I’m so excited to tell all my friends and You about Brooke Frick’s wonderful book, Hands Full. There have been many things I found that really resonated with me as a mom. So many things that happened to her, as a mom, happened to me. When I heard the title, “Hands Full” I knew I needed to read this book because people are ALWAYS telling me, “You’ve got your hands full” (yes, I do have five children but this book is good for anyone with children). I was surprised that many thoughts in Brooke’s mind had played over again in my mind as well. In her writing I found things that I’ve thought before and it’s as though Brooke put my thoughts into beautiful words for me. Just the other day a younger women with no children (yet) asked me why I wanted to have children, (when they are so much work and take away from my freedoms), I couldn’t find the words to explain my reasons to her, then I found them in Brooke’s book, “Of course, I wouldn’t trade any of it for anything, because although it is THAT hard, it is THAT good (emphasis mine)." I also relate to having my first child and "how my heart seemed to grow ten times.” Yup, exactly! I feel like in the book Hands Full Brooke speaks for me and for all moms.
She uses lots of real-life situations that we can all relate to. I loved her running analogies! "And so, if life is like a racecourse, the hardest hill for me to climb has been motherhood. I am ever being stretched through it. Challenged by it. Disciplined in it. God is using motherhood to teach me that the hard parts build character.”
Brooke’s writing is full of grace (literally!) “Grace upon grace, my friend. If our kids are alive and still love us at the end of the day, then I’d say it was a good one.
Because here’s some more good news. There is no clean room, no toothpaste-smear-free sink (for more than one day anyway) and no crumbless car seat (ever).” Yes, this is truth! This chapter was near the beginning of her book and as soon as I read this part, I was hooked. Brooke’s writing is so conversational (like a mom talking to another mom at the park), I also wanted to tell her that at my house, if my kids said they brushed but there’s no toothpaste in the sink that is actually a bad sign.
I also related to the section called “Walled in Junk.” I loved the metaphor of getting rid of junk because in my house I had made a goal to get rid of 3,000 items. The purging felt so good and refreshing, to get rid of things-the clutter that’s distracting us from the important things. I loved how she related going through and getting rid of junk to getting rid of the junk that’s in our HEARTS- the things we’re holding onto deep within that we should let go of- worry, anger, insecurity, and more. I loved that she reminds us we need to stop ignoring the junk, but to deal with it instead.
Another favorite section was “Just Keep Stirring.” I remember a boy I saw grow up in church from a little boy to a teenager. In high school he was the rowdy, disruptive boy at the bible study who I worried wouldn’t turn out… and to my (and his parents) relief, he settled down and married a beautiful Christian woman and soon they were raising children of their own. Just Keep Stirring was a great reminder to me. It reminded me that even though children are emotionally and spiritually a messy, (sometimes) selfish, or immature bunch, (and sometimes you wonder if they will ever turn out as successful adults), if you “just keep stirring” things might just come together! It was so encouraging to be reminded that even though life is full of craziness right now, in the end, we will see results.
While reading this book:
I was inspired and challenged in my walk with God…. “He calls the small and insignificant people like you and me to do great things.… “What is God calling you to? … Where are you being called but feeling inadequate?”
Her writing style uses well-crafted sentences, is well organized, and flows smoothly. I love her use of punctuation for emphasis and her fun interjections of side-thoughts and clarifications. The book is poetic, artistic, and yet easy to read. Her many metaphors help illuminate her message. Her writing is clear and easily understandable for the tired mom’s mind to follow along.
Her book is uplifting, motivating, liberating... Her book gives an extra dose of grace and encouragement for moms. And I. Totally Recommend. This. Book.