Did this study guide for church as a Sunday School class and took 2 weeks to go over each session. Watched the video the first week & had some discussion. The second week we discussed the session further as a class and how we could apply various tactics to our own lives. This is a great book to do for a Sunday School Class, Small Group, Homeschool or even a personal study. The principles that are learned can be applied to ALL kinds of life situations. They encourage you to be a good thinker, questioner, listener and to be gracious in your attitude toward others. (Things Christians ought to be doing anyway). The goal isn't to win an argument but to be a seed planter (or as the author likes to say "put a pebble in their shoe" to give the other person something to consider when parting ways. One is encouraged to know what they believe & why & to be able to explain it-when appropriate & given the opportunity-- but also to know when it is a fruitless attempt and to just walk away. This is a very practical book about godly living as applied to our communication with others. I HIGHLY recommend the study guide, videos, & the actual Tactics book (for a more in depth study).