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Cats Don't Chase Dogs - A Woman's Guide to Dating and Relationship Success: Dating and Relationship Advice for Women - Book 3
Kara King’s controversial dating and relationship advice book The Wisdom of the Pussy discusses how to change your mindset so you can get love, respect, and commitment from men with effortless success.Learn how to ditch mentalities that prevent you from getting the love and relationship you desire and discover the mystical feminine state of mind that is required to win in love!
Here are just a few of the many things you'll learn in this
♥ How to know if a man loves you, likes you, or is just playing games.
♥ How to be the woman that makes men fall head over heels in love.
♥ Tips to help you move out of the dating phase and into a committed relationship.
♥ How to approach dating in a way that makes men beg for your time, attention, and commitment.
♥ How to escape the never-ending cycle of time wasters and start obtaining loving relationships with quality men.
♥ How “MANipulations” prevent women from living their best lives, what you can do to escape this BS, and why this information is vitally important to the success of your love life.
The Wisdom of the Pussy is filled with real life, uncensored dating and relationship advice that will help you to stop getting frustrated and start getting what you want from men. This book has empowered women and dramatically changed their lives by changing the way they think about men and dating… and it can change your life too!
NOTE FROM THE This book was previously published with the title Cats Don't Chase This book contains strong language, sexual content, and subject matter that may be offensive to some readers.
Here are just a few of the many things you'll learn in this
♥ How to know if a man loves you, likes you, or is just playing games.
♥ How to be the woman that makes men fall head over heels in love.
♥ Tips to help you move out of the dating phase and into a committed relationship.
♥ How to approach dating in a way that makes men beg for your time, attention, and commitment.
♥ How to escape the never-ending cycle of time wasters and start obtaining loving relationships with quality men.
♥ How “MANipulations” prevent women from living their best lives, what you can do to escape this BS, and why this information is vitally important to the success of your love life.
The Wisdom of the Pussy is filled with real life, uncensored dating and relationship advice that will help you to stop getting frustrated and start getting what you want from men. This book has empowered women and dramatically changed their lives by changing the way they think about men and dating… and it can change your life too!
NOTE FROM THE This book was previously published with the title Cats Don't Chase This book contains strong language, sexual content, and subject matter that may be offensive to some readers.
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213 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 22, 2020
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September 7, 2022
Feeling empowered. I skipped a paragraph or two , they were not really relevant to what I wanted.
Would read it again.
Would read it again.
April 12, 2025
Книга, которая разбирает теорию «кошек и собак» в отношениях. Тут про то, что женщинам выгодно оставаться в позиции «черной кошки» и давать мужчинам вести. Один из крупных аргументов, которые приводятся в начале книги — яйцеклетка никогда не гонится за сперматозоидом.
Нужно ли читать эту книгу, если вы в целом знакомы с базой этой теории? Думаю, нет. Можно ли подчерпнуть для себя какие-то идеи/взгляды на отношения. Скорее да, чем нет.
Нужно ли читать эту книгу, если вы в целом знакомы с базой этой теории? Думаю, нет. Можно ли подчерпнуть для себя какие-то идеи/взгляды на отношения. Скорее да, чем нет.
December 18, 2020
Cats Don't Chase Dogs // by Kara King // narrated by Romy Nordlinger
I struggled a little with ratings this one. I was amused by the description and was going in with a good attitude but sadly it just didn't really leave me that excited with it. It felt more like a 2.5 stars but I prefer rounding up rather than going down, so here we are. I do want to say though that I really liked the narrator. She did an excellent job and had the perfect voice and attitude for this book.
While there were a lot of things I agreed with and I enjoyed how she didn't hold back in terms of cursing and such, other things just really left me not wanting to continue the book, especially at the beginning. I did finish it though and there wasn't as much in the second half that I had issues with. I love how empowering a lot of her points were. I especially liked the section about self-defense and taking care of yourself. But it also often felt very preachy, played to a lot of old stereotypes for both men and women, and occasionally even felt like she was putting down other women, when in other parts she said us women needed to stick together. But I think my biggest issue was that "women are mystical creatures." I have never been a fan of that before and it really irked me here as well. It plays into the idea of us being so different that it can be difficult to understand us and be able to communicate and get along without exceptional experience, rather than common sense and decency. If you know to ignore the more problematic parts, then there are definitely some good tips in this book about increasing your confidence and believing in yourself but I would advise you to stay true to yourself and not play any of the games we accuse the other side playing.
Thank you to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for providing me with a free copy in exchange for an honest review.
I struggled a little with ratings this one. I was amused by the description and was going in with a good attitude but sadly it just didn't really leave me that excited with it. It felt more like a 2.5 stars but I prefer rounding up rather than going down, so here we are. I do want to say though that I really liked the narrator. She did an excellent job and had the perfect voice and attitude for this book.
While there were a lot of things I agreed with and I enjoyed how she didn't hold back in terms of cursing and such, other things just really left me not wanting to continue the book, especially at the beginning. I did finish it though and there wasn't as much in the second half that I had issues with. I love how empowering a lot of her points were. I especially liked the section about self-defense and taking care of yourself. But it also often felt very preachy, played to a lot of old stereotypes for both men and women, and occasionally even felt like she was putting down other women, when in other parts she said us women needed to stick together. But I think my biggest issue was that "women are mystical creatures." I have never been a fan of that before and it really irked me here as well. It plays into the idea of us being so different that it can be difficult to understand us and be able to communicate and get along without exceptional experience, rather than common sense and decency. If you know to ignore the more problematic parts, then there are definitely some good tips in this book about increasing your confidence and believing in yourself but I would advise you to stay true to yourself and not play any of the games we accuse the other side playing.
Thank you to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for providing me with a free copy in exchange for an honest review.
December 12, 2020
In today's world of online dating, social media, texting and ghosting - navigating through the treacherous world of dating and relationships has become more confusing that it has ever been. Kara King's controversial dating advice book discusses how women can use the wisdom of the feline to live an amazing life as a women, while also simultaneously being the type of women who captivates men. And all of the while maneuvering through dating and relationships with ease. In this book you will discover some of the following:
How to stop being a doormat
How to start thinking like a goddess
How to present yourself in a way men beg for commitment
How feminine influence helps change the world for better
Learning all of these lessons and more by embracing the wisdom of the feline and applying this wisdom to your life as a women. Kara King's dating advice will empower women around the world by dramatically empowering their lives and relationships by changing the way they think.
I love the way that Kara King puts this subject matter into a realistic way that everyone can visualise however it did take me a bit to get my head around the terminology that she used. I tell you if i had had this book 20+ years ago when i started dating then i think i would have had a different relationship with my ex-husband - however it is because of the mens behaviours in this that i am no longer with him. I think this is something that all women .... and some men ... need to read at some point in their lifes as the advise is sound. I would recommend this to everyone as this is a self-help book for all.
How to stop being a doormat
How to start thinking like a goddess
How to present yourself in a way men beg for commitment
How feminine influence helps change the world for better
Learning all of these lessons and more by embracing the wisdom of the feline and applying this wisdom to your life as a women. Kara King's dating advice will empower women around the world by dramatically empowering their lives and relationships by changing the way they think.
I love the way that Kara King puts this subject matter into a realistic way that everyone can visualise however it did take me a bit to get my head around the terminology that she used. I tell you if i had had this book 20+ years ago when i started dating then i think i would have had a different relationship with my ex-husband - however it is because of the mens behaviours in this that i am no longer with him. I think this is something that all women .... and some men ... need to read at some point in their lifes as the advise is sound. I would recommend this to everyone as this is a self-help book for all.
December 3, 2020
Okay, had I known this was the author of Power of the Pussy, I probably wouldn't have requested it. But honestly, I'm glad I didn't know in advance. It took me a bit to get into this one - seriously, could "Power of the Pussy" be mentioned a few MORE times in just a few minutes?? Once it got going, it was more interesting. The narrator did a great job. I can't say I agree with everything the author said but there is good stuff here. Dating these days is so different than when I was young. I refuse to put up with the crap that many men feel is acceptable now. The game play is annoying but the parts supporting women being who they are and not putting up with bad behavior and bad treatment from men is good. More young women need to hear this. Women should be strong and have their own opinions and it should be about finding someone to share your life with and who complements you as you truly are and not just about finding someone. Do not change yourself into who you think he wants - neither of you will be happy. Walking away is not a bad thing if the fit isn't right. I see far too much desperation these days.
Thank you to Podium Audio and NetGalley for the audio ARC in exchange for my honest review.
Thank you to Podium Audio and NetGalley for the audio ARC in exchange for my honest review.
January 10, 2021
Princess Fuzzypants here: I am still not sure how I feel about audiobooks. I know for some it is, shall we say, the cat’s whiskers. But I find the voice and intonations of the narrator can often impact how well I like or dislike a book. So I do try to look at it as I would a written piece. I confess I was not thrilled with the narrator in this audiobook but I did find the material quite interesting.
The author approaches the differences between men and women as the differences between cats and dogs. The women are, by the way, the cats. In a rather straightforward, occasionally profane manner, she encourages women to embrace la difference. Rather than trying to adapt and change in order to be accepted and loved, be who you are, whatever that might be and see where the chips fall. It does not, however, try to say that one sex is right or the other wrong. Instead she says men and women are opposites who fit together. While being a feminist tome on one hand, it is also a fresh way of understanding what each wants and needs.
It presents its arguments in a cogent and compelling manner. Four purrs and two paws up.
The author approaches the differences between men and women as the differences between cats and dogs. The women are, by the way, the cats. In a rather straightforward, occasionally profane manner, she encourages women to embrace la difference. Rather than trying to adapt and change in order to be accepted and loved, be who you are, whatever that might be and see where the chips fall. It does not, however, try to say that one sex is right or the other wrong. Instead she says men and women are opposites who fit together. While being a feminist tome on one hand, it is also a fresh way of understanding what each wants and needs.
It presents its arguments in a cogent and compelling manner. Four purrs and two paws up.
January 22, 2025
SUPER Disappointing
My goodness I was so completely disappointed with this book. I never minded the ugly truth, it was the fact that it felt like the author caved. Like she gave up her sisterhood approach and rather than empowering women, she took the side of men. It felt like she lost her courage from the past two books.
She started out so good, so supportive then however, it felt like it was a man writing to discourage women from doing anything besides the norm.
It felt very yuck and was super disappointing. I thought women were supposed to stick together? That was the message, I thought…
I left with thinking, so long as the man is happy, that’s all that’s important. Yuck!
My goodness I was so completely disappointed with this book. I never minded the ugly truth, it was the fact that it felt like the author caved. Like she gave up her sisterhood approach and rather than empowering women, she took the side of men. It felt like she lost her courage from the past two books.
She started out so good, so supportive then however, it felt like it was a man writing to discourage women from doing anything besides the norm.
It felt very yuck and was super disappointing. I thought women were supposed to stick together? That was the message, I thought…
I left with thinking, so long as the man is happy, that’s all that’s important. Yuck!
December 6, 2020
This is a self-help book for women. It is definitely worth a read.
Men should pursue women; women would be further ahead to be a little more aloof and choosier when selecting a mate. Really wish I would have read this book 20 or 30 years ago.
If you are offended by strong language, take a chill pill. This book has a lot of swearing. But the message needs to be heard.
This book was provided by NetGallery in exchange for an honest review. Thank you NetGalley and the author/Kara King.
Men should pursue women; women would be further ahead to be a little more aloof and choosier when selecting a mate. Really wish I would have read this book 20 or 30 years ago.
If you are offended by strong language, take a chill pill. This book has a lot of swearing. But the message needs to be heard.
This book was provided by NetGallery in exchange for an honest review. Thank you NetGalley and the author/Kara King.
May 21, 2022
Finally I got my hand of this self help book. Actually I am not fans the audiobook version but i love the contents.
This book give self encouragement to women to accept them self ans they are. And actually give them chance to building confidence level in healthy relationships.
Thank you Netgalley.
This book give self encouragement to women to accept them self ans they are. And actually give them chance to building confidence level in healthy relationships.
Thank you Netgalley.
July 14, 2022
She’s done it again
This is the second book I’ve read from this author and it was better than the last read! Very empowering and truthful. I encourage women to read this book and let’s collectively change the dating game and get back our power.
This is the second book I’ve read from this author and it was better than the last read! Very empowering and truthful. I encourage women to read this book and let’s collectively change the dating game and get back our power.
May 14, 2023
A must read for women
A brutally honest and empowering book that I feel every woman should read. It's definitely given me a different outlook on my own personal life and I am looking forward to implementing the techniques myself.
A brutally honest and empowering book that I feel every woman should read. It's definitely given me a different outlook on my own personal life and I am looking forward to implementing the techniques myself.
September 11, 2024
Ці нравоученія типу «92% серед пацієнтів хірургічних операцій - жінки! Нащо ви це робите? Нащо ви лягаєте під ніж??» і про те, що спортзали і їсти салатики це теж лишнє. Люби себе такою як ти є.
Вся книжка освана на бла-бла-бла точки зору однієі жінки. Нічого вартісного
Вся книжка освана на бла-бла-бла точки зору однієі жінки. Нічого вартісного
May 15, 2022
empowering words!
Thank you for making sense of this sometimes senseless journey and rekindling my hope. I Definitely recommend this book to all women!
Thank you for making sense of this sometimes senseless journey and rekindling my hope. I Definitely recommend this book to all women!
August 30, 2022
A bit repetitive and verbose but overall not a bad read.
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May 7, 2023Good
January 9, 2021
I have received this title via NetGalley and publishers in exchange for an honest review
I have not read this author's first book, but I definitely do not need to now. It felt like every other sentence was the author restating/quoting something from the previous book. I thought the description sounded super intriguing and funny, but it fell super flat. I hated the narration of the audiobook. And I felt like the author was trying to have a "you do you, no judgement" attitude, but it felt super judgemental. I gave this book 2.5 stars but rounded up to 3.
I have not read this author's first book, but I definitely do not need to now. It felt like every other sentence was the author restating/quoting something from the previous book. I thought the description sounded super intriguing and funny, but it fell super flat. I hated the narration of the audiobook. And I felt like the author was trying to have a "you do you, no judgement" attitude, but it felt super judgemental. I gave this book 2.5 stars but rounded up to 3.
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