I'm two-thirds of the way through and so I'm jumping the gun like I often do. I can give this book three stars for being so well written. This really is a fantastic exploration of the personal lives of some of the women of the Old Testament. The author absolutely must conjecture, and she does so to the favor of the women she researches. And she did a lot of in depth, heartfelt research, too. No shooting in the dark without having made intelligent guesses on where her targets may be.
Having said that, Roiphe suffers a bit from The Red Tent syndrome. I call it that because in THAT book, the author loved her female characters but damned her male characters simply because they were male, and she felt she could never have found deep meaning to them or their actions. Now, Roiphe doesn't suffer this as badly, she does not descend that deeply into hypocrisy and madness. She does lean that way, however, at times.
And finally, my really big and doctrinal and thematic accusation: Roiphe does not quite get a few essential facts or even solid conjectures even when she demonstrates the ability to apply reasoning to other aspects of these Old Testament stories. This really shows up in her treatment of the story of Abraham and his near sacrifice of Isaac. Nowhere does Roiphe seem to realize that God never intended for Abraham to take that sacrifice to its awful end. Nowhere does she, and really, her sources don't and so she can't, realize that God may have explained some things to Abraham, to Isaac, to Sarah, at some point or other. She does conjecture to a certain degree, but she keeps mentioning that God didn't say anything. Perhaps He didn't say anything that got recorded. Perhaps some things are too sacred even for sacred texts, and it isn't a fact that God meant to emotionally scar Isaac for life the way Roiphe makes it sound like He meant to. This is where I can teach what I have been taught- that Abraham was tested, that Isaac was tested. That the ram was provided by God to replace Isaac because only after the Messiah came, would we have to offer up our hearts, not our sheep, to Him. Abraham did this, and so did Isaac, and Sarah. Their very hearts were on that altar. And just because we are mortals, through all the generations, maybe we needed a story of a mortal man who offered up his beloved son, so we could marvel within ourselves and come closer to a realization of what our Heavenly Father might have gone through when He made the sacrifice of His Only Begotten.
And there are other things she misses. BUT she does an excellent job with what she does understand, and I am grateful for her research into Jewish writings (which I find fascinating and deeply human) and for all the carefully thought out writing that she provides. I'm looking forward to her conclusion to see how she wraps things up.
Now back to the story.