Reading this book changed my life. Really. My friend Tim let me borrow it, and not to sound too cheesy, but reading it made me feel driven to work. I really worked (am working) to become a poet because of this book. For a while I desparately imitated Cathy's style, but couldn't come close. The poems are unbelievably hip, but they also have the depth and resonance that makes you unconsciously memorize the lines and find them becoming a way into thinking about sex, gender roles, economics, the division of labor in the house, etc. I've had the book for five or six years now and still reread it whenever I need to get plugged back into poetry, to feel necessity.