I absolutely adore this book and devoured it in one sitting. This book means a lot to me and it’s one my younger self would have loved to have read. When I was a child (I feel so old saying that) there was no representation of little girls (or boys) like me in the media. Children with hearing aids didn’t star in movies and were not written into my favorite books. Still to this day, I have never met someone my own age with a hearing disability. My impairment is somewhat hidden, especially now that I have discrete hearing aids. I am so grateful to live in a world where technology exists to assist me and I can hear relatively well in the grand scheme of things. My speech has not been affected and from the outside, you wouldn’t know anything was different. This can be both a blessing and a curse but that’s a whole different can of worms.
Growing up children would point and ask ‘what’s in your ears?’ and I never minded that but the problem was when I explained it was a hearing aid, few children knew what that was or why I couldn’t *just listen*. As an adult this sort of talk doesn’t phase me but it was difficult to find the words as a child. From an illustration of a girl wearing a hearing aid on the cover, to discussing a whole spectrum of things that make us different, be that religion, ability, disability, ethnicity or something else, this book is a brilliant introduction to diversity for children. Adults should read it too because it’s a lesson so many of us could use.
Sinéad has been a role model and inspiration to me for years. Although I am not a little person, I relate to a lot of what she says because I am below average height - at 4’7 - almost 8” but just not quite 🙈. Like her I love fashion and like her I am ambitious and like her, I have to adapt when the world is not made for someone like me. Like her, I was offered a limb lengthening surgery that could make me taller. Unlike Sinéad, I had to undergo the surgery on my right leg when I was 10 years old because my limbs grew at different rates and I would have developed a limp . -Fun fact: my legs, feet, hands and arms are not the same size/length as each other . But when I was offered the surgery to increase my height, I turned it down and so did Sinéad. Our height makes us who we are. This is the first instance where I have seen this surgery discussed in a sensitive and compassionate manner. The only other time I saw it portrayed was in a scary ad by the Road Safety Authority. This surgery has left me with quite a few scars which invite stares from people sometimes so I really appreciated its mention in the book.
Sinéad has these ‘Unsung heroes: the people you’re not taught about at school’ dotted throughout the book. One that I was eager to learn about is a deaf artist and activist Christine Sun Kim.
Sinéad is a teacher herself so she speaks in a way that you would to a child, in that she makes concepts that can be difficult to understand , very simple but it’s equally uplifting and useful for older readers. She talks about believing in your dreams and it made me feel like I could maybe some day actually change the secondary school music syllabus. I struggled so much with music in secondary school because it was heavily listening orientated and did not suit me well at all. I grew to resent the subject and almost didn’t study it at university, which would have been a horrific mistake!! I’d love to see a day where the listening and theory are more clear cut and students get a choice of which paper they want to sit. Something about a student who wears bilateral hearing aids having to do dictation just doesn’t seem right to me. Sinéad makes me feel like that is possible.
This book made me feel seen in a way my younger self needed to be seen. Although it is unfortunate that it wasn’t around when I was young, I’m very glad a book such as this exists now.