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Carver Goodman dreams of becoming a photographer; but first he needs to graduate from high school. He spends his junior year worried about the same things that affect his peers—things like taking the ACT, bullying, and falling in love for the first time—but Carver's situation is a bit different, because he's beginning to suspect that he's gay. As he struggles to understand himself in terms of his sexuality and how he fits into the world, he learns a lot about who he is and finds the strength to overcome the challenges life throws his way.
Getting By is a touching and poignant coming-of-age novel that will resonate with any person who has ever felt like he doesn't quite fit.
Getting By is a touching and poignant coming-of-age novel that will resonate with any person who has ever felt like he doesn't quite fit.
228 pages, Kindle Edition
Published August 30, 2020
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February 9, 2021
A great story that will be relatable to anyone who has felt different and has struggled with their identity in high school. I read the whole thing in a couple sittings- I just had to see what happened next.
March 25, 2021
As a main character, Carver Goodman is, conversely, both straightforward and complex. Clear, but enigmatic. Part of this surely comes from his diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome, an important character attribute, but one which is treated in the matter-of-fact manner that he treats the majority of his interactions and interests, but even without this diagnosis as a gay, black male he has a unique set of perspectives and experiences of High School, a time in any young man’s life that already carries significant social pressures. In that regard one of the greatest strengths of Sims’ writing is its authenticity; Carver’s experiences of social interaction with an autistic spectrum disorder feel vivid and genuine, and are written with clarity and sensitivity. His diagnosis is never presented as his defining trait or played for sympathy, it is simply an aspect of his character, is accepted by those around him without comment or question, and presents itself in interactions and behaviours rather than exposition or statements of fact. This is most noticeable in the dialogue, an area of the book which is both a strength and a weakness.
This is a very dialogue heavy story, oftentimes we see several pages given to single conversations about hobbies, food preferences, pop culture and schoolwork, the majority of which do not appear to serve a purpose beyond character development. It’s during these conversations that we see and understand Carver’s Asperger’s syndrome the most, and while this is interesting and provides insight into his experiences it did feel at times that some editing was required to trim some of these sections down. Sims also occasionally allows this particularly unique verbal style to leak into the speaking patterns of some of his secondary characters. It is in these moments that these dialogue trees become difficult to navigate and the weaknesses in dialogue become most apparent. Conversations sometimes feel stilted and jagged, characters discuss their lives as if reading from a script, and while this can be excused in the case of the main character as the result of his Asperger’s Syndrome he is not the only one affected by it. Sims is open about his own Asperger’s diagnosis, and I am acutely aware that this may make dialogue challenging to write, but it is a weakness nonetheless.
As we read it becomes apparent that Carver is struggling with his sexuality, and it is made clear very early in the book that he is attracted to men, even as he forges a seemingly genuine relationship with a female classmate. Early in the book he acknowledges feeling romantic feelings towards women and sexual feelings towards men, a dichotomy that is possibly not given enough room to breathe. He appears unphased by the lack of clarity about his romantic interests, at least initially, and is comfortable to let things ride out and see where they take him. His attraction to a male classmate is described in lush, vivid detail, in stark contrast to the more subdued language used to describe his girlfriend, something which makes his heterosexual relationship with classmate Jocelynn appear doomed from the start, even if this is not yet obvious to Carver. In fact, this classmate is the only character (aside from Goodman himself) who is given a physical description, leading us to fill in the blanks in appearance for a number of key characters. As a narrative device this is particularly interesting; we find ourselves picturing the object of his affections in our minds, giving an otherwise minor background character immediate significance to both the main character and the story, something which is borne out as the book progresses.
Despite not being out of the closet, and his struggles with his sexuality being personal for the majority of the book, Carver is singled out by two particularly unpleasant classmates for abuse, much of which is homophobic in nature. The use of a particular homophobic slur appears suddenly and without warning, and sits in contrast to an otherwise subdued plot up until that point. Again, as a narrative device this was particularly effective. The word jumped out of the page, I felt the impact of its use viscerally in a way that (I assume) mirrors how homophobia can punctuate the lives of members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Homophobia is not the central theme of the story, but when it appears it is effective and uncomfortable to read. Again, I do find myself wishing that this particular storyline was given a little more prominence. These characters appear to exist primarily as a plot device rather than as rounded characters with understandable motivations, and Sims falls into some fairly played out, Stephen King-esque bully stereotypes when describing them. If these characters were being cast for the film adaptation of Getting By, they would be described as Bully 1 and Bully 2.
Speaking of Stephen King, at times I felt some similar character development tools being utilised in Getting By. We spend significant time with a small number of characters; the majority of the scenes feature the same two characters, Carver and Jocelynn, with occasional cameos from classmates and teachers. We spend so much time observing the relationship between Carver and Jocelynn that we cannot help but become attached. Their relationship is sweet and childlike, they talk about Disney movies and drink hot chocolate and buy each other gifts and do arts and crafts, and while some of these conversations may appear surplus when viewed in isolation, taken as a whole it feels like we are being invited into their relationship and viewing the innocence and naivety of first love in a way that made me feel nostalgic for a time in my life that probably never existed. Even while Carver is questioning his attraction to women, his affection for Jocelynn is never in doubt, which provides the emotional heart of the story.
However, this time spent with the characters brought to mind Chekhov’s Gun; if a rifle is described as being in a room then it must be used to shoot someone. No words or descriptions should be included unless they serve a purpose, something which is even more vital in a 181 page short story. Within Getting By topics and character traits are discussed and confirmed and then melt away and are never mentioned again. Desires and wishes and dreams are highlighted and then abandoned. Characters are introduced, used in a single scene and then never heard from again. Topics full of rich potential are given a cursory glance and then left unmined. The central and most interesting aspects of the story, Carver’s struggles with his sexuality and his difficulties with bullying, are left to brew and rarely mentioned for the majority of the book, and then we reach the final 20 pages and are suddenly thrust into a number of dramatic situations designed to tie up these loose ends, all of which are quickly resolved without difficulty almost immediately. It feels like the book would benefit from some work on the pacing, we could have forfeited large chunks of dialogue and entire scenes which seem to exist without direct benefit and instead spent more time on the topics that make this book unique, but instead 75% of the story appears to exist primarily as descriptions of the day to day life of a High Schooler.
Despite these weaknesses, I would still recommend Getting By. This book feels personal, it clearly comes from a place of affection for the characters and the setting despite the challenges, and exists as a bittersweet reminder that even during periods of personal turmoil and struggle we can still find beauty in a Christmas tree in a shopping centre or the autumn leaves on the ground, and that love is a complex and wonderful thing, even if that love is fleeting.
This is a very dialogue heavy story, oftentimes we see several pages given to single conversations about hobbies, food preferences, pop culture and schoolwork, the majority of which do not appear to serve a purpose beyond character development. It’s during these conversations that we see and understand Carver’s Asperger’s syndrome the most, and while this is interesting and provides insight into his experiences it did feel at times that some editing was required to trim some of these sections down. Sims also occasionally allows this particularly unique verbal style to leak into the speaking patterns of some of his secondary characters. It is in these moments that these dialogue trees become difficult to navigate and the weaknesses in dialogue become most apparent. Conversations sometimes feel stilted and jagged, characters discuss their lives as if reading from a script, and while this can be excused in the case of the main character as the result of his Asperger’s Syndrome he is not the only one affected by it. Sims is open about his own Asperger’s diagnosis, and I am acutely aware that this may make dialogue challenging to write, but it is a weakness nonetheless.
As we read it becomes apparent that Carver is struggling with his sexuality, and it is made clear very early in the book that he is attracted to men, even as he forges a seemingly genuine relationship with a female classmate. Early in the book he acknowledges feeling romantic feelings towards women and sexual feelings towards men, a dichotomy that is possibly not given enough room to breathe. He appears unphased by the lack of clarity about his romantic interests, at least initially, and is comfortable to let things ride out and see where they take him. His attraction to a male classmate is described in lush, vivid detail, in stark contrast to the more subdued language used to describe his girlfriend, something which makes his heterosexual relationship with classmate Jocelynn appear doomed from the start, even if this is not yet obvious to Carver. In fact, this classmate is the only character (aside from Goodman himself) who is given a physical description, leading us to fill in the blanks in appearance for a number of key characters. As a narrative device this is particularly interesting; we find ourselves picturing the object of his affections in our minds, giving an otherwise minor background character immediate significance to both the main character and the story, something which is borne out as the book progresses.
Despite not being out of the closet, and his struggles with his sexuality being personal for the majority of the book, Carver is singled out by two particularly unpleasant classmates for abuse, much of which is homophobic in nature. The use of a particular homophobic slur appears suddenly and without warning, and sits in contrast to an otherwise subdued plot up until that point. Again, as a narrative device this was particularly effective. The word jumped out of the page, I felt the impact of its use viscerally in a way that (I assume) mirrors how homophobia can punctuate the lives of members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Homophobia is not the central theme of the story, but when it appears it is effective and uncomfortable to read. Again, I do find myself wishing that this particular storyline was given a little more prominence. These characters appear to exist primarily as a plot device rather than as rounded characters with understandable motivations, and Sims falls into some fairly played out, Stephen King-esque bully stereotypes when describing them. If these characters were being cast for the film adaptation of Getting By, they would be described as Bully 1 and Bully 2.
Speaking of Stephen King, at times I felt some similar character development tools being utilised in Getting By. We spend significant time with a small number of characters; the majority of the scenes feature the same two characters, Carver and Jocelynn, with occasional cameos from classmates and teachers. We spend so much time observing the relationship between Carver and Jocelynn that we cannot help but become attached. Their relationship is sweet and childlike, they talk about Disney movies and drink hot chocolate and buy each other gifts and do arts and crafts, and while some of these conversations may appear surplus when viewed in isolation, taken as a whole it feels like we are being invited into their relationship and viewing the innocence and naivety of first love in a way that made me feel nostalgic for a time in my life that probably never existed. Even while Carver is questioning his attraction to women, his affection for Jocelynn is never in doubt, which provides the emotional heart of the story.
However, this time spent with the characters brought to mind Chekhov’s Gun; if a rifle is described as being in a room then it must be used to shoot someone. No words or descriptions should be included unless they serve a purpose, something which is even more vital in a 181 page short story. Within Getting By topics and character traits are discussed and confirmed and then melt away and are never mentioned again. Desires and wishes and dreams are highlighted and then abandoned. Characters are introduced, used in a single scene and then never heard from again. Topics full of rich potential are given a cursory glance and then left unmined. The central and most interesting aspects of the story, Carver’s struggles with his sexuality and his difficulties with bullying, are left to brew and rarely mentioned for the majority of the book, and then we reach the final 20 pages and are suddenly thrust into a number of dramatic situations designed to tie up these loose ends, all of which are quickly resolved without difficulty almost immediately. It feels like the book would benefit from some work on the pacing, we could have forfeited large chunks of dialogue and entire scenes which seem to exist without direct benefit and instead spent more time on the topics that make this book unique, but instead 75% of the story appears to exist primarily as descriptions of the day to day life of a High Schooler.
Despite these weaknesses, I would still recommend Getting By. This book feels personal, it clearly comes from a place of affection for the characters and the setting despite the challenges, and exists as a bittersweet reminder that even during periods of personal turmoil and struggle we can still find beauty in a Christmas tree in a shopping centre or the autumn leaves on the ground, and that love is a complex and wonderful thing, even if that love is fleeting.
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September 22, 2020
Ratings - 4.3 /5
Starting with the cover of the book it is a very basic single colour with a camera printed on it. It is relevant to the story of the book and I feel is attractive too whereas the title Getting by I felt could be a little more creative as an ideal title gives curiosity to the reader to read the book. So out of 2 I would give it a 1.
Talking about the story of the book it is based on a boy named Carver Goodman who is a ambitious and wants to be a photographer but as we all know to in order to achieve something one has to learn and graduate in that field. When I was reading the book till this point, I felt like the story was nicely build and was going really smooth. When the phase of the boy changes it becomes a way to much relatable as the situations author put the character into I guess I have been through the same situation. It really made me remind my days when I was dealing with those situations. Now the story takes a turn as we all know that being in such an age one sets his career at second by the exploration of the sexuality I guess in this age is very common now what happens is he suspects that he is a gay and living in a world like this one usually wants to be sure and wants to know more about it so he does the same. I absolutely loved the content of the book other than the length of the book. I felt few of the things were stretched but being the debut novel of the author, I really feel he did a great work. So here out of 3 I would give it a 3.
Now the language and the words used in the book were very normal and I didn’t face any difficulty while reading the book. I really loved the experience the author gave through the book. So, I would definitely recommend the book to all the readers out there. What are you waiting for go grab your copy and read the whole story. I am sure you are going love it.
Starting with the cover of the book it is a very basic single colour with a camera printed on it. It is relevant to the story of the book and I feel is attractive too whereas the title Getting by I felt could be a little more creative as an ideal title gives curiosity to the reader to read the book. So out of 2 I would give it a 1.
Talking about the story of the book it is based on a boy named Carver Goodman who is a ambitious and wants to be a photographer but as we all know to in order to achieve something one has to learn and graduate in that field. When I was reading the book till this point, I felt like the story was nicely build and was going really smooth. When the phase of the boy changes it becomes a way to much relatable as the situations author put the character into I guess I have been through the same situation. It really made me remind my days when I was dealing with those situations. Now the story takes a turn as we all know that being in such an age one sets his career at second by the exploration of the sexuality I guess in this age is very common now what happens is he suspects that he is a gay and living in a world like this one usually wants to be sure and wants to know more about it so he does the same. I absolutely loved the content of the book other than the length of the book. I felt few of the things were stretched but being the debut novel of the author, I really feel he did a great work. So here out of 3 I would give it a 3.
Now the language and the words used in the book were very normal and I didn’t face any difficulty while reading the book. I really loved the experience the author gave through the book. So, I would definitely recommend the book to all the readers out there. What are you waiting for go grab your copy and read the whole story. I am sure you are going love it.
October 17, 2020
Getting By
By - Jaire Sims
Format – Kindle Edition
Print Length – 228 Pages
My Ratings – 4.8/5
✍🏻"Getting By" by Jaire Sims is a touching and emotional coming-of-age book that resonates with everyone who has ever felt like he doesn't match in. The novel reminds us to stop to take a closer look at the convergence of our personalities in order to learn who we really are.
✍🏻The plot is about high school life and the dreams of the main character Carver Goodman. One day, he aspires to be a photographer. But in the junior year of high school, he has to concentrate on ACT, extra-curricular activities, his ambiguous thoughts about being gay. He's just going to have to deal with school bullies and autism.
✍🏻As far as his love life was concerned, Carver couldn't help himself looking at his junior Donnell. Donnell is the most attractive guy, and Carver has been drawn to him.
✍🏻Carver 's decision to finally stand up to his tormentors is beautifully presented, stressing how such a minute gesture changes his life's course.
✍🏻There are a lot of emotional upheavals in the plot that make the novel more exciting. The plot is really interesting, as it tells a lot about the actual life events.
✍🏻Title of the book is short and simple which is apt to the content. Best thing is the book cover as its really very attractive and also there is a camera which is relatable as our protagonist loves photography and aspires to be a photographer.
✍🏻I really liked the narration as it was Smooth and Author’s efforts are commendable for writing such a novel that too a debutant. Language was plain. Storyline was quite amazing which made this book an interesting read and the plot was gripping as well.
✍🏻I will surely recommend this book to everyone out there and will ask them to read this book for sure as this might help them and make them learn something.
Happy Reading😊
By - Jaire Sims
Format – Kindle Edition
Print Length – 228 Pages
My Ratings – 4.8/5
✍🏻"Getting By" by Jaire Sims is a touching and emotional coming-of-age book that resonates with everyone who has ever felt like he doesn't match in. The novel reminds us to stop to take a closer look at the convergence of our personalities in order to learn who we really are.
✍🏻The plot is about high school life and the dreams of the main character Carver Goodman. One day, he aspires to be a photographer. But in the junior year of high school, he has to concentrate on ACT, extra-curricular activities, his ambiguous thoughts about being gay. He's just going to have to deal with school bullies and autism.
✍🏻As far as his love life was concerned, Carver couldn't help himself looking at his junior Donnell. Donnell is the most attractive guy, and Carver has been drawn to him.
✍🏻Carver 's decision to finally stand up to his tormentors is beautifully presented, stressing how such a minute gesture changes his life's course.
✍🏻There are a lot of emotional upheavals in the plot that make the novel more exciting. The plot is really interesting, as it tells a lot about the actual life events.
✍🏻Title of the book is short and simple which is apt to the content. Best thing is the book cover as its really very attractive and also there is a camera which is relatable as our protagonist loves photography and aspires to be a photographer.
✍🏻I really liked the narration as it was Smooth and Author’s efforts are commendable for writing such a novel that too a debutant. Language was plain. Storyline was quite amazing which made this book an interesting read and the plot was gripping as well.
✍🏻I will surely recommend this book to everyone out there and will ask them to read this book for sure as this might help them and make them learn something.
Happy Reading😊
October 3, 2021
Jaire Sims' new book captures teenage life: studying, making friends, dealing with bullies, family, dating, hobbies, and wondering about the future.
I appreciated how the main character, Carver, was written as a unique person, interested in photography and Disney animation, and how his best friend, Jocelynn, enjoyed ice skating and had a full and complex life of her own. Each character was individual, not a stereotype of an 'urban teen' or a 'person of color.'
The setting was also beautifully described, showing the natural and built elegance of Chicago and why some people love to live there. The story was readable and well-paced, and I could empathize with Carver's dilemma about his relationship. And I appreciated how the book dealt with gender, race, sexuality, and neurodivergence - all the different lenses through which we may see life.
Every so often I thought the description or dialogue sounded too mature for teenagers, but then I caught myself. I hear young people around me talk and the words they use and the level on which they understand life is so much deeper and more eloquent than myself and my friends when we were young. So the book works and that's a compliment to today's young people!
The bullying Carver experiences is horrific and the book doesn't shy away from acknowledging that while not being so graphic that it's not readable. I think it's good that Sims raises awareness of how bad this can be because some people minimize bullying as 'just teasing' or 'kids not getting along.' And I appreciate that the book just shows the reality of that without lecturing about how a bullying victim should respond, because there's not always one right answer, different people need to do different things to keep themselves safe.
This book is solid and thoughtful and worth a read.
September 23, 2020
Getting By by Jaire Sims 📚
My Rating - 4.6/5 ✨
Blurb📚
✨Carver Goodman is a 17-year-old African American student who aspires to become a photographer. As if balancing school, homework, extracurricular activities, and the ACT wasn’t enough, Carver is frequently targeted by violent bullies and is struggling to understand his sexuality while he develops his first romantic relationship. When his spot as one of the top students in school is jeopardized under the strain of the increasing challenges in his life, Carver knows something has to change. But what should he do, and how can he do it without getting hurt or hurting anyone else in the process?
My Review📚
🙌Carver has been built with a wealth and empathy that encourages the reader to root him to overcome the challenges that those who don't appreciate his intrinsic worth have made. As Carver struggles to cope with the complexities, peers and difficulties of secondary schooling, and joins a social environment that is challenging and alien to him, he struggles to deal with the various issues from the usual teenage guys.
🙌The decision by Carver to actually stand up to his tormentors is brilliantly depicted, emphasising how such a minute action will transform the trajectory of his life.
🙌The plain, open prose of Sims offers portals on Carver 's life as he continues to cope with concerns about his identity and sexuality. The plot centres on Carver's richly illustrated relatives, Ava and Heather. It's interesting Jocelynn.
🙌A perfect debut novel spiced up with an interesting storyline is must read for everyone. I recommend this to read once, Grab your copy now.
My Rating - 4.6/5 ✨
Blurb📚
✨Carver Goodman is a 17-year-old African American student who aspires to become a photographer. As if balancing school, homework, extracurricular activities, and the ACT wasn’t enough, Carver is frequently targeted by violent bullies and is struggling to understand his sexuality while he develops his first romantic relationship. When his spot as one of the top students in school is jeopardized under the strain of the increasing challenges in his life, Carver knows something has to change. But what should he do, and how can he do it without getting hurt or hurting anyone else in the process?
My Review📚
🙌Carver has been built with a wealth and empathy that encourages the reader to root him to overcome the challenges that those who don't appreciate his intrinsic worth have made. As Carver struggles to cope with the complexities, peers and difficulties of secondary schooling, and joins a social environment that is challenging and alien to him, he struggles to deal with the various issues from the usual teenage guys.
🙌The decision by Carver to actually stand up to his tormentors is brilliantly depicted, emphasising how such a minute action will transform the trajectory of his life.
🙌The plain, open prose of Sims offers portals on Carver 's life as he continues to cope with concerns about his identity and sexuality. The plot centres on Carver's richly illustrated relatives, Ava and Heather. It's interesting Jocelynn.
🙌A perfect debut novel spiced up with an interesting storyline is must read for everyone. I recommend this to read once, Grab your copy now.
September 1, 2021
Carver is an introverted 17-year-old boy dealing with high-school life like all of us. He is exploring life, figuring out what he is interested in and what's not for him. Sometimes Carver is sure that he likes guys, but at other times, he also wonders if he is into girls. He has to deal with bullies and keep his school performance up. Carver is a brilliant wholesome guy, who can draw and capture moments with his vintage camera like no one. Carver is a guy who deserves the best in life. But everything in life, especially in a teen's isn't always perfect, and Carver is having a tough time accepting some things about himself.
Jaire Sims has wonderfully portrayed this coming of age story. The book shows how teens are often victims of bullying because of their sexual or gender identity and race. The author narrates the book in a simple, beautiful manner that captured my attention till the end. Carver is a sweet character who values friendships and relationships. His friend Jocelyn and their relationship arc bring a captivating side to the story. Carver also has a crush on a guy in his class. But he is too confused and shy to do anything about it.
This book is like an amalgamation of what Alice Oseman, André Aciman, and Benjamin Alire Sáenz would've written if they ever wrote a book together. There's romance, confusion, realizations, friendships, and introspection all in one. As a queer person, I'm always looking out for good books with LGBTQ+ representation for me and my buddies to read. This book is going to the top of my recommendations list for my book club! This book was an easy 5- star read, and I'm looking forward to reading more from the author.
Jaire Sims has wonderfully portrayed this coming of age story. The book shows how teens are often victims of bullying because of their sexual or gender identity and race. The author narrates the book in a simple, beautiful manner that captured my attention till the end. Carver is a sweet character who values friendships and relationships. His friend Jocelyn and their relationship arc bring a captivating side to the story. Carver also has a crush on a guy in his class. But he is too confused and shy to do anything about it.
This book is like an amalgamation of what Alice Oseman, André Aciman, and Benjamin Alire Sáenz would've written if they ever wrote a book together. There's romance, confusion, realizations, friendships, and introspection all in one. As a queer person, I'm always looking out for good books with LGBTQ+ representation for me and my buddies to read. This book is going to the top of my recommendations list for my book club! This book was an easy 5- star read, and I'm looking forward to reading more from the author.
September 28, 2020
It's the story of Carver Goodman, an aspiring 17-year-old who was an American undergraduate. He decided to become a photographer whose grades were the main priority.
Carver was designed with a richness and sensitivity that inspires the reader to root him to conquer the obstacles that have been created by others that do not understand his intrinsic value. As Carver tries to cope with the dynamics, friends and challenges of secondary education, and joins him in a social world that is complicated and unfamiliar to him, he tries to deal with the different challenges of the normal teenage guys.
As he deals with concerns about his identity and sexuality while trying to cope with the violence, Sims' clear, open prose offers windows into Carver's life. Carver’s sisters, Ava and Heather, who are richly drawn, are central to the story. Jocelyn will be endearing.
I guess what happens now is really typical in this era is that he knows that he is a gay person and that he generally needs to be sure about living in a world like this and wants to know something about it so that he does the same. Other than the length of the novel, I completely enjoyed the quality of the novel. I thought that few of the items were expanded, but being the author's debut book, I still believe that he did a wonderful job.
For all, it is essential to read a fantastic debut novel spiced up with an entertaining story line. I recommend you read this once, then get your copy right now.
Carver was designed with a richness and sensitivity that inspires the reader to root him to conquer the obstacles that have been created by others that do not understand his intrinsic value. As Carver tries to cope with the dynamics, friends and challenges of secondary education, and joins him in a social world that is complicated and unfamiliar to him, he tries to deal with the different challenges of the normal teenage guys.
As he deals with concerns about his identity and sexuality while trying to cope with the violence, Sims' clear, open prose offers windows into Carver's life. Carver’s sisters, Ava and Heather, who are richly drawn, are central to the story. Jocelyn will be endearing.
I guess what happens now is really typical in this era is that he knows that he is a gay person and that he generally needs to be sure about living in a world like this and wants to know something about it so that he does the same. Other than the length of the novel, I completely enjoyed the quality of the novel. I thought that few of the items were expanded, but being the author's debut book, I still believe that he did a wonderful job.
For all, it is essential to read a fantastic debut novel spiced up with an entertaining story line. I recommend you read this once, then get your copy right now.
October 6, 2020
🍁"Getting By" written by Jaire Sims is a story about a guy who is dealing with a problem that many of the people are facing - Identity issue, which has become a topic of concern. Earlier people lived their life without worrying about anything. But now, Social media, I believe is the only reason behind these thoughts in teenagers mind. Even if we are Okay with what we are then also we take stress for those things if its not good according to others.
🍁There is a lot of emotion and drama in the story which talks about Carvers struggling mind with thoughts about his own identity. Carver Goodman dreams of becoming a photographer, but first he needs to graduate from high school. He spends his junior year worried about the same things that affect his peers, things like taking the ACT, bullying, and falling in love for the first time, but Carver's situation is a bit different, because he begin to suspect that he is a gay. With Carver's story we can actually realise how it feels when someone is not sure about his identity and everything they faces because of this.
There are lots of emotional turmoils in the story which makes the book more interesting. The storyline is really good as it tells a lot about the real life incidents.
🍁The writing is very fresh as this is the author's first book. The story is very inspiring to young adults. I recommend especially the teenagers to grab this book. I am very much impressed by the way story moved on.
🍁There is a lot of emotion and drama in the story which talks about Carvers struggling mind with thoughts about his own identity. Carver Goodman dreams of becoming a photographer, but first he needs to graduate from high school. He spends his junior year worried about the same things that affect his peers, things like taking the ACT, bullying, and falling in love for the first time, but Carver's situation is a bit different, because he begin to suspect that he is a gay. With Carver's story we can actually realise how it feels when someone is not sure about his identity and everything they faces because of this.
There are lots of emotional turmoils in the story which makes the book more interesting. The storyline is really good as it tells a lot about the real life incidents.
🍁The writing is very fresh as this is the author's first book. The story is very inspiring to young adults. I recommend especially the teenagers to grab this book. I am very much impressed by the way story moved on.
July 15, 2021
In this turbulent world, it can be lovely to use books as an escape, to read about a different world with different problems, and maybe forget about your own for a while. But, it’s also equally cathartic and important to read books that reflect our own realities—books that take what we’re going through, what we’re feeling.
There are so many gorgeous books that respond to today’s major issues, like racism and police brutality, socioeconomic insecurity, sexual orientation and gender identity. Here, this book focuses on Identify issues. It's a story about a guy named Carver who is dealing with his identity issue, as he's beginning to suspect that he's gay. After realising his true self, he overcome all the challenges came on his way. There is a lot of emotion and drama in the story which talks about Carvers struggling life.
There are lots of emotional turmoils in the story and I really felt a deep connection with the main character. The storyline is really good as it tells a lot about the real life incidents. This book can make you laugh and will certainly make you cry. And above all, it can make you think, help you process, and ultimately, maybe, have a greater understanding of the world around you.
The writing is very fresh as this is the author's first book. The story is very inspiring to young adults. I have a friend who was dealing with the same issue and that's why I can totally feel this story by heart. I recommend especially the teenagers to grab this book.
There are so many gorgeous books that respond to today’s major issues, like racism and police brutality, socioeconomic insecurity, sexual orientation and gender identity. Here, this book focuses on Identify issues. It's a story about a guy named Carver who is dealing with his identity issue, as he's beginning to suspect that he's gay. After realising his true self, he overcome all the challenges came on his way. There is a lot of emotion and drama in the story which talks about Carvers struggling life.
There are lots of emotional turmoils in the story and I really felt a deep connection with the main character. The storyline is really good as it tells a lot about the real life incidents. This book can make you laugh and will certainly make you cry. And above all, it can make you think, help you process, and ultimately, maybe, have a greater understanding of the world around you.
The writing is very fresh as this is the author's first book. The story is very inspiring to young adults. I have a friend who was dealing with the same issue and that's why I can totally feel this story by heart. I recommend especially the teenagers to grab this book.
April 13, 2021
Change, Challenges and Uncertainty at 17
Carver is 17 years old and beginning to think about who he is, and what he wants for the future. This novel is his story about figuring things out, plus his great friendships.
Carver lives in Chicago, and is beginning to wonder what he would like to do at College. His main loves are photography and anything Disney related. He is also beginning to wonder whether he is gay. Two bullies seem to think he is gay, but his close friend Jocelynn seems keen to be more than just a mate.
This engaging story is told entirely from Carver’s viewpoint, and is written in a very precise and clear style. Carver has been diagnosed as having Asperger’s syndrome, and though preferring his own company or that of just a few close friends, finds he is being encouraged to join after school activities. Can Carver work his way though this time of change, challenges and uncertainty.
3*s from me as I enjoyed learning about Carver, and was keen to find out how everything turned out. Despite feeling I am in the wrong age group for reading this “coming of age” book (I can’t even remember being 17!) and not knowing anything about the US schooling system I enjoyed this novel, and would recommend it to anyone of a similar age to Carver, or involved with people of this age. What a great debut novel from Jaire Sims.
Carver is 17 years old and beginning to think about who he is, and what he wants for the future. This novel is his story about figuring things out, plus his great friendships.
Carver lives in Chicago, and is beginning to wonder what he would like to do at College. His main loves are photography and anything Disney related. He is also beginning to wonder whether he is gay. Two bullies seem to think he is gay, but his close friend Jocelynn seems keen to be more than just a mate.
This engaging story is told entirely from Carver’s viewpoint, and is written in a very precise and clear style. Carver has been diagnosed as having Asperger’s syndrome, and though preferring his own company or that of just a few close friends, finds he is being encouraged to join after school activities. Can Carver work his way though this time of change, challenges and uncertainty.
3*s from me as I enjoyed learning about Carver, and was keen to find out how everything turned out. Despite feeling I am in the wrong age group for reading this “coming of age” book (I can’t even remember being 17!) and not knowing anything about the US schooling system I enjoyed this novel, and would recommend it to anyone of a similar age to Carver, or involved with people of this age. What a great debut novel from Jaire Sims.
July 29, 2021
Simply fabulous. Wonderfully honest. Superbly written.
Deeply inspiring in its powerful portrayal of one person's struggle with who they are. Jaire Sims has written a book that is a delight to read both because of the beauty of his writing and his main message. Endearing, raw, and honest. A heartfelt contribution to the growing literature on gay lives.
Yes, it is a book about sexuality. But more than that, it is a book about suffering and brokenness, about belonging and community. I sat down and read this book in one sitting. I hardly have the words to talk about why it's one of the most important and beautiful books I've ever read.
It's a story about a guy named Carver who is dealing with his identity issue, as he's beginning to suspect that he's gay. There is a lot of emotion in the story which talks about Carvers struggling life. It's s touching and poignant coming-of-age novel that will resonate with any person who has ever felt like he doesn't quite fit.
Carver's story captures you from the first page and never lets go of your emotions.
I learned so much from this fantastic story of Carver, his agonizing and exhilarating journey. This is a book everyone―especially heterosexuals, a must read if we are to learn to love our LGBTQ neighbors, friends, and family members.
Deeply inspiring in its powerful portrayal of one person's struggle with who they are. Jaire Sims has written a book that is a delight to read both because of the beauty of his writing and his main message. Endearing, raw, and honest. A heartfelt contribution to the growing literature on gay lives.
Yes, it is a book about sexuality. But more than that, it is a book about suffering and brokenness, about belonging and community. I sat down and read this book in one sitting. I hardly have the words to talk about why it's one of the most important and beautiful books I've ever read.
It's a story about a guy named Carver who is dealing with his identity issue, as he's beginning to suspect that he's gay. There is a lot of emotion in the story which talks about Carvers struggling life. It's s touching and poignant coming-of-age novel that will resonate with any person who has ever felt like he doesn't quite fit.
Carver's story captures you from the first page and never lets go of your emotions.
I learned so much from this fantastic story of Carver, his agonizing and exhilarating journey. This is a book everyone―especially heterosexuals, a must read if we are to learn to love our LGBTQ neighbors, friends, and family members.
October 4, 2020
🔷 BOOK: Getting By
🔷 AUTHOR: Jaire Sims
Recently I picked the novel Getting By. It is a Young Adult novel that is my preferred genre. Story focuses on the life of a 17 years old teenager Carver. He is an average looking guy in high school. He is good at academics but he has to participate in after-school programs as extracurriculars activities will look good on his college application. There are many other things that go on simultaneously in Carver's life and so, in the story.
Review:
1) Cover page of the book is stunning. It shows the red maple leaf indicating my favourite autumn season and Carver's love for photography.
2) Title of the book is short and sweet.
3) Carver's character is well developed. He has to take care of so many things in junior year. I could relate to his character well as in junior year I was too worried about cracking entrance exam to get a good college.
4) Author's story telling skills is amazing. I felt like I am watching some movie. Enjoyed the story a lot.
5) Story is so gripping that you can't put it down once you start reading it.
Overall it was a nice read!!
Rating: 4.5/5
🔷 AUTHOR: Jaire Sims
Recently I picked the novel Getting By. It is a Young Adult novel that is my preferred genre. Story focuses on the life of a 17 years old teenager Carver. He is an average looking guy in high school. He is good at academics but he has to participate in after-school programs as extracurriculars activities will look good on his college application. There are many other things that go on simultaneously in Carver's life and so, in the story.
Review:
1) Cover page of the book is stunning. It shows the red maple leaf indicating my favourite autumn season and Carver's love for photography.
2) Title of the book is short and sweet.
3) Carver's character is well developed. He has to take care of so many things in junior year. I could relate to his character well as in junior year I was too worried about cracking entrance exam to get a good college.
4) Author's story telling skills is amazing. I felt like I am watching some movie. Enjoyed the story a lot.
5) Story is so gripping that you can't put it down once you start reading it.
Overall it was a nice read!!
Rating: 4.5/5
March 12, 2021
3.7 out of 5
Getting By is a coming of age/slice of life story about a 17yo black teen who is ASD and gay. The story takes you through his Junior year of high school with all the triumphs and tragedies included.
What I didn't like:
At some points, the story lagged, and I wasn't sure what the overall story arc would end up. The author did bring the story to a satisfactory end, and I was surprised by the twist at the end. Some of the dialogue was a bit stiff and it would have helped if the author had utilized dialogue tags and descriptions to help draw the reader further into the scene.
What I did like:
The pacing was good. I loved that it was an Own Voice story and really connected with the character's ASD, and the difficulties that it caused him including dealing with a pair of bullies. I loved the little personal bits included with the character that seemed autobiographical in nature and helped me to connect with the MC.
Overall:
I did like the story. I found it interesting and I think it was a good debut for this author. I expect he will continue to grow into his writing. So I would be open to read his next book.
Getting By is a coming of age/slice of life story about a 17yo black teen who is ASD and gay. The story takes you through his Junior year of high school with all the triumphs and tragedies included.
What I didn't like:
At some points, the story lagged, and I wasn't sure what the overall story arc would end up. The author did bring the story to a satisfactory end, and I was surprised by the twist at the end. Some of the dialogue was a bit stiff and it would have helped if the author had utilized dialogue tags and descriptions to help draw the reader further into the scene.
What I did like:
The pacing was good. I loved that it was an Own Voice story and really connected with the character's ASD, and the difficulties that it caused him including dealing with a pair of bullies. I loved the little personal bits included with the character that seemed autobiographical in nature and helped me to connect with the MC.
Overall:
I did like the story. I found it interesting and I think it was a good debut for this author. I expect he will continue to grow into his writing. So I would be open to read his next book.
August 23, 2021
Life is full of ups and downs, but whatever happens, you have to trust and believe in yourself. I think that life is difficult. People have challenges. Relationships are complicated. You have conflicts in your life. And really, life is about your resilience and your ability to go through your life and all of the ups and downs with a positive attitude.
This is a story of a young guy named Carver, an African American. He is the one who wanted to be a famous photographer. BUT just like every other human being, he was dealing with his own life issues but he was also struggling with his identity issues and some sort of bullying. His approach and ability to accept life's unexpected twists and turns is one of the plus point that keeps the readers engaged in Getting By.
This is a heart-pounding ride with a great narrative and interesting plot. An excellent blend of reality and true emotions. The situations in which the protagonists finds, and sometimes puts himself are varied and interesting. I really found this book emotional and realistic. I really liked the story and how it makes you feel connected with the character. I found it incredibly interesting and very engrossing.
This is a story of a young guy named Carver, an African American. He is the one who wanted to be a famous photographer. BUT just like every other human being, he was dealing with his own life issues but he was also struggling with his identity issues and some sort of bullying. His approach and ability to accept life's unexpected twists and turns is one of the plus point that keeps the readers engaged in Getting By.
This is a heart-pounding ride with a great narrative and interesting plot. An excellent blend of reality and true emotions. The situations in which the protagonists finds, and sometimes puts himself are varied and interesting. I really found this book emotional and realistic. I really liked the story and how it makes you feel connected with the character. I found it incredibly interesting and very engrossing.
August 23, 2021
A well-written, easy-to-read story of the struggles of young men learning to love and accept reality. The characters are sympathetically drawn. I quickly found myself caught up in the story.
The plot was very straight forward and just focused on Carver and what he goes through. Any character introduced in the story is there to help drive the story forward and avoid involving branching subplots that jumble up the narrative. It really is a novella that stays on its track. I would definitely recommend this book for a creative plot, it's unique view at adolescent queer struggles and for a refreshing change. Such an interesting story of exploring new desires and opening your mind to the unexpected. I did enjoy the story and the concept of this story.
I think it's a good book that will make you tremble, leave you speechless, hold your breath, make you eager to read it. And it will leave you thinking about it long after you finished it. The writing is flawless and the story is not compelled by a plot, it's driven by its characters and their development. It's amazing!
The plot was very straight forward and just focused on Carver and what he goes through. Any character introduced in the story is there to help drive the story forward and avoid involving branching subplots that jumble up the narrative. It really is a novella that stays on its track. I would definitely recommend this book for a creative plot, it's unique view at adolescent queer struggles and for a refreshing change. Such an interesting story of exploring new desires and opening your mind to the unexpected. I did enjoy the story and the concept of this story.
I think it's a good book that will make you tremble, leave you speechless, hold your breath, make you eager to read it. And it will leave you thinking about it long after you finished it. The writing is flawless and the story is not compelled by a plot, it's driven by its characters and their development. It's amazing!
September 13, 2020
Sims makes his debut with this poignant YA which tells the story of 17-year-old Carver Goodman as he struggles to come to terms with his sexuality while grappling with questions of self-doubt and identity issues.
Carver is a gentle teenager who is trying to score good grades in his junior year while ignoring relentless bullying at the hand of a pair of school bullies. When lovely Jocelynn comes into Carver’s life, he gets the courage to overcome the challenges life has thrown his way.
Sims’s simple, accessible prose give windows into Carver’s life as he struggles with questions about his identity and sexuality while trying to deal with the harassment. Central to the narrative are Carver’s friends, Ava and Heather, who are richly drawn. Jocelynn is endearing.
Carver’s decision to finally take a stand against his tormentors is portrayed beautifully, underscoring how even a tiny action can change the course of one’s life.
This is a moving debut.
Carver is a gentle teenager who is trying to score good grades in his junior year while ignoring relentless bullying at the hand of a pair of school bullies. When lovely Jocelynn comes into Carver’s life, he gets the courage to overcome the challenges life has thrown his way.
Sims’s simple, accessible prose give windows into Carver’s life as he struggles with questions about his identity and sexuality while trying to deal with the harassment. Central to the narrative are Carver’s friends, Ava and Heather, who are richly drawn. Jocelynn is endearing.
Carver’s decision to finally take a stand against his tormentors is portrayed beautifully, underscoring how even a tiny action can change the course of one’s life.
This is a moving debut.
October 8, 2020
I love reading stories where the plot is set in high school or college. Getting By is a Young Adult novel by the author Jaire Sims. Story revolves around the high school life and dreams of the main character Carver Goodman. He aspires to become a photographer one day. But in junior year of high school, he needs to focus on ACT, extra curricular activities, his unsure feelings about being gay. He also has to deal with school bully and autism.
Carver is going through many challenges. Which path he gonna walk on ultimately? Read the entire story yourself to enjoy it. Narration of the story is clear and smooth.
I recommend this book to teenagers and adults as well. It is a promising read. Reading about Carver's life made this book enjoyable for me. Author has constructed the plot with great thought. In his debut novel, he had done surely amazing job. Looking forward to read more books by Jaire Sims.
Carver is going through many challenges. Which path he gonna walk on ultimately? Read the entire story yourself to enjoy it. Narration of the story is clear and smooth.
I recommend this book to teenagers and adults as well. It is a promising read. Reading about Carver's life made this book enjoyable for me. Author has constructed the plot with great thought. In his debut novel, he had done surely amazing job. Looking forward to read more books by Jaire Sims.
October 17, 2020
Carver's richness and empathy have been created which inspires the reader to root him for problems faced by those who don't understand his inherent value.
✨As Carver continues to confront the complexities, classmates and challenges of high school and enters a daunting and unfamiliar social context, he is unable to overcome the distinct problems from ordinary teenage girls.
✨As he deals with concerns about his identity and sexuality while trying to cope with the violence, Sims' clear, open prose offers windows into Carver's life.
✨The richly drawn Carver's sisters, Ava and Heather, are crucial to the plot. Jocelyn's going to be enthusiastic.
✨I recommend this book to teenagers and adults as well. It's a good reading. This book made me fun by reading Carver's life.
✨The author developed the plot with tremendous thinking. He certainly did amazing work in his debut novel. Hope to read more Jaire Sims books
✨As Carver continues to confront the complexities, classmates and challenges of high school and enters a daunting and unfamiliar social context, he is unable to overcome the distinct problems from ordinary teenage girls.
✨As he deals with concerns about his identity and sexuality while trying to cope with the violence, Sims' clear, open prose offers windows into Carver's life.
✨The richly drawn Carver's sisters, Ava and Heather, are crucial to the plot. Jocelyn's going to be enthusiastic.
✨I recommend this book to teenagers and adults as well. It's a good reading. This book made me fun by reading Carver's life.
✨The author developed the plot with tremendous thinking. He certainly did amazing work in his debut novel. Hope to read more Jaire Sims books
February 20, 2021
This is a coming of age story about a 16 something boy of mixed race during his last few months in school. He is borderline autistic and is not very outgoing with many children in school. But he is committed to the friendships that he makes. He is worried about getting good grades, and apprehensive about his future. He makes friends with Jocelyn, and also explores possible relationship with her. But he realises that he is attracted to men. Jocelyn also helps him understand his hobbies. He is also bullied in school, but eventually finds the courage to fight back.
The beauty of the story is that it is narrated in simple and lucid language. The experiences of Carver are true to life, and adolescents of that age will find struggling with one or many of the questions that he faces.
My only concern was the elaborate description of Carver's erotic dream, through which he comes to terms with his sexual orientation. This could have ben shortened.
A good read for teenagers.
The beauty of the story is that it is narrated in simple and lucid language. The experiences of Carver are true to life, and adolescents of that age will find struggling with one or many of the questions that he faces.
My only concern was the elaborate description of Carver's erotic dream, through which he comes to terms with his sexual orientation. This could have ben shortened.
A good read for teenagers.
August 30, 2021
Wonderful Story
Sims pens a wonderful, coming of age story in Getting By. I haven’t read work from this author before, and I really enjoyed it. Carter is the main character, and he is not only worried about regular teenage or high school things, but his sexuality. Carter is the target for bullies, and this story is very dramatic. I enjoyed Carter's story, self-discovery is a big thing, especially for a young person. Carter is stronger than he realizes, and more confident on the inside rather than the outside, but he is on this journey that will affect his life. It is a very well-written story, and I really liked it. Such an inspiring story. This read is more than just words on a page. With triumphs and tragedies and the in-betweens, this story is one to be read. Getting By is a definite recommendation by Amy's Bookshelf Reviews. I look forward to reading many more stories by this author.
Sims pens a wonderful, coming of age story in Getting By. I haven’t read work from this author before, and I really enjoyed it. Carter is the main character, and he is not only worried about regular teenage or high school things, but his sexuality. Carter is the target for bullies, and this story is very dramatic. I enjoyed Carter's story, self-discovery is a big thing, especially for a young person. Carter is stronger than he realizes, and more confident on the inside rather than the outside, but he is on this journey that will affect his life. It is a very well-written story, and I really liked it. Such an inspiring story. This read is more than just words on a page. With triumphs and tragedies and the in-betweens, this story is one to be read. Getting By is a definite recommendation by Amy's Bookshelf Reviews. I look forward to reading many more stories by this author.
September 27, 2020
Getting By By Jaire Sims
My Rating:-9.9/10
"Getting by" is a debut novel written by Jaire Sims.
⭐It's a story of a 17 year old, ambitious Carver Goodman who was an American student. He wanted to become a photographer, whose main focus was in his grades.
⭐Getting by becomes the story of a young man who was trying to find his own place in the world because Carver was struggling to understand his sexuality during his first relationship. Although it was with a female but he found himself more attracted to males. Even Carver was targeted by many bullies.
⭐The way Carver face the difficulties in school and join others in that situation, it was an appreciating and challenging task done by him.
⭐For all, a great debut novel spiced up with an exciting plot needs to be read. I suggest that you read this once, and now grab your copy.
HAPPY READING💙
My Rating:-9.9/10
"Getting by" is a debut novel written by Jaire Sims.
⭐It's a story of a 17 year old, ambitious Carver Goodman who was an American student. He wanted to become a photographer, whose main focus was in his grades.
⭐Getting by becomes the story of a young man who was trying to find his own place in the world because Carver was struggling to understand his sexuality during his first relationship. Although it was with a female but he found himself more attracted to males. Even Carver was targeted by many bullies.
⭐The way Carver face the difficulties in school and join others in that situation, it was an appreciating and challenging task done by him.
⭐For all, a great debut novel spiced up with an exciting plot needs to be read. I suggest that you read this once, and now grab your copy.
HAPPY READING💙
October 5, 2020
Getting By is the debut novel of the author Jaire Sims. Protagonist of the story is a seventeen years old teenager Carver Goodman. Carver is in high school. He loves clicking photos so on his way to school, whenever he find a good scenery, he captures it. School students and teachers are worried about ACT as student's ACT are important for school's goodwill and students acceptance to college.
In school, Carver was being bullied by Raymond and Tyrell. As it comes to his love life, Carver couldn't help himself from staring at his junior Donnell. Donnell is the most handsome guy and Carver was attracted to him. Grab a copy of this book and read the story yourself to unveil the suspense.
It was an intriguing story and I enjoyed reading it a lot. Language is simple and easy to understand. Cover page of the book looks pretty.
This book is recommended for YA readers.
In school, Carver was being bullied by Raymond and Tyrell. As it comes to his love life, Carver couldn't help himself from staring at his junior Donnell. Donnell is the most handsome guy and Carver was attracted to him. Grab a copy of this book and read the story yourself to unveil the suspense.
It was an intriguing story and I enjoyed reading it a lot. Language is simple and easy to understand. Cover page of the book looks pretty.
This book is recommended for YA readers.
March 10, 2021
This is only the second LGBT book I’ve read and that imbalance is something I am keen to correct (the first was The Rules of Seeing). One thing I particularly enjoyed about this book is the fact that the narrator’s Asperger’s syndrome is as much a focus as his journey to understanding his sexuality.
At first I wasn’t entirely sure about the narrative style, it seemed quite juvenile in its constant listing of the day’s every event, but as I read on this actually helped me feel more connected to the main character and gave me valuable insight into the way their mind works. It is, I think, a very clever stylistic choice.
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At first I wasn’t entirely sure about the narrative style, it seemed quite juvenile in its constant listing of the day’s every event, but as I read on this actually helped me feel more connected to the main character and gave me valuable insight into the way their mind works. It is, I think, a very clever stylistic choice.
My full review is here: https://theoverduebookreview.wordpres...
March 12, 2021
An interesting look at a smart young students struggles to get through high school and graduate as he deals with bullying, his sexuality, his career choices and suffering with Asperger's Syndrone. It reads like a diary as great detail is remembered of Carver's encounters with his circle of people.
Reading about the bullying incidents had my blood boiling. His love of nature and photography are clear. This book is his way of helping himself and others deal with issues like this and the need to speak out about it early and not let it fester.
Reading about the bullying incidents had my blood boiling. His love of nature and photography are clear. This book is his way of helping himself and others deal with issues like this and the need to speak out about it early and not let it fester.
April 24, 2021
I enjoyed this coming of age book. Getting By was an eye-opener about YA/high school issues today. Bullying, school workload, concern about college, navigating dating and sexuality, and so much more. Sometimes I think we don't fully understand what modern teens are handling.
The main character and author share Asperger's. I find the insight into the social aspect of a teen with Asperger's helpful.
I'd recommend this for parents and grandparents of middle grade or high school students as well as high school students and young adults.
The main character and author share Asperger's. I find the insight into the social aspect of a teen with Asperger's helpful.
I'd recommend this for parents and grandparents of middle grade or high school students as well as high school students and young adults.
June 16, 2021
What a beautiful coming of age story!
Jaire Sims captures the raw emotions of someone who struggles with his or her sexuality through the book's main character, Carver Goodman. The narrative of Getting By is evocative, especially as Sims conveyed Carver's troubles with bullying and his confusion over his relationship with Jocelynn.
Overall, the book was an easy read with a nice flow and relatable themes.
Jaire Sims captures the raw emotions of someone who struggles with his or her sexuality through the book's main character, Carver Goodman. The narrative of Getting By is evocative, especially as Sims conveyed Carver's troubles with bullying and his confusion over his relationship with Jocelynn.
Overall, the book was an easy read with a nice flow and relatable themes.
May 25, 2021
Jaire Sims has given us a look into the everyday life of a teen boy named Carver. Carver could be the boy down the street. You get so involved in his story you forget what's around you. I think most teens could identify with some or all of Carver's story. I found it incredibly interesting and very enjoyable.
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