I have been a life long Saints fan since 1973, so have experienced the ups' and down's (more down's than up's admittedly) over the years. As a season ticket holder I watched Francis Benali during the 90's, and it was a sort of 'love / hate' relationship. Like his best mate Matt Le Tissier, watching them both could be highly frustrating, and wondering what sort of player a combined Le Benissier would have been - excelling Ronaldo no doubt. Of course Le Tissier was 'Le God' to many of the fans, and Benali often the 'fall guy'. I remember travelling up to Bolton to watch Saints in a critical relegation battle, only to see Franny needlessly clip an opponent around the face early on in the game, leaving us down to 10 men for at least 60 mins.....he wasn't my favourite player on that day, although we did hang on for a draw. Yet the sheer determination, drive, passion, courage and energy of Francis should have generated far more deserved respect and admiration, and in many respects, gradually did.
Like most professional footballers, when he left Saints he was largely forgotten, until he started his amazing charity feats.
I met the man himself a couple of times on P&O cruises, and then got to know him just a little in July 2023 on a Mediterranean Cruise performing on stage and training in the gym with his wife.
His incredible runs, bike rides and swimming over three separate events were breath-taking, inspiring, and humbling. His trade mark discipline, drive and determination taking him to incredible heights of endurance and achievement, in pursuit of helping others - quite staggering. (especially when you compare him with some of his professional football peers from the 80's and 90's! - alcohol and the wrong food do make a difference!)
But with all that said, I can absolutely confirm that the man 'off the field' is one of the most kind, considerate, engaging, down to earth and humble person that I have had the pleasure to meet.
He is an example to us all, how talent is often so overrated, how hard work and effort can overcome most challenges, and that the 3 D's of discipline drive and determination behind a clear inspiring purpose and specific measurable goals is the key to success, whilst engaging and supporting others.
This is not a review about another sports biography, but about an incredible human being and role model. Well done Franny, you constantly overcame the doubters and showed us all what is possible!!