This book serves as an easy, quick reference guide to the original “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen R. Covey, and has been written by his son, Sean Covey. The author starts the book by explaining why his father used the word effective, and not efficient. This book has the key insights, but should you wish for an even shorter, and more concise, version still, I recommend you skip to the last chapter “Bonus Features”, which repeats the list of the 7 Habits, with briefer-still explanations, at the very end.
The 7 Habits are: 1. Be Proactive, i.e. don’t be reactive, take responsibility for your life, and know your Circle of Control. 2. Begin With the End in Mind, i.e. before you act, begin with a clear idea of what you want to achieve, and define your values, mission and goals in life. 3. Put First Things First, i.e. prioritise your activities, and consider what one thing you could do, regularly, to make a positive influence in your life. 4. Think Win-Win!, i.e. have an abundance mindset, not a scarcity one. 5. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood, i.e. genuinely listen first. 6. Synergise, i.e. value and celebrate differences.
Each chapter starts with quotes from Stephen R. Covey and others, and general thoughts about what each habit equates to. There are also various exercises, as questions are presented to evoke thought and action. As an example, in the Bonus Features, under Balance, What is the single most important thing you can do in each four dimension (physical, spiritual, mental & social + emotional) that will have the greatest positive impact on your life and help you achieve a sense of balance?
As to the methods and ideas presented, they are all commonly known, e.g. for prioritising, the Eisenhauer Matrix, which Covey calls the Time Matrix, which has the four quadrants of urgency vs importance, and the 3 MITs (Most Important Tasks). In working on one’s mission statement/life mission, Covey asks that you break things down to your roles (e.g. family, friends, work, community) and the long-term goals or destination.
If I had to condense this book into a single phrase, it would be “I turn my dreams into goals, goals into steps, and steps into actions, and I complete an action every day.”
My favourite quote: “Be and do what matters the most every day.”