I received a free copy of this book from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review – thanks so much as always to Netgalley for sending this to me!
Me, My Dad and the End of the Rainbow is a lovely story about Archie Albright, whose family are in crisis. Mum and Dad have split up, and they keep having not-so-subtle arguments when they think Archie can’t hear. When a mysterious colourful flier falls out of Dad’s pocket, Archie thinks he might have figured out a way to put his family back together again – with a little help from his friends, of course!
This is a really sweet book. Archie is a great, cheeky main character with a super engaging voice, who chatters away to you like you’ve been best mates for years. There’s a great emphasis on friendship here, which I loved; I feel like kids have such all-encompassing friendships and it was so wholesome to see Archie lean on his friends and how they rally together to support him in spite of their fears. There are lots of funny little moments (such as when his best friend needs to come up with a fake name and the first thing that springs to mind is ‘Eliza Barclay Card,’ a name she got off her mum’s bank statement) and tear-jerkers too. The end of the book in particular made me tear up – it was so warm and comforting and lovely, it felt like I was being hugged by this great big pride family. It’s a gentle, not-too-overwhelming introduction to the colourful world of the LGBTQIA+ community that no doubt seems alien to a lot of young kids. The final third of the book in particular has an almost magical feel to it – it’s so vivid and descriptive. Reading it was immensely comforting, because it’s so low-conflict and you had this guarantee that everything would be okay in the end that I find hugely reassuring – a happily ever after is a must for me, and I never doubted for a second that this book would deliver. It also has an absolutely GORGEOUS cover, it really catches the eye, I’m obsessed with it. A million kudos to the illustrator, Sandhya Prabhat; she did a phenomenal job.
I will admit, however, that I found parts of this book to be a bit surface-level. It’s entirely possible for a Middle Grade to take a deeper dive into difficult topics, including sexuality – see books like Ivy Aberdeen’s Letter to the World, for example – but I felt like this one skimmed the surface of the issue it was trying to highlight. There’s no real exploration of the conflicting feelings or the hurt or confusion between Archie’s parents – one day they’re at each other’s throats and the next, they’re best friends again – and no discussion between Archie and his dad. In fact, almost all the discussion about the dad’s sexuality is completely removed from him, so that you get basically everyone else’s perspective except for the one person the story is about. We dance around it, doing basically anything BUT talk to the dad, and then it’s a bit like a magic wand is waved and everything is suddenly fixed. . I feel like there was a great opportunity to look at the messy feelings that can arise from coming out and tackle them, to show young readers that it’s okay to be confused and lost and still give this overall message of acceptance in the end. Instead, everyone agrees that nothing has changed, and everything goes back to normal. While I can understand the point the author was trying to make, that sexuality doesn’t change who you are deep down (which it doesn’t!) having a gay parent DOES alter things in some ways, especially if you’ve grown up thinking they’re straight and then things change so drastically. It’s okay to acknowledge that and let a kid maybe explore the more complicated feelings that might arise from such a revelation. I do think maybe some writers are afraid to delve into the darker, uglier emotions around these kinds of issues for fear of backlash, when it’s so important for kids to be able to explore their feelings in fiction and open up a conversation about things like this. So while I did like the book’s light approach, I felt like I expected more, and ultimately felt a bit let down by it.
In summation, this book was cute, fun and fluffy, and while it didn’t deliver exactly what I was hoping for, it was ultimately still a really sweet book. if you’re looking for a light and speedy read that’ll hit you right in the feels, this would be a great one to reach for!