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Good Touch - Bad Touch: A Children’s Book Teaching Safe and Unsafe Touches, Personal Boundaries, Body Safety, and Consent for Kids Aged 3-10

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An easy-to-read book explaining the differences between good touch and bad touch. A child’s heart is ready to accept everything; be it love, greed, hatred, or respect. A gentle touch provides them with the necessary love, care, and affection that is needed to nurture them. It makes them feel happy, safe, and confident. However, all touches are not good. Touches that make children feel uncomfortable or hurt them, physically or mentally, should be stopped. Children need to understand when to say No, walk out, and inform an adult about a bad touch.Using simple text and colorful illustrations, this book helps kids recognize the difference between good and bad conduct and how to deal with inappropriate touching. This book is written in the form of a conversation between two girls who share their contrasting experiences during a vacation. The girls later decide to approach their teacher, who clarifies what is normal and what is not. This is a perfect book for parents and teachers alike to use as a tool to start a conversation on this delicate and difficult subject. This book will surely empower kids to stand up, say No, and inform an adult in case of any attempt of sexual abuse.

23 pages, Kindle Edition

Published June 6, 2020

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Profile Image for Zain.
1,884 reviews286 followers
July 10, 2024
A Good Touch, Only!

Reema and Sandra are friends who went to visit family during summer break. They both experienced being touched by an uncle.

Sandra’s uncle made her feel comfortable and loved. Reema’s uncle made her feel cheap and unsafe and probably disgusted.

The girls realized they needed to speak to an adult, so they told their teacher about Reema’s situation.

The teacher broke it down to them: what constitutes a good touch and what constitutes a bad touch.

This book should be helpful for children between the ages 5 to 10. Good luck! 🍀

Five stars. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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2,314 reviews578 followers
March 29, 2024
Find my full review on my blog.

Kunal and Vedika are back again! Good Touch - Bad Touch by Kunal Das and Vedika Agrawal is a book designed to help children understand personal boundaries, which in turn can help keep them safe.

Boundaries is a very important topic that can be incredibly hard to teach, to both adults and children! I think Kunal and Vedika taking a stab (pun intended) at teaching boundaries is fantastic. So far, all of their books have brought engaging stories with fun pictures into one moral/lesson teaching book. I was thrilled to see this as an additional to their roster, and yet again recommend it to those with children/eager readers about ages four through eight (although some older readers could benefit as well, maybe even being utilized as reading buddies to younger readers).

This book opens up a lot of conversations and educational opportunities, for parents, guardians and educators alike. I can see this book easily being used as a tool to help teach feelings around being touched and how it's okay to not feel okay. There are many examples in this book that highlight the good and the bad, even when it is not "bad" but makes someone feel uncomfortable.

Great read! Definitely a fantastic conversation starter to those teaching about boundaries.

Three out of five stars.

I received this book for free from Doon Tales in exchange for an honest review.
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305 reviews14 followers
June 18, 2023
Great informative book

This book would be great for children ages 6 and above, but could be read to children younger with explanations.
All children need to learn about what is a good touch and what is a bad one. Children that spend time with adults that they don't know well need to know and this book describes situations in a easily understandable way. The art isn't graphic but does explain what the story is saying. I would advise using a book such as this for both girls and boys to know what to do if confronted by situations of being touched by an adult or even a older child that makes them feel uncomfortable.
Great job.
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1,467 reviews
June 12, 2023
This is a very sensitive topic, but I think one that needs to be shared with children. This book is part of the “let’s learn series of stories” that the 2 authors have written to help kids differentiate between the good and bad to lead to a healthy and happy life.

The authors did a really lovely job explaining the difference between good and bad touch through a story about two girls talking about their summer vacation.

One girl’s vacation was warm and supportive with a loving family. There was good touch like a pat on the head. Doing outdoor activities with other family members.

In contrast, the other girl’s vacation was not so nice. She had an uncle who was secretive about the time he spent with her at night when others were asleep. He didn’t want her to tell others that he gave her chocolate. She had to sit on his lap and watch movies that were uncomfortable for her and other things that were bad touch.

I like how the story ended with Sandra, the girl who experienced good touch on her vacation telling her friend Reema, that she thought her uncle’s behavior wasn’t good. They seek out a teacher who helps them.

The book is very clear outlining the differences between good and bad touch.

The illustrations are very good and colorful depicting the people and situations very well.

At the end of the book, there is information about the authors and about the Doon Tales initiative that has other children’s stories and books.

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Author 9 books60 followers
August 5, 2023
good lesson

It is a good story teaching about what’s a good touch and what’s a bad touch just like title. The illustrations are cute.
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Author 4 books106 followers
June 4, 2025
Good Touch - Bad Touch is a crucial book for children to know when a touch is right or wrong. Well-written with colorful illustrations, this is a book all children should have in their home library. A must-have.
230 reviews3 followers
May 13, 2023
Excellent teaching resource for all families!

This is such an excellent resource for every family! From the perspective of the girls in the story, we hear about different instances of behavior that is appropriate and inappropriate between an adult and a child. It’s a great conversation opener to talk to your children about recognizing potentially abusive situations. I like the fact that there are many scenarios portrayed and that the right kind of conduct is compared and contrasted with the wrong kind. I also really like the illustrations which are very well done. I like the cultural slant to the story, and the fact that the story is appropriate for everyone no matter where you’re from or your cultural background.
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1,134 reviews45 followers
June 18, 2023
This type of book is much needed to start discussing and explaining Good touch, Bad Touch. This particular goes back and forth between two little girls telling about their vacation time with aunts and uncles. One little girl has fun, exciting stories to tell, the other little girls story make her feel uncomfotable to talk about. I think it is quite well done, but I believe it could be more effective if both uncles looked like kind and loving - I know there are all kinds of abusers but generally the abuser is loving and kinds and gradually grooms the child to think the abuse is a loving act, and a special secret between them. Overall, still a great book and a good way to open up the conversation with children and help them understand the difference between touches.
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Author 18 books9 followers
May 21, 2023
An Important Message

This story holds a very important message that explains ‘good’ and ‘bad’ touch to children clearly.
When I read it first, I wasn’t a fan of such stark labelling, but in hindsight, I’d rather a child be safe that unsure.
This is an important conversation for children to have an if parents are uncomfortable touching on it, then this book could be a useful springboard for that type of discussion.
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3,011 reviews27 followers
June 11, 2023
Two children visited their relatives during summer break, but they had very different experiences. This book offers clear examples of appropriate conduct and how to spot inappropriate conduct and molesting. It's a bit wordy, and it often uses big words without context, but the comparisons were thoughtful, and the message is an important one. I think this book could have been better, but it at least makes a good point.
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1,355 reviews46 followers
June 21, 2023
Illustrative books for children are captivating and essential for their literary development. Through vibrant illustrations, these books engage young readers, fostering imagination, enhancing comprehension, and promoting visual literacy. The combination of artwork and storytelling creates an immersive experience that aids in word recognition, vocabulary expansion, and contextual understanding. Illustrative books also provide windows into diverse cultures, encouraging empathy and acceptance. They are a gateway to new worlds and a foundation for a lifelong love of reading.

Good - Bad Touch by Kunal Das and Vedika Agrawal is a beautifully crafted children's book that addresses the sensitive and crucial topic of inappropriate touching. Written in the form of a conversation between two girls, the book employs simple text and vibrant illustrations to engage young readers and facilitate an open dialogue about this difficult subject. The story follows two friends, as they embark on a vacation together. Through their contrasting experiences, the book effectively demonstrates the difference between good and bad conduct, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and responding to inappropriate touches.

The inclusion of colourful illustrations adds depth and visual appeal to the narrative, making the book captivating for young readers. The illustrations effectively convey emotions, ensuring that children can easily relate to the characters' experiences. The visual cues throughout the story enhance the understanding of the subject matter and serve as a valuable tool for initiating conversations between children and adults. Providing practical advice on how to respond to potential instances of abuse, empowers children to protect themselves and reinforces the idea that their voice matters. The author's use of dialogue between the girls and their teacher further clarifies what constitutes normal and abnormal behaviour, instilling a sense of confidence in children to take action.

In conclusion, Good-Bad Touch is an exceptional children's book that tackles the crucial topic of inappropriate touching with sensitivity and clarity. Through its engaging story, relatable characters, and practical guidance, it empowers children to distinguish between good and bad conduct and encourages them to take action when faced with uncomfortable situations. This book is an essential resource that will undoubtedly help foster a safer and more secure environment for children.
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Author 2 books8 followers
December 3, 2024
Good Touch - Bad Touch" is an insightful and unfortunately necessary children's book whose aim is to teach children to understand personal boundaries and empower them to identify the difference between safe and unsafe people. Furthermore, it validates the discomfort felt with inappropriate situations. This is a sensitive topic which is clearly presented using language that can be read to the younger child with explanations or can be elaborated upon for more nuanced situations affecting an older child. The illustrations also clearly distinguish between the two children’s vastly different good versus bad experiences.
This book is empowering for children by teaching them the difference of when a touch is respectful and appropriate, and when it is not, and to honor their own sense of discomfort when in an unsafe situation. It further encourages open communication with trusted adults about those uncomfortable experiences creating an environment where children feel safe and confident in speaking up about their feelings.
Overall, I found "Good Touch - Bad Touch" to be a valuable resource for parents, educators, or caregivers who want to begin that important conversation about body safety with children in a gentle, yet straightforward way.

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February 4, 2024
I work in crisis services but I have a history of working with children in the child welfare system. A lot of the children that I worked for experienced the issues that the character, Reema experienced and it is very unfortunate for children in those situations. In addition it can be very challenging for supportive peers and family members to help children who experience these situations. But it is very important to try to help because the child’s safety is in question. I love the way the authors introduced the topic gently and provided plenty of examples of good touches versus bad touches that can be easily understood from a child’s perspective. I love how the authors showcased the main characters quickly seeking the help from a trusted adult who provided more examples of good touches versus bad touches while encouraging the main characters to seek additional help to stay safe. This book is really needed for a lot of children who have a similar experience as Reema and the friends or family members of children who may be trying to help a loved one stay safe. Great job to the authors.
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Author 51 books1,821 followers
June 15, 2023
Sensitive issues well explained

Author Kunal Das is a pediatric oncologist and stem cell transplant physician, and joins with co-author Vedika Agrawal, an engineering PhD, in writing children’s books. Their LET’S LEARN PICTURE BOOKS series now includes Book 2 - GOOD TOUCH - BAD TOUCH. Creative Knot provides the charming illustrations.

At summer’s end school friends Sandra and Reema discuss their vacations. Sandra enjoyed a healthy and entertaining visit with her aunt and uncle, while Reema, in her visit to her aunt and uncle, had a contrasting experience - inappropriate advances form the uncle. The two girls discuss Reema’s experience with their teacher who advises them on the differences between good touching and conduct and bad variations - an excellent and easy to explain technique of dealing with sensitive issues with children.

Fun to read with important concepts, this book continues a very fine series of books for children by two outstanding authors. Very highly recommended.
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Author 4 books8 followers
January 27, 2024
Wow...JUST WOW! This book is an amazing resource for every teacher, social worker, counselor, therapist, Sunday School teacher, daycare provider...ANYONE who works with small children! As a retired teacher, I would highly recommend this book to anyone with young children. Reading the book made me feel sad for the little girl who was touched inappropriately, but I was happy that she had a friend to talk to that experienced positive touches that were out in the open. The more she talked to her friend, the more uncomfortable she felt about her creepy uncle. He even looked live a perv in the book! The girl's friend encouraged her to tell their teacher, and the teacher encouraged the child to tell her mother.

I also like the way the authors showed children to NOT keep secrets and that adults shouldn't be touching children in private.

This book is important for every young child. The sooner they learn about their bodies and the ability to say no, THE BETTER!
52 reviews1 follower
September 23, 2025

Important, Gentle, and Empowering

Good Touch – Bad Touch tackles such a critical subject with care and clarity. As both a Psychologist and a mother, I know how difficult these conversations can feel to approach with children. This book serves as a bridge, helping kids better understand the differences between safe and unsafe touches in a way that is age-appropriate and not frightening.

What I especially appreciate is how it empowers children with their own voice — reminding them that it’s okay to say “No, I don’t like that” and to communicate openly about how touches from others make them feel. The illustrations are gentle yet effective, and the language is accessible across the age range.

This is a resource I would recommend for parents, teachers, and counselors alike. It opens the door for conversations that are absolutely necessary for children to feel safe, understood, and empowered.
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9,208 reviews206 followers
June 15, 2023
Good Touch - Bad Touch: A children's book to understand personal boundaries and stay safe for kids ages 5 to 10 (Let's Learn Picture Books 2) by Kunal Das, Vedika Agrawal
Thie story starts out with a nameplate, and story starts with Sandra and Reema who's just returned to school and want to talk about their summer vacations.
Her uncle had played games with her but she didn't know how to explain it....
This is a very personal story about what to look for when someone else is in your space and they've gone beyond the boundary...
Colorful, children's story that needs to be shared with everybody. Love later part of the book where it shows where is ok to tuch and where it is NOT .
Puzzle games at the end, differences in the pictures, about the authors and message from them.
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6,962 reviews175 followers
January 2, 2025
HOW TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE

I think this book did an amazing job of having the two friends, Sandra and Reema, discuss their summer trip and what happened. Sandra had a great time and felt positive about each experience, but Reema did not--everything was secret and left her feeling upset. I like how Sandra suggested that they first talk to a teacher they trust and there wasn't judgment on the teacher's part, but instead, she explained what was a 'good touch' and what was a 'bad touch.'

"My dear, you must inform your mother about that uncle. If someone involves you in secret games and instructs you not to tell others, beware, it is not good."

This is a difficult subject but this book did an amazing job of explaining at a child's level what is appropriate or inappropriate.
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Author 32 books118 followers
July 3, 2025
Written by two doctors. Seriously, I think this could be the most important book your child will ever read. I think it should be bought in bulk by the government and a copy given to every primary-school-age child in the country.

This book could give a vulnerable child the confidence to speak out.

It's beautifully illustrated to be presented in a non-scary way. The language is simple and clear, and page by page, the book gives examples of what is and is not acceptable when we are alone with somebody.

At the end of the book, there is a section for fun, with a spot the difference and a quiz. Again inspired. We’ve shown your child the danger, now we’re going to lighten the mood so that they don’t have nightmares. It’s perfect.

Honestly, I would recommend this book to every parent, guardian, teacher, librarian and caregiver. I’m so impressed.
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101 reviews4 followers
April 30, 2024
very important for kids to know about this topic

An invaluable resource for parents and educators alike, 'Good Touch Bad Touch' is a must-have children's book that delicately navigates the sensitive topic of personal boundaries and safety. With gentle illustrations and age-appropriate language, it empowers children to recognize and assert their boundaries while providing them with the tools to stay safe. This book is not only informative but also promotes open communication and builds trust between children and adults. A compassionate and essential addition to any child's library.
36 reviews1 follower
November 16, 2025
Important, Clear, and Compassionate

Good Touch – Bad Touch by Kunal Das is an incredibly valuable and sensitively written book for teaching kids about body safety, consent, and personal boundaries. The language is simple and reassuring, making a tough topic feel safe and understandable for young readers. The illustrations are friendly and supportive, helping children stay engaged while learning essential skills.

My daughter and I read it together, and it opened up such a healthy, calm conversation — exactly what a book like this should do. A thoughtful and empowering resource for families, classrooms, and counselors.
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715 reviews37 followers
January 16, 2024
An important message

This is a story about a sensitive but important subject area. It is presented in a child friendly manner, through a natural discussion amongst friends. A great way to emphasise to children that it is good to share things with friends. I also like how there is a contrast between good touch and bad touch in the discussion presented, and that it brings the discussion to a conclusion involving further actions to speak to a trusted adult. All steps that are important for children to know too.
A useful resource for schools to use too.
24 reviews
May 2, 2024
I think more children should be required to read such books. A story of two little girls, both on a vacation at their respective uncles place. But both have completely different stories to tell. While one has a very good time, the other feels constantly uncomfortable by her uncle's behavior. When they consult their teacher, she clarifies that anything that makes them uncomfortable should definitely be reported to their parents. This is an important topic and could result in many interesting conversations with little children.
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Author 13 books79 followers
September 9, 2025
An essential resource

I love to read children’s books to relax. However, I have to admit that, although the illustrations are beautiful, like in other children’s books, I didn’t feel relaxed reading this book. The message is very important. This book, an essential resource for parents and teachers, helps children understand the difference between safe and unsafe touch using clear, age-appropriate language and engaging interactive activities.

I would have preferred a larger font, but that minor issue didn’t lessen the importance of this book.
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Author 7 books7 followers
July 4, 2023
safe touches

In this book, the authors approach the very important issue of what is /is not an appropriate touch by contracting the experiences of two little girls who were at relatives’ houses during the summer break. Certainly a good tool for broaching the topic of what is and isn’t acceptable. I do think it could’ve been even more effective if both uncles were friendly and kind. When it comes to inappropriate touches, the element of grooming and charming the victim is par of why it is so confusing and upsetting
25 reviews
November 18, 2023
This is a pretty comprehensive storybook that is a great resource on a very important topic. It covers quite a lot, and in detail, but it is still child-friendly. At the end of the story, there are examples of good touch and bad touch as well. I only read one more picture book on this subject, but this one is a better one.

This book will be also useful for teachers, as a female teacher features in the story as the one the little girl asked for advice.
Author 2 books
January 28, 2024
Timely Book

Very timely book to teach kids about what kinds of behavior should not be tolerated from others - even if they’re family. Be cautious though when reading this book because this can be triggering to those who have experienced inappropriateness. Also, sometimes, it’s not just about where someone touches you but also how you are touched. You can be touched on your back in a way that feels off as well.
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Author 4 books9 followers
February 3, 2024
A must read for every child and parents/carers of children

Written by two highly qualified authors, this book is a must-read for any child and parent/caregiver of children. It conveys the important message of when it is ok to touch others and how to properly touch in a way that is easy to understand for children. The beautiful illustrations help young readers associate with the characters and they are likely to want to read this book again and again. Highly recommended.
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Author 7 books14 followers
July 1, 2024
This book is a lifesaver for parents and educators! "Good Touch - Bad Touch" breaks down a complex and delicate subject into an easy-to-understand format for children. The illustrations are colorful and engaging, which kept my kids interested from start to finish. The story of the two girls and their vacation experiences really hit home, and the guidance from the teacher character was clear and empowering. A fantastic resource for teaching kids about personal boundaries and safety.
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Author 7 books33 followers
November 8, 2024
This book tackles the important topic of body safety in a child-friendly way. The authors have created a clear and concise guide that helps young children understand the difference between safe and unsafe touches. The book uses simple language and relatable scenarios to teach children about personal boundaries and consent. It's a valuable tool for parents and educators to start open conversations about body safety with young children.
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