Dreaming Of Hitler: Uncensored and Intimate Literary Essays on Women and Contemporary Culture

by Daphne Merkin

Few writers today have created more  stir than Daphne Merkin--admired as much for her personal daring on the page as for the wit and power of her prose. Whether writing about the sexual pleasures of spanking (a piece that elicited a storm of response when it appeared in The New Yorker), losing her religion, her obsession with rock 'n' roll, her own failed marriage, or other vexed subjects, she is always tough-minded, compulsively readable, and at times recklessly candid. From her own cosmetic surgery "fix"  to her flirtation with the idea of lesbianism, from the subversive thrill of shoplifting to the hidden madness of family life--she takes on the taboos and sacred cows we're fascinated by but seldom talk about. The bold and startling title essay, in which she confronts the demons of the Holocaust, is an example of this gifted writer at her most intensely self-probing but profoundly engaged with the world at large.

Once in a while a writer appears who can immerse herself in the complex, raging currents of her time and make sense of them. In this dazzling collection of maverick essays--at once bracingly intelligent, morally reflective, and richly entertaining--Daphne Merkin illuminates the often tragicomic secrets that tell the true story of the way we live now.

Genres: Essays, Nonfiction, Memoir

384 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1997

Reviews

[K✨ · Rating 1 out of 5]

Merkin's essays on sex and celebrity, particularly "Desperately Seeking Torture: S&M on the Internet", "Spanking: A Romance", "Clean Streets: Martin Scorsese Among the Gentry", "In Search of Adam Duritz", and "Donna Karan's World", are worth reading. The rest of these essays reveal the special kind of un-selfawareness that only privileged, middle-aged white women experience. More than once, I found myself audibly scoffing and rolling my eyes at Merkin's views. "Notes of a Lonely White Woman" is infuriating. Dreaming of Hitler is terribly out of date. I hope to god that Merkin's views have evolved since this collection was published.

[Meridith · Rating 2 out of 5]

sadly dated.

[Monica · Rating 2 out of 5]

I liked her spanking essay, which I think I've read before. I skipped or skimmed a lot of the book, though.

[Myla · Rating 4 out of 5]

Love the essay format, love most of the topics.

[Linda · Rating 2 out of 5]

It was not what I thought it would be. I was a bit disappointed as too graphic for my reading comfort.

[Sara Goldenberg · Rating 4 out of 5]

My 2nd favorite from her. Really interesting and different!