts into practice 1 Peter 3:15 by giving an answer for the hope that is within him with gentleness and respect—not with lazy, mean-spirited ad hominem attacks or fideistic appeals to “because the Bible says so” or “you just have to have faith.” In fact, he leaves room for the paradoxical reality of doubt as an inescapable part of the Christian faith. Against the saccharine quality of many titles in the “Christian Living” category, Von Helms argues convincingly from scripture and history that doubt and the struggle with disbelief has plagued most disciples, saints, theologians, and preachers from the beginning. And so why would it be any different for us? This resonates with the Christian experience of young people entering college and adult life when confronted with new arguments and evidence against the faith of one’s childhood—critiques never encountered before. It helps them to know that they aren’t faithless or even crazy for feeling the way they do in whatever hostile environment they find themselves. In fact, they’re a perfectly normal member of the Christian Hall of Faith.
Before You Leave does not attempt to provide all the answers (nor could it) but assures the reader that “there are good, reasonable responses to each objection,” without appeal to empty promises. At the same time, Von Helms doesn’t ignore or hide from the most powerful criticisms of Christianity and the Bible. Much to the contrary, Von Helms’ approach instills confidence in the face of uncertainty, which (I believe) produces unflappable young believers who are humble enough to admit their inexperience and ignorance without flinching in the face of adversity. Von Helms doesn’t dismiss arguments against Christianity, in fact he admits that oftentimes these criticisms are understandable or even warranted—especially when such when caused by poor Christian witness or abuse. It may be an unpopular admission in certain circles that some skeptics have reasonable criticisms, but doing so recognizes our shared human fallibility and the imago Dei in every believer and nonbeliever alike. It acknowledges the dignity of the nonbeliever as God’s creation and honestly empathizes with our own intellectual and existential struggles—the dark nights of the soul that never see the light of day in our happy, shiny Sunday school classes and Bible studies.
Von Helms also recognizes the dignity of the nonbeliever’s stated positions and research, partly because this author has worked and studied among nonbelievers, skeptics and even opponents of Christianity who are also rigorous scholars. Unlike so many pastors and Christian personalities who churn out bold rhetoric from the safety of their insulated pulpits, Von Helms works on the front lines. If he were to dismiss or misrepresent the arguments of his detractors as mere straw man, he would have to face his colleagues personally.
Von Helms has woven the theme of humility throughout this work, but he also strikes a proper balance. “I don’t know” is a perfectly acceptable but impermanent solution—never a posture—of the Christian mindset toward ignorance and inexperience, because doubt grows most vigorously and perniciously when nagging questions are not rigorously engaged, ignored, or even disguised (as faith) by the believer/doubter. Overall, this a great book for those who hope to set a young believer (or an old believer with a new commitment to deeper things) on a proper trajectory toward a higher, deeper, wider Christian faith.
Mark Allen, PhD
Senior Lecturer
Southern Methodist University
Dallas, TX
Von Helms is prepared and puts into practice 1 Peter 3:15 by giving an answer for the hope that is within him with gentleness and respect—not with lazy, mean-spirited ad hominem attacks or fideistic appeals to “because the Bible says so” or “you just have to have faith.” In fact, he leaves room for the paradoxical reality of doubt as an inescapable part of the Christian faith. Against the saccharine quality of many titles in the “Christian Living” category, Von Helms argues convincingly from scripture and history that doubt and the struggle with disbelief has plagued most disciples, saints, theologians, and preachers from the beginning. And so why would it be any different for us? This resonates with the Christian experience of young people entering college and adult life when confronted with new arguments and evidence against the faith of one’s childhood—critiques never encountered before. It helps them to know that they aren’t faithless or even crazy for feeling the way they do in whatever hostile environment they find themselves. In fact, they’re a perfectly normal member of the Christian Hall of Faith.
Before You Leave does not attempt to provide all the answers (nor could it) but assures the reader that “there are good, reasonable responses to each objection,” without appeal to empty promises. At the same time, Von Helms doesn’t ignore or hide from the most powerful criticisms of Christianity and the Bible. Much to the contrary, Von Helms’ approach instills confidence in the face of uncertainty, which (I believe) produces unflappable young believers who are humble enough to admit their inexperience and ignorance without flinching in the face of adversity. Von Helms doesn’t dismiss arguments against Christianity, in fact he admits that oftentimes these criticisms are understandable or even warranted—especially when such when caused by poor Christian witness or abuse. It may be an unpopular admission in certain circles that some skeptics have reasonable criticisms, but doing so recognizes our shared human fallibility and the imago Dei in every believer and nonbeliever alike. It acknowledges the dignity of the nonbeliever as God’s creation and honestly empathizes with our own intellectual and existential struggles—the dark nights of the soul that never see the light of day in our happy, shiny Sunday school classes and Bible studies.
Von Helms also recognizes the dignity of the nonbeliever’s stated positions and research, partly because this author has worked and studied among nonbelievers, skeptics and even opponents of Christianity who are also rigorous scholars. Unlike so many pastors and Christian personalities who churn out bold rhetoric from the safety of their insulated pulpits, Von Helms works on the front lines. If he were to dismiss or misrepresent the arguments of his detractors as mere straw man, he would have to face his colleagues personally.
Von Helms has woven the theme of humility throughout this work, but he also strikes a proper balance. “I don’t know” is a perfectly acceptable but impermanent solution—never a posture—of the Christian mindset toward ignorance and inexperience, because doubt grows most vigorously and perniciously when nagging questions are not rigorously engaged, ignored, or even disguised (as faith) by the believer/doubter. Overall, this a great book for those who hope to set a young believer (or an old believer with a new commitment to deeper things) on a proper trajectory toward a higher, deeper, wider Christian faith.
Mark Allen, PhD
Senior Lecturer
Southern Methodist University
Dallas, TX
November 20, 2020
First things first, and rightly so, is chapter 1 – “Bible Matters.” Von Helms does an excellent and amazingly concise report on how we got our modern Bible translations, but furthermore, why it can be viewed as reliable, trustworthy, authoritative, and yes, even scientific. Unlike the criticisms given by the average agnostic or atheist on the street, the Bible is not a book thrown together by a handful of quacks over the years, but arguably, rather the most verifiable ancient text in print today as Von Helms details quite succinctly.
With the popularity of atheism rising, Von Helms addresses quite well how this intersects both with those of the Christian faith and with those who oppose it or anything supernatural. It is refreshing to see a Christian author deal with New Atheism respectfully and critically, not dismissively or casually.
Chapters 3 and 4 on Satan and hell, respectively, are a bold move by Von Helms to put in this book. I applaud him for that. And it seems so relevant, what with the incessant releases from Hollywood and TV shows about the demonic and afterlife, Von Helms tackles these head on. And for that I give him kudos, in that so many seem to be afraid to even speak of such things, and those that do, are on a local channel at 1am, have funny hair, wear way too much jewelry and mascara, and make the world of the spiritual realm a mockery. But, Von Helms plays it straight down the middle, truthfully acknowledging the biblical and experiential evidence, but also the points of view from skeptics.
Chapter 5 was my favorite, and that was a tough choice as I liked all the chapters. Prayer is spotty at best in my life as I struggle in my faith, yet the tenor and substance of this chapter lit a fire in me to commune with God more, for God wants to hear and talk to me more than I can imagine. His own personal story lets me know he is an author who is authentic, not looking to capitalize on making money or conning clueless Christians. He seems very genuine and boy do we need more of that in Christendom today!
This book is terrific for anyone of any age, though I understand Von Helms wrote this book for his target audience of high school and college-aged kids. I am neither, and received much benefit from his thorough research, the many sources, the ease of prose in his conversational style, the humorous references sprinkled throughout, and his openness about his own journey and those to whom he is close.
With the popularity of atheism rising, Von Helms addresses quite well how this intersects both with those of the Christian faith and with those who oppose it or anything supernatural. It is refreshing to see a Christian author deal with New Atheism respectfully and critically, not dismissively or casually.
Chapters 3 and 4 on Satan and hell, respectively, are a bold move by Von Helms to put in this book. I applaud him for that. And it seems so relevant, what with the incessant releases from Hollywood and TV shows about the demonic and afterlife, Von Helms tackles these head on. And for that I give him kudos, in that so many seem to be afraid to even speak of such things, and those that do, are on a local channel at 1am, have funny hair, wear way too much jewelry and mascara, and make the world of the spiritual realm a mockery. But, Von Helms plays it straight down the middle, truthfully acknowledging the biblical and experiential evidence, but also the points of view from skeptics.
Chapter 5 was my favorite, and that was a tough choice as I liked all the chapters. Prayer is spotty at best in my life as I struggle in my faith, yet the tenor and substance of this chapter lit a fire in me to commune with God more, for God wants to hear and talk to me more than I can imagine. His own personal story lets me know he is an author who is authentic, not looking to capitalize on making money or conning clueless Christians. He seems very genuine and boy do we need more of that in Christendom today!
This book is terrific for anyone of any age, though I understand Von Helms wrote this book for his target audience of high school and college-aged kids. I am neither, and received much benefit from his thorough research, the many sources, the ease of prose in his conversational style, the humorous references sprinkled throughout, and his openness about his own journey and those to whom he is close.
February 6, 2021
As the father of three soon-to-be-college-bound teenage daughters, and as someone who has served for the past decade as a confirmation mentor, I was thrilled to read Dr. Von Helms’ book, and excited to share it with my children—and nieces and nephews and children of friends. I’ve forwarded the Amazon link to literally dozens of parents of high-school and college-age students. Why? Because it gives Christians the tools to better understand and better articulate their faith in the contemporary environment—a vital set of tools especially for young Christians moving out of the home into the post-Christian, secularized world.
Before You Leave addresses many of the serious questions every Christian will face—directly, honestly, and entertainingly. Why do so many young Christian come home from a first or second year of college seemingly more confused about their faith than before they left? Because for many, their Christian instruction ended just at the age when they were old enough to start thinking about the more complicated aspects of Christianity. It is a sad irony that for many, confirmation, which should be the beginning of a deeper faith exploration, seems to end it. This is just where Dr. Von Helms can help: his book says, Yes, there are some tricky bits to Christianity, and it’s not only okay to ask the tough questions, it’s vital to your spiritual maturity that you do.
But Before You Leave is not simply a revamped discussion of classic Christian questions—Can the Bible be trusted? Is it historical? What role does the Bible play in the daily life of the believer? Does prayer really matter if you don’t feel as if anyone is listening? Yes, Dr. Von Helms answers these and similar questions with well-researched and accessible explanations, but then he asks the student if they had thought about the next question, and the next. And he does so, at times, within the context his own experiences as an undergraduate facing the reality of realizing—after confidently raising his hand to volunteer in class—that he hadn’t actually thought through the issue. Dr. Von Helms is refreshingly self-deprecating. Great read!
Before You Leave addresses many of the serious questions every Christian will face—directly, honestly, and entertainingly. Why do so many young Christian come home from a first or second year of college seemingly more confused about their faith than before they left? Because for many, their Christian instruction ended just at the age when they were old enough to start thinking about the more complicated aspects of Christianity. It is a sad irony that for many, confirmation, which should be the beginning of a deeper faith exploration, seems to end it. This is just where Dr. Von Helms can help: his book says, Yes, there are some tricky bits to Christianity, and it’s not only okay to ask the tough questions, it’s vital to your spiritual maturity that you do.
But Before You Leave is not simply a revamped discussion of classic Christian questions—Can the Bible be trusted? Is it historical? What role does the Bible play in the daily life of the believer? Does prayer really matter if you don’t feel as if anyone is listening? Yes, Dr. Von Helms answers these and similar questions with well-researched and accessible explanations, but then he asks the student if they had thought about the next question, and the next. And he does so, at times, within the context his own experiences as an undergraduate facing the reality of realizing—after confidently raising his hand to volunteer in class—that he hadn’t actually thought through the issue. Dr. Von Helms is refreshingly self-deprecating. Great read!
December 5, 2020
After reading this book, I think it's a great resource for high schoolers entering college. I wish I would have read something like this myself before I left my Christian school and went to a public university fifteen years ago. But it's not just a good book for teens or for a graduation present (although I'm sure there will and should be a lot of times this book will be given as a graduation present). There's a lot from this book I'll use myself in pastoral ministry as a quick reference for years to come. One of the highlights is how Von Helms shows the practical importance of church history-- especially for those who are in traditions that don't emphasize or discuss church history. And his section on text criticism is gold.
One of the things that I found most helpful is that there's not only good content, but an emphasis to have a gracious posture towards those who disagree, especially with non-Christians. Seems like it should be obvious, but it has been lost on many evangelicals today, we are not called to a "culture war" but to the mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ. If the kingdom of God is one of grace and forgiveness, repentance and faith in the God-Man who went to a cross for his enemies, why are Christians in the U.S. known as being so confrontational and hostile? Where's the grace? That's something Von Helms helps us with, and I think that might be his most important contribution from this book. With things in the U.S. so polarized and tribalism escalating, Von Helm's book shows us what it means to be full of grace and truth. Von Helm's own gracious postures comes across so clearly while at the same time he doesn't shy away from hard questions and difficult topics.
One of the things that I found most helpful is that there's not only good content, but an emphasis to have a gracious posture towards those who disagree, especially with non-Christians. Seems like it should be obvious, but it has been lost on many evangelicals today, we are not called to a "culture war" but to the mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ. If the kingdom of God is one of grace and forgiveness, repentance and faith in the God-Man who went to a cross for his enemies, why are Christians in the U.S. known as being so confrontational and hostile? Where's the grace? That's something Von Helms helps us with, and I think that might be his most important contribution from this book. With things in the U.S. so polarized and tribalism escalating, Von Helm's book shows us what it means to be full of grace and truth. Von Helm's own gracious postures comes across so clearly while at the same time he doesn't shy away from hard questions and difficult topics.
November 13, 2020
Adapted from my review on Amazon:
As a professor of New Testament I recognize how much being confident of the reliability of the New Testament specifically, and the Bible in general, is to providing a solid ground for young people regarding other challenging issues they will face. I spend time in my classes demonstrating that reliability. Because quite frankly if the New Testament is in doubt, there is nothing left to offer the reasons for the worldview Christians have. Skeptics, knowing that, will seek to undermine that reliability or to cast doubts in the minds of believers in that regard. The fact is many skeptics misrepresent information about the New Testament. If Christians (young and adult alike) were equipped with the necessary information, they would be able to address the challenges of skeptics and perhaps even their own doubts. Von Helms himself faced and overcame these challenges in his own college experience.
Thus, he begins with an excellent chapter showing readers there is every confidence to trust the content and message of the New Testament. From there he is able to give the needed foundation for his chapters on belief in God, the reality of Satan and hell, and the blessing that comes from prayer.
This is a resource for students and parents alike. I would recommend that parents and their students read through this book together and then thoughtfully and openly discuss the questions at the end of each chapter. I bought this book for each of my children, one a recent college graduate beginning his career, another a student at a public university, and the third a freshman at a Christian institution.
As a professor of New Testament I recognize how much being confident of the reliability of the New Testament specifically, and the Bible in general, is to providing a solid ground for young people regarding other challenging issues they will face. I spend time in my classes demonstrating that reliability. Because quite frankly if the New Testament is in doubt, there is nothing left to offer the reasons for the worldview Christians have. Skeptics, knowing that, will seek to undermine that reliability or to cast doubts in the minds of believers in that regard. The fact is many skeptics misrepresent information about the New Testament. If Christians (young and adult alike) were equipped with the necessary information, they would be able to address the challenges of skeptics and perhaps even their own doubts. Von Helms himself faced and overcame these challenges in his own college experience.
Thus, he begins with an excellent chapter showing readers there is every confidence to trust the content and message of the New Testament. From there he is able to give the needed foundation for his chapters on belief in God, the reality of Satan and hell, and the blessing that comes from prayer.
This is a resource for students and parents alike. I would recommend that parents and their students read through this book together and then thoughtfully and openly discuss the questions at the end of each chapter. I bought this book for each of my children, one a recent college graduate beginning his career, another a student at a public university, and the third a freshman at a Christian institution.
November 13, 2020
Before You Leave is a book that I have seen my dad work on for many years. After finishing it, I am pleased to see all the time he’s spent over the years working on it has paid off. This book is perfect for anyone, skeptics of Christianity to longtime Christians. I cannot highly recommend it enough, it covers so much ground for 238 pages. I highly recommend.
Bible Matters: The first chapter of the book it goes over the history of the Bible. How it was put together. How we know it is reliable and not twisted from outside forces. The chapter is one of the longest in the book but a great read on the history of the Bible.
Rejecting God: This was personally one of my favorite chapters, it discussed atheism. Why people choose to follow it. The new-atheism vs. the old and the new atheists such as Daniel Dennett, Richard Dawkins, Sam Harris, and Christopher Hitchens.
Speak of the Devil: This chapter is very eye opening and I feel is the hardest to read. For it discusses the devil a figure in Christianity rarely depicted in our times as well as talked about. It also discusses the spiritual realm.
What the Hell?: A chapter about hell. What is hell? How do people end up there? Why such a place exists and why it is important to understand it.
Talking to God: This chapter was most helpful to me as I had never really taken prayer that seriously. But after reading the chapter it guided me on the ways to pray and how to pray.
Before You Leave (Conclusion) A phenomenal mic drop ending.
Bible Matters: The first chapter of the book it goes over the history of the Bible. How it was put together. How we know it is reliable and not twisted from outside forces. The chapter is one of the longest in the book but a great read on the history of the Bible.
Rejecting God: This was personally one of my favorite chapters, it discussed atheism. Why people choose to follow it. The new-atheism vs. the old and the new atheists such as Daniel Dennett, Richard Dawkins, Sam Harris, and Christopher Hitchens.
Speak of the Devil: This chapter is very eye opening and I feel is the hardest to read. For it discusses the devil a figure in Christianity rarely depicted in our times as well as talked about. It also discusses the spiritual realm.
What the Hell?: A chapter about hell. What is hell? How do people end up there? Why such a place exists and why it is important to understand it.
Talking to God: This chapter was most helpful to me as I had never really taken prayer that seriously. But after reading the chapter it guided me on the ways to pray and how to pray.
Before You Leave (Conclusion) A phenomenal mic drop ending.
November 27, 2020
Todd Von Helms has written an incredible resource for both students and adults alike. I wish I had read this book before going to college, but it is not just a great graduation present. It is a great book for anyone, no matter where you are in your life's journey, who wants to understand more about such controversial topics as Atheism, the Devil and the authenticity of the Bible.
Dr. Von Helms addresses each of this topics with Biblical truth while maintaining a gracious posture to those who may disagree. It is hard to write a book on these topics that combines both truth and humility in a way that you will feel comfortable enough to give it to someone who does not believe the same way you do. Von Helms addresses the tough questions in a truthful, winsome, and compassionate way.
I was especially appreciative of the great information contained in Chapter 1 - “Bible Matters.” The chapter provides a concise, easy-to-understand summary of how we got our modern Bible translations and why the Bible can be viewed as reliable, authoritative and trustworthy. I learned a lot and wish I had read this prior to going to college because I would have been much better prepared to take on the challenges posed to the Bible by agnostic/atheist professors.
Thank you, Dr. Von Helms, for creating a great resource for Christian students and parents and one that I will be giving as a gift for years to come.
Dr. Von Helms addresses each of this topics with Biblical truth while maintaining a gracious posture to those who may disagree. It is hard to write a book on these topics that combines both truth and humility in a way that you will feel comfortable enough to give it to someone who does not believe the same way you do. Von Helms addresses the tough questions in a truthful, winsome, and compassionate way.
I was especially appreciative of the great information contained in Chapter 1 - “Bible Matters.” The chapter provides a concise, easy-to-understand summary of how we got our modern Bible translations and why the Bible can be viewed as reliable, authoritative and trustworthy. I learned a lot and wish I had read this prior to going to college because I would have been much better prepared to take on the challenges posed to the Bible by agnostic/atheist professors.
Thank you, Dr. Von Helms, for creating a great resource for Christian students and parents and one that I will be giving as a gift for years to come.
January 9, 2021
I wish every Christian parent would read this when their kids are in elementary school, and I wish every high school student would read this by the end of their junior year. Parents need to read it while their kids are younger so they can focus on things to teach and discuss while they still have plenty of years with their kids at home. Students need to read it before their senior year to help them start preparing for life after high school. It doesn’t matter if they attend a Christian college or a state school, they will be faced with hard questions that go to the core of their faith no matter where they are.
The author covers several key topics and does a good job with them, but there was even more I wish he had touched on. But I think his underlying premise is that many students don’t know what they really believe or how to articulate it when faced with questions or opposition. Too many times they ride the coattails of their parents’ faith and leave home not being able to stand on their own.
But honestly many parents may also struggle with what their own responses would be to those same questions, so this book is just as useful for adults as it is for students.
The author covers several key topics and does a good job with them, but there was even more I wish he had touched on. But I think his underlying premise is that many students don’t know what they really believe or how to articulate it when faced with questions or opposition. Too many times they ride the coattails of their parents’ faith and leave home not being able to stand on their own.
But honestly many parents may also struggle with what their own responses would be to those same questions, so this book is just as useful for adults as it is for students.
March 2, 2024
A must read by anyone who would like to become better equipped in the foundational topics of Christianity. I find myself going back to this treasured resource since I purchased it in 2020. Dr. von Helms writes in a clear, understandable tone which can be easily comprehended by all ages. He packs so much wisdom and insight into this book and has me wishing for an expanded edition to cover additional areas. Other reviews have detailed the specific topics covered and how well researched they are presented. To which I fully agree! However, I am also drawn to his heart for wanting this truth to be grasped by those that read this book. From the introduction onward, you can tell this is more than an academic pursuit. He wants the reader to have a transformed life too. Desiring they move from simply affirming "what" they should believe (or have been told to believe) to having them gain insight into the "why" as well. Dr. von Helms addresses the head and the heart at the same time and this is often a rarity in books covering this subject matter. Which makes this book, in my opinion, a book for the ages to be read by all ages.
November 22, 2020
Ages 17-30 are crucial years in the life of a Christ follower. As young men and women of faith emerge from the cocoon of their parental and faith communities, some will face abundant life opportunities. But most will face an onslaught of challenges that will test their most basic understandings and assumptions regarding God.
Todd Von Helms has compiled an extremely readable summary of great insights into the worthiness of following Christ. Clear and compelling, Before You Leave is a must read for any Christ follower stepping into the new the season of adulthood. Extremely well documented, and accompanied by a Who’s Who of endorsements, this book will both bolster and embolden the child of God. From the reliability and veracity of Scripture to explaining the difference between bad and evil, Todd provides passionate spiritual fortification to help any believer withstand the attacks of those intent on tearing down the faith once delivered to the saints.
What a tremendous and timely gift to share with your friends and family this Christmas season.
Todd Von Helms has compiled an extremely readable summary of great insights into the worthiness of following Christ. Clear and compelling, Before You Leave is a must read for any Christ follower stepping into the new the season of adulthood. Extremely well documented, and accompanied by a Who’s Who of endorsements, this book will both bolster and embolden the child of God. From the reliability and veracity of Scripture to explaining the difference between bad and evil, Todd provides passionate spiritual fortification to help any believer withstand the attacks of those intent on tearing down the faith once delivered to the saints.
What a tremendous and timely gift to share with your friends and family this Christmas season.
January 20, 2022
Adulthood! What an adventure! I am reminded of the old adage, “Too soon old and too late smart!” Proverbs 3:5-6; 4:1-7 are the prescriptions for this malady. But for many students, the “too late smart” becomes the reality for bad decisions based on faulty assumptions and erroneous instruction. Adulthood enforces the simple reality that decisions have consequences, whether joyful and therapeutic or painful and destructive.
Before You Leave, by Todd von Helms, is a life primer, a refresher course on the Biblical teachings, moral absolutes, faith underpinnings, spiritual disciplines, and relationship skills that enable a person to live with wisdom.
I have come to the opinion that the most important question that students can ask themselves when encountering any decision, dilemma, dogma, temptation, or threat is, “Why?” Before You Leave is a helpful and oftentimes necessary reference guide for the student wanting to live a life of wisdom and consequence in a way that is clear-eyed and responsive to God’s leadership.
Before You Leave, by Todd von Helms, is a life primer, a refresher course on the Biblical teachings, moral absolutes, faith underpinnings, spiritual disciplines, and relationship skills that enable a person to live with wisdom.
I have come to the opinion that the most important question that students can ask themselves when encountering any decision, dilemma, dogma, temptation, or threat is, “Why?” Before You Leave is a helpful and oftentimes necessary reference guide for the student wanting to live a life of wisdom and consequence in a way that is clear-eyed and responsive to God’s leadership.
February 28, 2022
I’ve read Dr. von Helms’ book several times now. I’ve never given a book recommendation until now. I just re-read the last chapter (Talking to God) and felt compelled to do so.
This book is incredible. Every time I read it I get energized. The book is approachable, filled with wisdom and anecdotes from the author’s life, supported by and replete with quotes from and references to scripture as well as from theologians and pre-eminent ministers. I wish it had been written (and I had the opportunity to read it) years ago during my formative years.
Among many others, one particular passage strikes a chord:
There will be times in life when we ask God, “Why are you allowing this to happen to me?” Though an appropriate question, I’ve found it more useful to ask God, “What is it that you want to teach me through my circumstances?”
It will be a gift to my daughter and son. And it will be gifted to friends and relatives.
Thank you Dr. von Helms for writing a masterpiece on God’s grace. Amen.
This book is incredible. Every time I read it I get energized. The book is approachable, filled with wisdom and anecdotes from the author’s life, supported by and replete with quotes from and references to scripture as well as from theologians and pre-eminent ministers. I wish it had been written (and I had the opportunity to read it) years ago during my formative years.
Among many others, one particular passage strikes a chord:
There will be times in life when we ask God, “Why are you allowing this to happen to me?” Though an appropriate question, I’ve found it more useful to ask God, “What is it that you want to teach me through my circumstances?”
It will be a gift to my daughter and son. And it will be gifted to friends and relatives.
Thank you Dr. von Helms for writing a masterpiece on God’s grace. Amen.
December 1, 2020
The subtitle of Before You Leave: For College, Career and Eternity by Todd von Helms accurately describes the overall goal of the book, but the scope is much, much more. The primary target audience of recent high school students is introduced to the history of the Bible and Christianity that is both a brief tutorial for non-Christians and a refresher for Christians. Written almost as an autobiography, Dr. von Helms incorporates his personal experiences as a student and professor in a one-on-one conversation with his reader. Controversial areas such as Atheism, the Devil and the authenticity of the Bible are anticipated and these topics are discussed in an open way. Scripture and biblical sources are noted throughout. Questions for Discussion and Further Reading lists are a bonus. I highly recommend Before You Leave to high school and college students, professors and scholars, believers and atheists. Gary B Starnes, PhD
January 11, 2021
On first look you might think this is another re-hash of christian material with little depth or new insight. I am 68 years old and full time faculty in a dental residency program at a state university's health science center.
Having met Todd Von Helms and been given this book as a gift, I wanted the to read his work as a friend. Unexpectantly, I found it to draw me in. I found myself thinking through my assumptions and bias. I found myself sharing insights with those I work with, both faculty and residents. I shared a chapter with my men's group over coffee.
It is an easy read but a valuable read. It is not only for those preparing to leave home for the first time. It is for those of us on the other end of professional life. It clarifies what a man's life demonstrates. There is a God. The Bible is valuable both for daily living and eternal life. There is evil in this world but it does not mean God is not sovereign, involved and loving.
Having met Todd Von Helms and been given this book as a gift, I wanted the to read his work as a friend. Unexpectantly, I found it to draw me in. I found myself thinking through my assumptions and bias. I found myself sharing insights with those I work with, both faculty and residents. I shared a chapter with my men's group over coffee.
It is an easy read but a valuable read. It is not only for those preparing to leave home for the first time. It is for those of us on the other end of professional life. It clarifies what a man's life demonstrates. There is a God. The Bible is valuable both for daily living and eternal life. There is evil in this world but it does not mean God is not sovereign, involved and loving.
April 8, 2021
No one wants to talk about hell, but everyone wants to go to heaven! This book, which I believe everyone should read, is a terrific composition of hard topics which have eternal implications. Von Helms has masterfully written about the authenticity of the Bible, the canonization process, the devil, hell, and prayer all in an easy-to-read and easy-to-understand format. He has taken historical data, worldwide theological thought and put it all in an incredible format that any high schooler or college student can understand. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is searching for answers about heaven and hell, God and the devil, and is the Bible really God's word? It is the conversations that we need to be having with each other, whether you are an atheist, an agnostic, or a believer in Jesus Christ, or anything in between. I challenge you to read this book - it will change your life forever and hopefully for the better!
November 24, 2020
At some point, we all have to grapple with how to know what is true truth. Fundamental to answering this question is the predicate question of how we are to choose our source of truth. Most would agree that Bible is one source that has to at least be considered. This is where Todd Von Helms starts — with (from an historical-fact point of view) why the Bible can be trusted as a reliable source of true truth. He then tackles Atheism (especially New Atheism), whether there is really such a personality and place as the Devil and Hell, and the rightful place of Prayer in our daily lives. Before You Leave, in only 208 pages, will help anyone interested in sorting out the difference between what seems right and what is right. Before You Leave succinctly gives the “bigger picture” context needed before one leaves for college, career, ... or eternity.
December 28, 2020
Dr. Todd von Helms knocked it out of the park with this book! He provides a wealth of information on topics that could satisfy the new or mature Christians such as the reliability of the New Testament, Hell, Satan, and prayer, and backs it up with Scripture from beginning to end.
I personally found the chapter on prayer very sweet, as consistent, intentional prayer is a branch I would like to make more fruitful. Dr. Helms offers fantastic, practical advice on when, what, and how to pray.
The first chapter on the New Testament & textual criticism was also riveting! It had so much useful knowledge to offer to all that question the divine authority of the Bible.
If you have children hungry for a deeper understanding of certain Christian doctrines or if YOU yourself would like to know, this is the book for you!!
I personally found the chapter on prayer very sweet, as consistent, intentional prayer is a branch I would like to make more fruitful. Dr. Helms offers fantastic, practical advice on when, what, and how to pray.
The first chapter on the New Testament & textual criticism was also riveting! It had so much useful knowledge to offer to all that question the divine authority of the Bible.
If you have children hungry for a deeper understanding of certain Christian doctrines or if YOU yourself would like to know, this is the book for you!!
January 27, 2021
In Before You Leave, Todd Von Helms beautifully weaves Scripture, history, culture, traditions, questions, experiences, statistics, and various perspectives as one reflects on the most important questions before we leave for college, career, and eternity.
Before You Leave is encouraging, thought provoking, and challenging as one considers why the Bible matters, rejecting God, the Devil, Hell, and prayer. Von Helms masterfully articulates and addresses some of the most difficult questions that arise in the Christian faith with wisdom and humility. This excellent book is a must read and a practical resource for pastors, parents, and students to be prepared to "make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you" with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15).
Before You Leave is encouraging, thought provoking, and challenging as one considers why the Bible matters, rejecting God, the Devil, Hell, and prayer. Von Helms masterfully articulates and addresses some of the most difficult questions that arise in the Christian faith with wisdom and humility. This excellent book is a must read and a practical resource for pastors, parents, and students to be prepared to "make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you" with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15).
January 28, 2021
Todd von Helms has provided deep insight and professional scholarship about these “big picture” issues: the Bible, atheism, the devil, hell, and prayer. In challenging readers to stretch their minds, he also has infused his writing with deep faith and concern for others who are still seeking truth. This book is not just for high school students who are about to enter college, but also for those who teach them, love them, and pray for them. And it is a valuable resource for parents and teachers to refer to again and again as they seek their own deeper understanding of these topics. The questions at the end of each chapter are especially insightful and invite meaningful discussion. I highly recommend this book!
April 15, 2021
Powerful read!
I placed a copy of Before You Leave in the hands of 100 faculty and staff members who serve as mentors at our University. As we work to help students find and fulfill their callings, it is essential for us to prepare them to engage an increasingly secular culture who is waiting to challenge them on every aspect of their faith. Dr. von Helms provides a practical resource, preparing the reader to humbly engage the world around them with truth and grace. Insightful and inspiring, engaging and enlightening. This book serves as a portable guide for some of the greatest theological questions of our day!
Jon Pendergrass
Director of The Center for Mentoring
Dallas Baptist University
I placed a copy of Before You Leave in the hands of 100 faculty and staff members who serve as mentors at our University. As we work to help students find and fulfill their callings, it is essential for us to prepare them to engage an increasingly secular culture who is waiting to challenge them on every aspect of their faith. Dr. von Helms provides a practical resource, preparing the reader to humbly engage the world around them with truth and grace. Insightful and inspiring, engaging and enlightening. This book serves as a portable guide for some of the greatest theological questions of our day!
Jon Pendergrass
Director of The Center for Mentoring
Dallas Baptist University
January 5, 2022
As a relatively new and still somewhat skeptical believer at times, I approached this book hoping that I could learn more about my faith and affirm what I already believed. "Before You Leave" did exactly that and so much more. I felt so much joy and gained a tremendous amount of confidence while reading. Dr. Von Helms makes the messages accessible and understandable to those of all educational backgrounds (I am a junior in college), while also being profoundly deep in grasp of scripture. I learned about my own faith as well as how to approach others with love and how I can grow closer to Christ. Truly an incredible book and I would recommend it to anyone, no matter where you stand in your relationship with God.
October 3, 2023
This entire book, but especially the first section, Bible Matters, gave me more insight about Biblical and Church history than 15 years of Christian education could. I genuinely feel so much more secure and confident in what I believe, and feel even more confident to have beneficial discussion with people from all different beliefs. Von Helms does a great job of tying in personal experience, along with the research of respected theologians to convey his points in a non-biased, objective manner, making this read one for someone from any walk of life. This book overall was a 10/10 read, and I would heavily recommend this book to anybody looking to understand their own faith, purpose, or just the Christian faith on a deeper level.
November 19, 2020
This is a great read! Theology matters especially today. In chapter 1 “Bible Matters.” Todd Von Helms very clearly articulates how we got our modern Bible translations, in addition to why it can be viewed as reliable, trustworthy, authoritative. If you are looking at a way to make a difference and learn how to communicate well to those who are far from God this book is a GREAT resource and much needed for our churches today. The last chapter on prayer is such a huge blessing and great way for this book to conclude! I encourage you to give this a read and be challenged, encouraged, and spurred on in your faith!
September 24, 2021
As a college student, reading “Before You Leave: For College, Career, & Eternity” by Todd Von Helms, has inspired me to listen to God’s truth even when academia has encouraged me to find my own truth. I have and will continue to recommend this read to any of my college peers who, like myself, desire God above all of the distractions and misguiding forces on the College Campus. My favorite part of this book is that it encourages those beginning a new journey not to simply claim to be a Christian, but rather seek Biblical knowledge and learn about the Lord because when inevitable trials come, He is always there.
September 27, 2021
Before You Leave should be required reading for students and adults alike. It challenged me personally by asking questions and providing theological subjects that I was unlikely to delve into by myself. Todd Von Helms writes passionately and clearly about matters that affect salvation and focuses on the importance of understanding of scripture as it was written, not as we want it to mean. I appreciate that while Todd is clearly knowledgeable, he is full of humility. The text feels more like a dialogue and invites you to interact instead of just preaching at you. This book will be an incredible resource to look back on and I know it will be one that I read again.
January 18, 2022
In Before You Leave: For College, Career, and Eternity, Todd von Helms explains, in a patient, approachable voice, the reliability of the Bible and ways of engaging in open conversations about one’s faith in God. In so many colleges and universities and in so many professional environments that self-describe as “tolerant,” matters of faith are rarely welcome subjects of conversation. And yet, Christ followers are called to live their faith daily and, from time to time, to answer challenging questions about their beliefs. Importantly, Before You Leave equips the reader for a faithful life in an often-faithless world. I so wish I had read this book before I left for college . . .
June 17, 2022
I came to faith in college and through the years have seen multiple people walk away from their faith. A majority of these individuals left the faith when objections and opposing views to their beliefs started coming into focus. With these objections, these individuals were unable to critically think through their beliefs with logic, history, and scripture to strengthen and defend what they believe. Dr. Von Helms addresses hard topics and in a way that is approachable and gracious - addressing each topic with scripture and logic. Reassuring his readers that being a Christian is not a call to blind faith.
June 3, 2020
This book explores hard questions that young Christians may encounter once they leave home for the first time, or even more seasoned Christians as they enter the workplace. Von Helms presents facts and encourages the reader to consider these facts and formulate their own answers with study questions and well annotated bibliographies. His style of writing is compelling and makes complicated concepts easy to understand. He clearly has a grasp of the subject matter and his presentation is simple, concise, and to the point. Clearly a book that could be referenced time and time again.
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