I have had six guide dogs, products of three different American training programs. My first guide dog began working with me in 1988, when I was sixteen, and the partnership between me and my current guide began in 2019. So my experience as a handler closely parallels the author's experience raising puppies, training dogs, and working with clients as a guide dog mobility instructor (GDMI) for multiple programs.
There are many books by blind people about their lives with guide dogs, and there are many technical books about training dogs. There is a smaller body of work dedicated to guide dog training or the history of guide dog schools in the United States and elsewhere.
To my knowledge, "Forward Together" is the first book by a GDMI that covers the "making of a guide dog (or not)" from start to finish. This subject was recently highlighted in a feature film and a documentary miniseries, both entitled "Pick of the Litter," which featured Guide Dogs for the Blind in San Rafael, CA. But a book of over 600 pages is going to give readers a much fuller picture of training guide dogs than a movie or miniseries ever could.
Bane writes beautifully. Her sentences flow smoothly, and she is very clear and consistent in her explanations, just as she is in training her dogs. Training dogs isn't the most engrossing topic, and this narrative could very easily have become like a two-mile slog with a guide dog through wind, rain, and muddy slush in March.
Instead, we are treated to a wonderful mix of technical detail and fun. As a blind reader, I especially appreciated Bane's frequent descriptions of dogs' body language and reactions in various situations. I laughed out loud at her recounting of a dog's first encounter with a horse and can tell you she got it just right; Guide Dog No. 4 did this with me in New York City after sighting their first horse in Central Park. I may not be able to see all the things Bane describes, but if I'm walking with someone and am wondering about my dog, I can ask my companion what the dog is doing with their ears or tail. I can feel a lot through the leash and harness, but the ears aren't directly connected to either of those things, and if my dog is wagging their tail so much that they're hitting my butt with it, I'm definitely going to know something's going on. It's true blind people touch their dogs a lot, but most people aren't going to try checking ears and tail while continuing to walk. I will do these things at street crossings, though. My current guide is very expressive with her ears, although not quite as much with her tail. Get the harness off, though, and her tail springs to life.
Another aspect of this book that I deeply appreciated was the explanations of not only the "how" of training particular skills, but the "why" of the training methodology. Reading these made me want to try even harder to become the best handler my guide dog can have by learning how she learned and then trying to stick to that template when I want to teach her something new.
It was interesting to read about how different guide dog schools teach different skills, like holding the leash while the dog is in harness. Most schools instruct handlers to keep the leash tucked under the first two fingers of the left hand where it grasps the harness handle, with a loop extending beyond the hand so one can reach over with the right hand and grab that loop when necessary (such as for giving leash cues or corrections). The Seeing Eye teaches clients to wrap the leash around their left wrist instead, meaning one can do everything leash-related with one hand which is especially great if one is carrying things in the right hand.
Another area where Bane excels is in her way of portraying the different personality and temperament types of dogs and how these can affect training and guide work. I've had the dogs who were steady and methodical, the ones that pulled too hard and had too much distractability, and the ones who were brilliantly smart and either thrived on the work or hated it. My current guide is a soft dog with moderate pace and pull who likes pattern and routine. She's easily overruled, so I've had to become very mindful of how I handle her, being careful not to try to do her job or second-guess her if she's moving more slowly than I would want to.
Finally, Bane vividly captures the complex mix that occurs when a GDMI matches a newly-trained, not-quite-puppy with a new blind handler. She talks about the "paper match" that's made based on the client's application and the knowledge of the dogs available. She reveals the stress of "dog day," when handler and guide are first introduced, and she takes readers through the class experience, including the different types of students and dogs and how these combinations affect the group of GDMI'S working with people in that class. While she readily admits to not fully knowing how a blind person feels on "dog day," she knows how the dogs she trains will become an integral part of a person's life for years after that day. That kind of pressure can get everybody a little worked up and out of sorts.
The author describes observing newly-matched teams beginning to make connections and form bonds. She's not the first person in the guide dog industry to call this kind of transition magic. Even with all the advances in dog-training methods, care placed on breeding exceptional dogs or providing supportive, thorough learning experiences for clients, we will never know how to make every match between human and canine partner successful.
I read this book in audio format from NLS [slash] BARD. The narrator was Kristin Allison, and she's read thousands of books for the Library of Congress Talking Book Program. I think she could make just about anything a pleasure to listen to. The narrator is a large part of how I experience a book, and the match between narrator and book is just about as hard to predict as the one between new guide dog and handler. In this case, Allison's reading of Bane's book is the magic we all look for.
Bane has given the world a wonderful look into the training of guide dogs. This is a great service to the general public, to other guide dog trainers, and to everyone else invested in guide dogs: puppy raisers, volunteers, and clients. The author doesn't pretend to have all the answers and frequently reminds readers that these are only her opinions and experiences. We can (and should) learn from her writing, even if we don't agree with all of it.
I never want to be that handler who thinks that because they've had six guide dogs, they know all there is to know. I never want to be the client who won't try something in a different way because I believe I already know how to do it, or, having learned to do it differently before, believe my way is better. Every time I begin the relationship with a new guide, I want to try to meet them where they are and learn about the things in their character that made their trainer decide they'd make a good guide dog in general and the best guide dog for me in particular.
But after reading this book, I also know that I can go into these future experiences with more knowledge than I had before. Part of that knowledge is the confidence that it's OK to ask questions, especially if I have serious concerns about a match. After all, the matching process requires a dialogue. Decisions made about the two creatures being put into this guide-handler relationship will have a major impact on the dog and the person for a decade or more. Since the dog can't speak, the blind person must. After reading this book, I feel that my voice is stronger because I have a better understanding of the entire process and can better express my own needs as a handler without being ashamed of the things I'm not good at or embarrassed about my shortcomings as a handler. I can try to be the best handler possible, but at the same time, I must also be compassionate to myself and realize that I can't fix or change everything about my handling. Like my dogs, some of it is hardwired in, and some of my tendencies have been reinforced for too long to make change easy.
While I look forward to exploring the affects this book has on my next partnership, I hope that exploration won't happen for a very long time.