Ambition is neither good nor bad. It can help you achieve your dreams or it can lead you to dead ends, bereft of fulfillment. So to get truly good returns on your ambition, consider it in terms of growth and well-being, not just achievement. Reflect on where your goals come from and whether they’re truly your own. Be sure to watch out for the darker form in which your ambition can express itself. And craft a personal philosophy of ambition to guide you along your path. In doing these things, you’ll set yourself up for greater returns on your ambition and a much more rewarding life.
And here’s some more actionable advice:
Set an immediate priority.
While your philosophy of ambition can guide you in the long term, in the short term, you’ll need to figure out an immediate priority – the one thing that you need to give all your attention to for the next three months. Choose something aspirational and with the potential to have an impact on your return for ambition. In other words, something that challenges and excites you – and has a big payoff. It’s important to note that your immediate priority is singular – just one thing. While this may sound a bit unambitious, your immediate priority will help focus your ambition, channeling energy to where it’s needed most. This is the first goal of many that will start getting you those returns on your ambition – and as soon as you achieve it, set another!
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Going too fast will make you lose sight of the way.
In the 1986 movie Top Gun, the character Maverick is a supremely bold, independent, and competitive fighter pilot competing to win the top spot in flight school. And while his ambitious traits serve him well, at one point, Maverick’s eagerness to be the best leads to a plane crash and the death of his copilot Goose.
While Goose’s death is certainly an extreme – and Hollywood – example of the dark side of ambition, it does illustrate a point. When your ambition is out of balance, you’re more prone to making mistakes, alienating others, and ultimately, losing your sense of self. Just like Maverick did in the aftermath of Goose’s death.
The key message here is: Going too fast will make you lose sight of the way.
So let’s talk about boldness. This is the trait that often leads ambitious people to dive in before they’ve gathered all the information or all the skills they need. While they may succeed at first, a time will probably come when their ambition outpaces their skills. And when that time does come, it’ll be tempting to take risky shortcuts.
Ambitious people also tend to be lone wolves, preferring to work independently because other people just slow them down. While independence is a great strength, the flip side is that they don’t know how to ask for help and they’re extreme perfectionists. Forced to work alone because no one else can get the job done, ambitious people are prone to burnout.
Lastly, ambitious people are competitive. This not only gives them the determination to keep going but also the insight to understand who and what they’re up against. But the dark side really emerges when they become driven by the need to be better than others. Doing so takes the focus off their own goals and turns everything into a battle – and the stakes are high because their self-worth is on the line.
So remember that the real goal is to maximize your return on ambition. Even the guy who wins the Tour de France – with all those steep climbs he has to battle to keep the lead – has a whole support team behind him. So as much as possible, learn to moderate your competitiveness and appreciate the value of interdependence. And when it comes time to measure your achievement, compare yourself to who you were a year ago and not to those around you.