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An Independent Woman

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Julia Gracey has always lived by the rule that women should stand on their own two feet. But whenever there's a problem, Professor Gerard van der Maes always seems to be on hand with the perfect solution! Gerard seems determined to steal Julia's heart—yet she's just as adamant that he won't take over her life. But when Julia is about to lose her home, Gerard offers one final proposition that she finds impossible to resist—marriage!

192 pages, Mass Market Paperback

First published May 4, 2001

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Betty Neels

564 books418 followers
Evelyn Jessy "Betty" Neels was born on September 15, 1910 in Devon to a family with firm roots in the civil service. She said she had a blissfully happy childhood and teenage years.(This stood her in good stead later for the tribulations to come with the Second World War). She was sent away to boarding school, and then went on to train as a nurse, gaining her SRN and SCM, that is, State Registered Nurse and State Certificate of Midwifery.

In 1939 she was called up to the Territorial Army Nursing Service, which later became the Queen Alexandra Reserves, and was sent to France with the Casualty Clearing Station. This comprised eight nursing sisters, including Betty, to 100 men! In other circumstances, she thought that might have been quite thrilling! When France was invaded in 1940, all the nursing sisters managed to escape in the charge of an army major, undertaking a lengthy and terrifying journey to Boulogne in an ambulance. They were incredibly fortunate to be put on the last hospital ship to be leaving the port of Boulogne. But Betty's war didn't end there, for she was posted to Scotland, and then on to Northern Ireland, where she met her Dutch husband. He was a seaman aboard a minesweeper, which was bombed. He survived and was sent to the south of Holland to guard the sluices. However, when they had to abandon their post, they were told to escape if they could, and along with a small number of other men, he marched into Belgium. They stole a ship and managed to get it across the Channel to Dover before being transferred to the Atlantic run on the convoys. Sadly he became ill, and that was when he was transferred to hospital in Northern Ireland, where he met Betty. They eventually married, and were blessed with a daughter. They were posted to London, but were bombed out. As with most of the population, they made the best of things.

When the war finally ended, she and her husband were repatriated to Holland. As his family had believed he had died when his ship went down, this was a very emotional homecoming. The small family lived in Holland for 13 years, and Betty resumed her nursing career there. When they decided to return to England, Betty continued her nursing and when she eventually retired she had reached the position of night superintendent.

Betty Neels began writing almost by accident. She had retired from nursing, but her inquiring mind had no intention of vegetating, and her new career was born when she heard a lady in her local library bemoaning the lack of good romance novels. There was little in Betty's background to suggest that she might eventually become a much-loved novelist.

Her first book, Sister Peters in Amsterdam, was published in 1969, and by dint of often writing four books a year, she eventually completed 134 books. She was always quite firm upon the point that the Dutch doctors who frequently appeared in her stories were *not* based upon her husband, but rather upon an amalgam of several of the doctors she met while nursing in Holland.

To her millions of fans around the world, Betty Neels epitomized romance. She was always amazed and touched that her books were so widely appreciated. She never sought plaudits and remained a very private person, but it made her very happy to know that she brought such pleasure to so many readers, while herself gaining a quiet joy from spinning her stories. It is perhaps a reflection of her upbringing in an earlier time that the men and women who peopled her stories have a kindliness and good manners, coupled to honesty and integrity, that is not always present in our modern world. Her myriad of fans found a warmth and a reassurance of a better world in her stories, along with characters who touched the heart, which is all and more than one could ask of a romance writer. She received a great deal of fan mail, and there was always a comment upon the fascinating places she visited in her stories. Quite often those of her fans fortunate enough to visit Ho

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Profile Image for Elizabeth.
1,591 reviews181 followers
May 7, 2023
Would rather have liked to knock Gerard and Julia’s heads together in the last several chapters. 😂 Have you ever heard of a conversation guys?? But I did enjoy this one and I liked that Julia is skilled at needlework. That’s a different occupation for a Neels’ heroine, and I enjoyed how it came into the story in different ways. (Especially with the curtains!)
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2,493 reviews56 followers
December 7, 2022
Julia and her two sisters live in house they inherited in a not-great part of London. They're all pretty and competent, friendly young women, though Julia has a peppery personality. When her sisters marry and the house is sold, Julia finds herself at loose ends, with only her needlework skills to provide for herself. Fortunately for her, surgeon Gerard van der Maes, has some ideas about Julia's future.

Which one is this?

NB - I've been asking myself why Neels' books are such good comfort reads, and finally I think I have an answer. They're fairy tales for grownups. :) Cinderella, Snow White, even occasionally Sleeping Beauty are the themes here. With some sort of evil person, or just misfortune, keeping the heroine down, still she has friends and a good attitude. Then the handsome Prince shows up and begins to take a hand in her life, whether she realizes it or not. Throw in lovely details like gardens, flowers everywhere, good food, beautiful homes, long walks with the dogs, and pretty clothes, and they touch just about all the details a fairy tale might have. So they're not great literature; some days my brain isn't up to a great book, no matter how much I love it. Instead I can fall back into a fairy tale world that feels real though it never existed, and rejoice in the eventual happiness of a plucky young woman who never lets life get her down. All while sniffing the New Dawn roses and nibbling on fresh strawberries and lashings of whipped cream. :)
30 reviews
September 8, 2020
The usual gentle Betty Neels fare

When I read a Neels book I know what to expect, whether it was written in 1969 or 2001. There's a comfort in that, which is why I read them. But my modern soul does occasionally writhe at the high-handed way the hero treats the heroine, the old fashioned to the point of absurdity ways of both, and the way that a desire on the part of the young woman in question for independence and making a living is a source of head shaking bemusement by everyone.

That being said, I do love the comfort and security of a Neels romance. Nothing very bad ever happens. You're assured of lots of descriptions of lovely homes and clothes, frequent meals (seriously, I think they eat 5 times a day), lots of animals, and a certain gentle pleasure.

If you're a younger person, these books probably aren't for you. But I have to say that I rather adore Betty Neels work and I've been reading it for comfort and pleasure for 20+ years, since I was young. So perhaps I'm wrong.
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650 reviews12 followers
October 8, 2010
I was disappointed her little wee shoppe didn't work out but he was the typical RDD with hot and cold running servants and he was determined to "make the deal". Her sisters and their DHs were lovely -- great to have a warm, close family. Not too many "Cinderella" overtones.
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707 reviews61 followers
September 15, 2014
Beautifully written, sweet old-timey romance - a welcome change from today's bold romantic notions. The second of my instant faves by Betty Neels. Loved her 'Never The Time & The Place' (another old-fashioned romance). :)
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117 reviews2 followers
September 24, 2025
Picked this up at a lending library for a cute little change of pace. The vibes of Europe in the spring were lovely but this "independent woman" pmo. She opened a whole business to tide her over until she got a husband and then had him close it for her within two weeks of it opening? What was the point of all of the pages of her touring locations, buying wholesale, and learning about the neighborhood if she was just going to drop it all for a man who ignored her 95% of the time!! Anyway! Maybe not for me lol.
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240 reviews
December 22, 2020
I love to take a reading holiday periodically and read a Betty Neels book. This book was a new acquisition for me. It had the hallmarks of many BN books, but also some new twists. Yes, the heroine, Julia Gracy’s parents were not living, but no, she wasn’t destitute, she lived with her two sisters (Ruth & Monica) and the relationship was loving without angst. All three sisters were good looking, but her sisters had fair hair, blue eyes, and were rather slim, while Julia had russet hair and would not be described as slim or skinny. Similar to many Neels’ heroines, the sisters had to constantly economize. They have a place to reside, thanks to their aunt who bequeathed them her house, but there were still taxes, gas, electricity, clothes, and food to be factored in and paid. Also, like many Neels’ heroines, Julia doesn’t have a boyfriend, although her sisters are led to believe that she has a steady admirer, “the junior partner” in the greeting card firm she works for. Lastly, comparing and contrasting of BN’s heroines, Julia is not a nurse, although she is very resourceful. As is typical of BN’s male lead, he is a doctor and Dutch, Professor Gerard van der Maes. Gerard by happenstance and by contrivance connects with Julia in both England and Holland. She cares for her sick sister Ruth, at the behest of Ruth’s fiancé Thomas, who has a working relationship with Professor Gerard. For a time, Julia and Ruth stay at a cottage that is owned by Gerard and cared for by his old nanny. Then Julia is asked to caretake a cottage, while the old nanny is in the hospital in Holland and afterward, again in and out of Gerard’s life. Later, she runs away from her feelings for Gerard and lands a job as a needlework specialist at an old manor house that is redoing old tapestries. But then, oops, the manor house burns down, but no surprise, Gerald hears about it, flies up to rescue her. Sadly, she still is not ready to recognize true love. Her last adventure is starting a small business in a little village where she has no connections. She is efficient in her set up, but the business is not flourishing, but once again Gerald comes to the rescue and of course, all BN readers know how the book ends.
I do not think of Betty Neels as a humorous writer, but there are three really funny quotes that take place in the first chapter. Gerard is tasked to deliver a package to Ruth from her Thomas. Julie is on her hands and knees working on cutting out a dress, using material from some old curtains, which were left over from her Aunt’s time. The front doorbell rings, Ruth thinks it is the milkman, but it is Gerard. Ruth invites him in and offers him coffee. Julia still thinks it is the milkman, as her back is to the door. Ruth tells Julia that they have a visitor. Julia gets up and holds out a hand in greeting and has it crushed! She asks Gerard to sit down; he doesn’t, instead he crosses the room to look at the material that is all over the floor. He states, “It looks like a curtain.” Julia snaps at him, “It is a curtain.” A little later, Gerard’s eyes once again fall to the curtain and he asks, “You are a skilled needlewoman?” Julia says, “Only when I am desperate.” She asks Gerard, “What do you do at the hospital? Teach, I suppose…” Gerard remarks, “I do my best…” When Julia finds out he is a surgeon, she states, “So you’re handy with a needle too!” (pages 7-8). I loved the back-and-forth barbs. Great read, rate 4.8, rounded up to 5.
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1,460 reviews72 followers
May 25, 2015
I have very mixed feelings about this book. Some things I liked very much; other things I quite disliked.

Julia Gracy is the odd duck among her two sisters. They are both engaged and soon marry. Julia pretends to have no interest in marriage and borders on downright rudeness to the RDD; she also is right on the verge of TSTL. I do like that she is a skilled needle woman. I wish she had a bit more business acumen and that her little shop hadn't been such a dismal failure.
Just 3 stars.

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Author 31 books177 followers
February 12, 2011
Enjoyable read although they ate rather a lot of watercress soup. Nice heroine.
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946 reviews13 followers
February 22, 2013
This is an oldie but a goodie in authors. The thing that attracts me to Betty Neels is her use of language. Mrs. Neels had a great love of the English language and used it to great advantage. She could paint such wonderful pictures simply through her use of a particular word.

The books rarely are more than period pieces, set in the 50s through the 70s, yet the mindset is that of a much older and gentler time. There is little action of the type expected in books of today, even romances, although you will find the occasional confrontation or, once or twice, a bombing. They are simply ways of increasing the character's and the reader's blood pressure. They are not essential.

In this particular book, a badly downloaded format (pre-ePub) from Harlequin which didn't do well with my Sony eReader, we have a young woman who strikes sparks off the Professor/Surgeon who works with her brother-in-law. As time passes and they constantly meet again and again, love grows, but will they ever get together? The late Betty Neels brings to life a more gentle romance.

While this isn't one of her best, it is still engaging. If you'd like a quiet couple of hours or have an older relative who bemoans the graphic nature of today's romances, try a Betty Neels' romance, still published by Harlequin Romance. I think you might be pleasantly surprised.
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2,099 reviews176 followers
October 13, 2010
This is one of the last books Betty Neels wrote and it shows. It doesn't appear to have been edited, for example. Our hero and heroine are likable enough, but nothing special. All very tepid--but nicely so.
A few points, though--hooray for the fact that Julia's sisters are nice and that their husbands are also nice and that julia and her sisters have a warm and loving relationship. So often it is otherwise in Neels-land.
And I like that Julia went on with her life, not expecting our Rich Dutch Doctor to always save the day. And I so wanted her shop to be a success and I hope that off-screen they manage to save it.
Not a disaster of a book, but I will probably not remember it for long.
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52 reviews
November 9, 2014
Betty Neels has a way of writing as if the story were set in the Victorian era, so sometimes you'll get very immersed in the adventures of the nurse/caretaker and the Dutch doctor/professor, and then someone will mention a computer or a dress that ends above the ankles and you'll almost die of shock. You'll enjoy this book on a rainy, quiet day. However, as with almost any romance novel that has the word "independent" referring to the heroine in the title, everyone keeps acting as if the heroine just needs to stfu and get married and it gets extremely irritating. Dickish hero.
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236 reviews22 followers
June 29, 2013
I liked this one. I was still annoyed that the hero kept his love to himself for so long like most of Betty's heroes do but I liked that Julia wasn't just waiting around for him. I appreciated the family relationship between the sisters.
1,468 reviews
December 10, 2013
Why doesn't the hero just speak his mind instead of deciding what the woman wants for her? Arghhhh.
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438 reviews13 followers
April 3, 2024
Leída con el título "Una mujer independiente"

En esta novela la protagonista femenina no es enfermera,ni secretaria.Tampoco una niñera. Es una joven de tres hermanas que aún permanece soltera, que es decidida y tiene su fuerte carácter.
En la primera escena vemos a Julia confeccionando un vestido directo de unas cortinas para asistir a un baile...lo suyo es la costura 🧵...
Conoce por intermedio de su cuñado al doctor holandés Gerard,un eminente cirujano.
Está novela es una excepción dentro del canon Betty porque si bien a la protagonista le pasan muchas cosas ,desde quedarse sola y sin casa, y sin trabajo ( se empleaba creando frases para tarjetas de amor o algo así )viajar por trabajo a Holanda,no tener una estabilidad laboral,ella nunca se rinde y busca su propio futuro con independencia de si se casa o no y a pesar de lo buen partido que es el médico holandés,fiel heroína Betty,nunca se da por aludida.
Sabiendose enamorada del doctor ella se escapa, huye y consigue un empleo de tapicera en las afueras de Londres,en una gran mansión que poco después se incendia😲síii y él va a su rescate...aún así ella testaruda sigue huyendo,no está de más decir que él tampoco es muy franco y directo con sus sentimientos pero bueno,el hombre hace lo que puede...
Me gustó descubrir esta novela después de un tiempo leyendo los mismos clásicos... ocurre que no hay traducciones de todo el material de Betty,una pena.
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Author 3 books30 followers
September 23, 2017
For me, this had a strong start: the heroine kneels on the living room floor, converting some household curtains to a dress she needs. As an avid sewer myself, I hoped Betty might finally give her female protagonist some skills and hobbies she'd carry into marriage. But alas, before long we realize this skill will mostly merit pity and assumptions that only the poor would choose to sew clothes; whatever her strengths, Betty must not have discovered the rewards of making clothes to fit your body precisely.

Notwithstanding the somewhat disappointing treatment of sewing, this does give rise to one of the funniest comments on medical work I've seen in a Neels book, when Julia learns he does surgery: "Oh, so you're good with a needle, too."

Like other readers, I found some parts of the book rushed or not quite up to the usual standard (though, good heavens, God bless her for writing so long past the usual retirement age! That's a real career; I can only hope to write so close to my own death). The sisters have a nice relationship, though, which felt distinct from the close-knit families Neels often sketches. I also like the hero's moments of uncertainty and the unplanned feel of the denouement. Those passing scenes imbued him with a refreshing humanity distinct from the dozens of doctors so skilled at getting their way.
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880 reviews6 followers
November 2, 2023
These novels that involve a top-notch doctor who lives in Holland but also does surgery in hospitals in England are my favourite Betty Neels books.

Three Gracie girls live in a poor district in London in an old house ....two of the girls are getting married as soon as would-be grooms get good jobs....Monica and George; Ruth and Thomas.

Julia is very tall and a bit overweight and very outspoken. She meets Professor Gerard van der Maes because Thomas is also a doctor in the same hospital. He and Julia don't like each other as they meet....but he keeps coming back to where Julia is, taking her out for dinner, giving her lifts home, have tea at the house.

He falls in love with her first...much to his surprise and finally she realizes she loves him also....but that doesn't happen until the last couple of pages. Good story.
132 reviews
August 26, 2024
In addition to independent meaning without depending on another for livelihood, it apparently also means stubborn and pigheaded. I'd about had it with Julia Gracey and Gerard van der Maes halfway thru the book. OMG! He was so nasty - starting with the "curtain" dress and he wouldn't let it go. He didn't get any better as the story progressed. I found Julia just as annoying - pining away for the doctor, but saying the nastiest thing she could think of when they did meet. At one point, I seriously wanted to smack that doctor when he thought, "I'll let her have her little shop for a while." Well, aren't you magnanimous! That's really when I wanted Julia to make a go of her shop just to show him that he wasn't needed. If nothing else, I will remember this book as Betty at her worst.
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Author 1 book33 followers
May 5, 2023
I liked this book a lot. Betty brings us yet another rich, Dutch doctor who's only looking for the love of his life. He finds Julia, who believes that she doesn't need any help. She can handle things on her own, thank you. Julia has two sisters, who are soon to be happily married. She puts their little house up for sale and is ready to take on the world. But Gerard (the professor) seems to always be there when she finds a little hiccup in her plans. How long will it take her to see that he is the man of her dreams, and how long until Gerard gets impatient waiting for her to want to marry him?
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2,557 reviews14 followers
August 9, 2018
Lovely

If you enjoy your romances clean, light, fluffy and vintage then you will enjoy the wonderful work of Betty Neels
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120 reviews2 followers
December 2, 2018
The copyright is 2001, but it seems like it was written in the 80s or early 90s. There are touching moments, but overall reading the book was an exercise in perseverance.
359 reviews
February 4, 2021
Another wonderful read

A doctor but no nurse, also no blue blood. A lovely story that I have read more than once already.
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63 reviews
November 8, 2025
Overall, I liked this one, with caveats. This is another of those I read around the start of the pandemic where I was having trouble concentrating due to all the troubles in the world. I read probably the first quarter of this one, skimmed, read the section about the fire, then skipped to the end. This time I read it cover to cover, no skipping. As per usual, it was like discovering a brand new Betty! I enjoyed it. But there were some troubling things. Sadly, Betty has a running theme in several of her books. Many of her heroines (if not most) live on the knife edge between solvency and destitution. In the earlier canon, at least they were trained for something, usually nursing. I can't deny I enjoy the later ones where the h gets offered a series of jobs by the H in an effort to help or as is often remarked, a "desire to make her life easier." In this one, one of the last Betty wrote and which may be a variation on that theme, there is maybe an unpleasant undertone that he's going to let her flail around until he swoops in to save her via marriage. I'm a bit ambivalent because while I enjoyed his POV where it's clear he really does love her, enjoys her peppery personality and also finds her H.O.T., there are also a few remarks that don't sit too well indicating condescension about her efforts to take care of her own future. Oh, Betty...

So, this is the one where the h lives in a London house with her two sisters. They make do on a tight budget. She writes greeting card verses part-time and is a skilled needlewoman.The H, who is the senior doctor in the group where her soon to be brother-in-law works and of course is Dutch, stops by on an errand. She is cutting out a dress when he arrives and sneers at the material, a curtain from the spare room. She is by nature rather peppery anyway, but she is very annoyed indeed. Rightfully so. Well, they keep meeting, both accidentally and on purpose. She fails to like him much better until about halfway through, but soon enough, it's obvious he has taken quite a shine to her. After her sisters each marry and leave her to struggle alone, he engineers for her to visit Holland on various pretexts, first to his little country cottage and then to his magnificent family home in Amsterdam. But our h is convinced he doesn't like her and strikes out on her own, first working as a needlewoman at a country estate (which soon enough burns down) and then opening her own needlework and knitting shop. Tragically, the shop is a bust, but no matter. Here is the H come riding in on his white horse to save her.

I enjoyed the visits to the Dutch cottage. I like how he regularly pops up in her life. I liked his POV where he admits his love and intent to marry her, even if he doesn't fill her in on this interesting fact because he believes she doesn't like him. But the condescending attitude about letting her figure out she can't manage her own life, the failure of her sewing shop and her relief at being rescued... oh, Betty. Averages out to three stars.
7 reviews5 followers
October 31, 2017
1/20/17-1/22/17* Not my favorite BN, but, as always, worth reading. They just took WAY too long to sort things out. 3.5+ rounded up to 4 stars.

October 2017: I've been going through my old updates, cleaning things up a bit, and, now, I'm catching up on my review backlog (I'm still in January of 2017!). In the past, I've always posted my reviews as updates, since they're really just a way for me to remember how I felt about the books I read (for my own benefit, rather than to inform anyone else) and because I'm a big coward, but it's annoying and inefficient, having to do it that way, so I might OFFICIALLY be reviewing things from now on.
...
Maybe.
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153 reviews
December 12, 2023
Clean romance.
Julia tries very hard to be self sufficient, with varying results. Not for lack of trying.
Gerard finds Julia quite different from all the other women he has known, but of course he says all the wrong things, making her think he hates her and is rude. It takes him a long time to figure out almost any thing he compliments her with she assumes is complete criticism, just because they started off badly. He has a lot of damage control to do if she is going to trust him.

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