Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets: 5 Questions to Help You Determine Your Next Move

by Andy Stanley

Set yourself up for success in every season of life, for the rest of your life.

Discover five game-changing questions to ask every time you make a major decision regarding your finances, relationships, career, and more.

Good questions lead to better decisions. And your decisions determine the direction and quality of your life—they create the story of your life. And while nobody plans to complicate their life with bad decisions, far too many people have no plan to make good decisions.

In Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets, Andy Stanley—pastor and bestselling author of Irresistible and Not In It To Win It—will help you learn from experience and stop making bad decisions by integrating five questions into every decision you make, big or small.

This book will help you live differently by showing you how

Develop a decision-making filter that reveals which choices will likely lead to positive results.Avoid selling yourself on bad ideas and making quick decisions when time is short.Find truth and clarity in any tricky decision.Improve relationships and heal division through better decisions.Discover the reasons behind your decisions so you can move forward with positive changes.Consider the long-term impact of your choices so you can write a life story worth celebrating.Easily identify any red flags that signal which decisions may result in future regrets. 

Genres: Nonfiction, Christian, Self Help, Leadership, Business, Audiobook, Faith

185 pages, Kindle Edition

Published October 20, 2020

About the author

Andy Stanley is the senior pastor of North Point Community Church, Buckhead Church, and Browns Bridge Community Church. He also founded North Point Ministries, which is a worldwide Christian organization.

Reviews

[Monica H (TeaandBooks) · Rating 5 out of 5]

My husband and I have been watching Andy Stanley on Sundays, along with our own church, for the past several years. When we saw Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets was releasing, we knew we would want a copy.

Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets covers five basic questions to ask yourself to help you determine the best decision that you can make in a situation. Pastor Stanley encourages readers to remember that all of our decisions, big or small, affect someone else. How will our decisions affect those around us or other family members? He encourages us to ask questions from 5 different angles that will help us make the best decisions so our stories are stories we are proud to tell others. He shares some personal stories from his life. He also shares stories from famous Bible people that help us to see how God helped them to make the best decisions.

Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets is a small but powerful book. Andy Stanley writes in such a way that I can relate well to what he is saying. In the back of the book there is an appendix with the five questions in it so readers can refer back to them as they practice making better decisions. After awhile, I think it will become second nature, but I could be wrong. I already knew one of the questions from a sermon that Andy shared. My husband and I have discussed that one many times as we made decisions. This is one of the books that I really wish that I had had when I was a teenager. I didn't have people around me that guided me in to making good decisions and I wish that I had learned this skill much earlier. At the same time, at the end of the book, Pastor Stanley reminds readers that regrets may be part of your story--but they are only part of your story. He says, they may remind you but they don't define you.You are never to old to start making better decisions for your future. I encourage you to get a copy of Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets and to learn how to do just that.

I received an early electronic copy of this book for review. However, I also pre-ordered 5 copies to hand out as gifts.

[Rodney Booe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Andy Stanley does not disappoint with his latest release, Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets. If you've listened to much of Andy's content, you will be familiar with these 5 Questions. With his usual approach to unpacking content in an easy-to-understand, attainable regardless of your age or stage of life, Andy's book would make a great gift for just about anyone: college graduate, newlywed, new parents, and well everyone else. My favorite two questions (and one's I lean into the most) are "What is the wise thing to do?" and "What does love require of me?"

I often find myself not wanting to ask "What does love require of me?" But, when I do ask it and answer it honestly, I'm always glad I did. I highly recommend this book!

[John · Rating 4 out of 5]

Andy Stanley's "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets" is Stanley at his best. This book is packed with practical wisdom and helpful for anyone from high school students to those much further along their journey.

Stanley encourages us to ask five questions when we face decisions:
1. The Integrity Question: Am I being honest with myself, really?
2. The Legacy Question: What story do I want to tell?
3. The Conscience Question: Is there a tension that needs my attention?
4. The Maturity Question: What is the wise thing to do?
5. The Relationship Question: What does love require of me?

With each of these important questions, Stanley helps move us toward the path of wisdom. He urges us:“As you consider your options, as you consider moving down a particular path, as you consider what to do next, if there’s any hesitation around a particular alternative, pause and allow . . . and I don’t know any other way to say this . . . allow that emotion, that tension, to rise up and get as big as it can possibly get before you decide. Don’t start selling yourself.” Stanley comes back to this again and again: we are made for more. Don't settle for less.

Stanley warns us that our fear of others can sink ourselves. He says, “Because of the pressure to fit in and to please, we can find ourselves making decisions that don’t align with our highest good. When we make decisions from the fear of being judged and/or rejected, we doom ourselves to this people-pleasing brand of decision-making.”

To help clarify each of question, Stanley offers an accompanying decision. They are:
1. The Integrity Question: Am I being honest with myself, really?
Decision #1: I will not lie to myself even the truth makes me feel bad about myself.
2. The Legacy Question What story do I want to tell?
Decision #2: I will write a story I’m proud to tell one decision at a time.
3. The Conscience Question Is there a tension that needs my attention?
Decision #3: I will explore rather than ignore my conscience.
4. The Maturity Question What is the wise thing to do?
Decision #4: I will take the past, present, and future into consideration
5. The Relationship Question What does love require of me?
Decision #5: I will decide with the interests of others in mind.

The best of these questions is the final question, the question of love. Stanley says, “God will always nudge us in the direction of kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control. When in doubt, max those out.” The question of love directs us ultimately toward Christ. Although that would be my critique of book: that Stanley doesn't put Christ front and center. While I'm glad he ends directing us to Christ, that connection seemed a little too thin.


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[Deb · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this along with a sermon series. Good questions to ask of yourself

[Zakiya · Rating 4 out of 5]

I remember this sermon series and found the book as a great reminder on how to make better decisions. It reminds me that what is wise for me..is wise for me.

[Ly · Rating 3 out of 5]

this is a book designed to help people tease out a "decision" / "answer" they already knew within their heart is the right course of action/ path to follow.

many times Stanley repeated throughout his book a variation of:
"face up to what you know is right for you", "“ I’m referring to the fact that we usually know the answers before we finish asking the questions.”.

stanley's tips are only half as helpful if you stand to make a critical, morally-neutral decision that has major impact on your life, but you genuinely has no idea what to do or whether you will regret it later on (despite having been honest with yourself, knowing that you have nothing to hide about your story later on in life, having a clear conscience). his second to last question that should be helpful "to the wise thing" made this decision-making process tougher, not easier, for under many circumstances, what, really, is the wise thing? and whose wisdom (this would be less straightforward if you are non-christian reading this book).

he also clearly has an audience in mind, and his writing style is very patronising, making discerning readers feel as if he readily over-simplifies and trivialises the "decisions" everyone is making in life, so that they fit well into his paradigm. i would have taken the advice way more readily if the writing style is less patronising and more humble.

[Tami · Rating 5 out of 5]

um livro simples, direto e transformador!! os exemplos que o Andy trouxe me marcaram demais. gosto muito quando um autor consegue ilustrar conceitos de forma tão clara e prática! com certeza levarei esses ensinamentos para a vida e para as próximas decisões que eu precisar tomar. recomendo super!!!

[Jung]

Every day, we make decisions that quietly shape the trajectory of our lives. Some are small, like what to eat or whether to exercise. Others carry deep and lasting consequences: who to marry, where to live, which career to pursue, how to respond in moments of conflict. In "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets: 5 Questions to Help You Determine Your Next Move", Andy Stanley offers a simple but profound framework to guide these choices. He reminds us that our lives are, in essence, the cumulative result of our decisions. While we can’t control every circumstance, we can control how we respond - and that, over time, determines who we become. The book’s central message is that good decision-making isn’t about luck or intelligence but about consistently asking the right questions before taking action. Through five key prompts, Stanley shows how anyone can replace impulsive choices with thoughtful, integrity-driven decisions that lead to fewer regrets and more fulfillment.

In this book the author presents five powerful questions designed to guide you toward wiser choices in any area of life - relationships, work, finances, and personal growth. Here are the **5 questions** and what each means:

1. The Integrity Question: 'Am I being honest with myself - really?'
This question challenges self-deception. Stanley says we often rationalize poor decisions, so the key is to slow down and face the truth behind our motives. Add the word 'really' to push past your first excuse: 'Am I being honest with myself - really?'

2. The Legacy Question: 'What story do I want to tell?'
Every decision becomes a permanent part of your personal story. This question helps you make choices that you’ll be proud to include in your life’s narrative - especially when facing tough, high-stakes moments.

3. The Conscience Question: 'Is there a tension that deserves my attention?'
When something doesn’t feel quite right - when there’s that inner moral or emotional 'pause' - don’t ignore it. Stanley encourages you to stop and explore that feeling before acting; it may signal an ethical or relational issue you need to face.

4. The Maturity Question: 'What is the wise thing to do?'
Not 'what can I get away with?' or 'what’s everyone else doing?' but what’s *wise* - in light of your past experiences, current circumstances, and future hopes. This moves you beyond right vs. wrong into wisdom-based decision-making.

5. The Relationship Question: 'What does love require of me?'
The ultimate filter for any decision. It shifts focus from self-interest to empathy, compassion, and doing what’s best for others - even when it costs you. This is the question that transforms good decisions into great ones.

Stanley begins by challenging the myth that bad outcomes simply 'happen' to people. Most of the time, our biggest regrets are not random accidents but carefully planned mistakes. They come from hundreds of small, seemingly logical choices that, together, lead us somewhere we never intended to go. The marriage that fails, the debt that spirals, or the business that collapses often started with just one rationalized compromise. The problem, Stanley argues, is not ignorance - it’s self-deception. Human beings are experts at convincing themselves that what they want is also what’s best. We create mental stories to justify our impulses, persuading ourselves that a risky purchase is an 'investment,' that an unhealthy relationship is just 'complicated,' or that a bad habit is 'under control.' The first question, then, becomes a mirror for self-awareness: 'Am I being honest with myself - really?' The addition of 'really' breaks through the surface layer of rationalization. It forces you to stop spinning narratives and confront your true motives. Stanley encourages readers to ask this question out loud, even using their own name. 'Andy, are you being honest with yourself, really?' It’s a deceptively simple act that cuts through emotional fog and restores clarity.

Once you begin to face the truth, the next challenge is to think beyond the moment. Every decision becomes part of your life story. The second question asks: 'What story do I want to tell?' This perspective transforms how we evaluate our options. Instead of obsessing over short-term outcomes - like comfort, convenience, or status - we begin to see choices as chapters in a narrative we’ll one day share. Stanley points out that few people want to tell a story filled with deception, compromise, or regret. Yet that’s exactly what happens when we fail to consider how today’s decision will read tomorrow. By asking this question, you align your present actions with the kind of legacy you want to leave. It helps you zoom out from temporary emotions and think like the biographer of your own life, ensuring that your next move contributes to a story you’ll be proud to tell.

Even with self-awareness and long-term perspective, decision-making is rarely simple. Often, a subtle feeling of unease lingers beneath the surface - a quiet warning that something isn’t right. Stanley calls this the 'tension to pay attention to,' and it leads to the third question: 'Is there a tension that deserves my attention?' The human mind processes information on multiple levels, and our subconscious often detects problems before our conscious reasoning catches up. That uneasy feeling, that pause before saying 'yes,' might be your inner wisdom signaling caution. Ignoring it can lead to costly mistakes. Stanley advises that when this tension appears, the wisest course is to wait. Don’t rush to explain it away. Sit with it. Explore it. Seek advice if needed. If the tension persists, it’s often a sign that something about your decision doesn’t align with your values or instincts. Listening to this inner discomfort doesn’t mean being ruled by fear - it means acknowledging that intuition has a place alongside logic in wise decision-making.

The fourth question reframes the entire approach to decision-making: 'What is the wise thing to do?' Most of us instinctively ask whether a decision is 'right or wrong,' 'legal or illegal,' or 'permissible or not.' But Stanley argues that morality alone isn’t a sufficient compass. Many decisions aren’t technically wrong yet still lead to regret. The wise choice is the one that sets you up for future success, peace, and integrity - not just the one that keeps you out of trouble. This requires brutal honesty about your weaknesses and circumstances. What might be safe for one person could be risky for another. Wisdom, therefore, is personal and situational. It takes into account your past experiences, current realities, and future hopes. Asking what’s wise elevates your thinking from 'Can I?' to 'Should I?' and helps you make decisions that protect your long-term well-being. Stanley compares this to staying well within the guardrails of life rather than driving on the edge of the cliff.

Finally, Stanley turns to the fifth question, which transcends strategy and enters the moral and relational core of decision-making: 'What does love require of me?' This question invites us to move beyond self-interest and into compassion. It’s inspired by the principle that love - understood as patient, kind, humble, and forgiving - should shape how we respond to others. When faced with conflict, this means asking what the most loving action would look like, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable. Love requires forgiveness when resentment feels justified. It calls for honesty when silence would be easier. It asks us to prioritize relationships over pride. Stanley argues that asking this question cuts through selfish rationalizations that often sabotage both our peace and our relationships. It reframes success not as 'winning' an argument or achieving a goal, but as choosing the option that fosters connection, understanding, and growth. In every situation - whether parenting, leading, or simply interacting - this question becomes a moral compass that prevents regret.

Across all five questions, a single theme emerges: great decision-making begins with humility. It’s the humility to admit that you don’t always know what’s best, that emotions can cloud judgment, and that future consequences often outweigh present desires. Stanley’s framework doesn’t promise perfect outcomes, but it does promise peace of mind. When you’ve paused long enough to ask the right questions, you remove the excuses that lead to regret. You act not from impulse but from integrity. And even if things don’t go as planned, you can live with your decision because it was made thoughtfully and with wisdom.

Ultimately, "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets: 5 Questions to Help You Determine Your Next Move" is not just about decision-making - it’s about character formation. Each question sharpens your ability to choose clarity over confusion, wisdom over impulse, and love over ego. It reminds you that your choices don’t just shape your outcomes; they shape who you become. Every regret avoided, every wise decision made, builds a life story defined by integrity and peace. The next time you find yourself at a crossroads, remember Stanley’s five guiding questions: Am I being honest with myself? What story do I want to tell? Is there a tension that deserves my attention? What is the wise thing to do? And what does love require of me? These questions won’t eliminate all uncertainty - but they will anchor your decisions in values that endure, ensuring that the story of your life is one you’ll be proud to tell.

[Rebecca Massey · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was grateful to receive an advanced copy of Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets. One of the reasons I’ve been a regular attender of Andy Stanley’s network of churches since 1997 is because Andy has a gift for simplifying Biblical principles into understandable and actionable steps that can easily be applied to our lives. This book is no different. I read it in one sitting with pen and paper to jot down the many nuggets of wisdom pulled from Biblical truths.

The basic premise is there are five questions you should ask yourself anytime you have a decision to make. They each spoke to me but one that stood out in a profound way is “What does love require of me?” I’ve heard Andy speak on this before but not in the context of my decision making. Imagine how our current “divisive” “outrage” culture might change if we regularly asked ourselves this question and then acted on it. That is a world I think we all would like to live in.

This book is a must read for anyone who wants to be wiser with their decision-making, so their lives tell a better story. I’ll conclude with a quote from Andy Stanley included in the book:

“Good questions lead to better decisions. Your decisions determine the direction and quality of your life. Your decisions serve as the framework for the story of your life. So write a good one. While there’s nothing you can do about the decisions you’d choose to go back and unmake, remember this: Your regrets are only part of your story. They don’t have to be the story. Your past should remind you. It doesn’t have to define you.”

[Jimmy Donaruma · Rating 5 out of 5]

By far one of the best communicators out there. Andy lays out a great and simple grid for decisions making, illustrating it with examples from across life’s spectrum, so it’s applicable to almost everyone.

Even though it simple to follow, these questions are HARD to ask if we don’t slow down.

This is the only piece I think Andy missed up front, is if we don’t pause long enough to ask these and process, it’ll make no difference.

Maybe the more you integrate these questions into your everyday life, the quicker you can process it? But I’m a slow learner... so this is going to take some intentional time and energy to apply.

Outstanding layout and guide.

[Scott Wozniak · Rating 5 out of 5]

Andy Stanley is one of the most effective teachers of our time, in my opinion. His ability to explain and idea, why it matters and how to implement it, is world class. So there isn't a ton that's new in this book (I have read dozens of books on decision making and wisdom), this was still a thoroughly enjoyable read. And there are some really good nuances to his approach (using 5 questions) that did enhance my decision making practices. Short, powerful book on maybe the most important topic of all. In the end, our lives boil down to a series of decisions. We can't control what we were born into, but we can then choose what we do, how we think, and who we become.

[Charles · Rating 2 out of 5]

I thought this was a secular self-help book, but the audiobook is a 4-hour long Christian sermon. Bit of a bait & switch.
That said the pastor is a good communicator. You can get the questions in the introduction:
1. Am I being honest with myself *really*?
2. What story do I want to tell? (to my kids etc)
3. Is there a tension (gut feel) that deserves my attention?
4. What is the wise thing to do?
5. What does love require of me?

Listening to the rest of the book adds some more depth and reasoning to these questions. Almost all examples come from the bible.

[Avery · Rating 1 out of 5]

This is literally a sermon. The title should reflect that the book is a pastor applying Christian tenets and biblical stories to decision making. My other criticism is that it's delivered like a sermon or subliminal messaging... he repeats the same statements and questions - not just later in the book, chapter, or paragraph - but, immediately after.

[Karen Lopez Vera · Rating 4 out of 5]

Me sorprendió este libro que entre sin expectativas y me sorprendió mucho, no tanto por el tema sino la visión personal que le da, la pega que hay cosas que al final siento q son muy subjetivas, y a las q no termina de cerrar, pero es un libro que da para reflexionar.

[Barb · Rating 4 out of 5]

A short and direct book, helping one assess one’s next decisions in life, based on what is true, one’s legacy, conscience, maturity, and relationships.

[Jon Barr · Rating 5 out of 5]

Simple, practical questions you can apply today. And delivered by one of the best to do it.

1. The Integrity Question: Am I being honest with myself, really?

- "Curiosity will keep you focused on the frontiers of your ignorance. When it gets uncomfortable and you're tempted to turn back to what you've always known, remember this: that is fear talking. That is insecurity talking. And you will learn little from either."

Decide "I will not lie to myself even when the truth makes me feel bad about myself."

2. The Legacy Question: "What story do you want to tell and what story do you want told about you? "

- Look for the Reuben, the person who can see the ultimate instead of the immediate.

Decide "I will decide the story I want to tell. I will not decide anything that makes me a liar for life."

3. The Conscience Question: "Is there a tension that deserves my attention?"

Decide "I will pause even when I can't pinpoint the cause of my hesitation" and "I will explore rather than ignore my conscience."

4. The Maturity Question: "What is the wise thing to do?"

- In light of my past experience, my current circumstances and my future hopes and dreams, what is the wise thing for me to do?

Decide "I will do the wise thing."

5. The Relationship Question: "What does love require of me?"

- When unsure of what to say or do, ask what love requires of you.

Decide "I will decide with the interest of others in mind."

[Barb Purvis · Rating 5 out of 5]

A life changing book -whether you are a Christian or not. One of those "if only I had read it and embraced the 5 questions how different the path." In first place for my top read ( I know 2024 has only just begun...) Question number three simply resonated over and over. The reason(s) why for me are unknown; yet why one does not pay attention to the "red flag, little voice, your gut, or whatever it is called that something is amiss" .. always stuns me later. The ability to stay in an uncomfortable space, even when those around you say its ok and wait to find out why that feeling is there instead of pushing it down with all the reasons it will turn out well. Question number one fits nicely behind this as it necessary to "lie" to yourself to make the red flag go away. If......

[Fran Hopkins · Rating 5 out of 5]

Never disappoints when it comes to Andy Stanley!

[Jen Severn · Rating 5 out of 5]

Making a decision??? READ IT!!! It’s so practical & wise!!!

[Peter Peters · Rating 5 out of 5]

Unbelievable, powerful, life changing experience worth the read and application 100%

[Kara Corriedale · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really wish I had read this book 15 years ago...I think it will come in handy in the future.

[Hannah Gampe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Honestly.. lowkey life-changing for me. My friend let me borrow her copy and I immediately bought my own after reading this. This is written by a pastor, so it’s spiritual/religious. It truly challenged me as a person and asks difficult, yet deeply thought provoking questions. I would recommend this to everyone!!! I find myself asking myself the principle questions in this book when it comes to decisions, big and little. I’m so thankful I read this, and I like to think this book and the lessons within it will stick with me and allow me to grow and make wiser, more honest, more loving decisions.

[Mayumi Amargo · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book walks the reader into better questions to ask when making decisions. The five questions he asks are: 1)”am I being honest with my self, really?, “ 2) “what story do I want to tell?,” 3)”is there tension that needs my attention?,” 4)”what is the wise thing to do?,” and 5)”what does love require of me?” These are questions regarding: integrity, legacy, conscience, maturity and relationship. This book is very helpful!

[Brett Gorney · Rating 5 out of 5]

Everybody should read this book.. regardless of where you are with faith, spirituality, religion, etc. It's that good.

I've read every one of Andy Stanley's books and I've been listening to his messages for over 10 years - both from church and his leadership podcasts. Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets, is pound for pound (since its a small book) the most powerful, impactful, applicable book he's ever written and that I've ever read.

Honestly, these are new. They're repeated questions from different messages over the years... the best part is, Andy has a unique way of making them memorable and I've been applying most of them ever since I first heard them over the years. I can't tell you how many times I've "Paid attention to the Tension" or asked myself, "In light of my past experiences, my current situation, and my future hopes and dreams, what's the wise thing to do?"

If you have teenage or older kids... gift them this book, read it together as a family. I wish I would have had it when I was a teenager or in college.. heck even in my later 20's. I'll be sending copy's of this book to my family and to many others over the years. It'll be worth the investment to help then hopefully make better decisions and fewer regrets!

[John Mullins · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read for every human being

Typically, when you have a book written by a pastor, it falls into a niche category; it wouldn’t be unreasonable to think of it being meant for a subculture of people sharing the same set of beliefs. Churchy people. Bible thumpers. The religious. The stiff choir the preachers preach to (so to speak).

This is not that.

The universal principles outlined in this book are for everyone. They are powerful, and significant enough, to challenge us all and change our thinking for the better. For example, the book asks the reader to reflect on questions such as, “What does love require of me?” or “What is the wise thing for me to do given my past experiences and current circumstances?”. These speak for themselves, and even in the polarized environment of today’s world, we all can agree on how practical these questions are right?

But why don’t we all ask ourselves these questions 100% of the time when making the big decisions of our lives? What is it about us-where we know to think of this common sense stuff, but we fail to live it out?

This pages in this book unveil the answer and the framework to apply it to your life. It will make you a better leader, employee, partner, spouse, or fill in the blank. Lol. Just better. I strongly urge you to consider reading this book. Your life will appreciate it.

[Kathy G. · Rating 5 out of 5]

Andy Stanley has a way with words and a way of making the Bible come to life and apply to today.

This easy to read book, gives you five powerful questions that will help you make better decisions. Andy discusses emotions, that feeling inside that you don’t understand and our nagging conscience. We may be familiar with some of these thoughts, but we probably never would have thought to put them together in one powerful book. If you ask yourself these questions for big decisions, and hold yourself accountable, you will have less regrets.

I also feel this book would help anyone struggling with self discipline in finances, healthy eating, etc. in other words, this book will make you question yourself before you do something you may regret in a few minutes or a year.

The last question is the most powerful for me. What does love require of you? This question is tricky because you may not get anything back, but it’s the way Jesus said we should live. Right now in the US if we all asked ourselves this question, we could come together and change things. It’s not about ourselves. It’s about meeting the needs of others.

So run, do not walk or at least type fast and order multiple copies of this book. You need to give them to your whole family and all your friends so that we can remember what Jesus’ style of love really is.

[Jeff Geisler · Rating 5 out of 5]

A Crescendo

I loved how this book built to such a crescendo; it inspired me to better thinking. I read a chapter each day to give each question time to really sink into my soul. I found myself wanting to post a tweet or message that Chapter X , or question X was the best. Full of personal scenarios and biblical insights, the book challenged me to think about past and future decisions in a way I wouldn’t have before reading this book.

Andy’s good stories, that I could tie to moments in my life (growing up, raising kids, working with others in church and vocationally), gave me confidence to face the future decisions in my life Better. The questions and stories in the book are easy to share with others in all facets of life.

Ultimately the final question is the best and most comprehensive. Andy reminds us that serving and loving others the way Jesus did is a high calling we are all worthy of, and is relevant for these divisive times. If we could all just live by that question day by day, we wouldn’t need all the other ones and our world would be a better place. Read this book, take time to let each chapter connect to your story and have its full effect. Make the decision to read this book; you won’t regret a minute spent doing so.

[Steve]

This book is brilliant and insightful and well-written and practical and absolutely awful. It is challenging and forces you to consider how you are making your choices. And, in my case, thinking about that, was absolutely horrible. The problem is that once you have read the book you can't unknow the stuff you learn. And once you understand that there are five questions that really will help you make better decisions you have two choices. Accept the challenge and ask the questions and make better decisions, even if they are not the easy ones. Or, take the easy road, don’t ask the questions and admit to yourself that you are actually pursuing regret, because you don’t want to do the work. That is really, really helpful and useful and needed and tough and horrible.

Just the first question “Am I being honest with myself...really?” brought me so much insight to the dumb decisions I have made. And to be honest with you (and myself) it actually helped me make a better decision in the last 24 hours.

I would highly recommend this book, but be warned. Because once you know the questions you will have to consider them, and you may not like the consequences.

[Bonnie Clark · Rating 5 out of 5]

In Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets Andy gives you the pen to write a better life story- one decision at a time with 5 thought-provoking questions that will equip you to "end up somewhere on purpose."

At a minimum, these questions will shine light on the truth of self-awareness and the lies we've convinced ourselves of. As Andy says, “You owe it to yourself to know, even if knowing points you in a direction you don’t intend to go.” BUT if applied, this small book could change the course of your life in a BIG way.

Andy offers personal stories, Biblical illustrations and practical wisdom to encourage the reader to go against culture and impulse, and to push pause before making decisions, because "Every decision you make... becomes a permanent part of your story."

For every young person with many decisions ahead and those of us with many regrettable ones behind us, Andy offers a life-line to peace and fewer regrets- starting with your very next decision.

“Everyone ends up somewhere in life. I recommend you end up somewhere on purpose.”- Andy Stanley

[Matthew Ross · Rating 5 out of 5]

Andy does it again to bring hard concepts in a simple way!

I have been a fan of Andy for a long time, from his sermons to his books. When I saw that he was releasing another book I had to read it and I was not disappointed. While none of what Andy writes in the book is new, he references many examples in the Bible from each concept/ question, he is able to speak life into difficult to understand concepts.

I believe no matter where you are at and what you do this book will speak to you. We all make hundreds if not thousands of decisions everyday and the 5 questions that Andy suggests we ask ourselves before we make a decision are useful in any situation.

I read this book in under 2 weeks and I have to say that I have already been putting into practice the questions and can see better outcomes in my life. It is not easy to make hard decisions, but going against the flow and thinking about what story you want to tell requires tough choices.

Read this book, let it impact your life in amazing ways and you will not regret the time and money you spent on the book!