The Hope We Hold: Finding Peace in the Promises of God Every Day

by Jinger Duggar Vuolo, Jeremy Vuolo

TLC's Counting On breakout stars Jeremy and Jinger Vuolo share their love story, a behind-the-scenes glimpse of their lives together, and the hope that drives them every day.

Jinger Vuolo did not have what you'd call a typical childhood. The sixth child of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar's nineteen, she grew up with the bright lights of television crews in her home, filming the hit TLC show 19 Kids and Counting. Jinger has always been a fan favorite, and now she and her husband Jeremy are the breakout stars of the show's sequel, Counting On.

In Imperishable Hope, Jeremy and Jinger Vuolo share the highs and lows of their love story. They open up about the early days of knowing one another, their long-distance relationship, and the many sleepless nights as new parents. Just below the surface, weaving together every triumph and trial of their lives, is the silver thread of hope. Though they don't pretend to have all the answers, they can promise that there is hope in Christ for every person in every walk of life. There is an inheritance of glory, a life richer than we can imagine, if we only walk with Him.

Genres: Nonfiction, Christian, Audiobook, Memoir, Biography, Christianity, Religion

224 pages, Hardcover

First published May 4, 2021

About the author

Jinger Vuolo grew up on TV. From the age of 9 until 27, she appeared on her family's hit TLC reality shows, "19 Kids and Counting" and "Counting On". She is an author whose books include her personal memoir The Hope We Hold and a children's book, You Can Shine So Bright. She now lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Jeremy, and their two daughters, Felicity Nicole (4) and Evangeline Jo (1). In her free time, Jinger enjoys traveling, hiking, and anything to do with good food.

Reviews

[Holly · Rating 3 out of 5]

Jeremy and Jinger Vuolo (nee Duggar), of course are well known in various circles for two reasons - their ties to the expansive Duggar clan as seen on TV and their religious beliefs. This book gives an inside look into how the couple grew up, met, and got married and how their faith played a part of it all.

For those who are primarily interested in reading about their lives 'behind the scenes':
There are definitely some new insights to be found within these pages. Mostly the 'new' information centers around Jeremy's life prior to meeting Jinger and the intense lengths he had to go through in order to gain Jim-Bob Duggar's approval to 'date' Jinger (who was 21 years old at the time). Spoiler detail/commentary about why they initially were not allowed to date each other:What really threw me for a loop was that Jeremy was held off by Jim-Bob from being allowed to date Jinger for FOUR MONTHS, and not because Jim-Bob was hesitant about Jeremy's intentions or because he was unsure as to whether Jeremy was a true Christian believer as you might assume. No. Instead, it was because Jim-Bob disagreed about Jeremy's specific theology beliefs. It was never specifically laid out what exactly those theology differences were beyond a passing comment of "...we disagreed on the issue of free will and predesination". However these theological differences led to Jim-Bob stopping his adult daughter from dating a man that was a pastor of a church at the time! It was also never explained how Jim-Bob eventually got over those theological differences. But it wasn't just Jim-Bob who was concerned at the time. At one point Jinger apparently broke off the 'relationship' before it even really began because she was so concerned about what everyone else thought about Jeremy's different theological beliefs.

As for new insights into Jinger's life, she does delve a little more into her background. Specifically, her trials with body image/disordered eating, and her struggles with having a true faith in God as a child. But if you're hoping for more detailed or private looks into the Duggar 'family culture' she grew up in (as they both refer to it in the book) or just more information about her other family members, you'll mostly be disappointed as both are hardly even mentioned. In particular, as I am sure a lot of people are curious about considering the recent child pornography charges that came out this past weekend, Josh Duggar is never even directly named in the book nor what he did in the past. There was just this from Jinger: "One of my siblings had made some sinful choices, but it had all been years ago. It had been awful, but we had dealt with it as a family." There's no other details given of what happened back then, only reflections on how Jinger was feeling at the time when it was all made public. As for Josh's scandal with being on the Ashley Madison website seeking an extramarital affair, it gets only a one sentence indirect mention from Jeremy: "I tried to encourage Ben as hate continued to pour out over social media, as TLC canceled the family's TV show, and as another shocking crisis hit later that summer involving one of the siblings." That's all there is on the topic of Josh. And lastly, yes, Jinger does address her decision to wear pants and goes into her grief associated with the death of her beloved Grandmother and her miscarriage. The latter two of which brought some tears to my eyes.

For those who are primarily interested in reading about their faith/religious beliefs:
The introduction and the epilogue are the only times that particularly feel like Jinger and Jeremy are actively evangelizing. Don't get me wrong, their faith is a central part of their lives and thus is mentioned frequently. But mostly it's just a part of their life story, it's not directly discussed. However, the epilogue keeps this book from simply being a memoir and changes the focus more towards what perhaps inspired the couple to write this book in the first place: "If you close this book thinking, 'Wow, what a nice couple; too bad I can't have a life like theirs,' we've failed. It our goal that you walk away inspired by what the hope of Christ has done for us, and what it can do for you too." I'm not entirely sure they achieved this goal, but pick up this book and decide for yourself.

Thank you Netgalley for the ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

[Jessica · Rating 5 out of 5]

I picked up this book for all of the wrong reasons! As recently as last week I have repeatedly mocked and ridiculed the family. In the wake of Josh’s heinous child pornography scandal, I was interested in how and if Jinger would put rose colored glasses on the melestation, like the family does with everything. I truly wish I could apologize to Jinger in person. I was so wrong. Jinger and Jeremy appear to be authentic God-fearing people just doing their best at deciphering meaning and purpose of life’s many struggles. At least in Jinger’s case, I see her as a kind, honest, believer in Christ. I am ashamed that what I mistook as “rose colored glasses” was Jinger’s talent of always seeking the good, faithfully trusting in the father, and focusing on the proverbial rainbow in the storm. I was blown over reading both her and Jeremy’s unapologetic vulnerability. In the last few years I have been a Christian in name only. I have allowed the hypocrisy in the church to distance from and harden my heart toward God. I am great full to them for their book and the revelations it brought. I whole-heartedly recommend it to all.

[♥Milica♥ · Rating 4 out of 5]

Really fast read, I listened to the whole audiobook yesterday because it was really entertaining. Do I feel like I got to know Jinger or Jeremy a bit better though? Ehhh, yes and no.

There were things Jinger opened up about that were previously unknown to me, but the biggest focus was on her relationship with Jeremy. Now, that was interesting by itself, but I was hoping for a bit more background info aside from that.

I did learn a lot about Jeremy though, and I do think he's a good match for Jinger. Somehow, the whole back and forth with Jim Bob didn't surprise me one bit, I'm glad it all worked out in the end.

Now, if you're expecting to read about Josh and how it affected the family, this is not the book for that. His actions are just glossed over like "one family member did something bad and we dealt with it together as a family end of story".

That did disappoint me, but at the same time, I can understand not wanting to talk about that in a book that's meant to be about your relationship with your husband.

Either way, I'm going to be reading Jinger's next book soon, I'm curious to see more about her faith journey.

[Barbara Powell · Rating 3 out of 5]

I was able to read this in just under 2 hours and while I don’t think I learned anything new about them after watching the shows and following on social media, I enjoyed learning about things that happened in theirs lives from their perspective as compared to how the editors and what not wanted it to be shown. They are strong in their faith and I admire that.
Thanks to Worthy Books and Netgalley for this eArc in exchange for my review.

[christine remmey · Rating 1 out of 5]

This book is poorly written. It is boring. It needed professional editing. Jeremy is insufferable and trying to convince himself he is relevant and interesting. Jinger is trying to convince herself she had a wonderful childhood and is happily married. None if it works. Save your time and your money.

[Charlotte · Rating 1 out of 5]

Not as bad as I thought it would be, but definitely missing any parts that made it interesting instead of just... sad.

Like, I'll pray for them. That's the nicest way I can put it.

[hannah ☆ ୨ৎ˚࿔ · Rating 5 out of 5]

I adored this book! 😍 I’ve watched the Duggar family on TV since they had ~only~ like 16 kids. 😅 I’m around the same age as some of the older girls so it’s been fun to watch them grow up and enter life stages at the same time as me.

Jeremy and Jinger have a unique story of how they met and started dating. A chance meeting and a very long questionnaire from Jinger’s dad are just some of the things involved. 😉 I loved hearing their story from each of their perspectives! These two are truly doing their best to live their lives biblically, and I appreciate that so much! Life can be so hard, but I love how positive and peaceful the Vuolos look at life and its challenges. I learned so much about Jinger and Jeremy in this book, and there are a lot of takeaways for how I can view life and try to live turning to the Word and not the world. ✝️ Definitely a must read!

[Elsie · Rating 4 out of 5]

lowkey cute

Jim Bob needs to get a life

[Shantelle · Rating 5 out of 5]

4.5 stars

This was an excellent read! Jeremy and Jinger (Duggar) Vuolo have a very sweet love story and it was fun to see how it played out through the pages of this book. I loved how they kept going back to their hope in Christ and the foundation of their faith, in both the highs and lows of life. You can see God's hand in their lives all along - drawing their souls to Himself from a young age, calling Jeremy to be a pastor, bringing them together in marriage, using them as a couple to minister in such beautiful ways! One of my favorite things is to see Christian couples thriving in marriage and ministry. Living their lives for the Lord. Always seeking to become closer to the Lord and closer to each other. It seems like Jeremy and Jinger are doing that and reading their story of hope blessed me. It ended with me rejoicing in the fact that as a child of God, I ALWAYS have hope. Because my hope is Christ.

[Florence Phillips · Rating 5 out of 5]

I listened to the audiobook and really enjoyed the conversation style. Those who seek sensationalist revelations about a reality TV pair may be disappointed, but anyone who wants to hear about a couple faithfully seeking God and welcoming his work in their lives cannot fail to be inspired. I’m not a fundamentalist Christian, far from it. I’m a secularly minded British Anglican, but Jeremy and Jinger spoke to my heart and uplifted me. The hope they hold is my hope too, even if our lives couldn’t be any more different. Their tone is gentle and their kindness and humour shine through even the most Bible-focused passages. I recommend this book to anyone who follows Christ, and to anyone interested in an insight into a God-led life.
I must add the book is beautifully written by their partnering author.

[Rebekah Morris · Rating 4 out of 5]

I read this book in one sitting. Well, in one afternoon since I did take a break half way through to get up and move a little. But I enjoyed it. I already knew some of Jinger’s story since I had followed her family and knew them before they were TV stars, but I didn’t know all of the story between her and Jeremy. I also didn’t know Jeremy. Getting to read the story of their faith and hope, the story of their relationship and love was encouraging. It was written in a style easy to read, yet not dull or boring.
No, this is not a tell-all about the Duggar family, nor does it dwell on most of the other family members, Jinger and Jeremy are the focal point of this book, as you might guess, and it’s a story of them.

[Liralen · Rating 3 out of 5]

Jeremy and Jinger Vuolo have carved out a carefully curated public image since the end of Counting On, and this is a continuation of that careful curation. I haven't seen either of the Duggar family's shows, but I'm familiar enough with the (publicly available information about the) family—my background is different enough from theirs (exception: my parents also kept the TV in a closet, which might be the only thing I have in common with the Duggars) that I find it weird but fascinating—to have a good sense here of what is 'new' information and what they're leaving out.

In short: while I'm not sure what was on the show proper, there's not that much in the book that hasn't been reported in (sold to?) various magazines. More background on Jeremy's life pre-Duggar, and a better sense of what Jinger's dating restrictions looked like. Some of it makes a bit more sense in context (when you're on national television on the regular and there are a lot of people who think fame makes a very sheltered, naïve girl desirable, it's not the worst idea to have someone else—in this case, her father—do a bit of initial screening). Some of it left me scratching my head: apparently the thing that kept Jim Bob Duggar from approving their courtship—for four months—was a disagreement about free will. Details are very vague (though I'm sure someone more Bible-literate than I am could make some inferences), so I have to guess that the Vuolos found it politic to not go into why Jeremy thinks Jim Bob is wrong and what Jinger believes.

What I found most telling, though, was this passage, from Jeremy's perspective (no page numbers because Overdrive is terrible):

"So, what does this passage mean to you?" the [Bible study] leader asked.

What does it mean to me? I didn't know what that meant. I didn't grow up asking questions like that about Scripture. God's Word is his authoritative self-revelation to the world. I had never thought to ask what it meant to me, but simply, what does it mean? Up until that point, I'd assumed that everyone understood it the same way I did. I was only twenty-two years old, certainly not the oldest or most mature person in the room, but I felt that I had to speak up.

"Well..." I said slowly, searching for the right words. "What does it actually say?"

I could feel the rest of the group staring at me. This wasn't the kind of question they were used to discussing.

I kept going. Without realizing what was happening, I was suddenly digging into the passage, explaining what it meant with an authority I didn't know I had.

Read this line again: Up until that point, I'd assumed that everyone understood it the same way I did. It's telling to me, and rather sad, that the takeaway here does not seem to be 'so I started to explore what other people believed and why, whether or not my own beliefs changed' but rather 'so I used it as an opportunity to try to convince people of the beliefs that I'd never questioned'.

So...if you're at all familiar with the brand they're building for themselves, there aren't a lot of surprises here. I don't begrudge them the decision to keep a lot of private things private (living a semi-public life should not rob you of privacy, and it feels particularly unsurprising that the various scandals brought about by Jinger's oldest sibling are discussed in only the vaguest and most fleeting of terms). I'm not sure who the target audience is here, but it's probably not me.

[Deana · Rating 2 out of 5]

There is nothing particularly “deep” in this book, and most of what’s discussed is already well known. I didn’t find this a thoughtful or enlightening read, which was disappointing given how it was advertised as a “gloves off” kind of book where they’d get real about things. This is definitely a very rose colored glasses approach, and the things I walked away learning was more of what was in between the lines than what was actually being told. Like the abuse by her brother was very briefly glossed over, but then there was an entire passage about them having to “flee the fallout”. So the takeaway was she was more disturbed by people finding out she wasn’t perfect, than the actual abuse.. which is just very tragic and sad. Maybe they’ll grow a bit more after they’ve been married longer and will try again in another 5 years after they’ve had more time to self reflect and self evaluate. This comes across as fluff on a page. I gave 2 stars just because writing a book is hard (assuming they wrote it without assistance) so props for that.

[Alexa · Rating 2 out of 5]

I am not at all religious so I'm really not the target audience for this book, but like so many people, I have a deep fascination with the Duggars and their beliefs so I had to pick this up. That being said, please read this review with the understanding that I am NOT their target audience.

My own opinions on religion aside, this book was mediocre at best. There was little substance. It was more breadth than depth, and Jinger especially touched on some topics that really warranted some depth. Aside from some anecdotes from Jinger's childhood, there wasn't really anything new. I mean, I guess some of Jeremy's sections provided new information, but I wasn't very interested in those. It was a quick and easy read, but everything about this book was just so preachy and boring.

[Penny -Thecatladybooknook · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful. I can't recommend this book highly enough.

Jinger and Jeremy tell in alternating chapters how the Lord worked in their lives separately and then together to bring them to the place in life where they are in now. Both explain from their childhood in their families, their relationship with the Lord, and how He grew them as individuals and then as a couple who is honoring Him with the decisions in their lives. This is such a sweet testimony to the Lord for His faithfulness and how He worked in their lives. I love reading testimonies like this and experiencing through their words just how faithful the Lord is when you have a relationship with Him.

[Melanie · Rating 4 out of 5]

I listened to the audiobook, which is read by the authors, and I liked how they alternated reading. It was interesting to hear their story and the hope throughout their journey. I liked how vulnerable they were in sharing their story. I learned some things I didn't know and it was an easy read.

[Abi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Listened to this through Libby, and it was cool to hear their story, unfiltered by a television show, in their voices. Really enjoyed it!

[Abby Shaffer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Omg this book is so good!!! It is such a good way to grow closer to god in faith no matter what challenges come your way

[Ylva · Rating 3 out of 5]

I wasn't quite sure what to expect when going into this book - an autobiography or a (preachy and superficial?) self-help book? It turns out it was mostly autobiographical and about decisive moments in their faith. I enjoyed it - it was an easy and fast read and I learnt some interesting things about them, especially about Jeremy.

People who follow the shows more closely might not learn that many new things, but I enjoyed learning more about Jeremy's theological views and about his and Jinger's courtship. I loved how they came to peace about their move to LA and seeing God orchestrate things with their new church. The passage about Jinger evaluating her modesty convictions was also great.

I found the writing style to be a bit lacking and not very engaging or emotional. If this book had been much longer, it would have really impacted the quality, but thanks to it being a short read I didn't mind as much.

I would have loved for Jinger and Jeremy to get a bit deeper into theology and the views they grew up with because I really enjoyed these passages.

I liked getting to know them a bit more and I loved the inclusion of Scripture not as overbearing or preachy, but quoted at appropriate points and illustrating their story when fit.

The book in itself is very inoffensive, both to the Duggar family and other Christian denominations, so that it can be read and enjoyed by many, but at some points, I would have loved a more personal or critical view.

The molestation scandal is glossed over and not called such, Josh isn't even mentioned by name and in light of recent events, it would have been an occasion to open up about what could have been done better and how they feel about him, but I also understand that this is not the focus of the book.

Overall, it's a good book for fans of the shows or if you want an overview of Jinger & Jeremy's lives up to this point and get to know them a bit more, but if you expect a deep and honest, raw account, you might be disappointed. Not that they owe us. But to enjoy the book, you should be looking for more of an overview than indepth biography.

[Marjorie · Rating 3 out of 5]

Who would have thought Jeremy would have received so much pushback from Pops Duggar over his reformed theology? I certainly didn’t! I loved picturing the theological debates Jeremy described with Ben and Jessa Seewald, as well as the hospitality Jinger encompassed with routinely opening her home up to church members for fellowship. You could tell the book was very gospel centered, especially with the ending chapter.

I loved the part when Jinger plied Jeremy with food while he was stressing in sermon-prep. It reminded me of my own husband and his penchant for tunnel-vision in his projects.

A very light read, not heavy—despite the chapter on Jinger’s MC and Grandma Duggar’s drowning.

[Alex · Rating 3 out of 5]

Jinger is the only Duggar I have any patience for, so I decided to read this out of simple curiosity.

I still like Jinger after reading this, but Jeremy kind of skeeves me out a little now. I also think it's so sad that her parents come across so protective here, yet did nothing to help her as a child with her gross older brother. She still sees them with such rose-colored glasses, and it's a shame.

Overall, though, this was a quick and pleasant read. There's nothing life shattering here, but it's sweet.

[Amanda Howlett · Rating 2 out of 5]

Audiobook. Well well well. If it isn’t the consequence of my own actions, reading a tale of a Duggar and expecting some sort of revelation as if I didn’t binge the entire series and live on the subreddit during a six month hyper fixation.

If Jinge wasn’t one of your favourites - you’re lying. She was sassy and sly and I always knew she’d be one of the first to break out of the death grip of her parents.

But…there’s so many things that just make me shake my head…

- Jeremy and Jinge having coffee beans thrown at them like rice after their wedding. I can’t imagine that felt particularly good?
- every chapter Jeremy wrote I felt he had to remind us what a blessing he is or his professional soccer career.
- the fact this boy just lingered until JB told him he could have Jinger? The ickiest of Ickes
- JB having a literal 50 page document for him to consider you at a suitor for his daughter …this is right up there with the other ick.
- JB disagreeing with some of Jers viewpoints of the bible, letting this man spend hours and hours sharing his interpretation to repeatedly end up at “mmm don’t think you’re best for my daughter. Sir. He’s a literal pastor. I don’t know how he could be a more God serving man or spread the word better.
- Jinger sharing there’s men from prison who would write her and while she believes they were Christ following men, she didn’t feel they were right for her. JINGER. HONEY. THIS IS HOW YOU END UP BEING A DATELINE SPECIAL!
- sometimes Jinger just acts surprised by things and it gives you the impression that she’s amazed every time she sees her shadow. “When I read the bible myself, I started to interpret it differently than it was always taught to me and discovered others see it differently too!” - wait til she finds out there’s different religions in the world.
- the 1000 guests from the wedding shielding J+J leaving the wedding because they thought the paparazzi was after them. Okay relax the Duke and Dutchess of a small community outside Laredo, Texas.
- the last chapter where they say “you can be just like us, you just need to follow God!” COMPLETELY disregarding the privilege both of them have. “We’re nobody special” as if both of them didn’t have silver spoons in their house the entire time. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a faith based life. There’s a lot wrong with acting like that’s the only reason you’ve gotten to where you are.


I will give this book credit for giving me the quote “Don’t doubt in the light what God showed you in the dark” when it comes to our decisions - courtesy of Mama V.

I think I’ll skip book 2…but you know I’m reading Jill’s book when it’s out later this week.

[Brianna Flores · Rating 3 out of 5]

When I first heard about the announcement of this book, I was going to read but had really low expectations with this book. I wasn’t a fan of Jinger’s last book she had written with her sister because I thought it was a preachy preachy self help kinda book rather then a memoir. I didn’t get that with this book, not only were Jinger and Jeremy were spreading the gospel but they shared their story and how their faith helped build the relationship.

There were some things that I was surprising like Jeremy’s life before he met Jinger, Jinger dealing with body image issues and basically her parents not respecting their kids boundaries (when Michelle tells Jinger to be friends with people that clearly only cared about being on tv to be loving to them is where I have a big issue among other issues). Also the fact that Jim Bob rejected Jeremy at first because of Theology differences and the Jinger rejected him because she was scared of how her family was going to think about her dating someone with different views was basically a roller coaster ride I didn’t know I was going to go on even though I know they are married lol.


If you were expecting to go into this book in hopes of mentioning of Josh Duggar and the whole scandal back in 2015, don’t be too excited. They don’t even mention his name in the book, they only mentioned how they were told about and that’s it. I can respect cause why would they talk about Josh in this book when it’s about their relationship. I do feel for them now because of Josh Duggar’s recent arrest.

I liked that after Jinger married Jeremy she branched out by being ok with making her own choices for herself. She evaluated her beliefs that were instilled in her growing up with her family and researched in the Bible if she was going to break her faith by wearing pants and showing her shoulders. She came to the conclusion on her own, made the decision for herself, and Jeremy was supportive.

Not going to lie, I cringe a couple of times when they mentioned Kirk Cameron and John MacArthur cause those people have been VERY outspoken when it comes to the lgbtqia+ community and just rubs me the wrong way. I know Jinger and Jeremy definitely has similar views but still.

They did go into basically a revision of everything that we’ve seen on counting on so be prepared to hear stuff like that.

I thought this was fine overall. If you’re a fan or have guilty pleasure in watching the show, feel free to read this.

[Alyssa Cruz · Rating 2 out of 5]

I, like most, picked up this book because of Jinger. NOT BECAUSE OF JEREMY. For the love of God Jeremy, nobody cares what you have to say, and you are really all not that interesting. Before reading I just thought he was boring, but now I think he is boring, annoying, and ignorant. I also think him not making the soccer team was not God's will, but rather him just being bad at soccer. My overall critique, however, is of both Jinger and Jeremy. I truthfully believe these two do not have enough life experience to provide the general advice they attempt to give throughout the entire book. Both were raised in conservative, Christian families and the pair seems to share identical beliefs on nearly everything. Although that's fine, I simply don't agree with their advice or think it holds any merit. Also, it takes quite a lot of guts to be openly homophobic in downtown L.A.

[Sam Toombs · Rating 5 out of 5]

I assumed I would like the book-but what was surprising was how much I enjoyed the book. Both of The Vuolo’s have strong writing voices, which made this book an interesting read. Honestly, out of all the “Duggar” books I have read over the years, this one may be the most well written and my favorite. As a Lutheran, my views on certain viewpoints differ from Jinger and Jeremy’s, which made it hard at times for me to connect with their convictions . However, the book makes it clear that The Vuolo’s truly desire to share their faith and offer a message of hope in Jesus.

[morgan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome

Best said:
Our hope is found in a daily communion with the Lord. We read our Bibles and pray throughout our days not because we have to, but because it’s our lifeline. God’s Word is literally our daily bread. If we’re not abiding constantly, our old worries and anxieties creep back in. Our sinful natures rear their ugly heads. There are no good works or formulaic prayers that can give you this hope. Nothing but an intimate relationship with the living God through Jesus Christ will bring you these blessings.

[Mikayla · Rating 5 out of 5]

I greatly enjoyed reading Jinger and Jeremy's story. I appreciated the writing style reflecting each of their unique voices while the book came together as a cohesive, polished story. Fans of the show Counting On will find more to learn about this sweet couple through their book, and those that have never heard of them will read a story of how two people were raised, met, fell in love, and how they live their lives together with the hope of Christ as their foundation.

[Jasmine · Rating 4 out of 5]

I got this book because I knew who they were from watching Jinger’s family shows. In this book, they both talk about what it was like growing up and becoming close with the Lord and always reading their Bibles, how they met each other, their wedding and having children. I remember parts of the book from watching certain episodes of their show. It was really good, but their was one part I kind of didn’t like, but I won’t say what since some people may not have read the book yet.

[Bethany · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Jeremy and I aren’t special people with perfect temperaments and charmed lives. The lives we lead, the relationship we have, is only possible because of our hope in Christ. And this hope isn’t exclusive. It’s available to anyone who wants it.”

You may have heard the names Jinger (Duggar) Vuolo and Jeremy Vuolo from the TV show Counting On, where their courtship, marriage, and parts of their lives were televised. However, if you want to get more personal stories and insight about how their relationship came about, their courtship, marriage, and early years of married life, you will want to pick up their new book, The Hope We Hold. I enjoyed getting an inside look at their lives. This book starts with memories from their childhood, and goes up until Jinger is pregnant with her second child. The TV show focuses on the whole family, but this book focuses on Jinger and Jeremy. It is the story of their relationship with each other and with God.

One thing that I really like about Jinger and Jeremy is that they seem to be authentic. They admitted to struggles that they have had with their faith, finding themselves, and their relationship. They also were not afraid to talk about God, and how their faith shaped their lives, as well as helped them through the hard times. Through the uncertainty of their early relationship, losing a dear grandmother, a miscarriage, and other insecurities, Jinger and Jeremy were able to overcome because of their faith in God. It was encouraging to read how these dark times, although tough, did not define them, but instead made them draw closer to God. This made them, and their relationship, stronger.

I would recommend this book if you enjoyed watching Jinger’s story on Counting On, but also if you are looking for a book about a Godly couple sharing how they navigate life. It was refreshing to see two young people willing to share so openly about their faith.

I received a digital copy this book from the publisher, in return for an honest review. All opinions are my own.

[Darleen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Absolutely beautiful story. I listened to the audio version, Jeremy and Jinger read their book, fantastic job.

Yet through their beautiful story they share they encourage us to all rely on the hope that lies in Jesus.