Jakob Lannister is a New York Police Detective who has been searching for his Little Boy for years. He has almost given up hope. Is it possible that fate has dropped his Little Boy in his lap?
Dr. Samuel Baker is a Cyber Crimes super geek, but he is also a Little Boy searching for a Daddy to love him. A horrible situation drove him from Boston. Will things be different for him in New York? Will he ever find a caring Daddy?
Will Daddy Jakob and Little Sam survive when Sam's past comes to haunt them?
Please Note: This Book is all about AGE PLAY. This book may contain suckling on nipples, Daddys bathing Littles, time outs, and other actions involved in age play. If these actions or behaviors disturb you, DO NOT read this book.
WARNING: This book may contain triggers about past physical abuse, adult kidnapping, and hate crime.
L. Michael is a German Author, who started with Fanfiction and then moved to erotic short stories under the pen name Jules Black. From there, it was a small step to the first full-length novel, which will be published in Germany later this year. If not writing or plotting with M. Elton, L. Michael loves binge-watching Crime Shows, Musicals, and Lord of the Rings. And as a nerdy, end-thirty Single, there is a lot of time for all of her favorite things.
M. Elton is an American Author, currently living in Australia (Oh yeah, she's married to an Australian, too) who never thought she would see the day that she got anything published. M Elton has been writing since she was about eight years old but doing nothing about it. It was not until that fate-filled meeting on Facebook. It was just a simple request for a writing buddy, that changed her life. When she is not writing about the Daddies and Littles of the Rainbow Room, she is walking her doggie, Sasha, and spending quality time with her Daddy
So much sweets and plushies at once, my goodness I am overdosed. But exactly what the doctor has prescribed. Perfect to escape the everyday life. But also very dark (sexual assault, homophobia, torture, and hate crime), so not for the faint of heart. In between, my poor little heart was going pretty fast and you should have the tissues close at hand. Otherwise, I would say the book grows on you. The beginning wasn't that great. I had some trouble with the writing style and the rather "stupid" police characters. Fortunately, that either got better or I didn't notice it so much because Sam had me completely wrapped around his finger and I could only love it. Oh my and the funny things in this book, it made me giggle so much.
“Are you allergic to cauliflower?” “Nooo.” “Don't you like the taste?” “Dunno. I never tried them.” “Ok, Sam, I want to understand why you won't eat cauliflower. How do you know that if you've never tried it?” “I got a scan of my head once and that…” There went the pointing crayon again. “That looks like my brain.” 😳😂
To make Sam laugh and smile was a big goal in my life now, even if it was just a laugh over a Kiwi. I would never be able to look at a Kiwi and not think it looked like a hairy ball. Sam had ruined me. 🤣🤣🤣
*Sigh* where do I even begin? Y'all when I tell you I tried, I need you to understand, I really did. I tried so hard and got so far, but in the end, it didn't even matter because I still DNF it at 52%
I wasn't even going to review this book. I don't have many nice things to say. It's clear that this is this author duo's first book, and as a fan of this trope/ genera I have just read far too much and my expectations are far too high. I knew this wasn't going to end well. But here's the thing, reviews are not for authors, they are for us. So, without further ado, here's are my thoughts.
Number one, the characters. Sam's littleness aside, what adult human acts or talk like this? Go ahead, I'll wait. The dialogue was so cringy and uncomfortable. The cops acted like 13-year-olds who've snuck in a couple of episodes of Law & Order SVU when they thought their parents weren't looking and now think that this is what it's like to be a detective. Oh and littles don't flaunt their littleness, especially at work. Especially if they've already been assaulted for being little!
Number two, the writing. Get a proofreader!
Number three, the darkness of it all. As a fan of all things dark and taboo, I can honestly tell you that this book was not dark. Not by a long shot. You can't just have on-page sexual assault and homophobia and think bam, I'm done, achievement unlocked. No. There have to be stakes, some sort of danger. At no point did I ever believe these characters (the MC's) were in any danger, mental or physical. The timing was also an issue. These are heavy topics and they are going to invoke deep emotions. They need time to settle and be addressed. Age play is not dealing with it. So over the top cutesy daddy/ little moments actually hurt the story. It cheapens what the characters are going through and makes those moments feel forced and out of place.
And finally, the story itself. Sis was a choice. Now I'm no writer but I don't know if it's the wisest decision in the world to put in such heavy topics in an age-play story. You know, age-play. That really heavy taboo kink that gets a ton of hate for existing. Was that really necessary? And homophobia as a plot device rarely sits well with people, but you do you I guess. This story was not given the tools to succeed from the get-go. The authors didn't just choose the road less traveled. They decided to make their own trail through some poison ivy covered in feral cat pee. However, it can be done, maybe. How? I'm so glad you asked.
Instead of trying to make this SVU picture-perfect world of what happens in sexual assault cases, go with reality. Jakob could have been this really jaded detective because he has to deal with victims who don't want to report what happened to them and perpetrators who will never see a jail cell. Sam's trauma could have manifested into real PTSD, and little space was his way of keeping himself safe and not having to deal with his problems. Jakob's daddness could have stemmed from a desire to truly protect and serve. He could have been drawn to Sam because it's his chance to actually *solve a case* and save someone. Sam could have had a massive breakdown when he's forced to confront his past. You could've had Sam wondering if Jacob really loves him for him or if he just sees him as a victim! I mean my guy, I know writings not easy but this just took me three minutes!
Ohmigod I can't even tell you about the smut because I didn't get that far, I gave up. TL; DR this book was literally hard to read. Jakob didn't read Daddy to me, Sam's actions made no sense and he was way too over the top and dramatic even for a little, and everywhere you turned there was homophobia. This book takes place in New York City, aren't they supposed to be woke?! I rarely do this and I have a rule where if I don't finish a book I have to give it at least 2 stars but I can't do that here. When writing age-play you either do the kink justice or no at all. You wanna write something dark, fine. Do it and market your book toward the people who will appreciate that. But this half-assed episode of Law & Order SVU ain't gonna fly. 1 star
This book had me in tears at 18%??? HOWW HAHAHAHA Welp, here goes me and age play again 😬
This is my first time reading these authors and my first impression was, wow, almost similar to Jayda Marx and heck yes I enjoyed it. This was sooo fluffy, heartwarmingly sweet with enjoyable plotline. When it comes to age play, I only care about the MCs so the storyline was quite average loll. And this book is pretty long for such sweetness in the entire first half, so some might find it boring! :’)
It’s also insta Daddy at its best, but manage to have best of connection and communication. No insta lust or sexualising the MCs at first sight, perfect!
What amazed me was Sam’s behaviour as a Little. He wasn’t a brat but struggled a lot with communication. He always tries so hard and it’s beautiful seeing how he secretly crave very deep connection with his Daddy. Beautiful and sad at times.
Ageplay-wise, I got pretty much more actions in this one, even though there was no ABDL/diaper play, there was suckling on thumb and nipple and also time out. Most of those scenes were portrayed so well I get to see more of their emotional bond. And I love that this book manage to go in depth of explaining how to be the right Little and Daddy. for each other. I don’t think there’s right or wrong way, but because of what had happened to both of them, the change of their lifestyle was explained perfectly. Full of depth and I love it! I need more of that in my age plays from now on 💗
And I didn’t even realize they didn’t have any sex until 80% LMAOO it was so sweet I didn’t expect ANY sex and I love it 🤣
Writing an ageplay book that centers around physical assault, rape, violent homophobia, and kidnapping with not nearly enough indication that’s the way the story is gonna swing is honestly such a choice. 2/3 of this book was Sam recovering from his kidnapping and some honestly questionable choices by Jakob like perhaps calling a trauma victim a little shit is not the energy we should be bringing to the function? Too much focus on the horrors of assault and kidnapping for me personally when ageplay as a genre is more known for being fluffy and sweet so this was more of a big yikes for me personally and also I’m sorry but calling your father-in-law Grandpa was such an ick
I love a little kink mixed with some hurt/comfort, really kicks the comforting and caretaking aspect of age-play up a notch. The relationship between Jakob and Samuel built up slowly, focusing more on Samuels healing process rather than diving straight into the smut, which really made this read ten times sweeter. The cuteness also helps balance out the trauma and drama of some parts, making this an adorable and full-of-feels read.
CW and tropes(spoilers): - Age-play (no ABDL) - Cop MC - Assault, attempted SA and kidnapping - PTSD and anxiety - Strict top/bottom (only one scene) - Nipple sucking
Admittedly I haven't read much age play, but this one felt like I never got to know Sam as an adult, without his little personality. I never really got to see the relationship between Jakob and Sam develop other than a Daddy and little - and that was very insta for everything but sex - and that bothered me. Sam is a genius and he works in cybercrime with the NYPD (although none of this screamed NYPD to me and I have plenty of family on the job there), but even at work his little personality seems to be dominant.
There is some intensity here, when Sam is abducted and assaulted. It was a bit of a shock since everything else was just so sweet and almost fantasyland-like. Nobody blinks an eye at their relationship work-wise (and that was a BIG stretch as far as their behavior on the job), friend or family (except the homophobic bad guy).
I did like the Daddy/little relationship between the two. They were perfect for each other's needs and Sam was an adorable little. The secondary characters were also all very likable, but overall I had to suspend disbelief a little too much here.
This book was so good! I was so engrossed in the story that I didn't even realize there wasn't any explicit "sexy time" between the main characters until I was about 80% through. I was completely enthralled, and then it hit me: "Huh... this book is really good," I thought. As someone who usually enjoys a good amount of steam, the fact that I wasn't even missing the steamy scenes left me a little dumbfounded! 😮
I've read tons of age play books because I absolutely love them, so finding a new one by a new author is always a mission for me. And boy, am I glad I found this one! Knowing that the authors are actually part of the Little lifestyle makes perfect sense no wonder they've created such an amazing and well-thought-out age play book. 💎
Here's a great example: Quote: Jake: "How old are you when you're Little?" Sam: "Like four or five? I like to play with my animals and to color."
I really appreciate how the authors included such specific and authentic details in the book, which I rarely find in other age play stories. Seriously, if you're into age play with a focus on a compelling story and authentic details, you absolutely need to read this book! ✨️💙
P.S. Make sure you check the CW first before diving in.
🕵🏻♂️🐢 MM romance 🕵🏻♂️🐢 DD/lb 🕵🏻♂️🐢 Age play (sippy cup, bib) 🕵🏻♂️🐢 Suckling (thumb and nipple) 🕵🏻♂️🐢 Medium-angst, heart-warming, swoon-worthy 🕵🏻♂️🐢 HFN
While the story itself was quite intriguing, the writing in this felt really off.
Everything about this felt unrealistic. I had a hard time believing Samuel would show his littleness like this when he was previously attacked for being a little. And even if he did like childish things or figurines, I was quite surprised that Jakob set one foot in Samuel's office and immediately pegged him as a little without ever having met him.
The relationship itself was also full of WTF moments. Come to think of it, every interaction in this was highly unrealistic. I know it's hard to write believable dialogue, but it was pretty bad in this.
Oh, and English is not my first language, but I think capitalizing endearments is incorrect. Every time Jakob or one of his friends called Samuel Little Boy, my inner grammar nazi cringed (and I'm not even a grammar nazi!). Same with every other endearment, they were all capitalized. It was weird.
I also thought the emotional moments were very strange. If you are going to put in some dark police scenes or talk about emotional moments, make me really feel it. Now things were mentioned in passing and that was supposed to make me feel something. Well, it didn't.
This could have been a great book, because the premise was nice, but unfortunately the writing really pulled me out of the story.
Save Me, Daddy is the first book in the Rainbow Room series by L. Michael and M. Elton. I really loved this book. It's very well written and I loved Jakob and Sam so much. Their story was sweet, fun, sexy and with some suspense. Can't wait for the next book.
The idea behind this story really appealed to me. A bit of angst, a lot of sweetness and of course kink.
The book delivered just that too, however I found the depth behind all aspects of the plot lacking. On top of that, the ending was a bit rushed in my opinion. I would have liked more details and more hurt/comfort scenes. And really, much more depth. It was all really half thought out and that definitely bothered me the most about this book.
Other than that, though, this was definitely a sweet read.
Ive left pretty much same review on both books 1 and 2 as my thoughts are the same for both.
1. Overuse of the word cum and honestly isn't something I thought I'd ever say in MM reads but and this is personal opinion cum is slang and come or coming or came works perfectly fine.
2. The littles in these books seem to be little almost all the time,not just to decompress or de stress as most books seem to be and it felt very over the top and fake. It may be that there are littles who live like this but this is just my thoughts.
In this book I had unanswered questions, comments were made, making me believe something was going to happen and then bam nothing
I did enjoy the characters but they felt a little unfinished. We read about Sam and his background but very little about Jakob which makes the story seem almost one sided.
I haven't read any other reviews yet, this was a KU read for me but 2.5 stars because I believe they are newish authors so maybe as they grow there writing will grow as well.
This is read like a fanfiction, but I couldn't find it in me to give it a lower rating because I loved the story, even though the writing wasn't really good.
Save Me, Daddy is the first book in a new series called “The Rainbow Room” by L. Michael and M. Elton. It is a story about a daddy who is searching for a boy and a boy who knows what he wants and goes looking for it. Samuel, the boy, is a cyber crimes officer who transfers to New York City from Boston after he is involved in a homophobic act. Jakob, the daddy, is a detective who is asked to help Samuel adjust. Jakob suspects Samuel is a little almost immediately and is drawn to him. They meet again at The Rainbow Room, a Daddies and Littles bar, where Samuel is looking to find a place where he can be a boy and maybe find a daddy, and they begin a relationship. Samuel has never had a real daddy before so he is very happy to be with Jakob who had a boy but they have parted ways. As the story continues their relationship grows and Samuel gets to meet other daddies and boys from the bar and they become friends. One of the reasons I really like this book is that it not only shows how the relationship grows, it also has some suspense in that the problems from Boston also show up at the NYC precinct and affect both Samuel and Jakob and almost lead to a tragedy. The effects start to cause a rift between them but they find a way to mend it with the help of their friends. If you like Daddy/Boy books with some suspense thrown in you will love this book. I highly recommend it and am looking forward to the next book in the series.
Different but good? I’m not sure how I feel about this book. The story kept me interested for the most part. As far as age play romances go, this book was practically platonic for the first 70%+. It was good enough that I will try another book from the series.
These authors are not a good fit for me. The age play itself was fine, but I was pulled out of the book repeatedly for poor editing. Generally, books don't have enough commas, but this one had, too many scattered, throughout in odd, places. Yeah, I considered DNFing, but now I can cross this series off my list. On to better things!
I love finding new authors especially if they are this amazing. This book was exactly what I want and need in an ageplay book. It was sweet, caring, full on daddy and little and I don't even cared that it wasn't full on sex.
Jakob and Sam's story was really cute, I loved reading it and couldn't put it down. Jakob was a good, caring and sweet daddy while Sam the perfect cute little. I loved the ageplay scenes but the ultimate favorite was the nipple suckling - it was a new thing for me, I never saw this kind of thing in ageplay books and now my number one question is just this: why! It was soooo good and both erotic and romantic. The tumb suckling was sweet too, but OMG the nipple ones were so good *swoon*.
Loved the whole gang in this story and can't wait to read more about the other characters. And I loved Jakob's dad - grandaddy♥ This scenario was a new too, and so good! This book was like reading ageplay for the very first time again. But let me tell you, it's really not the first for me because ageplay is my ultimate favorite ever! So it's both easy and hard to please my if it comes to ageplay - but in this case I was totally lost and head over heels in love with this one.
The sexy scenes were awesome too - only gotten to this scene at 80%, but totally worth the wait.
2.5 Stars FOR NOW, and I've read less than a hundred pages.
The premise was good, but the way they proceeded after into the plot is giving me quite a whiplash. Like BAM BAM BAM BAM. He's a Little BAM. He's Daddy BAM. He likes Ice Cream BAM He doesn't talk with mouthfull BAM but mo, no he actually does this with ice cream BAM. like ripping a band-aid faster, than a speed of light. But this was just my opinion
I would like some small, slow burn, just a tinge to make their development not whiplashy (not a word, but I hope you get what I mean). And I hope they wouldn't "Tell" things throughout the series. I would love to have some facts like how being a daddy works in a...less....subtle way?
"Show" not "Tell" If you get what I mean.
I don't know If I'll continue reading, since I have shelved, and read another story, then opened it again, and shelved it. But I'll continue having high hopes since my opinion isn't absolute, neither I have the SAME likes and quieks as other people, and this series has their potential.
Jakob Lannister (36 ans) et Samuel Arthur Baker (28 ans) Détective de la police et Dr/analyste d'informations/ du renseignement super geek Daddy et Little
Desmond Hayes (Des, ami de Jakob, propriétaire de Rainbow Room) Raymond Hayes (Ray, frère cadet de Des, psychologue/thérapeutre) Matt (partenaire et bon ami de Jakob) Caden (avocat de defense, ami du groupe de Daddy) Benson (chef de Jakob) Alec Weston (chef/superviseur de Samuel) Andrew (père de Jakob)
Josh (ambulancier) Darrell (Daddy de Josh, Medecin)
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Bienvenue au Rainbow Room, le début d'une nouvelle série mettant en vedette The Rainbow Room, un bar appartenant à Desmond Hayes.
Tonton Des et son frère Ray aident les papas et les mamans à retrouver leurs petits. Ils sont également à la recherche de leurs propres petits.
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Intéressant. Bon groupe d’ami. Et merveilleuse relation
📖 Jakob Lannister est un détective de la police de New York qui recherche son petit garçon depuis des années et a presque perdu espoir. On lui demande de guider un nouveau membre de la police. Jakob pense que Sam est mignon, mais il semble que Sam soit bien plus qu'il n'y paraît. Est-il possible que le destin ait laissé tomber le petit garçon de Jakob sur ses genoux ?
Le Dr Samuel Baker est un analyste d'informations super geek, mais il est aussi un petit garçon à la recherche d'un papa qui l'aime. Une situation horrible se produit à Boston et Sam déménage. Il espère avoir une vie meilleure à New York. Puis il rencontre le sexy détective Jakob et devient accro. Il serait un papa parfait, mais il ne voudrait pas de Sam, n'est-ce pas ? Sam n'en est pas sûr mais espère pouvoir trouver son propre papa attentionné ?
Papa Jakob et Petit Sam survivront-ils et resteront-ils ensemble lorsque le passé de Sam viendra les hanter ? 📚
This was the first book that I've read by these authors and I really enjoyed it. I love age play books - caring Daddies and sweet Boys - and this book had all that but with the added twist that both Daddy and Boy were in law enforcement. Detective Jakob is a Daddy without a boy. Samuel is a genius young analyst, who's also a Little, and who is transferred to Jakob's city because of a homophobic attack by officers in his last post. He's suffering residual PTSD and when he accidentally runs into Jakob at the local gay kink club and has an episode,Jakob steps in to help him out. From there they begin to navigate a Daddy/boy relationship, all while dealing with horrible crimes and hatred from inside their department. I really liked how detailed the world building was in regards to their law enforcement roles and how much time was given to them figuring out how to be Daddy and Boy. There was action and angst but everything came back around to their love and commitment to each other. With an amazing cast of background characters, this story is one that I'll be reading again and I'm very excited to head into the next book. If you like Daddy/Boy and age play stories then I encourage you to give this one a try. Definitely worth reading!
4 stars. A very sweet and emotional romance. I adored this book. It deals with some heavy topics and I think that the authors handled those topics with care. I particularly liked how therapist positive it is.
I loved the characters. Sam was so lovable and precious and he’s such a strong character. He’s been so much and I just wanted to hug him. Jakob was a lot firmer of a Daddy than I’m used to but I loved him just as much. He’s a cop so it makes sense why he is the way that he is. I loved how protective he was of Sam and he always had his best interest at heart. Their relationship was lovely and I liked how there was no big rush to have sex. The first of only two sex scenes happens at around the 80% mark and it was very intimate.
The side characters were also fantastic. Jakob has an awesome group of friends and he has the coolest dad ever. I adored his dad and just how loving and accepting he was. The only thing that I didn’t really like was that everything wrapped up entirely too quickly and was squeezed into the epilogue. I think the ending definitely could’ve been longer but besides that this was wonderful and I’m looking forward to book two.
Although the story tackled hard topics like hate crimes and assault, the way the author handled it helped us have a positive outlook through out the book.
Little Sam has gone through some serious trauma but his resilience and support from his support group was really heart warming.
Daddy Jakob was great of course but I liked that he wasn’t a “perfect” Daddy Dom. He also needed guidance from those around him and he knew he wasn’t infallible or super daddy.
Not to say he wasn’t a great Daddy Dom. He was absolutely perfect for Little Sam. And I loved how involved his Dad, Andrew was. He was the MVP parent. Seriously, love how strong and wholesome their parent child relationship was.
And of course, got to love that Sam and Jakob communicated throughout the book. Little Sam had a hard time asking for what he needed but as the story processed he was able to feel comfortable with himself and what he wanted.
A great ending for someone who had experience what he did which could have resulted in him hating himself. But I’m happy that he was able to overcome it.
I had to sit with this book for a bit before writing this review. For those who read a lot of my reviews or have ever had to sit with a book before speaking on it, you know. It’s a good thing. When a book brings out so much intense emotion and feelings that you have to take time to reflect on that, it means the author did an amazing job.
This book was much darker than books of this nature tend to be but when all was said and done I don’t think the story would have been half as wonderful if it hadn’t been. It dealt with topics that tend to be glossed over in other books and it made me proud of the authors as I read it. I was 20% into the book when I started recommending it to friends, I was 50% in when I started saying they needed to read it ASAP. At 75% I had to take a few hour break from reading it so I could reflect and when I picked it back up it solidified itself as probably one of my favorite books ever.
All the stars ⭐️ all the hearts ♥️, all the feels! This book was astronomically amazing! Can’t wait to dive into book two!
Save Me, Daddy is the first book in the Rainbow Room series by L. Michael and M. Elton. I loved reading this book. I loved how Jakob is a natural daddy and wants to protect Sam but at the same time spoil him and allows his friends and family to spoil him also. I loved Sam's enthusiasm when he's a little. I don't think I will ever look at fruits and veggies the same way. He constantly had me smiling. But the story isn't all sunshine and roses. There are bad people out there and they keep hurting Sam. But in the end, this only makes the relationship between Sam and Jakob stronger. I also loved all of the supporting characters and can't wait to read their books when they get them. Right now, I'm looking forward to reading the next book in the series after reading the preview at the end of this book. I voluntarily reviewed an advanced reader copy of this book.
I loved Sam as a little, he was confident in his own wants and needs even if he had been called out for it in the past. His little side couldn't be contained and he went fluently between little and big. I always love when a Daddy and his little play together, that he's not just put on a rug and left to himself, the interaction is everything.
It's all about the connection and not very sexual, which I liked as well, it just worked and the intimacy they had was perfect. Along with the side characters which I am now curious about, I know several I would like to read a book about.
And while I could easily spot where things had been inspired by other books of the same genre, it stands on its own with a unique plot.
My only issue really is the use of Little boy, the way it is written along with the words having ' and too much space, it kept throwing me off.
I love this book from start to finish. You can help but fall in love with Samuel. He has to be the most adorable little I've ever read about. When Sams and Jakobs relationship started in the book, I thought wow this is going so so fast and didn't know how I felt about it but once I read further into the book I realised it worked beautifully and I loved how it was all developing. It all just clicked perfectly and sometimes it's hard for authors to achieve this with this type of read, but this one nailed it. I loved that it wasn't all sweet and romantic, it had some dark moments which had me close to tears. And the author really helps you understand the pain a little and daddy can face when bad things happen. And how it's not only just one sided when hurting or scared. If you're into age play reads I'd definitely recommend this book.
This is a solid story of age play and so much more. Samuel is a Little who needs a daddy. Running from a hate crime against him, he meets his mentor, Jakop, at the NYPD. Samuel is an internet investigator for the police and Jakop is a detective. He is a daddy who needs a boy. The two are put together as Jakop mentors Sam. Jakop easily sees that Sam is a Little and the two start to explore this relationship. All is not bright and sunny though and soon, once again Sam is up against extreme homophobia from another department policeman. This a a dark and light story that pulls you in and shows the reader a dark world that gays can face. Sam and Jakop are lovable and excellent characters as are the secondary characters are in this story. Well worth reading, especially if you love "Age Play" stories.
For the unexpected darkness, I give this book a 3 star. Because the first chapter starts with the detective interrogating a rapist, I should have expected a darker side to the story. Instead, I was oblivious until the accident, and it went downhill from their. While I didn’t enjoy the second part of the story, I enjoyed reading it overall. Yes, there were many grammatical errors and the dialogue was strange at times, but I wasn’t expecting much from an ageplay book.
By the way, every character in the book is either a dadd or little (which is the case for most books like this). However, I started to roll my eyes when we met another little or daddy because OF COURSE they would be in that dynamic. Can’t have a person just be cool with the lifestyle. No, they’re comfortable with it because *gasp* their a daddy or little! [That annoyed me if you couldn’t tell.]