Well this was a VERY informative book and i am so glad that i read it but first i will explain why it only got 4 stars from me instead of 5:
First off, he kept mentioning Columbine and how Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold were bullied, and i'm sure they were to a certain extent, but at the same time so is everyone. Eric and Dylan's mission was supposed to out do Timothy McVeigh and the Oklahoma City Building bombing. it was supposed to be a terrorist attack with three acts or "phases". what we see on the news and read about was only part of phase 2, and that was the shooting. so for Mr. Chalmers to keep going on and on about that rather annoyed me considering i read the best true crime book everColumbine, to be fair i haven't read Helter Skelter or In Cold Blood, but out of the ones i have read Columbine by Dave Cullen was amazing and it will really showed what Eric and Dylan were trying to prove to the world on April 20 1999.
another thing i disliked was that what Mr. Chalmers wanted from us as citizens and parents, teachers, etc. was unrealistic. yes, this book was written for parents and i'm only 17, but still i kind of laughed at a few of his suggestions. it doesn't matter how well you raise your kids, some kids are just wired wrong and that is what scares us as a society but it is true. also kids, teens, young adults, etc are going to be exposed to violence and sexual images, they can't walk past a billboard or turn on any TV in America and not be exposed to it so to tell parents to monitor EVERYTHING that they're kids buy/watch is unrealistic b/c a lot of kids sneak stuff in and it isn't hard.
nothing in this book surprised me (except for some of the grusome details of true stories of aggression and savergy that our youth has committed) because i already knew most of the material in it, but i still LOVED it and enjoyed it very much. however, for some parents who haven't caught up with all the technological advances and are just trying to put food on the table every night and so forth, i'm sure this will be a wake up call to those individuals.
i really liked Mr. Chalmer's sarcastic tone in his final chapter on the 10 ways to raise a serial killer. it was ridiculous but one could most definitely learn from it! i loved reading the true stories. some i had heard about but some i hadn't. it gives warning signs for teens that could become violent and also in the back is the longest list of teen killers in America that has ever been printed and this goes back to the late 1700s. the stories are simply mindblowing.
the memoirs of what prison is really like scared me. it made me NEVER EVER wanna do anything that would risk me going there. prisons should be a punishment, but at the same time for rehabilitation. if i am paying my tax dollars i would expect some good to come out of it and not just punishing these ppl. this book also gave examples of how unfair our criminal justice system can be, but at the same time of how some ppl easily got off.
this book made me gasp, laugh, cry, and just stunned me at times. i HIGHLY recommend this book but again about Columbine, seriously buy Columbine by Dave Cullen. it is well worth the $24.95!!!!
and this book also gave us a glimpse at teen killers around the world, which i found very interesting, and in fact the most deadly school shooting ever was in Germany, and NOT America, now i bet that will surprise a lot of folks. and a lot of these school shooters were bullied, which enforces the whole Columbine thing, but truly read Columbine by Dave Cullen and you will see what i mean when i say that Eric and Dyland were not as tormented as the mmedia portrayed them to be
the details in this book are fascinating and its clear that Mr. Chalmers did his researchL!
and also he truly cares about America's youth. and he gave a ton of websites, phone numbers, and ppl to contact if someone thinks that a friend, student, neighbor, or family member could become a hostile and violent youth criminal.