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The Nature of Small Birds
In 1975, three thousand children were airlifted out of Saigon to be adopted into Western homes. When Mindy, one of those children, announces her plans to return to Vietnam to find her birth mother, her loving adoptive family is suddenly thrown back to the events surrounding her unconventional arrival into their lives.
Though her father supports Mindy's desire to meet her family of origin, he struggles privately with an unsettling fear that he'll lose the daughter he's poured his heart into. Mindy's mother undergoes the emotional roller coaster inherent in the adoption of a child from a war-torn country, discovering the joy hidden amid the difficulties. And Mindy's sister helps her sort through relics that whisper of the effect the trauma of war has had on their family--but also speak of the beauty of overcoming.
Told through three strong voices in three compelling timelines, The Nature of Small Birds is a hopeful story that explores the meaning of family far beyond genetic code.
Though her father supports Mindy's desire to meet her family of origin, he struggles privately with an unsettling fear that he'll lose the daughter he's poured his heart into. Mindy's mother undergoes the emotional roller coaster inherent in the adoption of a child from a war-torn country, discovering the joy hidden amid the difficulties. And Mindy's sister helps her sort through relics that whisper of the effect the trauma of war has had on their family--but also speak of the beauty of overcoming.
Told through three strong voices in three compelling timelines, The Nature of Small Birds is a hopeful story that explores the meaning of family far beyond genetic code.
368 pages, Paperback
First published July 6, 2021
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Susie Finkbeiner
10 books1,000 followersSusie Finkbeiner is the author of The All-American, All Manner of Things, and A Cup of Dust. She lives in West Michigan with her husband and three children.
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December 17, 2020To open a book by Susie Finkbeiner is to accept an invitation to become part of a family you’ll never forget, a family you’ll miss once the last chapter ends. In The Nature of Small Birds, the characters are so well-drawn you’ll forget you’re reading fiction and feel as though you’re watching real life unfold with all of its wonder and heartache, its grasping and letting go. With subtlety and elegance, Finkbeiner has wrapped this story in layers of meaning. At its core is a tale of belonging, growth, and of love that gives wings to fly.
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October 30, 2020I can't wait for you all to read this one!
September 14, 2021
I saw a meme recently that said "I finished it by accident! I was tricked! The last ten pages were acknowledgements and ads." I felt this way after finishing Susie Finkbeiner's "The Nature of Small Birds". It was so good! As a 2X International Adoptive Mama, she nailed the experience from every perspective. I've gone through, or watched members of my family during something similar to almost every scene of this book. This book, at its core, brings the reader through the love of family. I felt like I knew the characters and didn't want to let them go. I can't speak highly enough of this book! Bravo, friend! Great job.
And I finished it by accident! I was tricked!!
And I finished it by accident! I was tricked!!
July 25, 2021
1975, 1988 & 2013-2014 Michigan
Lovely novel told in the voices of three characters: Bruce (2013-2014), Sonny (1988) and Linda (1975). Each of them has a slightly different perspective about their family and the adoption of Pham Quyen Minh (Mindy) from Vietnam. I especially adored the relationship between big sister Sonny and Mindy and grandfather Ivan and Mindy.
As come to be expected by this talented author, she does a wonderful job of bringing the time period to life in an engaging story line.
Lovely novel told in the voices of three characters: Bruce (2013-2014), Sonny (1988) and Linda (1975). Each of them has a slightly different perspective about their family and the adoption of Pham Quyen Minh (Mindy) from Vietnam. I especially adored the relationship between big sister Sonny and Mindy and grandfather Ivan and Mindy.
As come to be expected by this talented author, she does a wonderful job of bringing the time period to life in an engaging story line.
August 20, 2021
Honestly, this book was...a huge letdown. I was soooo excited for this new release by a recent favorite author. But, sadly, it fell completely short of my expectations.
I've read books before with dual timelines, but a triple timeline was completely new to me. In this case, it definitely wasn't a bad thing; it was easy to keep up with, and even though the timelines were from different points of view, the cast of characters remained the same, so I wasn't overrun with names to remember. That was really helpful.
1975. Linda doesn't get along with her mother-in-law, and no one has the guts to stand up to the cantankerous matriarch. Also the year that they adopt an adorable little child.
1988. Sonny is in her late teens, about to graduate high school, needing a new job.
2013. Bruce is enjoying his grandpa life, and wishes everyone could just get along.
Three different people. One family. Reading the story, I was pulled in to the lives of the characters, but I wasn't really connecting, y'know? Like, sure, I liked reading about their lives and stuff, but eventually I had to force myself to finish the book. And I couldn't figure out why...until I realized three things:
This book has almost no plot.
This book has no depth of character.
And this book felt like a waste of time once I finished. *hides*
*Sigh* Maybe I'm just tired as I write this, but I do know that this book was a major disappointment. I kept waiting for the characters to learn something, to mature, to actually do something worth noting...but they didn't. They were shallow, and it felt like I could've read a book about their neighbor down the road and not even miss them for as emotionally invested as I got in the story.
The plot carried the characters—not the other way around—and that, people, does not make for a story that I'll enjoy.
What did I like about the book? Well...I liked Ivan. I liked the setting. I liked the pop culture references (except that the people in this historical novel went to see Frozen in the theater and I feel so old). I appreciated the message, about how we're made to spread our wings and fly, but it just...fell flat.
All in all, not a book that I'll be rereading. But it was cool to learn some historical facts about the Vietnam war that I hadn't known before. ;)
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher for promotional purposes. All thoughts are my own.
I've read books before with dual timelines, but a triple timeline was completely new to me. In this case, it definitely wasn't a bad thing; it was easy to keep up with, and even though the timelines were from different points of view, the cast of characters remained the same, so I wasn't overrun with names to remember. That was really helpful.
1975. Linda doesn't get along with her mother-in-law, and no one has the guts to stand up to the cantankerous matriarch. Also the year that they adopt an adorable little child.
1988. Sonny is in her late teens, about to graduate high school, needing a new job.
2013. Bruce is enjoying his grandpa life, and wishes everyone could just get along.
Three different people. One family. Reading the story, I was pulled in to the lives of the characters, but I wasn't really connecting, y'know? Like, sure, I liked reading about their lives and stuff, but eventually I had to force myself to finish the book. And I couldn't figure out why...until I realized three things:
This book has almost no plot.
This book has no depth of character.
And this book felt like a waste of time once I finished. *hides*
*Sigh* Maybe I'm just tired as I write this, but I do know that this book was a major disappointment. I kept waiting for the characters to learn something, to mature, to actually do something worth noting...but they didn't. They were shallow, and it felt like I could've read a book about their neighbor down the road and not even miss them for as emotionally invested as I got in the story.
The plot carried the characters—not the other way around—and that, people, does not make for a story that I'll enjoy.
What did I like about the book? Well...I liked Ivan. I liked the setting. I liked the pop culture references (except that the people in this historical novel went to see Frozen in the theater and I feel so old). I appreciated the message, about how we're made to spread our wings and fly, but it just...fell flat.
All in all, not a book that I'll be rereading. But it was cool to learn some historical facts about the Vietnam war that I hadn't known before. ;)
*I received a copy of this book from the publisher for promotional purposes. All thoughts are my own.
December 18, 2020
Susie Finkbeiner never disappoints! Another amazing read. From endorsement:
The Nature of Small Birds is a beautiful story about the intricacies of family and the power of love. With a masterful pen, Susie Finkbeiner peels back layers of everyday life to give readers a glimpse of the human heart and what is of ultimate importance. Her authentic characters offer the sacred gift of empathy, compassion, and hope. I didn’t want to leave their company! Most definitely a must-read novel.
The Nature of Small Birds is a beautiful story about the intricacies of family and the power of love. With a masterful pen, Susie Finkbeiner peels back layers of everyday life to give readers a glimpse of the human heart and what is of ultimate importance. Her authentic characters offer the sacred gift of empathy, compassion, and hope. I didn’t want to leave their company! Most definitely a must-read novel.
September 6, 2021
Finkbeiner has a true talent! Her books pull the reader into the settings. This one has three time periods but it’s the same family just at different times in their lives. Beautifully done!
March 3, 2024
THE GOOD:
Love, love, love this sweet tale. Truly a pleasure to read.
Good, clean fiction with heartwarming stories to tell and very real and believable characters. One really feels “a part of the family” while reading it.
An added bonus is the timeline in the past - 1974 and 1988. These are portrayed authentically and only occasionally dipping into “too much” op culture being thrown in. What a joy to revisit those eras, through the eyes of young mom Linda and teenage girl Sonny.
The “small bird” theme carries as a metaphor and theme throughout, which adds a cozy layer of tenderness.
THE BAD:
Nothing. I have nothing bad to say about this novel. Truly well done.
That said, it may be odd to some that while the narrative that ties the thread throughout out is about Mindy finding her birth family, the story is told by those around her - her dad, her mom, and her sister.
Also, much younger sister Holly is a side character at best. But that seems to work. Adding another voice may well have been too complicated.
CONCLUSION:
I truly love this sweet book. It’s about family. About growing up. About finding who you are. About letting go. Highly recommend.
Love, love, love this sweet tale. Truly a pleasure to read.
Good, clean fiction with heartwarming stories to tell and very real and believable characters. One really feels “a part of the family” while reading it.
An added bonus is the timeline in the past - 1974 and 1988. These are portrayed authentically and only occasionally dipping into “too much” op culture being thrown in. What a joy to revisit those eras, through the eyes of young mom Linda and teenage girl Sonny.
The “small bird” theme carries as a metaphor and theme throughout, which adds a cozy layer of tenderness.
THE BAD:
Nothing. I have nothing bad to say about this novel. Truly well done.
That said, it may be odd to some that while the narrative that ties the thread throughout out is about Mindy finding her birth family, the story is told by those around her - her dad, her mom, and her sister.
Also, much younger sister Holly is a side character at best. But that seems to work. Adding another voice may well have been too complicated.
CONCLUSION:
I truly love this sweet book. It’s about family. About growing up. About finding who you are. About letting go. Highly recommend.
August 5, 2021
“It’s the nature of small birds to sing their hearts out. And it’s the nature of God to hear them.”
A heartwarming story of a girl who was adopted from Vietnam during Babylift in 1975 and the effect it had on her adoptive family. It is told from three voices : Dad Bruce in 2013, Mom Linda in 1975 and Sister Sonny in 1988. I was amazed by the ability of the author to capture three different characters and time periods. Having been a teen in the late 60s, this story was very nostalgic. My husband and I lived on Guam for four years, leaving in 1975 just before the evacuation of Vietnam. So memories abound.
This is a story of unexpected love and solidity of family. The author has a knack for bringing in the flavor of the eras. She does a great job of getting in the heads of the characters and portraying their foibles and concerns. I most identify with the father, Bruce, maybe because I am around his age. Bruce: “I am a fortunate man who has witnessed God’s new mercies coming whether I deserve them or not... Mixed in with the good and bad is a whole lot of stuff that was just normal everyday living...Rain or sun, storms or calm; nature is good, full of glimmers of God’s glory.” He is shown as having wisdom and having grown in his faith. He is the backbone of the family.
The author delights us with word pictures: “The air is crisp, but not biting. The sun is bright but not blinding. And the busiest crowds in the woods are of the feathered variety.”
This is a stunning book to be savored and learned from, likening small birds to our children.
*A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Revell through Interviews and Reviews. I was not required to give a favorable review. All opinions are my own.*
A heartwarming story of a girl who was adopted from Vietnam during Babylift in 1975 and the effect it had on her adoptive family. It is told from three voices : Dad Bruce in 2013, Mom Linda in 1975 and Sister Sonny in 1988. I was amazed by the ability of the author to capture three different characters and time periods. Having been a teen in the late 60s, this story was very nostalgic. My husband and I lived on Guam for four years, leaving in 1975 just before the evacuation of Vietnam. So memories abound.
This is a story of unexpected love and solidity of family. The author has a knack for bringing in the flavor of the eras. She does a great job of getting in the heads of the characters and portraying their foibles and concerns. I most identify with the father, Bruce, maybe because I am around his age. Bruce: “I am a fortunate man who has witnessed God’s new mercies coming whether I deserve them or not... Mixed in with the good and bad is a whole lot of stuff that was just normal everyday living...Rain or sun, storms or calm; nature is good, full of glimmers of God’s glory.” He is shown as having wisdom and having grown in his faith. He is the backbone of the family.
The author delights us with word pictures: “The air is crisp, but not biting. The sun is bright but not blinding. And the busiest crowds in the woods are of the feathered variety.”
This is a stunning book to be savored and learned from, likening small birds to our children.
*A complimentary copy of this book was provided by Revell through Interviews and Reviews. I was not required to give a favorable review. All opinions are my own.*
April 23, 2023
I have only heard great things about this book and it doesn't disappoint. The story of a family who adopted a girl from Vietnam right after the war. The story looks at 3 points of view, the older sister, the Mom and the Dad. I fell in love with the father in this book. He reminds me so much of my Dad. Full of love and grace. Each point of view were beautiful in their own way. The love that they have for each other is something we all should strive for. Now if you are expecting fireworks and thrilling moments you won't get from this book, even the ending is just there like an ending to a day. I loved the story for the simpleness of it. For me it was poetry and the author even wrote it like that in some parts of the book. Do I recommend it, oh yes and it will have you exploring your thoughts on war and the innocence of the children that are in the middle of it. So glad I finally picked this up! Really worth it!!
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September 15, 2023DNF
April 24, 2021
Any reader of this novel will find themselves ending the book with the feeling of having made new friends...
I was privileged to read an arc kindle version of this book.
My biggest complaint...I was completely unaware I was getting close to the end of the book until I reached the last page.
Say what??! I need more! :)
Before I get started though, I would like to comment about the cover. Sometimes the cover and/or the title is what really puts a book on my MUST READ list. Well, not so for this book. I’m not necessarily a bird lover, so seeing the cover just wouldn’t have really drawn me to it.
No, what really captivated me and made me know it was, in fact, a MUST READ is seeing Susie Finkbeiner’s name on the cover. I’ve read two others of her novels, All Manner of Things, and Stories That Bind Us, and both of those are also really worth your while, and stories that I really, really loved. Susie’s storytelling voice is one that absolutely hits home with me, bringing stories to life in ways that plant them firmly in my brain, in my heart, where they’ll stay and linger for a very long time.
This is the story of Mindy and her family. Susie Finkbeiner has brought to life in an amazing way the story of the Babylift episode...which I had never even heard of before reading about this book.
Mindy was adopted from Vietnam as a young girl, and has never really felt like she belonged.
This book goes between three time periods, and I’d like to mention just a bit about each of these.
1975 – this is told mostly from Linda (the Mom’s) perspective. I love it when Ms. Finkbeiner tells about the 70s. She does an exceptional job at bringing those tumultuous years to life. The backdrop of the Vietnam war, the many difficulties because of this. Linda is a young married woman, she has one daughter, Sonny, and longs for more children. This is the year of Minh's (also known as Mindy) adoption.
Then there’s 1988, and this is told mostly from Sonny’s (the oldest sister) viewpoint. Looking through the lenses of a teen in the 80s, a young girl ready to head off for college. This is Mindy during her teen years.
Finally, there is 2013, which is narrated mostly through Bruce’s (the Dad’s) viewpoint. In addition to seeing things through a male perspective, it also gives the ability to see things with hindsight, and give more clarity as to the whys and wherefores of some things that happened earlier. This is the time period when Mindy as an adult, and she decides to look for her birth family.
The characters are what really makes this book outstanding. As the reader, we are treated to various viewpoints, and get to peek into the minds of each one of Mindy's family members.
Dealing with adoption issues, family, belonging, and some racial discrimination, this book truly is one that will tug on your heart-strings and linger in your mind for quite awhile.
Disclaimer: I receive complimentary books from various sources, including, publishers, publicists, authors, and/or NetGalley. I am not required to write a positive review, and have not received any compensation. The opinions shared here are my own entirely. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255
I was privileged to read an arc kindle version of this book.
My biggest complaint...I was completely unaware I was getting close to the end of the book until I reached the last page.
Say what??! I need more! :)
Before I get started though, I would like to comment about the cover. Sometimes the cover and/or the title is what really puts a book on my MUST READ list. Well, not so for this book. I’m not necessarily a bird lover, so seeing the cover just wouldn’t have really drawn me to it.
No, what really captivated me and made me know it was, in fact, a MUST READ is seeing Susie Finkbeiner’s name on the cover. I’ve read two others of her novels, All Manner of Things, and Stories That Bind Us, and both of those are also really worth your while, and stories that I really, really loved. Susie’s storytelling voice is one that absolutely hits home with me, bringing stories to life in ways that plant them firmly in my brain, in my heart, where they’ll stay and linger for a very long time.
This is the story of Mindy and her family. Susie Finkbeiner has brought to life in an amazing way the story of the Babylift episode...which I had never even heard of before reading about this book.
Mindy was adopted from Vietnam as a young girl, and has never really felt like she belonged.
This book goes between three time periods, and I’d like to mention just a bit about each of these.
1975 – this is told mostly from Linda (the Mom’s) perspective. I love it when Ms. Finkbeiner tells about the 70s. She does an exceptional job at bringing those tumultuous years to life. The backdrop of the Vietnam war, the many difficulties because of this. Linda is a young married woman, she has one daughter, Sonny, and longs for more children. This is the year of Minh's (also known as Mindy) adoption.
Then there’s 1988, and this is told mostly from Sonny’s (the oldest sister) viewpoint. Looking through the lenses of a teen in the 80s, a young girl ready to head off for college. This is Mindy during her teen years.
Finally, there is 2013, which is narrated mostly through Bruce’s (the Dad’s) viewpoint. In addition to seeing things through a male perspective, it also gives the ability to see things with hindsight, and give more clarity as to the whys and wherefores of some things that happened earlier. This is the time period when Mindy as an adult, and she decides to look for her birth family.
The characters are what really makes this book outstanding. As the reader, we are treated to various viewpoints, and get to peek into the minds of each one of Mindy's family members.
Dealing with adoption issues, family, belonging, and some racial discrimination, this book truly is one that will tug on your heart-strings and linger in your mind for quite awhile.
Disclaimer: I receive complimentary books from various sources, including, publishers, publicists, authors, and/or NetGalley. I am not required to write a positive review, and have not received any compensation. The opinions shared here are my own entirely. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255
May 23, 2021
This is a truly lovely book about a young Vietnamese girl adopted by a US family during Operation Babylift in 1975. This accomplished author delicately explores the joys and terrors of adopting a child from another country, the intricacies of family differences as far as Vietnam War was concerned and the power of love. Ms. Finkbeiner knows how to pluck a reader's heartstrings and I found this to be quite an emotional read. The book is told by three separate narrators during three separate time frames.
Recommended.
Recommended.
June 4, 2021
Susie's characters come alive yet again in this beautiful exploration of family. Highly recommend.
July 15, 2021
I am in awe at how this author creates heart-felt stories with believable, likeable (and not so likeable) characters. This author delicately unfolds a beautifully touching story of a time when things did not make sense as the Vietnam War was raging and many orphaned children were left behind.
Bruce and Linda get a call, one they thought would tell them their little son was on his way, but this call was an unexpected one. Could they welcome an older child into their home? The answer was yes. But nothing prepared them for the love they would have for this little girl. She turns their lives and hearts inside out, with unanticipated joy and strong surprising resentment from family and friends who see her as a threat, not a precious gift.
The author did an incredible job of showing the difficulties this family faced in caring for this little one. For example, there was the language barrier, how to connect with a 4-year-old who found herself in a foreign land and did not speak the language. As they learned to relate to Mindy and her to them, love grew in their hearts and Mindy became part of their family.
The author takes her time in having the reader experience Mindy’s home life from three people’s points of view and through different timelines. One is how Bruce, the father felt about things, Linda his wife felt about nurturing their children Sonny and Mindy. Then the other POV is through 6-year-old Sonny when she gets older and talks about her relationship with Mindy and how they become true sisters and friends. Writing about the Vietnam era is overwhelming, but this author does it well through her characters as she reveals deep wounds, fears, and troubles during that era.
I wondered about the cover of this book, but after reading the story I realize all the bird references made in this novel and how the girls and their family really are fascinated by birds. Don’t judge a book by its cover. This is a thought-provoking book that tackles tough issues with love and respect. I like how this author helps readers understand Operation Babylift through one family's journey of love, forgiveness and hope as they do their best to love the precious gift they had been given along with the daughter they gave birth to. This makes for a memorable read and one that would work for your next book club pick. If you have not read a book by this author, treat yourself to this one.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I have received a complimentary copy of this book by the publisher through NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”
Nora St. Laurent
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The Book Club Network blog www.bookfun.org
Bruce and Linda get a call, one they thought would tell them their little son was on his way, but this call was an unexpected one. Could they welcome an older child into their home? The answer was yes. But nothing prepared them for the love they would have for this little girl. She turns their lives and hearts inside out, with unanticipated joy and strong surprising resentment from family and friends who see her as a threat, not a precious gift.
The author did an incredible job of showing the difficulties this family faced in caring for this little one. For example, there was the language barrier, how to connect with a 4-year-old who found herself in a foreign land and did not speak the language. As they learned to relate to Mindy and her to them, love grew in their hearts and Mindy became part of their family.
The author takes her time in having the reader experience Mindy’s home life from three people’s points of view and through different timelines. One is how Bruce, the father felt about things, Linda his wife felt about nurturing their children Sonny and Mindy. Then the other POV is through 6-year-old Sonny when she gets older and talks about her relationship with Mindy and how they become true sisters and friends. Writing about the Vietnam era is overwhelming, but this author does it well through her characters as she reveals deep wounds, fears, and troubles during that era.
I wondered about the cover of this book, but after reading the story I realize all the bird references made in this novel and how the girls and their family really are fascinated by birds. Don’t judge a book by its cover. This is a thought-provoking book that tackles tough issues with love and respect. I like how this author helps readers understand Operation Babylift through one family's journey of love, forgiveness and hope as they do their best to love the precious gift they had been given along with the daughter they gave birth to. This makes for a memorable read and one that would work for your next book club pick. If you have not read a book by this author, treat yourself to this one.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I have received a complimentary copy of this book by the publisher through NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”
Nora St. Laurent
TBCN Where Book Fun Begins!
The Book Club Network blog www.bookfun.org
August 21, 2021
This book wasn’t what I was expecting. At all.
Yet, it was still beautiful and deep and touched every emotion inside of me.
When I first heard about this book, I was thrilled that I had finally found a Vietnam story. Only, it kind of isn’t. It touches on the Vietnam War, but it doesn’t show the war itself. In fact, it never actually steps one foot into that country.
That was disappointing.
However, I’m a sucker for an emotional adoption story, so this little birdie wriggled its way into my heart once I found my rhythm with the three time periods, all of which were written in first person. That took some getting used to, but I’m glad I stuck with it. The story was so amazing. Little Minh was so adorable! I couldn’t get enough of her, truly. The emotional punches and tension-filled adoption story reminded me so much of Susan Schoenberger’s A Watershed Year, a favorite book of mine that I’ve read at least three times already. If you love that one, you’re going to absolutely want to find a copy of this one… and vice versa.
I’m still not sure what I think of the ending of each of the three storylines. There was resolution in some ways, but so much was left open… but I think it was in a good way. I need to mull it over more and possibly give it another read or two before I fully make up my mind.
Y’all, tears were shed at multiple points during this story, especially in the back third. Have tissues handy if you’re a weeper like me! I love it when a book gets in my heart so much that I feel personally invested to the point of waterworks. It’s a beautiful moment, to cry over an exquisite yet heart-wrenching scene.
May I just say, I loved the Froot Loops lady. Goodness, but I wanted to jump up and give her a one-person standing ovation. Between Linda and her, that bully stood no chance of having the final say-so. I love it when characters stand up to bullies and let them know it’s not okay to treat people like that. I was glad to see that a random stranger was willing to step into the fray for her fellow human being.
Speaking of bullies, it was hard for me to like Hilda in the beginning. I understood her pain and where she was coming from, but it was still so hard to read her rudeness and hate. At about the halfway point, I realized that I actually was appreciating her scenes a little more. I couldn’t really say I ever liked her, but she did grow on me to the point where I got emotional over certain parts of her journey. She had a pretty good arc, even though heart changes weren’t exactly a big part of it. I would have liked to see more growth in her, but the way her story ended up was completely realistic. I can’t imagine it any other way unless she learned more forgiveness, compassion, and acceptance along the way. And maybe she did in her own way. She wasn’t exactly a touchy-feely type that would outwardly express her feelings much, so at times she was a tough one to get a good read on.
One moment did dock a star from my rating. It took no more than a half page, but, for me, that was a half-page too long. A curse word was used right on the page. Not only that, but it was belabored when two different characters made a big deal out of it: “Never in my life had I heard an old lady swear” from one and “seemingly unfazed by the curse word” by the other. I was disappointed in this whole moment. It served no purpose for the overall story arc and, in fact, interrupted a very important scene in the plot. It felt very out of place for multiple reasons.
Just a quick note about the cover: While I adore the simplicity of the cover as well as the beautiful sparrow perched on a branch, that blurry title font has got to go. It nearly gave me vertigo every time I looked at it. The color scheme was beautiful, though. I really cherish book covers with such eye-pleasing colors and images as this one has.
Still, this was a really good book that I will likely read again. A solid four stars, for sure.
Content: replacement expletives, replacement profanity, tobacco, drugs inferred once, alcohol, expletive, gambling (included a teenager)
Yet, it was still beautiful and deep and touched every emotion inside of me.
When I first heard about this book, I was thrilled that I had finally found a Vietnam story. Only, it kind of isn’t. It touches on the Vietnam War, but it doesn’t show the war itself. In fact, it never actually steps one foot into that country.
That was disappointing.
However, I’m a sucker for an emotional adoption story, so this little birdie wriggled its way into my heart once I found my rhythm with the three time periods, all of which were written in first person. That took some getting used to, but I’m glad I stuck with it. The story was so amazing. Little Minh was so adorable! I couldn’t get enough of her, truly. The emotional punches and tension-filled adoption story reminded me so much of Susan Schoenberger’s A Watershed Year, a favorite book of mine that I’ve read at least three times already. If you love that one, you’re going to absolutely want to find a copy of this one… and vice versa.
I’m still not sure what I think of the ending of each of the three storylines. There was resolution in some ways, but so much was left open… but I think it was in a good way. I need to mull it over more and possibly give it another read or two before I fully make up my mind.
Y’all, tears were shed at multiple points during this story, especially in the back third. Have tissues handy if you’re a weeper like me! I love it when a book gets in my heart so much that I feel personally invested to the point of waterworks. It’s a beautiful moment, to cry over an exquisite yet heart-wrenching scene.
May I just say, I loved the Froot Loops lady. Goodness, but I wanted to jump up and give her a one-person standing ovation. Between Linda and her, that bully stood no chance of having the final say-so. I love it when characters stand up to bullies and let them know it’s not okay to treat people like that. I was glad to see that a random stranger was willing to step into the fray for her fellow human being.
Speaking of bullies, it was hard for me to like Hilda in the beginning. I understood her pain and where she was coming from, but it was still so hard to read her rudeness and hate. At about the halfway point, I realized that I actually was appreciating her scenes a little more. I couldn’t really say I ever liked her, but she did grow on me to the point where I got emotional over certain parts of her journey. She had a pretty good arc, even though heart changes weren’t exactly a big part of it. I would have liked to see more growth in her, but the way her story ended up was completely realistic. I can’t imagine it any other way unless she learned more forgiveness, compassion, and acceptance along the way. And maybe she did in her own way. She wasn’t exactly a touchy-feely type that would outwardly express her feelings much, so at times she was a tough one to get a good read on.
One moment did dock a star from my rating. It took no more than a half page, but, for me, that was a half-page too long. A curse word was used right on the page. Not only that, but it was belabored when two different characters made a big deal out of it: “Never in my life had I heard an old lady swear” from one and “seemingly unfazed by the curse word” by the other. I was disappointed in this whole moment. It served no purpose for the overall story arc and, in fact, interrupted a very important scene in the plot. It felt very out of place for multiple reasons.
Just a quick note about the cover: While I adore the simplicity of the cover as well as the beautiful sparrow perched on a branch, that blurry title font has got to go. It nearly gave me vertigo every time I looked at it. The color scheme was beautiful, though. I really cherish book covers with such eye-pleasing colors and images as this one has.
Still, this was a really good book that I will likely read again. A solid four stars, for sure.
Content: replacement expletives, replacement profanity, tobacco, drugs inferred once, alcohol, expletive, gambling (included a teenager)
May 29, 2022
The Nature of Small Birds is a heartwarming story of what it means to be a family whether it is biological or adoptive. How each person is loved and reacts to the changes that affect each of its members. I enjoyed becoming a part of this family, how they dealt with what life brought them, and how they took care of their small birds.
September 7, 2021
I feel as if I have lived a lifetime with the Matthews family. I felt as I read within the pages of the multiple timelines that I understood the family dynamics as they slowly unfolded. Slowly but not boring at all!
I would think that younger readers would have some difficulty understanding a few of the plot points:
1. The Vietnam War was difficult for all involved. Some men and women fought. Some avoided the fight. Some protested. Some died. Some returned broken. A few returned stronger than before. But only a few. And some, young and innocent and without blame, came to America terrified. Not all of them were safe. Not all of them were saved.
2. Families are broken with members are killed. Dying is one thing. But being killed is another.
3. The Vietnam War divided families, much like what we are seeing today. Sometimes, all it takes is a small child to help heal the wounds . . . but not all the wounds heal.
4. Our preconceived notions as young adults often change as we mature. See life from other points of view. Understand that our hurts do not negate another's hurts.
5. Baby birds leave the nest. They fly and they soar. Training them to do so is Mama Bird and Papa Bird's responsibility. But that doesn't mean they like it when their babies leave the nest.
6. Loving a child you didn't carry in your womb or that doesn't carry your DNA can be the scariest thing of all.
7. There is a sacrificial love--to hand your child over to a stranger because that is better for the child than to stay where he or she is--that I wish I could say I could give. But I seriously don't know how it is done.
My only "complaint," and that's not much of one because honestly I wanted this story to NEVER end, is that 1) we don't know the dynamics of what happened between Mindy and Eric. Only that he wasn't good for her, and 2) I felt like something was "up" with the man who came to took Mindy's fingerprints but never returned. I wanted a bit more in those two areas.
But otherwise, I praise this book and Susie Finkbeiner's ability to tell a story to the moon and back!
I would think that younger readers would have some difficulty understanding a few of the plot points:
1. The Vietnam War was difficult for all involved. Some men and women fought. Some avoided the fight. Some protested. Some died. Some returned broken. A few returned stronger than before. But only a few. And some, young and innocent and without blame, came to America terrified. Not all of them were safe. Not all of them were saved.
2. Families are broken with members are killed. Dying is one thing. But being killed is another.
3. The Vietnam War divided families, much like what we are seeing today. Sometimes, all it takes is a small child to help heal the wounds . . . but not all the wounds heal.
4. Our preconceived notions as young adults often change as we mature. See life from other points of view. Understand that our hurts do not negate another's hurts.
5. Baby birds leave the nest. They fly and they soar. Training them to do so is Mama Bird and Papa Bird's responsibility. But that doesn't mean they like it when their babies leave the nest.
6. Loving a child you didn't carry in your womb or that doesn't carry your DNA can be the scariest thing of all.
7. There is a sacrificial love--to hand your child over to a stranger because that is better for the child than to stay where he or she is--that I wish I could say I could give. But I seriously don't know how it is done.
My only "complaint," and that's not much of one because honestly I wanted this story to NEVER end, is that 1) we don't know the dynamics of what happened between Mindy and Eric. Only that he wasn't good for her, and 2) I felt like something was "up" with the man who came to took Mindy's fingerprints but never returned. I wanted a bit more in those two areas.
But otherwise, I praise this book and Susie Finkbeiner's ability to tell a story to the moon and back!
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October 10, 2021I’m a bit torn as I write this having just finished. I love an adoption story since we adopted, and we didn’t adopt a baby either. That really makes a big difference. The line about mourning a death that never happened was a hard one for me. I never did give birth, and I’ve used a very similar line to describe it.
I love adoption stories, but I also love emotional and spiritual growth stories. I missed that in this story. I’m a bit disappointed as I finish because this book lacked something. More hope? More light maybe? I’m not disappointed I read it. I think some of it may sit a while , but I don’t for sure.
There wasn’t a clear plot or storyline that felt completed…at least to me.
I did enjoy reading about the children brought in from Vietnam needing homes. I had never read that before. I’m just feeling disappointed that the goal of at least one character never is written…really several threads seem unfinished.
With three characters and three timelines,it took me a bit to get into the story…but I did. I sorta feel like a bird who was on a journey…and then I just stop…that’s all I can think to write . It had charming scenes that took my back to when we adopted…other things that were beautiful…but it didn’t have a destination in my opinion. It did make me think and dwell on certain things. I’m just not sure what the end of the plot was suppose to be or I missed it. Very emotional in parts, that’s for sure!
I love adoption stories, but I also love emotional and spiritual growth stories. I missed that in this story. I’m a bit disappointed as I finish because this book lacked something. More hope? More light maybe? I’m not disappointed I read it. I think some of it may sit a while , but I don’t for sure.
There wasn’t a clear plot or storyline that felt completed…at least to me.
I did enjoy reading about the children brought in from Vietnam needing homes. I had never read that before. I’m just feeling disappointed that the goal of at least one character never is written…really several threads seem unfinished.
With three characters and three timelines,it took me a bit to get into the story…but I did. I sorta feel like a bird who was on a journey…and then I just stop…that’s all I can think to write . It had charming scenes that took my back to when we adopted…other things that were beautiful…but it didn’t have a destination in my opinion. It did make me think and dwell on certain things. I’m just not sure what the end of the plot was suppose to be or I missed it. Very emotional in parts, that’s for sure!
July 29, 2021
3.5 stars
"Turns out that small birds are going to fly whether we like it or not. It's no different for our kids."
It's all about letting go, whether through life or death, we all experience the challenge of loving and letting go. It was no different for Bruce and Linda, whose decision to bring a small young "bird" into their home changed their life forever. Mindy had been transported to the United States as part of an historic "baby-lift" out of war torn Saigon. Her fragile psyche was evident, totally opposite from her outgoing older sister Sonny, prompting her new family to rally around her as a protective shield. But sadly, not everyone was a fan. At least not at first, maybe never.
Through-out the pages of this inspiring story, the roles of mother, father, sisters, are beautifully inspected under the microscope of good intentions, and yet there's always the notion that at some point, the little bird will have to fly on her own. . . . . . "We won't be afraid. We will trust in you" . . . the prayer every parent has reason to pray.
"It's the nature of small birds to sing their hearts out. And it's the nature of God to hear them."
In spite of the varying voices and timelines, this was quite a pleasant book to read.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher. I also purchased a copy. The opinions stated above are entirely my own.
"Turns out that small birds are going to fly whether we like it or not. It's no different for our kids."
It's all about letting go, whether through life or death, we all experience the challenge of loving and letting go. It was no different for Bruce and Linda, whose decision to bring a small young "bird" into their home changed their life forever. Mindy had been transported to the United States as part of an historic "baby-lift" out of war torn Saigon. Her fragile psyche was evident, totally opposite from her outgoing older sister Sonny, prompting her new family to rally around her as a protective shield. But sadly, not everyone was a fan. At least not at first, maybe never.
Through-out the pages of this inspiring story, the roles of mother, father, sisters, are beautifully inspected under the microscope of good intentions, and yet there's always the notion that at some point, the little bird will have to fly on her own. . . . . . "We won't be afraid. We will trust in you" . . . the prayer every parent has reason to pray.
"It's the nature of small birds to sing their hearts out. And it's the nature of God to hear them."
In spite of the varying voices and timelines, this was quite a pleasant book to read.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher. I also purchased a copy. The opinions stated above are entirely my own.
March 26, 2024
This sentimental story remembers the breezy times when love of family was simply the center of life, while other so very far from perfect ways, overstayed.
One of so many favorite quotes from the book,
“It’s the nature of small birds to sing their little hearts out.
And it’s the nature of God to hear them.”
One of so many favorite quotes from the book,
“It’s the nature of small birds to sing their little hearts out.
And it’s the nature of God to hear them.”
April 3, 2023
This book was just meh to me. The multiple pov’s were difficult to get into. I’ve heard Finkbeiner is good at writing memorable characters and I would agree with that. My biggest issue with this book was that it was SO character driven. It felt memoir-esque, with no concrete conclusion.
I did enjoy the historical aspect.
Cleanliness: 🧼🧼🧼🧼🧼/5 mention of boyfriends and maybe one kiss.
I did enjoy the historical aspect.
Cleanliness: 🧼🧼🧼🧼🧼/5 mention of boyfriends and maybe one kiss.
July 12, 2021
First off, I'm going to be honest. When I first saw the cover, I thought, why is Ms. Finkbeiner writing about birds? How odd. That's why I passed over the book the first two times. Then I read someone's review, and I decided to try it because I love anything she writes.
The way she tells it makes you feel like you are there and can make friends with most of the characters. I'm glad I opened the book. I found that I passed a whole evening!
Finkbeiner is a master storyteller for sure, and she has done her research well for this particular story. I simply just couldn't put it down! There were so many wonderful scenes, and it's told by the various characters. I like it this way because we get to know them so much better, yet in others, I do not. Simply put, because they get confusing at times.
This book was provided by Revell through Interviews & Reviews for my honest opinion.
The way she tells it makes you feel like you are there and can make friends with most of the characters. I'm glad I opened the book. I found that I passed a whole evening!
Finkbeiner is a master storyteller for sure, and she has done her research well for this particular story. I simply just couldn't put it down! There were so many wonderful scenes, and it's told by the various characters. I like it this way because we get to know them so much better, yet in others, I do not. Simply put, because they get confusing at times.
This book was provided by Revell through Interviews & Reviews for my honest opinion.
May 17, 2021
It's the nature of small birds to sing their little hearts out. And it's the nature of God to hear them.~from The Nature of Small Birds by Susie Finkbeiner
The Nature of Small Birds is a quiet, gentle book, the kind of read that is a comfort and a respite. Susie Finbeiner has created a family that is not always perfect, but is able to love perfectly.
It is the story of 'hippie' couple Bruce and Linda and their three daughters Sonny, Mindy, and Holly. Readers meet the couple in 2013, in Bruce's voice, and in 1975 narrated by Linda, and in 1988 through Sonny's eyes. Each narrative voice is distinct.
Central to their story is Mindy, who Bruce and Linda adopted through Operation Baby Lift at the end of the Vietnam War. We know what she experienced by her early fearfulness, and we understand the love that surrounded her by her growth and happiness.
Over 3,000 Vietnamese babies and children were brought to America. Some were left at orphanages because their family was unable to care for them; the parents never approved their removal.
Adopting a Vietnamese child in 1975 created strong reactions in friends and family and even strangers. The pain of losing sons in the war was still raw and visceral. Bruce had lost a brother in the war, and his mother had a difficult time accepting Mindy.
Now grown, Mindy is exploring how to find her birth mother in Vietnam, supported by her family.
If all I've done with this one life is to be a son, husband, brother, dad, grandpa to these remarkable people, that's good enough for me.~from The Nature of Small Birds by Susie Finkbeiner
My favorite voice was Bruce, whose reflections on life, family, and aging are beautiful. I also loved Linda's recollection of early motherhood, so like my own. Sonny's life in 1988, filled with malls and Cyndi Lauper and movies like 'Big', made me recall the world I knew when our son was born.
The story is set in a Michigan 'Up North' setting, on the "pinkie knuckle" of Michigan.
I received an ARC from the publisher through LibraryThing. My review is fair and unbiased
The Nature of Small Birds is a quiet, gentle book, the kind of read that is a comfort and a respite. Susie Finbeiner has created a family that is not always perfect, but is able to love perfectly.
It is the story of 'hippie' couple Bruce and Linda and their three daughters Sonny, Mindy, and Holly. Readers meet the couple in 2013, in Bruce's voice, and in 1975 narrated by Linda, and in 1988 through Sonny's eyes. Each narrative voice is distinct.
Central to their story is Mindy, who Bruce and Linda adopted through Operation Baby Lift at the end of the Vietnam War. We know what she experienced by her early fearfulness, and we understand the love that surrounded her by her growth and happiness.
Over 3,000 Vietnamese babies and children were brought to America. Some were left at orphanages because their family was unable to care for them; the parents never approved their removal.
Adopting a Vietnamese child in 1975 created strong reactions in friends and family and even strangers. The pain of losing sons in the war was still raw and visceral. Bruce had lost a brother in the war, and his mother had a difficult time accepting Mindy.
Now grown, Mindy is exploring how to find her birth mother in Vietnam, supported by her family.
If all I've done with this one life is to be a son, husband, brother, dad, grandpa to these remarkable people, that's good enough for me.~from The Nature of Small Birds by Susie Finkbeiner
My favorite voice was Bruce, whose reflections on life, family, and aging are beautiful. I also loved Linda's recollection of early motherhood, so like my own. Sonny's life in 1988, filled with malls and Cyndi Lauper and movies like 'Big', made me recall the world I knew when our son was born.
The story is set in a Michigan 'Up North' setting, on the "pinkie knuckle" of Michigan.
I received an ARC from the publisher through LibraryThing. My review is fair and unbiased
August 21, 2021
There's nothing earth shattering about this novel. No unexpected twists, no secrets revealed, no villains. But it's a beautifully written novel about a family, and I found myself completely swept into the story.
The novel is told from the perspectives of three family members in three time periods: Linda in 1975, her daughter Sonny in 1988, and her husband Bruce in 2013. All time periods center, at least partially, around their daughter/sister Mindy, who was adopted from Vietnam in 1975. Linda's portion is the time leading up to and directly after Mindy's placement with the family. Sonny's focuses on her senior year of high school and the summer after graduation - especially her relationships with both Mindy and Linda through that time. And Bruce's portion deals with his parents' declining health, his youngest daughter's wedding, and Mindy's search for information about her past.
It's really just a snapshot of a few months during three different periods in the life of a family, and it's so beautifully satisfying. This type of setup means that I closed the last page with a few unanswered questions about each time period, but as I thought about it, I realized that those questions didn't really matter -- what mattered was the sense of calm and satisfaction I felt the entire time I was reading. This is definitely a book worth reading. 4-1/2 stars.
Disclosure of material connection: I received this book from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review, and the opinions expressed are my own.
The novel is told from the perspectives of three family members in three time periods: Linda in 1975, her daughter Sonny in 1988, and her husband Bruce in 2013. All time periods center, at least partially, around their daughter/sister Mindy, who was adopted from Vietnam in 1975. Linda's portion is the time leading up to and directly after Mindy's placement with the family. Sonny's focuses on her senior year of high school and the summer after graduation - especially her relationships with both Mindy and Linda through that time. And Bruce's portion deals with his parents' declining health, his youngest daughter's wedding, and Mindy's search for information about her past.
It's really just a snapshot of a few months during three different periods in the life of a family, and it's so beautifully satisfying. This type of setup means that I closed the last page with a few unanswered questions about each time period, but as I thought about it, I realized that those questions didn't really matter -- what mattered was the sense of calm and satisfaction I felt the entire time I was reading. This is definitely a book worth reading. 4-1/2 stars.
Disclosure of material connection: I received this book from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review, and the opinions expressed are my own.
June 17, 2021
When I saw the author of this book I knew I was in for a treat, and I was not disappointed!
This is a families story, from the beginning, and hanging. We flash from one decade to another and back again, but you won't be lost, and extended family is included.
Bruce and Linda are the Dad and Mom, we learn how they met, a few times! We are along as their first daughter is born, Sondra aka Sonny, and then Mindy or Minh, and your going to love the heart warming response this family has to this little girl.
Mindy came on the baby airlift from Vietnam, a hard time in this country, and some people are not very kind to anyone associated with that War.
This is a story that will linger with you long after the last page is turned, and in the end I wanted a longer journey!
I received this book through LibraryThing and the Publisher Revell, and was not required to give a positive review.
This is a families story, from the beginning, and hanging. We flash from one decade to another and back again, but you won't be lost, and extended family is included.
Bruce and Linda are the Dad and Mom, we learn how they met, a few times! We are along as their first daughter is born, Sondra aka Sonny, and then Mindy or Minh, and your going to love the heart warming response this family has to this little girl.
Mindy came on the baby airlift from Vietnam, a hard time in this country, and some people are not very kind to anyone associated with that War.
This is a story that will linger with you long after the last page is turned, and in the end I wanted a longer journey!
I received this book through LibraryThing and the Publisher Revell, and was not required to give a positive review.
July 30, 2021
Family is a beautiful and wonderful thing. Full of people you love and sometimes don't always like along with plenty of ups and downs. This is a story of a family who adopts a young Vietnamese girl, Mindy. We are carried through three timelines and we get to hear three voices of the family. The father (Bruce), mother (Linda), and older sister (Sonny). We watch as this family grows and changes, because what family stays the same? Going through the different time lines had me reminiscing about my own life.
Always with an author Finkbeiner story, I feel like I have been invited to the inner sanctum of the family. The characters become almost real and I become invested in their story, as they tell me of their hurts and heartbreaks and the prejudices of other family members. And the love. Especially the love for one another and the balance of letting a child go, even if an adult.
I was born in 1975, the earliest timeline, so I found it especially captivating to read about this family as they struggle with the loss of an older brother/uncle and then the adoption of a little girl from the country where his life was lost. There was a lot of feeling these characters showed, especially from Grandma. I think this story beautifully captures what a family truly is. I also really enjoyed the different viewpoints of their life and times. They made the story fuller.
I was provided a copy of this novel from Revell through Interviews and Reviews. I was not required to post a positive review and all views and opinions are my own.
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Always with an author Finkbeiner story, I feel like I have been invited to the inner sanctum of the family. The characters become almost real and I become invested in their story, as they tell me of their hurts and heartbreaks and the prejudices of other family members. And the love. Especially the love for one another and the balance of letting a child go, even if an adult.
I was born in 1975, the earliest timeline, so I found it especially captivating to read about this family as they struggle with the loss of an older brother/uncle and then the adoption of a little girl from the country where his life was lost. There was a lot of feeling these characters showed, especially from Grandma. I think this story beautifully captures what a family truly is. I also really enjoyed the different viewpoints of their life and times. They made the story fuller.
I was provided a copy of this novel from Revell through Interviews and Reviews. I was not required to post a positive review and all views and opinions are my own.
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November 19, 2021
4.5 stars. This novel is not as emotionally gripping as Finkbeiner's others, but it still draws you into the characters' lives. You feel like part of the family and all they experience in the course of the story. The story itself was a fascinating peek into a part of history i was unaware of, and an intimate look into inter-racial adoption. The theme of letting go and how each character experienced the process was very relatable. I loved the bird metaphor also.
The ending was incredibly abrupt. Some of the storylines, or maybe even all of them, felt very unresolved. Im thinking that was intentional but i don't like it. Ha! My opinion clearly doesn't matter but there you have it, anyway.
The ending was incredibly abrupt. Some of the storylines, or maybe even all of them, felt very unresolved. Im thinking that was intentional but i don't like it. Ha! My opinion clearly doesn't matter but there you have it, anyway.
January 24, 2022
I'd heard so many great things about this book I couldn't wait to read it. Although I enjoyed following the family through the adoption of their daughter from Vietnam along the three storylines in three different points of view, I never felt a real connection to them. It seemed more like a narrator was telling the story rather than me being immersed in the story myself.
Even as I contemplate the book now, I don't see a clear goal for the characters so it's hard to say if they reached what they were after. Yes, the adopted girl, Mindy, went back to Vietnam to learn about her family but we don't get to experience that. And I still have no idea what happened between her and her husband.
One important aspect that was lacking for me in the story was the spiritual growth arc. Besides the fact the children went to a Christian school, I don't remember much reference to God or spiritual matters. This is a personal preference for me. I know many people don't care as much about this as I do.
The ending seemed abrupt. My soul longed for more. More information. More closure. More something.
So, was it worth reading? Absolutely. Even with my less than enthusiastic response, overall I enjoyed the different timelines and meandering through the setting with a family that loved one another. The parents' sentiments that commitment to raising a family was paramount to anything else in life they could have devoted their time to was heartwarming. There was nothing earth shattering in the plot, but it was a nice, peaceful read, which could be a good break from some from the danger, death, and chaos of some of the novels we read.
The author's writing style is easy to read and well-done, that alone worthy of the four-star rating.
Even as I contemplate the book now, I don't see a clear goal for the characters so it's hard to say if they reached what they were after. Yes, the adopted girl, Mindy, went back to Vietnam to learn about her family but we don't get to experience that. And I still have no idea what happened between her and her husband.
One important aspect that was lacking for me in the story was the spiritual growth arc. Besides the fact the children went to a Christian school, I don't remember much reference to God or spiritual matters. This is a personal preference for me. I know many people don't care as much about this as I do.
The ending seemed abrupt. My soul longed for more. More information. More closure. More something.
So, was it worth reading? Absolutely. Even with my less than enthusiastic response, overall I enjoyed the different timelines and meandering through the setting with a family that loved one another. The parents' sentiments that commitment to raising a family was paramount to anything else in life they could have devoted their time to was heartwarming. There was nothing earth shattering in the plot, but it was a nice, peaceful read, which could be a good break from some from the danger, death, and chaos of some of the novels we read.
The author's writing style is easy to read and well-done, that alone worthy of the four-star rating.
December 30, 2021
This book is a time slip, but not in the traditional way I think of it. There are different years and different characters that talk about that particular timeframe. For example, it starts with 2013 with Bruce, goes to 1975 with Linda, and back to 1988 with Sonny. So, there is a pattern to the different timelines, it just takes some getting used to as these are the main family characters prior to the adoption. Although I found the different timelines a bit confusing, the storyline in and of itself is compelling! I can’t imagine adopting a child who cannot speak your language, you really don’t know her exact age, and who has been traumatized by war. Minh “Mindy” is about 4-5 years old at her adoption and was part of Vietnam’s Operation Baby Lift in 1975. I was a little disappointed that the ending seemed a bit abrupt for my taste.
Susie Finkbeiner has a way with words and is not shy about writing about the tough stuff in life. So far, I have only read All Manner of Things, which is about a difficult family life during the Vietnam War with an enlisted brother. A Cup of Dust, which is a Dust Bowl novel, sits in my queue to be read soon and I definitely want to read her rather impressive backlist. So, if you are not afraid of the tough and gritty stories of life, then be sure and pick up one of her novels. 4.5 Stars.
I borrowed a copy of this book from my local public library, and I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 Code of Federal Regulations, Part 255, Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.
Susie Finkbeiner has a way with words and is not shy about writing about the tough stuff in life. So far, I have only read All Manner of Things, which is about a difficult family life during the Vietnam War with an enlisted brother. A Cup of Dust, which is a Dust Bowl novel, sits in my queue to be read soon and I definitely want to read her rather impressive backlist. So, if you are not afraid of the tough and gritty stories of life, then be sure and pick up one of her novels. 4.5 Stars.
I borrowed a copy of this book from my local public library, and I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 Code of Federal Regulations, Part 255, Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.
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