I really struggled with how to rate this one, because I wanted to like it. I enjoy when authors are more bold with alien design and not afraid to make them as non-human as possible while staying humanoid enough to be compatible. I was stuck in the 2.4-2.6 star mark for this book: do I round this down to a 2 or up to a 3? I chose to round down.
The things I liked:
★ I appreciate more sci-fi in my sci-fi romance reads, so I liked the (slightly) slower build up into the romance plot line to provide a little world building. It was more sparse than I would have liked, really, but it gave some insight into the non-human species that MMC belongs to. (I honestly would have liked more about them, since it becomes clear a bit later in the book that they are more advanced than they appear in the beginning. How do warlords fit into these more advanced societies?) In many ways, they are a lot like us; they think there is other life out in the universe, but they're not sold on the idea. Reported sightings of craft flying through space are treated as dubious rumors and not taken as proof. They want to believe.
★ The MMC was not a perfect tame gentleman all of the time. He was allowed to be frustrated and upset about the situation he was in and even allowed a couple tantrums along the way. Not attractive, but much more believable than the usual route of 100% acceptance and pitiful pining this genre often takes while FMC warms up to her situation. Based on his culture and biology, he should be frustrated and dismayed by how this is playing out. He would want to blow off steam in other ways and have a pretty short fuse at times. I thought his attempts to compromise and change his cultural expectations was pretty well done, and I appreciated that he was able to put himself into a time out when he started to act up.
★ There was no assumption right away that anything on this new-to-them planet was going to be safe for the human women to ingest or come into contact with. This idea is revisited nicely in reverse later on in the book: just because something is OK for one does not mean it's safe for the other. Be careful what you use or ingest; you might just get poisoned for your assumptions.
The things I didn't like (man, so many):
★ FMC. Oh... where do I start with you, honey?
I am not a fan of abuse back stories for FMCs, largely in part to how poorly they're handled. No two people react exactly alike, but there seems to be this pervasive desire to write former abuse victims as overly-aggressive TSTL heroines on testosterone benders. She's ANGRY with the world and going to stick it to all of the men, and how is she going to show it? By dogging every single little thing MMC says and does, constantly verbally shove him, and be a dick all around and ungrateful for any help provided... despite stating that "violent" men scare her while never actually acting in a way to cope or try to defuse that violence that allegedly triggers her. As someone who grew up with an abusive father, and having so many friends in similar situations (including multiple, serial abusive relationships), I always struggle with how shallow and lacking in nuance these portrayals of abuse victims are. It leads me to believe that the authors have no real life experience with it and should just avoid them all together. Seriously. Please stop. (The most recent Zoey Draven Luxirian novel handles this better than most if aliens + abuse victim story lines are your thing.)
FMC signs up to be a mail order mate for another never-really-described alien male on a different world, but she has no desire or ability to view things outside of her own experience and point of view. As far as I could tell, she has no real intellectual curiosity about others nor does she want to adapt. She wants what she wants as she's used to having it. I had no reason to believe that she actually wanted any of this alien mating situation, unless she's the world's most impulsive bad decision maker and managed to accomplish getting off Earth in a matter of hours with no time to consider the ramifications of her choice. I'm sure for less money, it would have been easier for her to simply relocate elsewhere on planet to "escape" her ex than to leave and commit to mating with some male she never met but who sounded good on paper. (And based on the opening situation with her and the other women...what are the odds that the male she believed she was going to meet was anything nearly as charming or desirable as she was led to believe [or once briefly hinted at]? But she never stops to consider this, strangely enough. Nor does she consider that she may have dodged a bullet by crashing instead of making it to her destination. There are so many unanswered questions about this known-to-her-but-not-us mate she chose. What were her expectations for where her life was headed? How did it differ from what she was being offered by MMC? Things. I like to know them.)
★ There was a lot of emphasis on honor in regards to MMC's race, so having the antagonist be so flat and cartoon villain-y was a let down. I would have liked a bit more depth and nuance there too. So apparently all of these males are really honorable, but just not that one.
Despite my criticisms and lower rating, I think this series has potential, and I may check out future installments. It was a decent first attempt at a story outside of author's usual comfort zone.