- The book focuses on helping individuals discover their true, authentic selves—their "Black Sheep" values that make them unique.
- **Goal**: To inspire readers to identify their core values and align their lives and actions with these values for personal and professional fulfillment.
**Core Themes**
1. **Identifying Core Values**:
- **Black Sheep Values**: These are the non-negotiable values that define who you are.
- **Exercise**: Readers are encouraged to list and narrow down their values to identify the five core ones.
2. **Living Authentically**:
- **Aligning Actions**: How to ensure your daily actions and decisions reflect your core values.
- **Authenticity**: Emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself rather than conforming to societal expectations.
3. **Overcoming Challenges**:
- **Embracing Differences**: Celebrates individuality and the strengths that come from being different.
- **Resilience**: Encourages developing resilience to navigate challenges that may arise when living authentically.
4. **Personal Growth**:
- **Continuous Improvement**: Focuses on personal development and the journey of becoming the best version of oneself.
- **Self-Reflection**: Stresses the importance of regular self-reflection to stay aligned with one's values.
5. **Impact on Relationships**:
- **Authentic Connections**: How living according to your values can lead to more meaningful and genuine relationships.
- **Influence**: The ripple effect of authenticity on influencing and inspiring others.
6. **Professional Fulfillment**:
- **Career Alignment**: Aligning your career with your core values to achieve professional satisfaction.
- **Leadership**: How leaders can inspire and lead authentically by understanding and exemplifying their core values.
**Practical Application**
- **Action Steps**: The book provides actionable steps and exercises for readers to apply the concepts in their own lives.
- **Stories and Examples**: Includes real-life stories and examples to illustrate how identifying and living by core values can lead to extraordinary outcomes.
**Conclusion**
- **Transformation**: Emphasizes the transformative power of identifying and living by your core values.
- **Encouragement**: Inspires readers to embrace their uniqueness and unleash their extraordinary potential.
### Notes
- Your black sheep are the deeply held core values that make you an original. They cannot be altered, dyed or changed
- If you’re not living with deliberate intention, you’re winging it
- A lot of values are important to you, but which ones are you unwilling to compromise on? Those are your non-negotiables
- Results have nothing to do with making a good or bad choice
- Constantly changing feelings can pull us off balance. Our black sheep can help us stand firm
- High performing teams use deliberate intention to align personal and organizationall values
- Take a hard-core look at who you are - not who you wish you were, definitely not who others would like you to be