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When we were sea and stars

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"I think you were born to love, and you do it beautifully."

Under the summer sun, in a small seaside town in South Italy, nineteen-year-old James meets the man of his dreams.
Roberto is gorgeous, fun, sweet... and very taken. James has no delusions about their friendship; he knows love couldn’t possibly happen to him.

Roberto is full of doubts about his relationship. He knows something is missing in his life and he's not expecting to find that something in James, his new American neighbor.

But if something were to happen, only the sea, the sand and the stars can know.

233 pages, ebook

First published August 7, 2020

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Elen Chase

11 books37 followers
Elen Chase is an Italian author of character-driven LGBTQ+ stories that are emotionally devastating in the best way. Her books make readers cry, but a happy ending is always guaranteed, because the world needs more queer joy.

She lives in Florence, Italy, with her partner and their two cats, but part of her heart will always remain in Japan, where she lived for a short but unforgettable time.

Mental health themes are deeply woven into the plots of all Elen’s books. As someone who experiences anxiety and battles with depression, she believes in showing readers that they are not alone, no matter how hard things get.

You can follow Elen at elenchase.com and on social media:
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You can also support her on Ko-Fi for exclusive content: https://ko-fi.com/elenchase

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Author 7 books50 followers
July 25, 2023
"Sometimes I wonder if blaming it all on fate isn't only an excuse. Maybe we say 'it was destiny' because we're afraid to admit that we gave up."

If I had to explain in a single sentence why WWWSAS has become one of my top reads of the year already, and why I describe it as "Call Me By Your Name done right", I would offer this one: "While CMBYN bored me to tears, WWWSAS moved me to tears". There were so many things I loved in WWWSAS! It has the same 'lazy summer in a seaside town, under the Italian sun' vibes as Aciman's triumph; only, Elen is far from a problematic person (she's the sweetest!), and this book is actually interesting.

This novel starts when James' family lands in a small seaside town in Southern Italy to spend a few weeks of vacation. Although they look every part the perfect American family, their relationships with each other are far from ideal; since James went through something horrible during the school year, things haven't been the same. His parents are weird around him, and his sister, who once looked up to him, now seems to loathe his guts. As a result, James doesn't really expect much from the family vacation..., until he lands eyes on Roberto, one of the family next door's sons and totally James' type. From the moment they meet, James feels attracted to Rob, who would be the perfect guy for him if he didn't have fiancé, and if James and his family weren't leaving in a few weeks. But... Rob makes James feel special. Seen. Understood. And the chemistry between them soon becomes too intense to be ignored.

"Cutting a person off a picture won't cut them off your memories"

There are so many things to love about this book! One of them has to be the characters. The protagonists, James and Rob, are quite different. the 19-year-old American carries a difficult past around, which makes it difficult for him to value and respect himself; whereas the 25-year-old Italian seems to have it all, but feels like there's something missing in a relationship he feels trapped in. I really felt for James, whose wounds keep bleeding after so many months, and whose past is explored slowly and carefully as the story unfolds. Even though at first he comes across as a carefree teen just looking for the next fling, he's really far from that! As the book progresses, and as he gets closer to Rob, cracks begin to appear in this façade he puts up so that nobody sees how much he's hurting. In that sense, both Rob and Elen herself did an amazing job at dealing with a trauma as deeply ingrained as James. As much as certain scenes and plot-twists hurt, I'm really fond of how James' past was handled.

Rob's conflicts were also well done. To put it simply, Rob is a young man that finds himself stuck in a relationship that he doesn't really want, but that has become his comfort zone as well as what's expected of him. Everyone thinks they know Rob, how he functions and what he's like; particularly his cousin Francesco, who is also gay and thinks he understands Rob better than Rob himself. As a result, Rob may not carry an emotional burden as heavy as James', but he does have to face people's different prejudices and stereotypes about him every day. His interactions with James help him start wondering about things in his life he hadn't ever thought about, and as the pages fly by, Rob starts becoming a different, more mature person. Again, I loved the exploration of topics that should be talked about more. When we think we've figured someone out, why are we so reluctant to accept that they may have changeed, or that we may be wrong? Even more so when that "someone" is us ourselves. How much does the need for a comfortable, safe place in life hold us back?

"You're passionate (...). You can get the best education in the world, you can find the finest job, but you can't start thinking with your brain when your blood tells you to think with your heart."

As a result of my fondness of the two MCs, I was really invested in their relationship. They're almost instantly physically attracted to each other, but their love is built upon shareed silences, trust, and a willingness to see beyond what the other seems to be. Their story isn't free of rough patches, and there were a few moments in which I had to take a moment to take deep breaths. The final pages were particularly emotion-provoking, and had me crying all the good tears! Taking into account that I read the book in one sitting, because I physically couldn't stop reading, the roller-coaster of emotions it took me on is particularly remarkable, and a testament to Elen's skill. Very few contemporary romance books have ever managed to fascinate me the way "When We Were Sea and Stars" did.

"What was he doing to me? What magic was he trapping me in, that I could feel so lost, and then find myself again in his eyes?"

Although I'm not Italian (I'm Spanish, though, so our cultures are pretty similar in many ways), I've been to said beautiful country, and I appreciated all the Italian-ness so, so much! Italians, just like us Spaniards, value family and bonds a lot, and are particularly fond of lengthy times spent around the table, even after the meal in question has been eaten, with friends and relatives. Many characters populate James and Rob's story, each of them their own persona. I have a soft spot for Jenn, Rob's hard-metal cousin, and Marco, Rob's brother; as well as for James' parents, who provide very poignant moments with his son. This novel was full of tributes to that love for one's community, as well as of delicious food and beautiful moments in the beach, playing the guitar, or celebrating. Even though the descriptions were a little scarce in the first pages, soon the book found its footing, and offered a perfectly balanced blend of descriptions, dialogues, and inner monologues. Not once did I feel bored, or tempted to stop reading.

"When you look at me, I feel I'm the world's luckiest bastard."

I'll be forever grateful that I heard about this beautiful book on Indie Bookstagram, because it made me feel so much, it's quickly become a favourite queer read. Cam't wait to re-read it, already! It's the perfect summer read for anyone looking for a beautiful romance, an Italian-flavoured story, or simply a feel-good contemporary novel about two boys falling in love. Can't wait for the sequel, "When We Were Fire on Fire"!

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CWs: Abusive relationship (mentioned, challenged), Alcohol, Anxiety, Drug usage (weed; explicit, not challenged) Explicit sexual content, Guilt, Homophobia (challenged), Online abuse and shaming (mentioned, challenged), Sexual violence (mentioned, challenged), Trauma.
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March 26, 2021
DNF @ 23%

An American 19-year old and an Italian 26-year old meet while the American and his family are on vacation in southern Italy. And that's about it, folks.

First issue: both POVs are written in first person, and they both sound exactly alike. That's annoying enough when both characters are from the same country, but you're telling me these two characters would be thinking and talking alike? No, I don't think so.

Second issue: the American, James, has something tragic in his past that caused his family to fracture and him to have to go to therapy. Are we told what this is? No. Is there a good reason for that? No. There's no mystery here, there's no intrigue, just the author keeping things back because...I don't even know why. After just getting through this exact same setup with Two Man Station, I wasn't willing to put up with it again. I also wasn't curious enough to try to skim ahead and see what the Big Awful was. Maybe he was caught in an orgy with the football team, or getting too friendly with the school mascot (hopefully human). Or maybe he was jumped and they're blaming the victim. I don't know or care.

Third issue: Roberto is too much of a wuss to tell his boyfriend it's not working out. Oh, but his grandpa knows the second he meets James that James is the one for his grandson. That trope is worn out; I've never read or seen any iteration of it that I've liked.

I was thinking of putting this down by 5% but wanted to make sure I was giving it a fair chance and that I wasn't just having a knee jerk reaction after finishing Two Man Station and not being very happy with that one. And to be fair to it, there is definite potential here, but at 23% I haven't seen enough improvement or felt enough connection with the characters to see myself liking this one if I go any further.
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379 reviews26 followers
April 6, 2023
Couldn't sleep, so I re-read this gem, and I have to say, that nonno always makes me tear up. ALWAYS.

What could be nothing more than a sweet love story set on a Mediterranean summer paradise turned out to be a vivid, clear, realistic dive into Italy and its south.
Although this is the first novel in the series, I read it after immersing myself in book 3, and it was so cool to meet some of the characters again, like I was hanging out with old friends and offered a deeper insight into them. Jenn, who I had mostly disregarded on book 3, became a firm favourite after reading this one, and all my thoughts on Marco became vindicated.
But it's James and Roberto that bring me here, although, no, not really. This tale may be about them, but it could be about anyone else - meaning that the realism portrayed through these characters is nothing short of universal and relatable. How often was I James in some of his knee-jerk reactions? How many times did I cower up like Rob and failed to say the words I knew should have been said, just because I was terrified of not living up to expectations? Although James and his issues make me feel for him and want to give him a cuddle, it was Roberto who most touched me. I experienced such a bond with him, someone who doesn't even know who he really is,what he likes, what he wants out of life, becaise he feels forced to live up to the character made up by those closest to him, just to spare his family any more 'problems' than the ones already brought by his sexuality. How often do we go through years, decades of our lives hiding under a mask others push upon us and we agree to wear, for the sake of feeling we belong, we pertain, we are not dead weight pulling down the others with us? I saw some readers refering to Rob as a wuss because of how he ends up handling his personal situation and his relationships, but hey, not everyone is 'so woke' and the truth is, tales about those who often screw up and aren't perfect are far more interesting to read. Perfection is poisonous, and the world is made of people who resemble other people, but in the end, we all have our differences and do things in different manners. Roberto's actions are so understandable and relatable, for me, if I pause to analyse what's behind them, and he makes perfect sense. Does he go about things the right way? He goes about them the only way he knows, until he realises that maybe this is not the best way, and that maybe he can be someone else, he can be himself, he can do things differently. We aren't born knowing how to navigate every current in the sea of life, but it's by living that we learn. And sometimes, by reading books about characters that do things in ways we'd never have considered, things that we may find wrong or harmful. I believe that reading opens minds and grows our inner worlds and our capacity for understanding, and reading diverse characters - in each and every term, with every singinficant nuance - can only help us understand people better. And become better people ourselves. All this to say, after 3 Elen Chase books, I am definetely becoming a fan of her writing, her stories, and most importantly, her beautiful, realistic, loveable and understandable characters.

'Sí, va bene. L'amore é sempre bello'
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Author 2 books14 followers
August 7, 2020
What an irresistible read! I just can’t get over this beautiful M/M romance book.

When I first started reading it, I had expected to smile and see things unfolding from a bystander’s POV, but what I experienced was much deeper than that.

With James on our side, I got to experience the ‘coming of age’ side of this love story. Confusing, exciting, and breathtaking all at once. I simply loved the thrill!

With Roberto on our side, I got to experience the ‘playing adult’ side. Trying hard to be responsible, acting tough... but completely hopeless when it comes to letting yourself go. The pain felt so real, yet it was necessary to go through it.

These two sides complete each other, and reading them side by side gives a rich, complex experience that is both simple yet deep.

The Italian backdrop gives a lovely addition to this already beautiful story. The people and its culture are seamlessly introduced and woven into the story, I couldn’t help feeling like I was actually there in Italy, having the best holiday of my life.

A very satisfying read that made me want to keep going back to check on the characters. Will definitely read more from this author!
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Author 6 books45 followers
July 11, 2023
I loved reading When we were sea and stars! This cute m/m summer romance follows 19 year old James, who goes on a holiday to Italy with his family. There, he meets Roberto and falls head over heels in love with him. Unfortunately, Roberto already has a boyfriend.

What I loved:
- James. He's such a precious sweetheart. He's insecure and doesn't understand that he deserves the world, only because too many people have made him feel like he doesn't. (But he does!!!)

- James and Jenn. I adored their friendship. If I could have either of them as a best friend, I would consider myself lucky.

- Roberto. Maybe he didn't handle everything as he should, but he was unexpectedly the character I could relate to most. I think he might be grayromantic and/or demiromantic (or I'm projecting again😂), and I had no idea how much I needed a character like that.

- Roberto's nonno. He's perfect. Absolutely perfect. His quote, THE quote: "L'amore é sempre bello" made me cry so many happy tears.

- It reminded me a little bit of Call Me By Your Name😍

- The setting. I mean, ITALY. Do I need to say more?


Highly recommended. I would love to reread this sometime, but first, I'm excited to dive into the other books in the series!
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229 reviews7 followers
December 5, 2020
When We Were Sea and Stars is a stunning and captivating love story. It played like a foreign language film in my head, with its dramatic Mediterranean scenery, the colorful residents of a small town in Southern Italy, and an inside look at daily life through the eyes of Italian author, Elen Chase. But it’s the love story that is so achingly beautiful it brought me to tears. James and Roberto are so lovely together it imprinted my heart.

Roberto didn’t say a word, but our fingers intertwined. He held my hand tightly and I almost cried as I realized that was the most intimate gesture I had ever shared with another person in my whole life.

Nineteen year old American, James, has been deeply scarred emotionally by something in his past that isn’t revealed until much later in the book. His self-esteem has been shattered, as have relationships with his family, friends, and classmates. He only feels worthy and loved when being used for sex, but clearly he doesn't know what love really is. James’ family has rented a home for a month long vacation/escape from real life next door to Roberto’s childhood home. Rob lives many hours away in Milan but is visiting his family for his summer break and to attend a cousin’s wedding.

Rob has been in an unsatisfying, “safe” relationship for two years with boyfriend Luca. In fact, his relationships have always been mediocre and devoid of love. Fate steers Rob’s life in a different direction when Luca declines Rob’s invitation to join him on his trip.

James quickly develops a crush on Rob, the tall, dark, and handsome, twenty-something man next door, and Rob soon becomes enamored with the cute blue eyed, blond James. The nature of their relationship is confusing to them, sometimes resembling a friendship, other times feeling like more. They’re good for each other: James stops hating himself when he’s with Rob, and James makes Rob feel alive. And so they move along in fits and starts, with both feeling unworthy of the other – James because of his past and Rob because he thinks he doesn’t know how to love properly.

Their feelings grow as they spend lazy days in the sun or bicycling along narrow roads, and nights in bars or gathered around a bonfire on the beach, listening to the dulcet strumming of a guitar. Both men find peace in the simple pleasures and rituals of everyday life in this small town.

I was drawn to When We Were Sea and Stars in part because of its setting, particularly since it was written by a native author. I appreciate being immersed in and learning about foreign cultures, in this case a fictitious town south of Rome on the Mediterranean Sea. Chase has created a rich landscape with verdant mountains abutting the deep, blue water. Beaches are surrounded by cliffs and wooden boats rock in the gentle waves. When darkness grows, lights twinkle from towns nestled into the sides of mountains, and the darkened sky is a sea of stars. The wedding itself was a lavish affair steeped in traditions that were fascinating to read about.

The rich array of characters – most of them Rob’s relatives – are integral to the story and contribute in large part to the depth of the narrative. Both James and Rob's families have significant roles. The importance of family is a recurring theme. The standouts among the cast are Rob's best friend and cousin Francesco, Rob’s brother Marco, and Jenn, another cousin who becomes James’ best friend. All three are realistic characters who provide advice and support in keeping with their age and experience. A special mention goes to Rob’s grandfather, or nonno, for his warm and welcoming nature and kindness toward James.

I was on edge for much of the book, not able to anticipate how this could end happily. My heart was on a rollercoaster ride, plunging for the final drop before it pulled out of the descent and settled happily and with great relief. Chase does indeed pull out an HEA in the last few pages. For once, I’m glad the epilogue wasn’t set a year or more into the future, but rather just a few months after their summer romance. The story retains its magic and immediacy this way, and provides a more powerful ending.

I was profoundly moved and deeply satisfied by Chase's writing. It was a pleasure to witness James and Rob's love flourish. The secondary characters and the setting are essential here, but it’s James and Rob that make this book shine so brightly.

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Author 39 books107 followers
August 30, 2021
When we were sea and stars by Elen Chase is a dazzling LGBT romance filled with plenty of emotions and heart.
The family of James (19 years old American boy) is visiting a small Italian town during their vacation. There he meets a local, Roberto, and falls in love.
This is a multiple POV novel: the author is telling the story from the perspective of two main characters. I found myself truly curious about James and the way he perceives the world around him. I couldn’t let go of the ache of his last year at home, his short relationships with many lovers, and his pure thoughts and feelings towards Roberto and his family, his true self.
The writing is beautifully done; it's simple and evocative. I even highlighted many lines because the words touched me deeply. It was an unusual book for me, but it was very refreshing, some way different…
Let me also mention that this novel steams with the warmth of Italian summer, the smell of South Italian dishes, the sea, and hungry kisses in the dark. All the truths the boys say, all their jokes, dreams, plans combine into beautiful and compelling prose. Against a sunset-drenched skyline, the author Elen Chase brings the heat and longing of true romance to a scorching crescendo.
A magical, big-hearted book about young love – enjoyed it.
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Author 22 books48 followers
July 27, 2020
I adored this summer romance by M/M romance author Elen Chase. It had everything you would want in a summer love story - a gorgeous Italian backdrop by the sea, handsome leading men, quirky and fun side characters (I'm looking at you, Jennifer), heartbreaking backstories, suspense and drama and oh, the swooning romance! A shy American kid on vacation with his parents, trying to rebuild his relationship with his family, as well as his own self-worth (I admit I cried here - get your tissues ready). A handsome Italian man with a complicated relationship and a close-knit family you'll want to adopt you. You'll get swept up in the Italian culture just as much as you do in the romance. I felt like I was there on holiday, so pack your passport and sunscreen!
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Author 9 books56 followers
December 29, 2021
When we were Sea and Stars is a delightfully cosy LGBTQ+ contemporary romance. Set in an idyllic seaside town in Southern Italy, James is an American tourist who meets the man of his dreams: Roberto, who is funny, good-looking, and 100% taken. What follows is a story of friendship and love, hope, and learning to trust again. WWWSAS is a beautiful little tale that drew a smile on my face. But beneath the surface, this is also a tale about learning to trust again, and about realising your own self-worth. James’ internal monologues when he starts to open-up to Roberto were wonderful and I wanted nothing more than to cheer him on. A real heartwarming read.
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6 reviews1 follower
October 27, 2020
I really liked the characters, because of how real and alive they seem, even those that are not central to the book.
I liked the setting a lot, having spent a great deal of this year at home not being able to travel, I transported myself to the southern Italy and to the adventures of italian summer.
I liked that the book is not only a melodrama but also has good humor and acute observations about Italian culture and life.
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1,479 reviews23 followers
July 18, 2024
More people need to read this book. So good!

I just finished reading and I'll have to let things percolate a while to hopefully come up with a worthy review.

One thing that this book manifested wonderfully was the heart and generosity of spirit of the southern Italians... no matter where they live. So true to my own experience with friends from there.

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1,517 reviews18 followers
November 19, 2020
This book transports you to gorgeous Italy. You feel like you're actually there, experiencing this summer romance yourself. It was absolutely perfect as the weather is frigid here in New England. Not only is the scenery rich, but the characters make you feel like you're one of the family. I loved everything about this story.
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840 reviews75 followers
January 12, 2026
5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Nineteen year old James and his family arrive in Southern Italy from the USA for a month long vacation, mostly to try and help James to recover from the horrible experiences he has suffered and from the awful reactions from other relatives and their community. But also because his parents and sister have withdrawn from him so much he feels he is no longer loved.

The small Italian town is welcoming but it takes a while for the family to get to grips with Italian hospitality practices. It doesn’t take long for James and his younger sister Mary to find their place with the younger neighbours and have a good time socially. James gets a particularly good response from brothers Roberto and Marco, and their cousins Jenn and Francesco.

After a wobbly start, James and Roberto have a growing attraction, but it’s not without big problems. Roberto is 26 and has a boyfriend, Luca, back in Milan where they both work, plus Roberto has issues about his ability to sustain a loving relationship whether it’s with Luca or anyone else, and James is dealing with his shameful history. A very harrowing episode in his young life.

It was so beautiful yet painful watching James and Roberto’s growing feelings for each other, their late night walks on the beach, lying staring up at the falling stars, visiting Roberto’s grandparents and friends. getting invited to a family Wedding. The uncertainty each of them suffered alone and the miscommunications. Some aspects of it reminded me of Andre Aciman’s book’Call Me By Your Name’, with James reminding me of the character played by Timothee Chalamet.

All’s going well and then Roberto has to face a big reality. James and his family vacation is coming to an end. This is where my tears start and my heart is breaking for Roberto, and especially James.

Such strong emotions from me is a good indication that the story has grabbed hold of my heart for the protagonists and I have to grab my tissue box.

I’ve bought ‘When We Were Sea and Stars’ months ago and it got buried in my very long TBR list. I’m so glad I noticed the cover again. I loved everything about it, the location in Italy, the variety of interesting side characters, plus the writing of Italian author Elen Chase. There are 3 further books in the series which I’m happy about because I’ll get to read Roberto’s cousin Francesco’s heartbreaking love story, and then his brother Marco gets his book too. These are now on my WTR list as I sure want to read more about these side characters and hopefully catch up with Roberto and hopefully James.

EDIT. 01/12/26. Just finished reading this again today and I’ve loved every chapter all over again. First time round I was overcome with feelings for both James, Roberto’s and Francesco’s struggles in their past histories. This time I absorbed more of the lifestyle of the inhabitants and their customs especially around family events. I even cried all over again at the ending.

In 2026 I’m going to look more closely at new or less familiar authors like Elen Chase, because I feel I’m missing out by always sticking with the familiar.
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Author 1 book3 followers
July 18, 2021
Oh God, I loved this book so much! James is a wonderful MC and just the type I love to read (and write) about. A broken boy with a dark past dealing with deep trauma and trying to find a way to heal, even though it feels impossible to him. The first chapters showing James’ mind and how broken he and his family are when they arrive in South Italy for vacation are brilliant, and every insight into this boy’s mind hurts. The mental health bit was dealt with great care here, which I liked very much.

Rob, on the other hand, is one I have mixed feelings about. Although I can understand his background and the confusion he was going through with his attraction to James and his loyalty for his boyfriend, some moves he pulled towards James bothered me a bit. But I loved how he grows through the story and how the author puts Francesco’s character to call him out, stating clearly that messing with the boy’s head to no avail is not cool at all. Btw, Fra is my fave character after James, and I can’t wait for the sequel showing his story!

James and Rob’s chemistry is palpable and so enticing. Every scene where they’re together is on fire and when they bond and show their soft side and hidden layers, I swear I see stars! I’d also like to highlight the setting. Since the author is Italian, the cultural aspects of South Italy, as well as the North/South banter are on point and made me immerse in that scenery.

The only thing I didn’t like so much was the pacing of Act 3. Although we can get where all James’ insecurity is coming from, the drama around their imminent separation felt a bit dragged and not as emotionally deep as previous chapters, which felt like a drop in tension for a segment that should be the climax. That doesn’t mean it’s bad, at all. I still swooned like crazy about the last pages.

If you like mlm romance in an idyllic setting with a mental health approach, this book is definitely for you.
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Author 3 books112 followers
December 17, 2021
"...as if it was forcing me to accept that there was more to it than I had ever known; that I was allowed to love; that in this world, there was someone willing to give me this."

Oh my gosh how beautiful. I burnt through this novel in all of a few hours, could barely stop, and I can't wait until tomorrow to buy the next in the series and read that too. James was such a beautiful character and I really related to him and felt his struggles, and I also appreciated how realistic a character Roberto was. It was really interesting seeing the parallels and differences between James' and Rob's families, and the yearning atmosphere of the Italian summer was so powerful.

I'm hoping for beautiful trips to Milan and Rome in the next book, just happy James and happy Rob please, they both deserve it.
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Author 18 books314 followers
May 18, 2022
I came across this book as recommended on Instagram, and I am so glad I picked it up.

Chase has introduced us to some amazingly beautiful characters, in what at first appears to be a summer romance, but ends up being so much more. James, tormented by self doubt and suffering with crushing low esteem, is struggling to accept himself as one worth loving. Roberto is drifting through life trying to meet everyone else’s expectations instead of living his own life.

When they meet, it is heartstoppingly beautiful, and they seem perfect for each other. Except Roberto has a boyfriend, and he would never deliberately cheat no matter how tempted he is. Some excrutiatingly painful scenes ensue, so well written that the characters anguish make you cringe.

On the flip side, Chase tempts us with a blissful romance if they could just get out of their own way. Both James and Roberto are such sympathetic characters with Francesco not far behind. All are achingly vulnerable at moments and yet so lovable as well.

Beautifully written story with some wonderful characters you just want to hug. Jenn was one of my favourite characters. Clear sighted and yet misunderstood, she is the type of friend eveyone really wants. Someone who really gets you.

Very enjoyable read, you should pick it up. You won’t regret it.
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Author 7 books78 followers
July 21, 2021
It’s as if the author’s pen danced across the page.

Elen Chase’s writing is wonderfully lyrical. I was swept away by her expressive voice from the very beginning of “When We Were Sea and Stars.” It was a lovely enhancement to an already tender love story.

And it IS a tender story – of a hurting heart and a hungry one.

Readers will identify with the longing felt by James, not only for Roberto, but for a way to be someone worthy of love. There might even be readers who can understand the exhausting desire to wipe away past attempts to find love and acceptance. Remember yourself at 19? Even mild embarrassments felt like earthquakes. The ground under James’ feet became brittle following brutal experiences at the hands of others – and sometimes his own.

Readers will understand Roberto – older and presumably with a firmer grasp on what it means to settle into adulthood. In his mid-20s, he still questions his choices, believing he should be able to accept the status quo of his life. And yet, he feels something is missing. Roberto’s struggles are universal, and the reader may even identify with looking around and thinking: Is this who I am? Is this who I want to be?

Chase brings together a struggling young man and another who questions his own life’s path. Both need to experience real love, and moving past the first pangs of lust, they begin to find it.

For a writer, it must be challenging to use explicit dialogue and yet convey a depth of vulnerability and compassion between characters at the very same time. This seems effortless for Chase. Without dipping into depravity – even during some rough recollections by a wounded man – Chase allows us to feel deeply for the character instead of reacting to descriptions of past sexual indiscretions.

Some readers will hold this book and remember their own first loves… their own unrequited loves… and maybe even fondly, the love that wasn’t meant to be, but makes you smile a bit when you take a moment to remember your young self all those years ago. I know I did.

“When We Were Sea and Stars” gets an easy 5-stars from this reader. I fell in love early and hard for Chase’s book. If you seek a love story that not only takes you back to your own first adventures into the heart, but also paints a vivid picture of staying open to possibilities, then this romance is for you. Go out and get it. Don’t let it slip away!
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575 reviews7 followers
April 26, 2022
2/5⭐

I had already written a whole ass rant but then I noticed how few reviews there are and they're almost all positive so I got nervous and I don't want to be mean haha so let's just say this wasn't for me. but if you enjoyed it? well that's great! good for you!
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1,334 reviews88 followers
October 10, 2022
When we are sea and stars is a sweeping gay romance between a 19-year-old American tourist and his 26-year-old neighbor while on vacation in an Italian seaside town. James has had a traumatic last year of high school, giving him low self esteem and issues with his family. Roberto is in a safe but passionless relationship back in the city and only in town for a cousin’s wedding. When they meet, the attraction is immediate, and while James is all-in to go for it, Roberto is hesitant but increasingly sorely tempted.

The book is giving Call Me by Your Name, still with the age gap but without the iffy legality. I thought the romance was definitely fast, but not unbelievably so. I would never root for someone to cheat, but maybe I did? Let’s just say that both James and Roberto won me over even though I do think their relationship is ill-advised with an uncertain future. Despite all that, I loved the book all the way until that completely contrived conflict at the end just to manufacture an artificial climax necessary for these romances.
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2,568 reviews59 followers
August 4, 2024
2 stars.

James and his family are vacationing in Italy after James graduates from high school. James is all pouty and whiny because of an incident that happened that caused him to become notorious on the internet. He doesn't feel like part of his family, because he feels that he shamed them with his actions and that they don't look at him the same way. James lusts after one of the native Italian sons who live next door. One day, they meet because Roberto invites James and his family to a party. James fans the flame of his crush, even though Roberto is taken and several years older than him. Roberto seems taken too, but that pesky relationship that he is in keeps rearing its ugly head.

James reads much, much, MUCH younger than 19. Roberto reads much younger than 25. They both did a lot of screaming. James was very self-involved and wanting everything his way. Every time that Roberto would try to pull back and put some distance between them (because of the aforementioned committed relationship), James would get all whiny and pouty and foot stompy and basically be all "fine. I'm going home and I'm never going to play with you again!!!!" Of course, as soon as he saw Roberto, he would be all "ooh, I love him! He's the most amazing person ever! I forgive him for everything he's done!" (Dude. He hasn't done anything, other than to try and respect his relationship.) James and Roberto also did a LOT of screaming. Much more than would be acceptable at a teen heartthrob concert, even.
I actually didn't mind the writing in this one. It was all right, and engaging enough that I wanted to keep going to find out what happened to Roberto and James. (spoiler alert: not what I wanted to happen, which was to have them row out to sea and then capsize so that I didn't have to read their screams or their adolescent pouty and whiny anymore, and then get on with the story about the side characters, who were pretty good and interesting.) All in all, though, this was not worth finishing, and the only reason that I am happy that James and Roberto ended up together is because their whiny, immature, pouty, spoiled, wishy-washy asses aren't going to inflict themselves on the world at large.
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54 reviews2 followers
March 17, 2025
Glad I persevered. 3.5*
I found this novel hard to get into, as you don't learn what has caused James so much torment until much later. I had many teary moments from here on, and loved the MC's. This is very much a young love story, with self esteem and discovery turbulence.
Some readers reviews stated they were upset with a cheating MC, but I personally disagree with this accusation. You can't draw a neat line when emotions and feeling evolve. I think it's is more about self discovery, and not an idealised, tidy, romantic evolution. (I was upset with another character's suffering and wish him a happy story, but he's in a much better position in the long run, isn't he? )
This is an author I'll read more of, being aware they like a little emotional torment.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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1,581 reviews6 followers
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April 27, 2025
Damaged, but loved

For me, this was the perfect read while I travel the Adriatic coast - not Italy, but Istria. Chase colors the palette with southern Italy as Roberto, the older native mutually falls for the damaged younger visitor. Proving once again that communication is critical to building a relationship, the dual POV reveals the MCs thoughts, as they deal with family, the ex-lover, the friends and the small town dynamics.


444 reviews
November 1, 2024
This was simply beautiful ❤️
Sometimes I read other people's reviews and I think "have they read the same book I did??"
This is not a book about cheating, and this is not a book about shallow summer-flings
It's a heartfelt book about challenges and expectations and sorrow and insecurities.
And LOVE, this is a book about LOVE 💕
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23 reviews
May 13, 2025
I couldn't put this book down. A very sweet and romantic story in a beautiful setting, this book would be perfect for a beach or summer read. I loved James and Roberto's story.
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