The author expands on the modern-day problems that occur in our thoughts and behaviors because of the subjugation of legal authority. This compulsive act has away our happiness and distanced us away from each other. The substance in the book rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature: How Civilization Destroys Happiness, tells that how much we are faking ourselves and lying to ourselves everyday repressing down our emotions. Not only we know that we are faking ourselves but also blinded so much by the fakeness of this world. This book is for anyone who is questioning the reality of their life, who doesn't find satisfaction in their interpersonal relationships, who is blaming themselves for not being worthy enough. This book will make their eyes open that this world made them feel worthless. This book is suitable for an average adult. And for anyone who is seeing through the madness of civilization.
Civilization has ruined everything, not only through its legal authority but also through subliminal messages propagated by the media distorting our thoughts and emotions, affecting our reality. Is something the author fails to mention in this book. It is the root causes of how civilization is manipulating the individual, destroying intimacy between humans. Cheap entertainment is a way to divert human minds away from their social reality, and the media has the power to create a reality. People aren't concerned about the destruction of an individual but more concerned about the lives of the characters in television series. This is the situation of modern women. People under their care are suffering in silence, and their voices have been shut in the name of religion and other forces denying the feelings of an individual. The bond between sisters and brothers that is their unconditional love will help one to validate one's emotions and feelings to live emotionally satisfying lives. But modern human relationships and family systems are full of conditions limiting their thinking, making them feel suffocated, not fetching the needs of an individual, but more into pleasing the world, and falling prey for the system. This system is a trap because of the conditions it sets on the gratification and what we tend to seek after this conditioning is extremely toxic. The author must have mentioned the education system, its reward, punishment-based behavior. This has also affected the way we tend to learn things. To learn and perform better our motive is to compete with one another, not to be intrinsically driven, and to come up with our own ideas. And this way of intrinsic learning helps one to listen to one’s own intuition and flow with the law of life. The current education system has led to unhealthy emotions amongst peers to compete with one another. Reward and punishments are the lowest forms of education and unfortunately, it has become our motive.
The material world outside has made us give more importance to possessions. The love which we give to one another in the civilized world is like; you need to fulfill certain obligations to be accepted and to be worthy. Civilized people give more importance to their possession and lower the worth of an individual, setting up conditions that this world sets upon us. The book also mentions other conditions that are set on us such as the institute of marriage and the family system its expectations and the exploitation of the individual. Unhealthy attachment patterns and favoritism have led to destruction in the family system. These ideas of possessions and conditions have led to anxiety. The book transparently shows through the civilization Because of the expectations, legal authority and languages have resulted in control of the future. The future doesn't exist and the promises made by legal authority are not that reliable because it is not possible to control the future. The idea of a controlling future is something that is made by humans for their own selfish needs to own things such as money, power, and possessions. The author mentions the destruction of humanity where humans themselves are responsible because of selfishness of humans which are destroying one another. Whereas the law of life helps the species to flourish because in the natural world we are surrounded by brothers and sisters who are compassionate towards us and give an individual complete freedom to be oneself and to reach one’s potential. The human connection is like a spiritual connection, validating ourselves to each other what we do right or wrong, putting our ego aside, and accepting the mistake and the motive is to help one another.
In the institutionalized world, where the language in the societal structure bought in the system, has bought the need to pay heed for the selfish needs in us to think about security, protection, need for possessions, and controlling the future. The cultural lifestyle made by humans is preoccupied with memory and expectation. This resulted in a lack of touch with our own emotions, living in a state of boredom, anxiousness, and depression. Chet Shupe mentions his state of living and speaks from his own experience of the limitations he sets himself on his life by looking at this civilization.
Combined with cultural and social expectations, technological advancement led to a complete distortion of reality, this lead to the complete denial of our sense of human life, which made us ego-driven and without thinking regarding fulfillment and basic human needs and a complete violation of oneself and one's personal space.
”Human beings are not afraid of reality—not with our sisters and brothers by our side” Is something that Chet Shupe state I really like because it is the truth of reality. Humans are so selfish and untrustworthy that they give very much importance their materialistic comforts over the welfare of human beings. Humans generally have some sort of belief to rely on and this belief becomes so deeply imbedded in them that any violation of this can cause extreme intolerance towards other things among them. We tend to stay in our heads because of the fear and accepting this harsh reality is extremely difficult to step out and stand for ourselves because only our brother and sisters can give that unconditional love or those whom we are deeply spiritually connected with. And with this sort of love we can bravely step into our reality.
I would rate this book 3, this books shows how institutions limit us and repress us, these institutions not only separate us from our souls but also the people around us, not knowing how to love one another, repressing down one’s feelings because of the fear of authority and being conditioned and tied to the subjugation of the institution. This fear is holding them back to love one another freely and afraid to stand for one another completely. Happiness is to love another freely with compassion and respect. But in the civilized world, we tend to live with each other’s misery. This book gives awareness about institutionalization living impact on our lives and how it has taken away our happiness.