4.5 ⭐️
How do we, as humans, share in our suffering and grief?
This is the initial question that posed itself when reading this collection. The poetry is beautiful and unique. It’s cryptic and demanding of acknowledgment on a topic lots of people shy away from. Something I found particularly interesting was the connection to generational trauma and how we carry the trauma of our family members within us. I don’t know if this is something Shapiro aimed to explore in this collection, but that’s what spoke to me.
There’s this amazing quality of making the reader feel as though the poetry is speaking in a universal manner. When really, most of the poems are about specific experiences endured by the speaker. It connects the grief of the individual to the collective. This is an essential quality of poetry in my opinion.
Critique: i think one of the best parts of poetry is solving the puzzle that it is. Wanting to read a collection again, just to make sure that you understood exactly what it meant to you as an individual. I didn’t really find myself wanting to do that in this collection, which is why I knocked it a bit. It explores so much sorrow, and the phenomenon of sharing your grief for all to see, along with them. The audience and the speaker connect as one. I think with such a premise, the collection should’ve been more enthralling in its voice. The voice was a bit repetitive to me, which took away some of my praise. I also would’ve liked some points of pleasure in the collection, it’s just so sorrowful. Which is okay, but I would’ve liked to come away with a better concept of healing than what was given. I’m sure this book was healing for the speaker, but since it depicts an immersion in grief from the audience, I would’ve liked to have participated in some of those elements as well. Not sure if that makes sense or if what I’m saying is clear. However, it’s a wonderful collection that I think most people would benefit from reading.
Overall I have so much admiration for Shapiro and her work. It’s haunting and beautiful, nothing is every perfection, but Shapiro’s poetry will echo in my mind for awhile.