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The Gentleman's Guide to Karezza Sex: Retention in Bed to Supercharge Your Life

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There’s a version of you that’s happier, more alive, more socially free, more successful, more satisfied, more in love, seizing every opportunity and making the most of it. Karezza sex is the most direct and powerful way to that better you. The Gentleman's Guide To Karezza Sex is your complete guide to semen retention in bed for a richer, stronger, supercharged life.This landmark book brings something entirely new to the a step-by-step men’s playbook for sexual transmutation in the bedroom. Packed with easy-to-follow gameplans, illustrations, relationship strategies, ancient wisdom, and pro tips, The Gentleman's Guide To Karezza Sex is a must-read for any man interested in leveling up in life, succeeding with women, and achieving his full potential.Karezza sex brings together the unrivaled power of sexual transmutation with the unparalleled benefits of a rock solid relationship… and the most exquisite pleasure. But there's more to it than that. This is the next-level life hack that currently empowers an elite few but deserves to be discovered by worthy men everywhere. The technology to achieve unlimited success, happiness, and fulfillment is now in your hands. Karezza sex is the ultimate competitive edge.

214 pages, Kindle Edition

First published June 20, 2020

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27 reviews23 followers
January 4, 2021
"Karezza sex is a statement - to yourself, to your lover, and to the world: I reject orgasm, I reject instant gratification, I reject the average life, I reject using my partner as a sex doll while I fantasize about depravity, I reject the inhumanity of it all, the foolishness of it all, the pointlessness of it all. I want to rise above. I am determined to do better. Even if no one else wants to or has the ability, I DO AND I WILL". - Nick Brothermore. I would say this is the main premise of this book.

This seems like a book that only talks about sex, but it is much more than that.
It is about transforming the basest animal energy into spiritual pursuits.
This book completely changes many paradigms of sexuality.
It teaches you the benefits of switching from orgasm based sex to loving, fully present lovemaking.
It teaches you the power of focusing on the journey instead of the destination.
"When the journey is the destination, you become an expert sexual navigator. Hours and hours of slow, mindful sex can add up".
Actually, this book is about never cumming, and never orgasming.
"The purest definition of Karezza sex is connected, loving, mindful, controlled, gentle, respectful sex without orgasm or pursuit of orgasm".
Sounds strange at first, but Nick Brothermore manages to convince why and how by explaining every intricacy and benefit about Karezzaa's lovemaking in a simple "man to man" language.
He covers everything about Karezza sex, from sexual transmutation, the benefits of not orgasming (if you never cum you can have sex for hours and there is no fatigue after sex), the joys of doing sex differently (more energy, more love, and more presence), the benefits of transmuting your sexual energy into higher pursuits (Taoist philosophy and keeping your seed), the benefits of being a leader and being your best self so you can find your best mate, how to show your partner the right way to make love. He even covers topics like masturbation (don´t), porn (don´t), kink, reproduction, and becoming your highest self.

My favorite quotes

"Touching should be done so often in your relationship that its second nature"
"Karezza sex is no-rush sex"
"This is one reason masturbation is so damaging in men - it turns your penis from the subject (the doer) to the object (the done to). This feminizes you"
"Less stimulation and more spiritual connection please".
"There´s no better way to have karezza sex than mouth to mouth, body to body, hand to hand, chest to chest, belly to belly, dick in pussy".
"Remaining still, cock parked in vagina is a tremendously powerful experience, not to be missed"
"Tell her how much you love and respect her. Praise her. Tell her everything about her that´s beautiful, inside and out."
"When you make eye contact with your woman during Karezza sex, you want to communicate things like I love you, you are beautiful, you´re safe, we are one, I am proud to be your man. I am strong. You make me happy".
"Exhibiting leadership characteristics in and out of bed makes women feel safe, secured, loved, and comforted".
"Once you learn to operate on sensation rather than sight, a deeper world of sexual pleasure opens up"
"Fantasizing during sex robs you of a truly connected exchange".
"The less pleasure you take in an accidental orgasm, the less likely it is to happen again".
"Steps of sexual transmutation:
1) Cultivate sexual energy
2) Retain that sexual energy
3) Apply that sexual energy towards your goals."
"Porn and masturbation are not approximations of sex - they are the opposite of sex".
"Application of sexual energy is two-pronged: it requires you
1)Have a purpose
2)Put in the work"
"Your sperm and your balls know that excelling and your purpose will eventually attract pussy towards you".
"The #1 way to attract quality women is to make yourself into a man you´re proud of"
"Having sex with a stranger is very exciting on an animal level. But the serial pursuit of this thrill is the enemy of love".
"The women who respond are the ones you want".
"Taking calculated risks is what separate the men from the boys"
"The most obvious benefit is that monogamy frees up the rest of your sexual energy".
"The problem with exhibitionism is that you allow your sexiañ energy to manifest in its lowest and most basic form"
"Alcohol can lead to the impulsive decision to orgasm.
Alcohol makes you passive, less masculine, and less hard. Your dick may be hard but your attitude isn't. You can't channel pure masculine energy if you are adulterating it with alcohol first."
"Drown your anxiety in action, not booze."

"Porn turns you into a spectator, the mindset becomes they do it, I watch. Since your sexual energy is the root of your life energy, that spectator mindset extends to other areas of life too. They do it, I watch. This is the destructive subconscious mantra of porn-addicted men everywhere."

"Masturbation is the lowest form of sexual behavior. It's a futile attempt to exchange sexual energy with yourself. Masturbation leads to anxiety, shame, and mood swings. Your own subconscious primal programming knows its wrong because masturbation holds you back from actual success, survival, and reproduction. "

"All it takes to find a good woman is to become your best as a man. When you set higher standards for yourself and live up to those standards, women will notice and be drawn to follow you. You won´t even have to go looking, the good ones will find you."








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September 13, 2020
Nick Brothermore writes, “The Gentleman’s Guide to Karezza Sex is above all for men who believe in love: the lovers. It’s for men who believe that sex is nature’s most beautiful act and that men and women are capable of magic in bed that transcends mere lust and biology. This book is for men who believe in the raw power of sexual energy and wat to learn how to channel it into greatness.”

Brothermore engages the reader in a straightforward, frank (sometimes crude) discussion of karezza sex from a man’s perspective. It fizzes with Brothermore’s candid advice and reflections on sex, self-improvement and life in general, bouncing along in an easy-to-read format.

Perhaps you’ve graduated from porn (thus escaping the need for sexual enhancement drugs) and experienced the benefits of learning to tame your powerful sexual energy. Are you wondering what the next horizon is? You’ll find this book particularly inspiring.

As Brothermore says, “There’s a lot of ungentlemanly shit going down in the bedroom these days. Much of it is inspired by porn. Don’t settle for this pale imitation of real sex. Great sex isn’t about fantasy. It’s about reality.” He calls on men to provide much needed strong, noble leadership, which becomes easier when they employ the “super-hack” of karezza, combining the power of sexual transmutation with the benefits of deeply connected intimate relationship.

In Brothermore’s view there’s a lot at stake. He calls on his readers to renew their spirits with karezza, and their partner’s spirits too. And then to get out in the world and make things happen in a positive feedback loop of great sex and satisfying accomplishment. In his experience with karezza, the sexual energy generated has nowhere to go but up, and “you will rise right along with it.” You may even find yourself helping to spark a sexual revolution.

Why not experiment with his “renegade” ideas and see for yourself and see if they alter your life as positively and profoundly as they have his? As he says, once you try it, it feels so natural and right you’ll wish you’d discovered it sooner.
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22 reviews7 followers
August 25, 2021
This book is a decent explanation about how lust and orgasm can lead to mental exhaustion via sensory overload. I've tried this with my girlfriend on and off for the last 8 months and it was overall quite positive, but led to several instances of unneeded sexual frustration by taking on the author's feelings of guilt, shame, weakness, and fear surrounding orgasm. Sometimes if we do make love more than once a week, it definitely does feel better to retain and orgasm around once a week in order to keep our dopamine at a nice productive medium. It's great to experiment with the ideas Nick promotes if you are are addicted to orgasm (more than once a week consistently), but not to the point to where you think orgasm every 1-2 weeks will ruin your relationship. There's really no point in being horny 24-7 by basically edging daily like a nymphomaniac.

A good analogy would be that Nick is essentially suggesting you can drink all the wine you want everyday! ...the catch is you just have to just swish it around in your mouth and spit it out instead of sharing a full bottle every 1-2 weeks with your partner. Yeah, the daily wine will make you always feel a little drunk which could be a novel excitement, but doing so will preoccupy an absurd amount mental energy instead of just having it normally every now and then as a bonding ritual.

True Karezza takes at least 2 hours (30 min foreplay, 60 min gentle sex, 30 min cool down). If you're going to spend that much time making love, you might as well take it to the end. Nick really suggests doing Karezza every day in order to "feel the benefits"- whatever that means. If I'm not inspired by the overall richness and balance of his life, there's no reason for me to follow his advice for the "benefits". As an alternative for the time conscious, he recommends Karezza "quickies" around 15-30 min, which are interesting in theory but very toxic in practice, as it by nature promotes the idea of rushing love, which compared to longer Karezza requires more lust to get the same feeling. Sometimes these quickies can work, but only in uncomfortable environments like late at night in a car trying to be discreet. It gives a lasting rush of adrenaline that continues for several days instead of a relaxing calm seduction that fades as hours go by.

This is a lifestyle that I think works for him as he does not have any children or express the desire to have any in the future. For a person who has high ambitions and goals like a family legacy, taking 12.5% of each waking day (2/16 hours... 14 hours a week!) to have sex is completely unrealistic, especially as a father and when those hours could be spent communicating love, diffusing drama, working on hobbies, and bonding through lifelong personal development. Imagine not having sex for a whole week, then having 14 hours of sex in one day! That would be completely insane, exhausting, and border on clinical sex addiction.
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34 reviews1 follower
March 17, 2021
Poor writing and wrong perspective in some topics.
Too esoteric for a matter which deservers a more scientific look into it. It has been several centuries which the only approach to the topic has been religion. I feel the way to open this to the general public is speaking out loud with correct terms. For the ones who want to know more, I recommend them to go to /r/Semenretention
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January 25, 2024
For all men looking for a better life.
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June 15, 2024
The Gentleman's Guide to Karezza Sex: Retention in Bed to Supercharge Your Life
Nick Brothermore




THINGS I LEARNED IN THIS BOOK






WHAT IS KAREZZA SEX?

“Karezza sex is journey-based as opposed to destination-based sex. Karezza sex is rejuvenation, a spiritual practice1, energy awareness, and the ultimate manifestation of the mind-body-spirit-sex connection.”

“Karezza Sex the term “orgasm retention” encompasses both retaining your seed (no ejaculation) and retaining your energy (no orgasm).”



THE POWER OF TOUCH

-Touching is a must in a relationship to spark sexual fire.
-Touching shows ownership of your girl.
(I love you, you are mine, we’re connected.)

= I touch aka escalate with girls to show my sexual desire, create sexual tension and seduce her to bed.

KISSING IS KEY

A kiss communicates: You are loved, I want to taste you, I want your germs, Let’s become one, and so much more.

-Women love to be kissed in public when least expect it especially when people are watching.(it makes her feel sexy.)

-Kissing her communicates how much desire you have for her.Just kiss her passionately and deeply bro!

KAREZZA INTERCOURSE


“Karezza intercourse is often slower than traditional sex. This slower pace comes about naturally as you mindfully explore the pleasurable nuances of the male/female connection.”

“Karezza intercourse normally lasts much longer than typical orgasm-sex. Karezza couples also have sex much more frequently than other couples. Karezza intercourse gives both partners a true sense of becoming one. Yin and Yang together as an energetic whole - one in body, mind, heart and spirit.
Karezza intercourse amplifies our essential Jing life force and our vital Qi energy to fuel higher pursuits. Since you never feel drained, the energy you create can also be reinvested into more sex with exponential results.”

“You will gain gigolo-like insight and intuition into the lay of the land. You will learn to speak a secret, quiet language only the most elite lovers ever decipher.
Karezza sex is a tool any man can use to become a legendary lover. No nut-buster can compete with what you offer a woman in bed. Your woman will know she has the best and love you deeply for it.
During Karezza intercourse, keep your mind geared toward loving connection, sexual energy, and keeping it within a sustainable zone. Give your woman the full strength and power of your masculine energy. Bathe in the renewal of her feminine energy and vaginal embrace.”


KISSING DURING INTERCOURSE

“Karezza sex is less visual, more about touch and physical sensation.”

“Kissing communicates love and profoundly compliments the penis-in-vagina connection. Kissing amplifies the benefits of Karezza sex and gives us an opportunity to connect on multiple levels simultaneously.”




AWAKENING POLARITIES
(Masculine & Feminine energy)

“Everything about you that’s good and noble is channeled into your cock. You become a vessel for the archetypal masculine energy that exists in our universe. Strong, dominant, rigid, energetic, hopeful, adventurous, bold, loving, playful, and proud.”

“Karezza foreplay builds toward a mindful and controlled exchange of energy vs. an animalistic and out-of-control one. Make it a point to establish this gentle intent from the start - it will greatly improve the quality of your entire interaction. When stimulating each other’s genitals, for example, do it in a more slow, loving, meditative way. ”




WARNING: ACTIVE ENERGY VS. PASSIVE ENERGY


“During Karezza sex, a man should be mainly in touch with his yang/active sexual (masculine) energy. This facilitates flow and transfer of sexual energy between man and woman.”

“Putting your penis in a passive role (stroked, sucked, or passively ridden) too much can cultivate yin/passive/feminine energy in a man.





WHY MASTUBERBATION FEMINIZES YOU

Your penis (the doer subject) becomes the object(being done-to). This is damaging and feminizes a man.


Note: This gives me a reason stay the fuck away from masturbation. I become the doer to being done-to which is wrong in so many ways.





BE ON 80% ACTIVE PENETRATOR(DOER) AND 20% PASSIVE ROLE

80% ACTIVE PENETRATION
(Double down on active penetration)
-Activites your masculine yang energy.



20% PASSIVE ROLE
(Sucked, stroked or passively ridden)
-Being in a passive role can activate your feminine yin energy which we must avoid.



KISSING DURING INTERCOURSE

“Karezza sex is less visual, more about touch and physical sensation “Kissing communicates love and profoundly compliments the penis-in-vagina connection. Kissing amplifies the benefits of Karezza sex and gives us an opportunity to connect on multiple levels simultaneously.”










DANCE OF THE SEVEN CHAKRAS


To activate 7 chakras

More full body contact
-Body-to-body Sex
-chest to chest
-Forehead to Forehead
-Hand-to-hand
-Belly to belly
-Dick in pussy

=This aligns and connects all your 7 chakras from Root to Crown Chakra which creates connections between the two of you.Take your time.This is the power of Karezza sex.

EXPLANATION OF 7 CHAKRAS

““Why does full body contact feel so perfect and natural during Karezza sex? The answer lies in our chakras. Hinduism describes seven chakras, or energy centers, in the body. Different body parts house different energies. Those butterflies in your stomach, that lump in your throat, that head-rush of excitement, that boner that won’t quit. These are everyday manifestations of the same concept.


“When you engage in full body-to-body sex, all seven of your chakras line up completely. Your root chakras connect at the genitals. Your sacral chakras line up just below the belly button. Your solar plexus chakras line up just below the rib cage. Your heart chakras line up at the chest. Your throat chakras line up at the throat and are activated by kissing. Your third eye chakras line up at the forehead. Your crown chakras are located at the top of your head and are activated by occasionally stroking each other's heads during intercourse while the other six chakras are aligned.




NIPPLE STIMULATION DURING INTERCOURSE

-Breast & nipple stimulation releases oxytocin hormone.

“Sucking on a woman’s nipples is extremely therapeutic - perhaps one of the most rejuvenating practices on earth for a man. Doing it while you’re rock hard inside her is pretty much all any man wants out of life. ”















THE POWER OF STILLNESS
(Penis-Vagina connection)


“Remaining still, cock parked in vagina is a tremendously powerful experience not to be missed. During orgasm sex, most couples are too self-consciously programmed toward friction and getting off to “stop and smell the roses, to revel in the moment. When you do this, it’s as if time freezes.”

Note: Imagining the thought of having my cock-parked in her vagina must be a surreal feeling.
I look forward to feeling the moment as if time freezes when I’m inside of her.


“Remaining motionless inside your woman, you truly feel the penis-vagina connection, your energy flowing into her, and you absorbing hers. You will notice a profound sensation of her vagina enveloping you, embracing you, you’ll feel it expand and contract as she breathes. The rhythms of your bodies connect and start to synchronize. This is the spiritual-sexual connection you’ve always dreamed of.”

Cock-parking motionless inside your woman enhances the penis-vagina connection.
The penis-vigina connection acts as an energy exchange between the two of you which both puts you in synchronize mode. Sex is an energy exchange and spiritual-sexual connection.




SEX TALK DURING INTERCOURSE

“The key is honest, kind, loving talk. Stay away from nasty porn sex talk and just be real. Tell her how much you love and respect her. Praise her. Tell her everything about her that’s beautiful, inside and out“much you love this intimacy and connection. Tell her you love becoming one with her and want to keep getting closer and closer. Tell her how therapeutic she is to you, how much being inside her energizes and strengthens you. Let her know you hope she feels the same way.”

“Tell her that you love watching her opening up and surrendering and enjoying herself, and you love putting a smile on her face. Tell her you love watching her let go and relax and be free. This type of talk, done sincerely and sparingly, gets women extremely wet and receptive to exchange of sexual energy.

Stuff will make your woman melt and open herself lovingly to your male sexual energy. A woman needs to feel that it’s okay to let down her guard and surrender completely.”

EYE CONTACT

-Eye contacts build trust.
-Eye contact can spark sexual chemistry with a woman.
-Prolonged eye contact creates attraction/connection/sexual tension/intimacy.
-She will submit to you with prolonged intense strong eye contact.



DOMINANCE

-Leadership
-“To dominate is to prevail, to feel powerful, to lead the sexual dance. Exhibiting leadership characteristics in and out of bed makes women feel safe, secure, loved, and comforted. ”

“It’s gentlemanly, empathetic leadership as a service. Simply put, it’s the channeling of pure masculine yang energy.”


SHE NEEDS TO FEEL SAFE AND FEEL YOUR MASCULINE DOMINANT BETTER ENERGY

“A woman’s hormones don’t give her access to the same level of dominant energy you have - so she needs to get this safe, dominant energy from you. It’s an essential ingredient for a woman to grow and thrive fully.”




HER EYES WILL COMMUNICATE SUBMISSIONS DURING PROLONGED EYE CONTACT

“Her eyes will communicate her vulnerability and willingness to submit. Submission is a beautiful thing.
We are all dominant and submissive in different ways.”



VISUAL STIMULATION


“THE BENEFITS OF SEXUAL ENERGY TRANSMUTATION”

“Transmutation means changing one substance into another. Sexual transmutation means channeling and changing sex energy into other forms of energy.”

“The more charged up you become, the more creative and productive you must become to channel your attention away from the possibility of orgasmic release.”










FACTS ON SR

SR boosts
-Confidence
-Vitality
Focus
-drive
-success
-attraction
-creativity
-peace of mind
-Relationships

-Fully charged, full of life force “and ready to take on the world with confidence and determination.”

“The benefits of orgasm retention begin to accrue immediately after you decide to abstain. Much of the initial benefit is mental: a sense of hope, a sense of direction, a magnetic certainty you are on a fruitful path. After ten days or so we start to look better, sound better, focus better. A sense of peace and calm gradually permeates. After twenty days, many men describe a feeling of “I can handle anything” beginning to saturate their awareness.



THE EFFECTS OF ORGASMS

-Busting a nut will deplete your life energy/chi/ojas/prana/jing energy.
-The act of masturbation feminizes a man. The doer becomes the one being done-to.
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CONNECTING FROM BEHIND


“Spooning-style positions, on the other hand, allow for a closeness and intimacy that doggy style does not. In these positions, the man is behind the woman but their bodies are touching closely. Wrap your arms around your woman and enter her from behind. The profound connection achieved can be extraordinary.”

“Spooning positions actually have more in common with face-to-face sex than with doggy style - the full body chakra alignment, the kissing, the eye contact. It’s also a great position to whisper sweet talk in your “woman’s ear while you fondle her breasts and penetrate her pussy. ”



-Releases a love hormone called oxytocin.
-Creates intimacy.
-More body-to-body contact which activates all the 7 chakras in our body.


SUCKING/FONDLING ON YOUR WOMAN’S NIPPLE WHILE INSIDE HER
TECHNIQUES

“As an alternative “bonus move” try sucking on and fondling your woman’s nipples during face to face intercourse. This will give “both you and your woman an oxytocin rush (the bonding/love hormone), enhancing the sexual experience in a sustainable and retention-friendly way.













ON ERECTIONS



“Erections are a pretty accurate gauge of your overall health. The better your health and fitness, the stiffer your boners will be. If you need a boost, the amino acids L-arginine “and L-citrulline are excellent for men’s health and erections. ”

“If you run into erection problems, look at your diet, your weight, your sleep habits and your lifestyle basics. Medications can cause blood flow problems. Avoid meds with sexual side effects unless it’s a life or death issue. The benefits you get from Karezza sex will far outweigh the benefits of any non life-sustaining medication you take. Also try lifting weights and reducing your body fat.




THE BENEFITS OF SEXUAL ENERGY TRANSMUTATION

“Transmutation means changing one substance into another. Sexual transmutation means channeling and changing sex energy into other forms of energy.”

“The more charged up you become, the more creative and productive you must become to channel your attention away from the possibility of orgasmic release.


SEXUAL TRANSMUTATION


“Sex energy is so raw and fundamental that it can be channeled toward higher pursuits quite efficiently. Yet this energy is so insanely powerful that most men never learn to harness it and cash in on the potential riches.”

“There are three steps necessary for sexual transmutation:

1) Cultivate sexual energy

INNER GAME

-Mindful consumptions of news/socmed
-Quit porn & masturbation

•Makes you weak,unattractive, bitch,and passive.
-Meditate(Nature/music)
-Exercise

-Listen to music

-Nature walk

-Overthinking
is one of the biggest factors that deplete our chi because it requires more energy.
Replace overthinking with positive mantra/affirmations.




EAT RIGHT


-Fruits
(Fruits,Melons,grapes, and berries)

-Veggies

2) Retain that sexual energy

Solit
-“How do you retain sexual energy? The answer is simple: no orgasm. No nut. It’s that easy.”



3) Apply that sexual energy toward your goals.

Today’s world presents challenges on all three fronts.
Men’s testosterone levels are a fraction of what they were a few generations ago. There is a severe shortage of male sexual energy in our society. Plastics, pesticides, pharmaceuticals, alcohol, obesity, sugar, entertainment, and social media all suppress men’s sex energy and drive.”

“Yes, sexual transmutation gives you an almost superpower-like ability to channel your hard work into something valuable and impressive. ”


HAVING A PURPOSE
(Goals/Vision/ambitions/dreams)


-Business
-Skills
-Passion
-hobbies







A DIRTY SECRET


“Here’s a dirty secret. Your sperm and your balls know that excelling at your purpose will eventually attract pussy toward you. That’s what transmutation is all about”

“You deny masturbation, it wants pussy. You refuse to chase pussy, it finds a way to attract pussy to you. ”

“Once you get pussy, you deny yourself release, then what happens? Your seed and that sexual energy will work to make you greater and greater until women are literally lined up around the block begging to have your baby for the sake of humanity. It sounds like an exaggeration, but it’s not much of one. That life force, that reproductive energy is the most powerful force in the world.”

“Sexual transmutation is you and your seed working together for your mutual benefit. But while your seed is all powerful, you can’t let it lead the way.”




TO FIND A WOMAN, BUILD THE MAN
(Cultivate Masculinity)

You want to look for an authentic connection, an energy match, something with potential. To find that, focus on cultivating your own masculine energy rather than studying pickup lines and techniques.


FEMININE ENERGY IS INNATE WHILE MASCULINITY IS BUILD

Feminine energy is largely innate, while masculine energy must be cultivated by the man himself. This is the paradox of yin and yang. Until you cultivate yours, you have nothing to exchange and women will be hard to find.

Women have innate value while men have to develop their values to become attractive.


MAN’S VALIDATION COMES FROM HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS AND MASCULINITY


“The #1 way to attract quality women is to make yourself into a man you’re proud of. Why would you even deserve a woman if you don’t have any concrete achievements to be proud of? Accomplishment builds self-esteem, pride, and masculine energy. This energy attracts high quality women.”


ALWAYS BE GETTING BETTER

“Work on your physique, your career, or special skills that take time and effort to master. Nothing is sexier to a woman than a

-Women love a man who’s constantly getting better. It gives them the chance to ride your journey






LUBE


“Open your woman up mentally, emotionally, and energetically and her female juices will respond accordingly. This is nature’s way and your woman is a part of nature.



WOMEN’S JUICE = LIFE FORCE


“Yes, the ancient Taoists had a dirty secret: wetness is simply the physical manifestation of a woman’s essential Jing energy. It’s literally Jing Juice. Vaginas are literally fountains of Jing energy.”

“Su Nu recommends that men use this Jing to increase their own Chi (vital life force energy). ”



Note: It’s best to suck your woman's juice during foreplay to give you an extra boost of Chi(vital life force energy).







5 STEPS TO MAKE AND KEEP HER WET




STEP 1: THE RELATIONSHIP



“Male sex energy is a physically penetrating force. Female sex energy is an emotional sucking-you-in. And we do get sucked in, which is a beautiful thing. ”

“Do something nice or thoughtful in the hours before Karezza sex. Make her a snack, give her a surprise hug or smooch. Making her feel loved and desired will keep her Jing energy active all day long, primed for juicing. ”


STEP 2: FOREPLAY


“While visual stimulation is very important to most men, touch and talk are more important to women.”


“STEP 3: BROADCAST YOUR AROUSAL”

Brush your dick around her..

Magic trick dick



“STEP 4: WET TALK”

“Women crave this type of communication during sex.”

“Mastering this art keeps the Jing Juice flowing and the heavenly pleasure going and going. ”

“I find it so sexy that you are so great at everything you do…”

“You are so incredibly beautiful... I love watching you relax and enjoy yourself in this way…”

“The sexual energy between us feels so amazing, doesn’t it?... ”

“I love being intimate with you in this way…”

“You have the world’s sexiest pussy…”

“but the point is to describe how you feel in the moment.”

“But spoken sincerely this approach works magic to release cascades of Jing Juice
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63 reviews
December 23, 2025
3.25/5

I think this is generally good information, and I certainly learned something from all this, but I feel as though this could be summarized in a third of what this was. I’d say a third of this book is flat out unnecessary, another third is bro science (as in not backed by anything), and the other third actually has value. Most. Self help guides seem to fall victim of having too fluff and cherry picked (assumed and personal preferences stated as facts) data, and when it really gets to the point there isn’t that much to say, but for what it is, I do appreciate the value that I did get out of reading this, so it’s still worth your while for educational purposes, but take what you learn with a grain of salt, because there aren’t any actual references, or sources sited, that you can usually find towards the back of the book.
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68 reviews2 followers
March 2, 2021
Pretty good read and still worth your investigation.
A simple and easy read with a solidly complete analysis but lacking some depth.
If you're new to the subject area it is a great choice and you should definitely read it.
If you're not new to the subject are there are probably other books out there that have a deeper treatment of the subject that could be a better choice.
Otherwise Nick has done a good job to collate a broad investigation of the subject and offers very good solid tips and advice and practices.
14 reviews6 followers
April 20, 2021
A radical approach to a basic human need. A lot to think about and even consider trying!
7 reviews4 followers
February 26, 2023
Great Book, Highly recommended!
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