The Hidden Value of a Man: The Incredible Impact of Man on His Family

by Gary Smalley, John T. Trent

Bestselling authors Smalley and Trent look at why men can successfully wield power in their professional lives but need help perfecting positive communication at home. This thought-provoking book will help men and women identify and understand the impact of a man's "personal" (family life) power. Exposure at the CBA International Convention.

Genres: Christian, Parenting, Marriage, Religion, Relationships, Nonfiction, Faith

180 pages, Hardcover

First published July 1, 1992

About the author

Gary Smalley was one of the country's best-known authors and speakers on family relationships. He was the award-winning, best-selling author or coauthor of sixteen books, as well as several popular films and videos. The Blessing and The Two Sides of Love have won Gold Medallions, The Language of Love won the Angel Award as the best contribution to family life, and his other titles have received Silver Medallions. His national infomercial Hidden Keys to Loving Relationships has been viewed by television audiences all over the world.

Dr. Greg Smalley graduated with his doctorate degree in clinical psychology from Rosemead School of Psychology at Biola University in Southern California. He also holds master's degrees in counseling psychology (Denver Seminary) and clinical psychology (Rosemead). Dr. Smalley is the director of research and development at Smalley Relationship Center in Branson, Missouri. He lives in Ozark, Missouri with his wife, Erin, and their two daughters, Taylor and Madalyn.

Reviews

[William "Spig" · Rating 4 out of 5]

Promise Keeper book - solid content, a bit dated in application.

Challenging - My biggest take away where the 7 thoughts of leading a family.
1) honoring loved ones through obedience
2) understanding loved ones strengths / gifts
3) real / vulnerable communication
4) dealing with anger
5) Physical connection
6) scheduling time
7) financial stewardship

All these came with tough questions that drove to the real issue, not just an answer.

[Seth · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have certainly enjoyed this book! This book offers some very sound truths from God’s Word and shows how much power men have. I liked their sword analogy. I would recommend this book!

[Michael Willcox · Rating 3 out of 5]

Full of good ideas with the exception of the overall idea of a man having two swords. Not sure where this came from, but seems too simplistic to encompass what a man should be.

[Gordon Francisco · Rating 5 out of 5]

The book should be mandatory reading for all BEFORE engagement. The Two Swords carried by a man and how he yields them make all the difference, for they are both very different requiring knowledge, and wisdom, in which to use when and where and why not.
Changes ideas massively.

[Cws]

305.32

[Dan Griffiths]

thought provoking

[Josh Navey · Rating 3 out of 5]

Good, not great. The analogy of a Silver sword (positional power/public power) and Gold Sword (personal power/relational power) are helpful in analyzing where a man's influence is most used/valued.