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Alexis Holt unknowingly meets the woman of her dreams at a party. Unfortunately, Alexis was at the wrong place at the wrong time and walked away from the encounter thinking Stacy Kirkland was an arrogant snob. Alexis knew it wouldn't be the last time she saw Stacy, and she wasn't looking forward to their next meeting.

Thanks to the internet, Stacy Kirkland already knows who Alexis is before they meet face to face. She's one step ahead of Alexis because Stacy already has a crush on her. There are a couple of problems, though - Stacy's in a relationship that's in the last stages of its demise, and after meeting Alexis, she's pretty certain that Alexis despises her.

Grab something cool to drink, find a comfortable place, and let Robin Alexander take you on a hilarious journey to happily ever after.

8 pages, Audible Audio

First published July 7, 2016

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Robin Alexander

51 books814 followers
Born in 1965, Robin Alexander grew up in Baton Rouge, Louisiana where she still resides. An avid reader of Lesbian fiction, Robin decided to take the leap and try her hand at writing. It didn't take long for her favorite hobby to become a full-time author.
Since her heritage is Scottish and Irish and she’s allergic to seafood, she’s considered an honorary Cajun. When she’s not writing, she’s exploring her state with the top off her Jeep in search of the small towns on the water that inspire her.
Robin is awkward, sometimes shy, loaded with anxieties, accident prone, dangerous with power tools, and has been known to make idiotic decisions. She has been fortunate enough to turn her shortcomings into the hilarious characters you’ll find in her novels and short stories. Her passion is writing funny tales about falling in love, being imperfect and reveling in friendship.
Robin is convinced she has the best job in the world, and she’s extremely grateful for her fans who support her and enable her to do what she loves.

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Profile Image for Lex Kent.
1,683 reviews9,856 followers
July 21, 2016
This was sweet, cute and funny. I have not read much by Alexander, but if her other books are similar to this, I look forward to reading more.
The characters all really shined in this book, I enjoyed the two MC's Stacy and Alexis (great name by the way:) and all of the secondary characters too. Alexander seems to be known for writing funny Grandmothers.
The romance was good, I enjoyed how the characters couldn't stand each other at first. It was not love at first sight, at least on Lex's end, and I liked that.
I also really enjoyed the humor of the book. It's been such a long time since I read a funny book, that I had to add a new shelf for it. And I must say the "Paw Pat" is a fantastic idea and I'm hoping to implement it at work with my coworkers. And on my fathers new girlfriend. I can see the "paw pat" really catching on.
If you are looking for a sweet, funny, romance, don't pass this one up.
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46 reviews30 followers
July 21, 2016
I'm not sure why, but lately I've been getting no more than a chapter (or less) through pretty much every book I've been picking up in this genre, and putting them straight back down, disappointed. So many of the more popular books right now come across as badly edited (typos, verbal diarrhoea, awkward sentence structure), amateurish to the extreme, boring, samey, or just plain bad. It's getting hard to find something good to read. Maybe I've become more choosy or discerning as I get older, or maybe self publishing - which I do think is a great idea - is filling the market with mediocre stories that people lap up regardless, or something else is at play. Whatever it is, it's getting frustrating.

Which is why I am so thankful for writers like Robin (and a handful of others in the genre); writing stories properly constructed, with original thoughts and ideas. Creating characters that you can identify with rather than ones that baffle you with their idiocy or repeated, unimaginative reactions to endlessly regurgitated tropes.

Thank the gods for stories like this one, in which I can laugh, I can dream, I can identify. Instead of just waiting for that moment when the ex-girlfriend shows up to screw things up without anybody actually sitting down to talk about it, or a ridiculous misunderstanding makes both leads act like complete imbeciles, or the characters become so unlikable you just want to throw the book out of the window, or an obstacle that most people in real life would deal with intelligently creates endless chapters of unnecessary, poorly written angst.

I can't stomach those types of books anymore, but this one had me smiling. The writing is effortless to read; it's not clunky, overly verbose, trying too hard, or trying too little, it just works. The characters are likeable; people I would have no problem being friends with, or at least understanding. The story - though very simple - is well executed. No scene feels pointless or jarring. This book isn't going to set the world on fire, but it works within its field more than most. It delivers what you expect it to deliver. I'd give 5 stars, but I reserve 5 stars for books that not only entertain me, but books that blow me away, hit every mark, and tick every box.

Suffice it to say, want more books like this one.
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201 reviews340 followers
November 22, 2017
First of all, this is a good book. It had quirky characters, ridiculously fun conversation, oddball situations, and lady love. All pluses in my book.

However, I should've listened to Lexxy Kitty's advice about pacing Robin Alexander books. While her stories are high quality, I found myself mentally noting many similarities to the perfect book that is Just Jorie, and this one doesn't meet its holy status at all. I'm taking wind of Alexander's distinct writing style, which is part of her appeal. But certain resemblances (from themes to sayings to character types) reminded me I shouldn't have this and Just Jorie back-to-back.

Alexis and Stacy were a sweet couple. I believe I preferred Stacy by far, but I wasn't too entrenched in their relationship. Elise, the grandmother in this with the penchant for Urban Dictionary slang, lacked the same zing and side-splitting quotes from Grams/Aunt C in Just Jorie. I must point out, however, I laughed out loud at Alexis correcting Elise's use of 'ratchy' to 'ratchet'. Very cute and funny.

And a positive note: I love that Alexander often has MCs in their late 30's and early 40's. It's a lovely change of pace since women in that age bracket are surely as hot as my peers in their 20's.

I guess Alexis and Stacy's chemistry didn't hit me the way I'd wanted. It was still a cool ride into Alexander's southern world yet again. I'll try to pace myself for the next book of hers; her other titles are just so tempting!
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714 reviews1,105 followers
May 18, 2017
Full disclaimer, I'm in the minority of not being a lover of Robin Alexander's books but I did find this to be the most enjoyable read of hers so far...

It hits the formulaic bullet points of her other stories: a silly and goofy tone, a quirky supporting family/cast, simple storyline with nothing too deep going on, etc...

As a romantic comedy, it does not have the dreaded insta-love and, though I didn't find it laugh out loud funny, I found it amusing.

I would not say that the leads in this book had crackling chemistry or you'd come away from it thinking it was hot. The goofy here doesn't translate to sexy.

All of the characters are likable, both the main and supporting cast, but my main complaint with the book would be 1) that the two leads didn't seem that different from each other...almost like they were dating themselves and 2) Alexis, for being in her 30s and having her own business, is often depicted like a twelve year old and isn't something I personally find appealing in a romantic lead.

But, overall, I think the book flowed better between the dialogue, pacing, and plot. Nothing seemed too incredibly outrageous. If that type of book is what you're looking for then you'll likely enjoy this.

3.7 stars.
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521 reviews
July 17, 2016
Loved it! This is another excellent book by Alexander. It's my second favorite book of hers - Lure of White Oak Lake will always hold the top spot for me. Dear Me had me laughing out loud as is often the case with Robin's books. However, in this book her characters were less quirky and not as over the top - instead the dialogue & situations carried much of the humor. I was laughing out loud when Alexis was critiquing her Grandmother Elise's attempt at painting a plate of fruit. I was trying not to because a friend was sitting nearby. She asked what was so funny, so I read the passage out loud - which made me laugh even harder. I guess Elise could be described as quirky, but she's the grandmother you wish you had - kind, wise, funny and supportive in spite of her attempts to have street cred.
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2,060 reviews476 followers
July 20, 2016
It's after 2 in the morning so I'm just going to note a few things:

1) super funny, kept laughing I did.
2) great bunch of characters
3) So far I've been unable to read an Alexander book without people vomiting in it.
4) I'm unsure which rating shelf this book will land on. If I was putting it on a shelf right now when I'm blurry eyed and half-asleep, I'd add it to my 6 star shelf.
5) I liked both how there were cats in this book, and how one of the main characters added cat manners to human situations.
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735 reviews542 followers
July 24, 2020
Review of ‘Dear Me’ by Robin Alexander, Audiobook narrated by Lori Prince

If you are looking for lesfic comic relief, Robin Alexander is your author to go. Ms. Alexander has the lesbian humor books recipe mastered, her books are consistently entertaining and fun to read. Quirky supporting characters, laugh out loud moments, and great romance is her specialty. ‘Dear Me’ is no exception.

Alexis Holt meets Stacy Kirkland in a party and as first impressions go, this one was quite bad. But as both women are part of wedding preparations, they call it a truce for the sake of the future spouses. As time goes by, Alexis and Stacy realise that they have more things in common than they suspected and an unexpected attraction. Will their budding relationship survive a meddling family and their own hangups?

This book is a family comedy more than a romance. Even though the romantic part is essential to the plot, the story is more focused on the family dynamics of both main characters, especially Alexis, whose relatives are a hoot. You know whenever you pick up a book by this author that there are going to be hilarious characters. Alexis’s grandma and mother are a force of nature and together make a comical duo.

For me, what fails in this novel a bit is the romance itself, the main characters’ chemistry is just enough to make it interesting but there isn’t much tension to move the story forward. That’s why I wouldn’t call this a typical romance as it doesn’t follow the usual romance novel formula. That doesn’t mean that this book isn’t enjoyable, just don’t expect the love story to blow up your mind.

As I always say, a narrator can make or break a story and Lori Prince has definitely done a superb job to make this audiobook an entertaining experience. This is the type of story that Ms. Prince performs best: light, fun, and humorous. She brings all the characters’ quirks to life, and her take on Alexis’s grandma is hilarious. If you are in need of a laugh, I highly recommend this. 4.5 stars.

Length: 7 hrs and 13 mins Available with a Scribd subscription.
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737 reviews77 followers
July 22, 2016
4.5 Stars and definite read

I have few favorite author's and Robin Alexander is definitely one of them. Her new book is amazing. Like most of her books of this fashion, Dear Me has two great lead characters, amazing family oriented supporting characters (one of which is a great grandmother), some type of pet, and of course a cute romance. I loved it. The grandmother was a little more tamed in it than past books (Just Jorie is still my favorite) but she was great. Read it. You will not be disappointed
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179 reviews2 followers
July 16, 2016
Three words about this book: SO MUCH FUN! (I love everything about it, the people, the storyline, the fights, the girls ...)
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477 reviews40 followers
February 12, 2017
Ok, I think I'm officially burnt out on Robin Alexander. All of her recent books seem to just be full of zany characters and over the top situations.

This one is bogged down by wedding and family dramas, and we have the standard older character who says in appropriate things and family members/friends who overshare. There were also way too many characters with 'A' names, Alexis, Alana, Allison, Ashley, Audrey. What the hell? It was distracting trying to keep track of who was who. The whole diary thing didn't add anything to the story either, so that didn't help.

I did like the two main characters and thought the majority of their one on one time was sweet, after they got past annoying each other, but it was overwhelmed by all the 'shenanigans' that we're going on. It's not a terrible book, but there was just too much happening and Robin tried too hard with 'humorous' situations that missed the mark. 2.75, rounded up to 3 stars.
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400 reviews117 followers
November 22, 2017
I usually love Robin Alexander but this was a pain to get through and it took me multiple attempts. Not sure why really, I didn't connect with the main characters like I usually do with Robin Alexander and the over the top humor was a bit over the top for me this time around. Sometimes they seemed positively schizophrenic.
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Author 2 books20 followers
September 8, 2019
This is the first book in ages that make me chuckle, guffaw and laugh out loud in ages. Brilliant.

Ah yes, it was a safe bet this one. Still makes me chuckle, which can be embarrassing while on the train, but who really cares we're all feigning ignorance of each other when really everyone is probably hyperaware.
A safe, predictable read but so well written it doesn't disappoint.
Profile Image for Loek Krancher.
1,042 reviews66 followers
July 14, 2016
A laugh-out-loud romance!

This book had so many funny moments and it was sweet all at the same time. I could not stop laughing and shaking my head. Never form your opinion based on a first impression because you can lose a lot because of this. Neither one expected to like the other, let alone be so attracted. A fantasy turns to reality. The writing style is quick, solid and perfectly paced. A well developed story. The main characters are well drawn, energetic and very likeable. The bunch of other quirky characters are perfect in their own way and with a great sense of humor. They are all so good together. I was truly intrigued by them. The flow of the book was easy and hard to put down. I loved the whole shebang. This is definitely going to the top of my list. A page turner and definitely a keeper. I strongly recommend this book. You can't survive love without laughing. Enjoy!
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300 reviews29 followers
August 4, 2025
3.5 stars rounded up.

This short book should have taken me much less time to read, which speaks to the pacing of the book. It’s a super slow burn and there is tons of focus on the family members. It has all the hallmarks of a Robin Alexander romcom, third act breakup, sassy grandma, and southern charm. I did enjoy the banter between Stacy and Lex and, of course, Grammy was hysterical.
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554 reviews235 followers
August 26, 2025
For the first half, the plot was difficult to follow especially since most of the characters had names that were far too similar. Majority of the dialogue too was just exposition recalling events from an off page past and none of it felt like actual conversation, I hated it. Both characters were annoying and did not read like people supposed to be 40 year olds. I wish I could get my 2 hours back.
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358 reviews5 followers
July 23, 2016
Ok here comes an unpopular review of a very popular book :( sorry guys I tried to like it. There were times when I was about to give up on the book and start a new one. This rarely happens to me because I try so hard to pick up books that have good reviews that I could relate to. But this one.. I fail to see anything interesting about it. From the the very beginning I couldnt understand what was so interesting in Alexis through plant videos that would make her become a fantasy to a sexy Stacey? How is it that a video related to something that you have no interest in whatsoever lead you to fantasize about that person? Yes I admit sometimes I laughed but that definitely wasn't enough for me to like the book. (That's why I actually gave it 2 stars because I laughed). One more thing that lately pisses me off is how authors portray rich people as being cold and humble background as being warm. This is a stereotype that is starting to irritate me a lot. Overall for me, it was missing passion, plot and excitement.
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461 reviews149 followers
October 13, 2016
This book floored me! It was just after 3am when finished reading it! Such a romantic tale with great a comical element... I absolutely loved it!

The main characters, Alexis & Stacy have such a fantastic and undeniable connection. It was simply meant to be from the moment they met. In true Lesfic fashion there was little misunderstanding that changes their course to each other but only slightly. There was no major (minor maybe) obstacles, or crazy schemes ... it was simple, warm, loving and ultimately everything that makes a Romantic Lesfic Great! Plus I laughed my self breathless a few times. All the big laughs go to Alexis's Grammy and her Mother Allison. What a comedy duet!

It's the first Robin Alexander book I've read but it certainly won't be the last... I actually just downloaded 'Next Time' and I plan to start it straight away!

Categorically 5 stars!

Profile Image for Nolly  Frances Sepulveda.
383 reviews23 followers
July 16, 2016
Barrel of Laughs

I can honestly say that reading a Robin Alexander book is a good recipe for curing a crappie day. I enjoy her characters and their crazy antics, the romance bits are good too. Alexis has a great and funny family and Stacey is just the girl for her, a wonderfully written book.
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213 reviews83 followers
March 18, 2021
So I grabbed this on a whim during an audible sale recently. I've heard of Robin Alexander and have seen her books here and there but never actually read one. So I took the dive and started here.

And I was pleasantly surprised in several ways! I enjoyed the book.

The romance was cute. I enjoyed the dynamic of Stacy and Alexis. I found the initial disdain for each other growing into appreciation and love was pretty realistic while at the same time emotionally compelling.

Also what I didn't expect in this book was how genuinely funny it was. I found myself laughing out loud numerous times during the audiobook.

If I had a complaint, towards the end it kinda felt dragged out. I feel like everything could have ended a little sooner than it did. But it was still a really enjoyable book.

This was my first Robin Alexander book, and I'm looking forward to more from her. I've heard some characters in her books can be very similar so I'll have to pace myself a bit- but I definitely won't shy away from her in the future. 4/5
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15 reviews24 followers
September 30, 2016
I liked this book, it was funny! Gammy was hilarious.. Well they all were in their own right but Grammy is awesome!
Alexis got on my nerves a bit at the beginning, acting like a child and being so rude to Stacy. I understand there was a misunderstanding but there was just no need on her behaviour, especially in someone else's house! The fight with rackets was just childish and I couldn't imagine two women of 38 years actually acting like that.
After that though, it was great. I liked the rest of the story. The banter between all the characters flowed easily and I liked the relationship between them all.
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47 reviews
July 23, 2016
People seem taken with Robin Alexander's books but I just don't find the appeal. I guess I don't always understand how she lies the plot and the dialogues are full of long paragraphs that bore me to death. The characters are usually well built and appealing, as well as the plot.

I loved Alexis and Stacy and their chemistry. She always presents her books with many strong but different women, the characterization is usually on point.
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360 reviews13 followers
July 13, 2016
All I know is I couldn't stop laughing and Elise (Grandma) was the best character with her talking slang and her art work. Don't get me wrong everyone was good as well but Elise you just have to read for yourself.
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78 reviews35 followers
August 30, 2016
So first of all, my favorite character was Elise. That's without a doubt. I usually like the funny, witty 'grandma characters' and Elise was hilarious.

The story itself was cute and funny. All books by Robin Alexander are cute and funny, which I like about it. And there's always plenty of other important people around the main ones and it works. It actually works. Mostly. It worked for me this time for sure.

Alexis and Stacy were funny and adorable together. After they got together, there was this usual U-Haul situation, which I expected.

I liked this one.
816 reviews8 followers
October 2, 2021
Whenever I need to laugh whole heartedly Robin Alexander's are the books I listen to.
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203 reviews15 followers
July 22, 2016
Still the good old Robin Alexander recipe: humor,antagonism and rather lively and inappropriate parental figures that have you laughing out loud.
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429 reviews18 followers
November 29, 2020
3 stars. A quick read that didn't require too many brain cells, but did manage to make me laugh out loud a few times and had the nice fluffy ending promised in these sorts of books.

It's more the story of two families coming together than a strict romance, which added a fun dynamic around real life current turbulent family times given the holiday season. A guy and his gal have a whirlwind romance and are about to be married, leading the groom-to-be's cousin to meet the bride-to-be's sister. The cousin already has a crush on the sister thanks to gardening videos posted from the plant/garden business she runs, but she comes across snobby at their first meeting thanks to her rude ex girlfriend. As wedding plans come together and both are set to be in the bridal party, they have to spend time together and quickly find that it's not as bad as they originally thought.

Cute but relatively forgettable. Average Velveeta book (cheesy, not very high quality but enjoyable).
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1,328 reviews526 followers
September 14, 2020
Dear me was okay. It was cute and entertaining but after a while, it was clear I didn't have strong feelings for this book. It ends up being a three stars. I liked it but I didn't love it :)

I recently have been trying to read a lot more f/f romances than I used to and when I saw Dear Me could fit for a specific task for a challenge, I didn't hesitate and started to listen to the audiobook on Scribd. In this book, you'll meet Alexis and Stacy. At first Stacy is dating an annoying girlfriend but thankfully, they break up almost immediately. So when she meets Alexis (her crush that she never met in real life but only saw her through her videos), Stacy wants to make a good impression but the opposite happens because of said ex-girlfriend. However, Stacy and Alexis will figure out their issues and grow closer. I didn't feel a lot of sparks but that's okay. Dear Me was also funny at times.
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