Using the acronym “M.O.T.I.V.A.T.E.”, Dr. Peter Tan-Chi and his wife Deonna draw from biblical and personal experiences to share eight “secrets” of successful parenting.
Filled with anecdotes both personal and sourced from other people, M.O.T.I.V.A.T.E. contains tried and tested principles that are universal and timeless.
This Updated Edition dedicates a section on the dangers of digital technology and tips on how to do a family digital detox.
Chapters ●MODELING the Christian lifestyle, ●OPEN Communication, ●Building relationships through TIME, ●Influencing your children through INTIMACY, ●VISION (that gives Direction and Purpose), ●AFFIRMATION, ●Effectively TEACHING biblical principles and TRAINING your children, and ●ENTRUSTING them to God.
Appendices ●Personal Learnings on Digital Technology, ●Evidences on the Authenticity of the Bible, ●Does Science Disprove Christianity?, ●Teaching Kids about Healthy Sexuality, ●Recommended Resources on Parenting, and ●Connecting your Child with Jesus.
"Many parents have been searching for a book like this. It contains eight tried and tested principles on raising respectful and obedient children who we trust will grow up loving and serving the Lord. ●It's Biblical - the principles and teaching are from the Word of God. ●It's practical and down-to-earth - it draws from the life experience of Peter and Deonna, their children...and their grandchildren. ●It's transformational - these principles changed the lives of Peter and Deonna and their family, and they will change the life of your family too."
The wisdom in this book is not just head knowledge but I've witnessed them being practiced by the authors themselves and by genuine followers of Jesus and that's what makes it very inspiring and at the same time authentic. It's very encouraging to follow their example especially when you understand whom they are following and imitating. The best example is no one else but the Lord Jesus. Jesus's example bleeds (Chistlikeness) in this book. Going back to the Creator's manual for family is what anybody and every family needs. And that's what will transform every person and every family, the basic unit of society and the entire nation as a whole. P. S. Pastor Peter and Deonna Tanchi example has been instrumental in my decision to homeschool my 2 daughters (they also talked about homeschooling here). I know that when we practice the biblical principles of this book, by God's grace our lives will also be transformed and we will be able to leave a lasting legacy to our children.