Our school's teachers are doing this book, and an associated discussion/seminar as part of our continuing education this summer. I was told this book would answer some of my questions.
The "Nineteen Things That Matter Most", one per chapter, were: (Review below the listing)
1. Great teachers never forget that it is people, not programs, that determine the quality of a school.
2. Great teachers establish clear expectations at the start of the year and follow them consistently as the year progresses.
3. Great teachers manage their classrooms thoughtfully. When they say something, they mean it.
4. When a student misbehaves, great teachers have one goal: to keep that behavior from happening again.
5. Great teachers have high expectations for students, but have even higher expectations for themselves.
6. Great teachers never forget that it's about more than relationships. Relationships are important but are not magic beans. Great teachers work hard to deliver consistent, engaging instruction.
7. Great teachers are aware of the three modes - business, parent, child. They understand how to be in business mode most of the time since that's what we expect of students, too.
8. Great teachers know that they are the variable in the classroom. Good teachers consistently strive to improve, and they focus on something they can control: their own performance.
9. Great teachers focus on students first, with a broad vision that keeps everything in perspective.
10. Great teachers create a positive atmosphere in their classrooms and schools. they treat every person with respect. In particular, they understand the power of praise.
11. Great teachers consistently filter out the negatives that don't matter and share a positive attitude.
12. Great teachers work hard to keep their relationships in good repair to avoid personal hurt and to repair any possible damage.
13. Great teachers have the ability to ignore trivial disturbances and the ability to respond to inappropriate behavior without escalating the situation.
14. Great teachers have a plan and purpose - intentionalness - for everything they do. If plans don't work out the way they had envisioned, they reflect on what they could have done differently and adjust accordingly.
15. Before making any decision or attempting to bring about any change, great teachers ask themselves one central question: What will the best people think?
16. Great teachers continually ask themselves who is most comfortable and who is least comfortable with each decision they make. They treat everyone as if they were good.
17. Great teachers have empathy for students and clarity about how others see them.
18. Great teachers keep standardized testing in perspective. They focus on the real issue of student learning.
19. Great teachers car about their students. they understand that behaviors and beliefs are tied to emotion, and they understand the power of emotion to jump-start change.
The Good:
I liked the quote from the 38-year 5th grade teaching-veteran, that "for these students, it's the first time around." That reminds me of one of my daughters talking about cognitive and memory-care patients. I'd asked her how she coped with having the same conversations over and over with them, and she said she remembered that for them, it was the first time they'd had the conversation.
I discovered, too, years earlier, in repetitively rereading toddler books to my own kids, that it helped me if I focused more on the child than on the book I was reading. The "curriculum", if you will, was the same, but the child was bonding, growing, and learning.
I like the strategy of ignoring pranks when they happen, and dealing individually with the children after class, without an audience.
I like the idea of teaching the kids how to apologize, and giving them the words they may not have. However, when I tried that this past school year, it did not work well, and ended up with them making fun of it. Perhaps it would work better for younger students.
I can also see the value in calling parents without forewarning the student.
I like the saying, "Angry students are the problem, not the solution." I can't imagine teachers judging the quality of their discipline by how angry the student is. That only moves their hearts further away from wanting to do the right thing. Consequences, sure. Anger, no.
I also like the quote, "Effective teachers understand that what matters is not whether a student leaves the office mad, and not what the students reports to his peers, but how the student behaves in the future."
I like the list of possible responses, which, like the author, I had heard before: eye contact, proximity, redirection, sending them to the office, timeout, argue, send them to sit in the hall, ignore, praise another student for positive behavior. I can only see that last one working on small children. Teenagers do not want to be singled out publicly for good behavior.
"We never win an argument with a student. As soon as it starts, we have lost. If their peers are watching, they cannot afford to give in."
"Conflict ... - especially if it is not resolved - often leads to a loss of trust."
"When students have a teacher who has engaging lessons every day (consistently), they automatically have a relationship with that teacher." I like the reminder that relationship can be that simple.
I love that the great math teacher teaches math on the first day of class, because it sets the tone and the expectation for the rest of the schoolyear. I do that in my physics class. I don't, however, do that with my engineering class, because they are younger, and because it's "just" an elective, with fewer required hoops to jump through. But maybe I should.
I like the thought that people have 3 modes for their behavior: business, parent, and child, and we need to keep the students in business mode. (Or adult, parent, and child.) It also seems to be true that on the first day of school, they come prepared in business mode, but if we play around with them on the first day, that switches to child mode, and business mode is hard to reclaim.
I love the quote, "But there are other people that we are genuinely excited to reconnect with. We know that every time we are around them, it is different and special. This is exactly what being in a great teacher's classroom is like. We do have a relationship with the teacher. It might be deep, meaningful, and personal. It also might be one that is built on learning."
"They expect students to pay attention no matter how boring and repetitious their classes are." It's a good reminder to watch the interest level of our students.
"Some people are quick to jump on any new bandwagon. (With all due respect and affection, I sometimes refer to them as 'The Lunatic Fringe.') Others will more carefully probe and examine a proposal, try it out gradually, and in the end accept it wholeheartedly. But some stubbornly resist change of any kind." I like this listing, but it leaves out one possibility, of those who "carefully probe and examine a proposal, try it out gradually, and in the end" find it lacking or harmful.
"Once you join the Complainers Club, it's hard to quit."
I like the strategies for effective praise: authentic, specific, immediate, clean (as in not tarnished with a "... but ..."), and private.
"Every time I praise someone, at least two people feel better - and one of them is me."
"People who resent praise given to others do so mainly because they don't feel valued themselves."
*"Great teachers want their students to be more excited about learning tomorrow than they are today." This makes me think that I can spend a couple minutes outlining the next lesson and things to look forward to.
"What keeps them from apologizing? Usually, what stands in the way is their lack of self-confidence or - often the flip side of the same coin - their pride or ego."
I like the statement, "I am sorry that happened," without taking responsibility for things not under our control. Someone slipped and fell? I'm sorry that happened. Another phrase I've heard used when someone is grieving is, "My heart goes out to you and your family."
"We've all known teachers whose buttons are easily pushed, and we've seen how quickly students identify these teachers and their entertainment value."
"For the sake of our own self-worth, we tend to stay away from someone who regularly points out our mistakes... Although we may think that when others criticize us we try harder, at some point, when it happens too frequently, we are likely to quit."
"High achievers put so much of themselves into what they do that any criticism, no matter how minor, can become a personal affront... On the other hand, they don't want to be ignored."
"It's a mistake to focus on the least effective people and issue broad directives because of one or two miscreants. At best, we make our top performers feel guilty. At worst, we insult them." I've thought this before, in how some of my kids' teachers have managed their classrooms. Thank you for saying so.
"We always treat our students as if their parents were in the room. Another is that we treat every student with the best students in mind.... Our best students do want misbehavior addressed, but never in a humiliating way. They do want us to deal with the students who disrupt learning, but they want us to do it respectfully."
"Do I hold up the standards at the finish line and watch the students make their way down the track as best they can? Or am I at their sides, helping them to develop the skills they need?"
"Mrs. Heart wasn't preparing her students for the state test. She was preparing her students for life, and this is what teaching is all about."
"When her colleagues used inappropriate and hurtful humor, she didn't confront them - she simply didn't laugh."
"But until we connect with them emotionally, we may never be able to connect with their minds."
"This fear of the unknown can sometimes be a more powerful deterrent than a list of predetermined consequences."
The "Eh?":
In the intro, the author says that others correlate better teaching with more subject area expertise and higher degrees, but he wants to correlate it with attitudes. Although this is a reasonable premise, he did not actually perform any statistical analysis of surveys regarding teacher attitudes. He just went with that assumption and promoted various positive attitudes, which are most likely beneficial. But his evidence is anecdotal, not scientific. I can't see that passing muster in any of our fields of study.
"Great teachers focus on expectations. Other teachers focus on rules. The least effective teachers focus on the consequences of breaking the rules." I just find this phrasing confusing and perhaps just semantics.
Expectations can be expressed in terms of rules, which results in a duality of those two words. Perhaps those rules can be phrased more positively than negatively. "We will take care of our lab equipment,"(expectation or positive rule) instead of "Damaging lab equipment will result in ..." (negative rule.)
And even if we don't "focus" on the consequences of breaking the rules, we at least need to have an action plan in the back of our minds as to what to do when such & such happens, even if it is not our outward focus.
I do understand how listing the penalties with a rule can cause students to wonder if it's worth "paying" the penalty in order to break the rule. "Two hours of detention. Is it worth it?"
I have skepticism about starting to deal with behavior, not with the most extremely misbehaving students, but with those whose behavior is not quite as bad. The idea is that if you can change the middle-ground students for the better, then there will be fewer misbehaviors, and then you can focus on the most distracting students. The problem with this is that the worst behaving students are still distracting other students, or perhaps even engaging in dangerous behaviors, while you deal with lesser offenses. It leads to the more mildly misbehaving student thinking, "Why are you picking on me and not him?" Or why are you picking on me for texting in class, when he punched somebody?
"We gravitate toward each other during recess duty, lunch supervision, and student assemblies ... Great teachers resist the temptation to socialize." I find that this is not my personality or mindset at all. Nor am I the only introverted teacher. I can think of others. I don't mind being up front and talking, and I do enjoy friendships, but after so many human-interactions with the students, I'd rather have my personal space than another human interaction, even one with another adult. If I seek out another teacher, it's for a specific purpose - advise, or equipment, perhaps - not just to gab. One time, they had food for us at an after-school event, and I thought (but didn't say) to the lady across from me: "How are you still talking? Why are you still talking?"
Perhaps teaching does attract more extroverts than introverts, but still, we exist.
"If you don't act as if you like them, then your students won't think you care for them, even if you do. And if you act as if you like them, then your true feelings towards them are irrelevant." There is a good nugget in there, if you can get away from any untruths. I am slow to actually bond with people - professionally distant is how I'd view myself - but I do find that I care about all my students by the end of the school year. I can't think of any exceptions to that, even if I am relieved they go home for the summer. Still, I am not effervescent with them. That would just be, and feel, fake to me.
Likewise, I also get the importance in the next chapter of having a filter between your private and professional lives. There's no need to burden the kids with grownup struggles. But I also feel we shouldn't lie about challenging situations, either. Not dwell on them, but not lie about them, either. Instead, I like to find something I'm looking forward to in the moment, generally something in the curriculum, and that helps me stay positive without putting on a fake happy face.
I thought the analogy of the T-rays, the Teacher-rays, and how close you have to be to the students to influence their behavior was funny. Since I teach physics, I'm already comparing it to gravitational field strength and electric field strength. Are T-rays proportional to 1/r^2? How do we measure such a thing? Or maybe it's more like the intensity of sound waves, which again, is proportional to 1/r^2.
"Hostile parents love to argue; it's their niche. That's one good reason never to argue with difficult people. They have a lot more practice at it!" That's probably true, but the author never tells us what to do instead.
Likewise, the author says, "If one student tends to be disruptive, the teacher takes steps to minimize that student's impact on others in the room." Once again, the author does not tell us how, or give suggestions.
My biggest concern with this book is the assumption that positive attitudes will cure everything, if you just gloss over it enough. I don't consider myself either a complainer or a enthusiastic cheerleader of a teacher, neither extreme. I suppose mostly I am quiet, willing to wait and see what will come to pass in the direction of the school, and I give way to those with more experience.
But this positive attitude is so different than the engineering disciplines, where our ideas are thoroughly tested by peer review before they come to fruition - to find the problems before they occur and to prevent them, or at the very least, to debug them when they are discovered. I once said that I would be frightened if I ever designed something, and it wasn't challenged. I could feel better if it were challenged and the design had met those questions and challenges.
That's not just put on a happy face, gloss everything over, ignore or isolate the complainers, etc. The complainers may have some very vital piece of information that it may be hazardous to ignore. The teacher I am thinking of here, who would be labeled a complainer, has a vast treasure-trove of experience and knowledge, and may well be considered a top-tier teacher, for all I know. (I don't think he complains to the students, and is professional with them, as well as to the rest of the faculty.) As I said at the beginning, there's no scientific study mentioned relating teacher attitude to quality student output. Maybe the better teachers can more easily find the hogwash in new programs.
Ideas aren't better just because they're new. Ideas aren't better just because they're old, either. Each idea stands on its own merits, and should stand on a stringent evaluation and implementation.
Just put a good attitude on it and it will all work out makes me think of "Just click your heels together three times and you will find yourself at home." Make-believe.