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The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush's Post-Presidency
A heartfelt portrait of President George H.W. Bush—and his post-presidential life—by the confidante who knew him best.
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August 17, 2021
I love Bush 41. I love Bush 43. People you can run all you like, but seriously, don't you miss Republicans like these after who we had just recently.
This book truly gives us a glimpse into Bush 41 after leaving the presidency. His love for his family. His friendship with Bill Clinton (a novel concept isn't it....Republicans and Democrats getting along!). His parachuting days including when he goes back to where he was in WWII. His beautiful marriage to Barbara Bush.
Fun vignettes throughout this memoir that is for sure.
This book truly gives us a glimpse into Bush 41 after leaving the presidency. His love for his family. His friendship with Bill Clinton (a novel concept isn't it....Republicans and Democrats getting along!). His parachuting days including when he goes back to where he was in WWII. His beautiful marriage to Barbara Bush.
Fun vignettes throughout this memoir that is for sure.
September 18, 2022
It took a long time to complete this one, not because it was not calling to me, but because my two daughters and I listened when we were together and we had to wait for times when all three of us were together and not otherwise occupied. But it certainly was worth the wait of the times between. By listening together we could immediately share our thoughts of admiration for this great man. Jean Becker, the author and the Bush chief of staff in his retirement years, gives us an insider view into the man. She gives intimate stories that are humorous, sorrowful, surprising and comforting. I had/have such respect for this former president. For the most part, he did not compromise his principles or try to appease the majority. He was steadfast and true to himself, but even more importantly he put his country and its well-being above self, above party, above being reelected. That is a man for whom I have high esteem, approval and regard.
This sweet account of the Bush years post-presidency will certainly entertain and it will bring moments of laughter and love as well as give detailed accounts of things that happen post-presidency such as pre-planning and then executing a presidential funeral and much more.
This sweet account of the Bush years post-presidency will certainly entertain and it will bring moments of laughter and love as well as give detailed accounts of things that happen post-presidency such as pre-planning and then executing a presidential funeral and much more.
August 15, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed this book which was written by George H.W. Bush’s former chief of staff. From someone that knew him best, this book took a behind-the-scenes look at President Bush 41 during his post-presidency years. I’ve always admired the Bush family and their devoted service to our country. In addition to his decades of honorable public service, Bush 41 was loyal and true to his family, friends and even managed to develop long-lasting friendships with those whom he disagreed. I especially enjoyed reading of President Bush’s boundless energy, his sense of humor and his love for his wife Barbara, as well as his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Throughout his life, Bush made it a point to express his love and thoughts to those he was close to. I loved reading those letters that were printed in the book. What an amazing man and amazing life.
July 3, 2021
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If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it countless times. If there’s a best seller and a presidential biography side-by-side, I’ll always go with the presidential biography. That’s why, when NetGalley and Twelve books offered me The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush’s Post-Presidency, I gladly jumped into the fray. The book was released to the public on June 1, 2021. All opinions offered are my own.
From Goodreads: “As chief of staff, Jean Becker had a ringside seat to the never-boring story of George Herbert Walker Bush’s life post-presidency, including being at his side when he died and subsequently facing the challenge-and great honor-of being in charge of his state funeral. Full of heart and wisdom, THE MAN I KNEW is a vibrant behind-the-scenes look into the ups and downs of heading up the office of a former president by one of the people who knew him best.”
I’ve already read the official biography of George H.W. Bush, Destiny and Power: The American Odyssey of George Herbert Walker Bush by Jon Meacham, and came away with a better sense of Bush the diplomat and statesman. I also read 41: A Portrait of My Father by George W. Bush so I had a better understanding of Bush as a father and grandfather. But The Man I Knew provides something different: a look a a post-presidency that lasted 26 years and was full of variety.
Politics is largely ignored in Bush’s post-presidency, which seemed surprising at first. But as I got further into the book, I could see why there was an absence of politics: George Bush was largely apolitical after he left office. Sure, he made appearances at the Republican National Conventions and supported his son when he was president, but he largely stayed out of the fray. In keeping with past presidents, he did not stick his nose into current events and offer advice, either publicly or privately.
Becker shares memories from letters from George Bush and herself, sometimes encapsulating events in a letter to her siblings, sometimes in memos to staff. Sometimes she shares stories and recreates conversations to her best ability by asking other witnesses their recollections to gather a consensus. What she reveals is a man who cared greatly for his family above anything else, who always tried to be right and true, had a great sense of humor, and lived life to the fullest right up until the end.
This book made me laugh out loud quite a few times. And even though I don’t normally cry at books, I got wistful more than a few times. I got to know our 41st president a lot better and could not think of a better one-term president or a more decent man. I think, when describing George H.W. Bush, Brian Mulroney summed him up during his eulogy at the National Cathedral in Washington D.C.:
“No occupant of the Oval Office was more courageous, more principled and more honorable that George Herbert Walker Bush… There is a word for this: it is called ‘leadership’–and let me tell you that when George Bush was President of the United States of America, every single head of government in the world knew they were dealing with a true gentleman, a genuine leader–one who was distinguished, resolute and brave.”
George Bush was able to cross party lines. He not only famously became best friends with Bill Clinton, the man who defeated him for a second term in the White House (so much so that his children refer to Clinton as the ‘brother from another mother’), he and President Obama got along famously as well. “President Obama called President Bush and told him he would like to give him the Medal of Freedom, our country’s highest civilian honor. President Bush was deeply touched. In bestowing the award a few months later, President Obama cited President Bush’s long resume’ of public service and commended him for ending the Cold War, among other accomplishments. But the words that touched President Bush the most were these: ‘His humility and decency reflects the very best of the American spirit.'”
As for the lighter moments, there was the occasion of the CIA headquarters being named for Bush, even though he only held the position as director for less than a year. “As Mrs. Bush used to say in her speeches: ‘It was a tremendous honor… but frankly bewildering. Why would an agency dedicated to intelligence name their headquarters after someone who celebrated his seventy-fifth birthday by jumping out of a perfectly good airplane at 12,500 feet?'”
As Becker admits, working for the Bush’s was a blessing, filled with joy, but also with many challenges. “I feel incredibly blessed to work for them, yet there are challenges. I have been told by Mikhail Gorbachev to shut up, but I’ve been kissed by Tom Selleck; I’ve been yelled at by the President of the United States but blessed by the Pope. I have picked up the phone at 7 a.m. only to hear Barbara Bush say to me, “Have you totally lost your mind,” but next week I move my office for five months to Kennebunkport, Maine… Yes, I think the highs greatly outweigh the occasional lows.”
The author learned many things during her several decades with the Bushes: think big, make a difference, live life with joy, think of the other guy, don’t be afraid to get into the ring. But she also admits that working for the former president was also a big more complicated than that. “Be open to new ideas. Don’t be afraid to change your mind. Don’t be afraid to say you were wrong. Don’t judge. Don’t hold grudges.”
I’ve read or listened to more than 100 books this year and have to say that this is my favorite so far. Rarely have we seen a more human side to a former president. I highly recommend it.
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it countless times. If there’s a best seller and a presidential biography side-by-side, I’ll always go with the presidential biography. That’s why, when NetGalley and Twelve books offered me The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush’s Post-Presidency, I gladly jumped into the fray. The book was released to the public on June 1, 2021. All opinions offered are my own.
From Goodreads: “As chief of staff, Jean Becker had a ringside seat to the never-boring story of George Herbert Walker Bush’s life post-presidency, including being at his side when he died and subsequently facing the challenge-and great honor-of being in charge of his state funeral. Full of heart and wisdom, THE MAN I KNEW is a vibrant behind-the-scenes look into the ups and downs of heading up the office of a former president by one of the people who knew him best.”
I’ve already read the official biography of George H.W. Bush, Destiny and Power: The American Odyssey of George Herbert Walker Bush by Jon Meacham, and came away with a better sense of Bush the diplomat and statesman. I also read 41: A Portrait of My Father by George W. Bush so I had a better understanding of Bush as a father and grandfather. But The Man I Knew provides something different: a look a a post-presidency that lasted 26 years and was full of variety.
Politics is largely ignored in Bush’s post-presidency, which seemed surprising at first. But as I got further into the book, I could see why there was an absence of politics: George Bush was largely apolitical after he left office. Sure, he made appearances at the Republican National Conventions and supported his son when he was president, but he largely stayed out of the fray. In keeping with past presidents, he did not stick his nose into current events and offer advice, either publicly or privately.
Becker shares memories from letters from George Bush and herself, sometimes encapsulating events in a letter to her siblings, sometimes in memos to staff. Sometimes she shares stories and recreates conversations to her best ability by asking other witnesses their recollections to gather a consensus. What she reveals is a man who cared greatly for his family above anything else, who always tried to be right and true, had a great sense of humor, and lived life to the fullest right up until the end.
This book made me laugh out loud quite a few times. And even though I don’t normally cry at books, I got wistful more than a few times. I got to know our 41st president a lot better and could not think of a better one-term president or a more decent man. I think, when describing George H.W. Bush, Brian Mulroney summed him up during his eulogy at the National Cathedral in Washington D.C.:
“No occupant of the Oval Office was more courageous, more principled and more honorable that George Herbert Walker Bush… There is a word for this: it is called ‘leadership’–and let me tell you that when George Bush was President of the United States of America, every single head of government in the world knew they were dealing with a true gentleman, a genuine leader–one who was distinguished, resolute and brave.”
George Bush was able to cross party lines. He not only famously became best friends with Bill Clinton, the man who defeated him for a second term in the White House (so much so that his children refer to Clinton as the ‘brother from another mother’), he and President Obama got along famously as well. “President Obama called President Bush and told him he would like to give him the Medal of Freedom, our country’s highest civilian honor. President Bush was deeply touched. In bestowing the award a few months later, President Obama cited President Bush’s long resume’ of public service and commended him for ending the Cold War, among other accomplishments. But the words that touched President Bush the most were these: ‘His humility and decency reflects the very best of the American spirit.'”
As for the lighter moments, there was the occasion of the CIA headquarters being named for Bush, even though he only held the position as director for less than a year. “As Mrs. Bush used to say in her speeches: ‘It was a tremendous honor… but frankly bewildering. Why would an agency dedicated to intelligence name their headquarters after someone who celebrated his seventy-fifth birthday by jumping out of a perfectly good airplane at 12,500 feet?'”
As Becker admits, working for the Bush’s was a blessing, filled with joy, but also with many challenges. “I feel incredibly blessed to work for them, yet there are challenges. I have been told by Mikhail Gorbachev to shut up, but I’ve been kissed by Tom Selleck; I’ve been yelled at by the President of the United States but blessed by the Pope. I have picked up the phone at 7 a.m. only to hear Barbara Bush say to me, “Have you totally lost your mind,” but next week I move my office for five months to Kennebunkport, Maine… Yes, I think the highs greatly outweigh the occasional lows.”
The author learned many things during her several decades with the Bushes: think big, make a difference, live life with joy, think of the other guy, don’t be afraid to get into the ring. But she also admits that working for the former president was also a big more complicated than that. “Be open to new ideas. Don’t be afraid to change your mind. Don’t be afraid to say you were wrong. Don’t judge. Don’t hold grudges.”
I’ve read or listened to more than 100 books this year and have to say that this is my favorite so far. Rarely have we seen a more human side to a former president. I highly recommend it.
April 19, 2022
I've long admired George H.W. Bush, the 41st President. Reading 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘔𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘒𝘯𝘦𝘸, written by his post-presidency chief of staff, Jean Becker, added to that admiration and also enlightened me even further about his life.
In this candid book, Jean Becker recounts her time with the president from his departure from office up until the time of his death in 2018 - even giving us a bird's eye view in the planning of his funeral and several included eulogies.
Throughout the book the qualities of the president's honesty, humor, sincerity, humility, and simple HUMANITY shine through. The author includes so many funny stories about the president that it made me feel that George H.W. Bush was really just one of US - he was an American who deeply loved his country.
He was also, however, the last American president who was a true statesman, diplomat, military leader, and patriot.
I am thankful to #netgalley for this copy of 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘔𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘒𝘯𝘦𝘸 - if you are a fan of the Bush family, or if you are interested in presidential history, I would definitely pick this one up. It made me thankful to have come of age in a time when George Bush 41 was our president.
Four stars! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
In this candid book, Jean Becker recounts her time with the president from his departure from office up until the time of his death in 2018 - even giving us a bird's eye view in the planning of his funeral and several included eulogies.
Throughout the book the qualities of the president's honesty, humor, sincerity, humility, and simple HUMANITY shine through. The author includes so many funny stories about the president that it made me feel that George H.W. Bush was really just one of US - he was an American who deeply loved his country.
He was also, however, the last American president who was a true statesman, diplomat, military leader, and patriot.
I am thankful to #netgalley for this copy of 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘔𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘒𝘯𝘦𝘸 - if you are a fan of the Bush family, or if you are interested in presidential history, I would definitely pick this one up. It made me thankful to have come of age in a time when George Bush 41 was our president.
Four stars! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
October 4, 2021
It wouldn't have occurred to me to read this book but it was a book club pick, so there you have it. It was a nice book about a nice man. I had a hard time with it in the beginning - Jean Becker is so over the top in her adoration for H. W. and there is a kind of smugness or possessiveness that made me uncomfortable, but I either got used to it or it evened out over the course of the book. Otherwise, other than personal anecdotes, there is nothing here that is new or startling. It was just a nice book about a nice man. I'm happy to have read it and if I ever get back to my one time ambition to read one book about each of the presidents (I got as far as Jefferson) I can check H. W. off the list!
September 11, 2022
In 1992, as a 19-year-old college student, excited to be able to vote for the first time, I drove for an hour on Election Day to my hometown. I will admit that I was charmed by George Bush's younger, trendier, jazzier opponent. I cast my vote, then turned around and drove an hour back to school.
It's a shame that politics makes it impossible to really get to know a guy.
I am absolutely delighted by the man I met in this book. I love his sense of humor. I admire his character. I applaud his approach to getting older. I consider his relationships with his family a tremendous example. I want to be just like him. I wish I had known him better.
And that younger, trendier, jazzier opponent who handed George Bush such a devastating blow? He became one of his best friends. What a guy!
It's a shame that politics makes it impossible to really get to know a guy.
I am absolutely delighted by the man I met in this book. I love his sense of humor. I admire his character. I applaud his approach to getting older. I consider his relationships with his family a tremendous example. I want to be just like him. I wish I had known him better.
And that younger, trendier, jazzier opponent who handed George Bush such a devastating blow? He became one of his best friends. What a guy!
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July 14, 2021I feel weird about giving star ratings to books written by family or people I know (Jean is my Mom's cousin and was President Bush's chief of staff after he left the White House until his death), but I really enjoyed reading this book. It isn't a full biography, but a chronicle of some of his activities, interactions, and relationships as seen through Jean's eyes as his chief of staff. I loved hearing some of those lesser-known stories, his relationship with his kids and grandkids, his marriage, and the development of his friendships with other world leaders (especially President Clinton - I thought his and President Clinton's character as *good men,* regardless of your feelings about either of their politics, really shone through in this book). I also found it really insightful to learn about the workings of a former president's office. I had no idea what post-presidency life truly looks like, and found that side of the book fascinating.
June 29, 2021
Jean Becker : the man I knew the amazing story of George h.w Bush was a good book. While reading the book. I learned a lot about the former president and was surprised what I learned. A must read for history buffs like me
January 1, 2022
I love everything about the Bushes. All of them, but especially 41 and Barbara Bush. This book was interesting, funny, sweet, and just so delightful.
want-to-obtain
September 12, 2025I am a former long-time Houstonian, and Republican and I can't get on board this train.
I liked their favorite pizza joint near Ikea (Fuzzys).
I did like he and son W as people, because they were likeable, yet I think politically they were treacherous, cut from the same Establishment cloth.
I think of Skull n Bones, Middle East Wars, and dirty CIA shenanigans going back to JFK. With W, it was the rotten Patriot Act and the resultant loss of freedoms.
I feel certain HW took those secrets about the Kennedy coup to his grave. What a shame, lack of trust in Government is fragmenting this country.
I missed seeing his funeral train in Old Town Spring, a piece of history. I did manage to see Trumps return Circus Rally in Conroe. Americana!
I liked their favorite pizza joint near Ikea (Fuzzys).
I did like he and son W as people, because they were likeable, yet I think politically they were treacherous, cut from the same Establishment cloth.
I think of Skull n Bones, Middle East Wars, and dirty CIA shenanigans going back to JFK. With W, it was the rotten Patriot Act and the resultant loss of freedoms.
I feel certain HW took those secrets about the Kennedy coup to his grave. What a shame, lack of trust in Government is fragmenting this country.
I missed seeing his funeral train in Old Town Spring, a piece of history. I did manage to see Trumps return Circus Rally in Conroe. Americana!
June 6, 2024
HONORABLE. This is the 1st word that coms to mind when I think of 41. I had the pleasure of seeing him play in person twice and voting for him twice.
41 was simply a class act and treated everyone with respect and dignity.
41 was simply a class act and treated everyone with respect and dignity.
September 1, 2021
Masterpiece. Don't read this if you are looking for dirt on 41 or White House scandal. Read this if you seek to learn the attributes of a great American and how to become a better human being.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
April 13, 2024
What a cretin.
October 21, 2021
A bit fawning but endearing. 41 seems like quite the character. Big hearted, silly, thoughtful and charismatic. He seems like he would have been a great friend to have.
July 11, 2021
A book you have to read
Whatever you’re doing, stop and immediately read this book. You’ll learn about a president who had true grace and positively impacted lives in a way few other public figures have.
If you read this book with dry eyes, you aren’t human. The stories will bring tears to your eyes and it will be tears of joy, not sadness.
We get a chance to get a glance of a President who had grace and class right up till the end.
You’ll love this book and you may find yourself wishing that he had been treated better when he was President.
Whatever you’re doing, stop and immediately read this book. You’ll learn about a president who had true grace and positively impacted lives in a way few other public figures have.
If you read this book with dry eyes, you aren’t human. The stories will bring tears to your eyes and it will be tears of joy, not sadness.
We get a chance to get a glance of a President who had grace and class right up till the end.
You’ll love this book and you may find yourself wishing that he had been treated better when he was President.
July 13, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. GHWB was involved in so much history (before, during and after his presidency) so any history buff would find it interesting. It focuses a lot on his being a retiree and a grandpa so if you have someone like that in your life (or are one) you'll find it interesting. If you agree with his politics (which I do) or if you don't, you'll still enjoy reading about a man of conviction and love of country who truly tried to do what was best. Highly recommend.
November 21, 2021
This was a good book about George Bush during his post presidency from someone who knew him well and admired him greatly. It doesnt claim to be nonbiased, but it still tells an interesting story about a very interesting man.
May 29, 2023
This book literally started with a story about Prince Bandar of Saudi Arabia possibly being assassinated. It was 2012 and no one knew for sure and the rumor mill was running wild. Prince Bandar was a friend of President George H W Bush and Jean Becker was tasked with informing the former president that his close friend may no longer be among the living. During the course of that conversation and her efforts to explain that the CIA were looking into the situation but as of yet they had no confirmation, the President says to her, "Did you think about calling him?" And just like that, within minutes the former leader of the free world was on the phone with a dead guy. The two friends had a wonderful little chat during which the President whispered to Jean that the Prince was indeed still on this side of eternity. A short time later, an officer from the CIA called to inform them that they felt the rumors were true and the prince was dead, to which Becker replied that he was actually alive and they knew this for a fact because President Bush had picked up his cell and called him earlier. After a momentary pause the officer said, "We have got to get that man back on the payroll." It was then that Jean Becker said she knew she had to write a book... and I knew I was definitely going to read it!
This was a genuinely enjoyable collection of stories from the life of George H W Bush post presidency, written by his post presidency chief of staff, Jean Becker. I laughed A LOT throughout the book. The former president had a great sense of humor and loved a good joke. I also enjoyed the "inside look" at the things that happen among dignitaries and heads of state including Bush's interactions with past and present presidents and how everything looks so well put together on the outside but only because a handful of staffers nearly killed themselves trying to get everything done and done right and on time all because they love their country, and their bosses, and want America to look good to the rest of America as well as the world. The stories of Bush and Clinton both in their post presidency life traveling the world together giving speeches and fundraising and the staff trying to make all their oddball requests come together is endearing. When they described all that went in to arranging for the newly commissioned Aircraft carrier bearing his name to do a "sail by" surprise made me smile and when sitting president Obama accidentally received and accepted an invitation to join them at an event that the former president hadn't actually extended an invitation too I genuinely laughed out loud. As a bonus we got a few Barbara Bush stories as well including the one where during a baseball game she set next to Evander Holyfield, made small talk, had no idea who he actually was despite having been introduced, and politely asked him, "Now what do you do for a living?"
My favorite part was the stories surrounding the family particularly their regular summer visits to Maine. Everybody and their brothers sisters cousins nephews dog was welcomed in to their home and around their dinner table. Each evening the president would start the meal by asking everyone to go around and introduce themselves since his grandchildren regularly brought in friends that he hadn't actually been introduced too but was apparently feeding. One night a young girl introduced herself and said that her best friend was a mutual friend of one of the Bush's granddaughters and that she and her best friend had been invited to spend the day with the grandkid. She then explained that the Bush's granddaughter had gone to spend the night with her best friend and that both had already left for the evening but that her Mom hadn't arrived yet to pick her up and take her home so thank you for dinner. Another night the Bush's were awakened to find some random little kid they didn't know in their bedroom sitting on their sofa watching tv. It turned out he was a friend of one of their grandsons and that he didn't want to watch whatever the grandson was watching in the other room but that he remembered there was a tv in their room and had come in there to watch it. I laughed a lot during that chapter.
I laughed a lot all through this book, it was one of the most humorous biographies I've ever read. There were also many moments when I choked up and/or tears ran down my face. In the final chapter when she shares his multi day funeral procession, I cried over Sully the dog. I cried when she described Bob Dole insisting on getting up out of his wheelchair to salute the casket. I cried when she described the cowboys on horseback lined up alongside the train tracks with their hats over their hearts paying their respects as the funeral train went along from Houston to College Station.
I learned more about President Bush from this book than any other and I loved every moment of it.
This was a genuinely enjoyable collection of stories from the life of George H W Bush post presidency, written by his post presidency chief of staff, Jean Becker. I laughed A LOT throughout the book. The former president had a great sense of humor and loved a good joke. I also enjoyed the "inside look" at the things that happen among dignitaries and heads of state including Bush's interactions with past and present presidents and how everything looks so well put together on the outside but only because a handful of staffers nearly killed themselves trying to get everything done and done right and on time all because they love their country, and their bosses, and want America to look good to the rest of America as well as the world. The stories of Bush and Clinton both in their post presidency life traveling the world together giving speeches and fundraising and the staff trying to make all their oddball requests come together is endearing. When they described all that went in to arranging for the newly commissioned Aircraft carrier bearing his name to do a "sail by" surprise made me smile and when sitting president Obama accidentally received and accepted an invitation to join them at an event that the former president hadn't actually extended an invitation too I genuinely laughed out loud. As a bonus we got a few Barbara Bush stories as well including the one where during a baseball game she set next to Evander Holyfield, made small talk, had no idea who he actually was despite having been introduced, and politely asked him, "Now what do you do for a living?"
My favorite part was the stories surrounding the family particularly their regular summer visits to Maine. Everybody and their brothers sisters cousins nephews dog was welcomed in to their home and around their dinner table. Each evening the president would start the meal by asking everyone to go around and introduce themselves since his grandchildren regularly brought in friends that he hadn't actually been introduced too but was apparently feeding. One night a young girl introduced herself and said that her best friend was a mutual friend of one of the Bush's granddaughters and that she and her best friend had been invited to spend the day with the grandkid. She then explained that the Bush's granddaughter had gone to spend the night with her best friend and that both had already left for the evening but that her Mom hadn't arrived yet to pick her up and take her home so thank you for dinner. Another night the Bush's were awakened to find some random little kid they didn't know in their bedroom sitting on their sofa watching tv. It turned out he was a friend of one of their grandsons and that he didn't want to watch whatever the grandson was watching in the other room but that he remembered there was a tv in their room and had come in there to watch it. I laughed a lot during that chapter.
I laughed a lot all through this book, it was one of the most humorous biographies I've ever read. There were also many moments when I choked up and/or tears ran down my face. In the final chapter when she shares his multi day funeral procession, I cried over Sully the dog. I cried when she described Bob Dole insisting on getting up out of his wheelchair to salute the casket. I cried when she described the cowboys on horseback lined up alongside the train tracks with their hats over their hearts paying their respects as the funeral train went along from Houston to College Station.
I learned more about President Bush from this book than any other and I loved every moment of it.
June 17, 2021
The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush’s Post-Presidency by Jean Becker is the author’s memoir about the decades she spent working for the 41st President. Ms. Becker served as Barbara Bush’s Chief of Staff, and was hired to be George Bush’s Chief of Staff during his post-presidency years.
This book is a fascinating look into person that is George H.W. Bush, what made him tick, as well as his personality. The presidency of Bush 41 has been reevaluated since the day he left office, which shows us how, from a distance, without a doubt we can see things that we didn’t at the moment.
The best thing about The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush’s Post-Presidency by Jean Becker is that I felt like I’ve known Mr. Bush better, above all through her personal anecdotes and observations. Ms. Becker love and reverence for Mr. and Mrs. Bush, and indeed for the whole Bush clan, is obvious on every page.
It is always fascinating to read about the behind-the-scenes stories but people who were there. Whether it’s the from the staff, Secret Service agents, or the now famous Presidents Club. The author who accompanied the Bush family for decades, until their death has collected many anecdotes worthy of the family and how they would want to be remembered.
From my reading on recent American history and current events, I have yet to read a bad word on George H.W. Bush. It says a lot about a person when one of his best friends came to be the person who handed him a defeat for his second presidential term.
Every story in this book shines a light on the person that we all only knew from media coverage. I especially enjoyed the story where Mr. Bush was going to dedicated a new emergency room in Cameron, La (that was devastated by Hurricane Rita) and wanted the star of the TV show ER, George Clooney, to tag along. Only that Mr. Clooney has left the show 7 years earlier, but the Bushes didn’t know because they were watching reruns.
Mr. Clooney did show up, and the two Georges were a hit.
Both Mr. and Mrs. Bush have always impressed me with being wonderful people, this book cemented this impression. The couple dedicated their post-presidency career to family and charity, going out of their way and convenience for both with style, grace, and a wonderful sense of humor.
This book is a fascinating look into person that is George H.W. Bush, what made him tick, as well as his personality. The presidency of Bush 41 has been reevaluated since the day he left office, which shows us how, from a distance, without a doubt we can see things that we didn’t at the moment.
The best thing about The Man I Knew: The Amazing Story of George H. W. Bush’s Post-Presidency by Jean Becker is that I felt like I’ve known Mr. Bush better, above all through her personal anecdotes and observations. Ms. Becker love and reverence for Mr. and Mrs. Bush, and indeed for the whole Bush clan, is obvious on every page.
It is always fascinating to read about the behind-the-scenes stories but people who were there. Whether it’s the from the staff, Secret Service agents, or the now famous Presidents Club. The author who accompanied the Bush family for decades, until their death has collected many anecdotes worthy of the family and how they would want to be remembered.
From my reading on recent American history and current events, I have yet to read a bad word on George H.W. Bush. It says a lot about a person when one of his best friends came to be the person who handed him a defeat for his second presidential term.
Every story in this book shines a light on the person that we all only knew from media coverage. I especially enjoyed the story where Mr. Bush was going to dedicated a new emergency room in Cameron, La (that was devastated by Hurricane Rita) and wanted the star of the TV show ER, George Clooney, to tag along. Only that Mr. Clooney has left the show 7 years earlier, but the Bushes didn’t know because they were watching reruns.
Mr. Clooney did show up, and the two Georges were a hit.
Both Mr. and Mrs. Bush have always impressed me with being wonderful people, this book cemented this impression. The couple dedicated their post-presidency career to family and charity, going out of their way and convenience for both with style, grace, and a wonderful sense of humor.
June 28, 2021
Jean Becker has written a wonderful memoir about her twenty-five years as President George H.W. Bush’s (Bush 41’s) post-presidential chief of staff.
Upfront, it’s important to note what this book is not. It’s not a book about American politics or even President Bush’s (or any of the Bush’s) political beliefs. It doesn’t delve all that deeply into the Bush 41 presidency, only just enough to give the reader background and context concerning the particular anecdote Becker is relating. Nor is it a gossip-laden tell-all or an expose revealing any deep, dark secret.
It is, simply, a recounting of the times Ms. Becker spent with the President and Mrs. Bush told in chapters each devoted to an important aspect of President Bush’s character or a central theme of his life (e.g., family, friendship, caring for and serving others, personal modesty, sense of humor, etc.) What emerges is the portrait of a man just about everyone might wish they had known and even had as a friend--a man of deeply held convictions who wanted to do right, and who did do right, by his family, his friends (and even his adversaries), his community, and his country.
And the book is very well-written. Portions of it are laugh-out-loud funny. Other passages may evoke tears. And other parts may leave readers believing that there’s more they could be doing to make life better for others. Ms. Becker is that good a writer. Kudos to her for a five-star work of memoir and biography.
Upfront, it’s important to note what this book is not. It’s not a book about American politics or even President Bush’s (or any of the Bush’s) political beliefs. It doesn’t delve all that deeply into the Bush 41 presidency, only just enough to give the reader background and context concerning the particular anecdote Becker is relating. Nor is it a gossip-laden tell-all or an expose revealing any deep, dark secret.
It is, simply, a recounting of the times Ms. Becker spent with the President and Mrs. Bush told in chapters each devoted to an important aspect of President Bush’s character or a central theme of his life (e.g., family, friendship, caring for and serving others, personal modesty, sense of humor, etc.) What emerges is the portrait of a man just about everyone might wish they had known and even had as a friend--a man of deeply held convictions who wanted to do right, and who did do right, by his family, his friends (and even his adversaries), his community, and his country.
And the book is very well-written. Portions of it are laugh-out-loud funny. Other passages may evoke tears. And other parts may leave readers believing that there’s more they could be doing to make life better for others. Ms. Becker is that good a writer. Kudos to her for a five-star work of memoir and biography.
June 21, 2021
A very entertaining and attention grabbing remembrance/memoir of working for the former President by his chief of staff. Trite to say but in all honesty I couldn't put it down, and that proves that his very personal book appeals to those of all political stripes. We find out that the former President cared for his staff, was open to gay men and women in his circle, and was supportive of his fellow Presidents despite their politics or political affiliation. We knew of the unlikely friendship and love between he an Bill Clinton. This books also shows the touching relationship between Bush and Obama. There is humor-the fart file-and honesty beyond what we thought we knew; Barbara Bush was not impressed by a mourning Nancy Reagan at her husband's bier in the Rotunda. That small detail aside, WHY CAN'T POLITICIANS TODAY SHOW THE RESPECT ABOVE POLITICS AND PARTY WE SEE BUSH DISPLAY. Geraldine Ferraro was another Bush rival turned friend. This book entertains, but makes us wonder why politics can't exist above pettiness. I must say copies should be delivered to current Capital Hill leadership, with Republican "leadership" given priority.
June 27, 2021
This was an exceptional book about George H W Bush. I am glad the author was part of his inner circle of friends and comrades, she obviously cared a lot about George and Barbara. This book was less about the politics and focused more on Bush Sr's life before and especially after his one term as the 41st President. I love learning about his friendships with other former Presidents like Obama and Clinton and their goals as private citizens to still help the country. I liked that his friendships did not matter about politics. I also enjoyed leaning more about his family life and how he grew up.
I really loved and enjoyed this book and am getting this in hardcover, since it has already been published. Highly recommended as a presidential biography.
Thanks to Netgalley, Jean Becker and Twelve Books for giving me an ARC after this book has already been published in exchange for an honest review. Recommended this to everyone I know who enjoys positive nonfiction.
Already available: 6/1/21
I really loved and enjoyed this book and am getting this in hardcover, since it has already been published. Highly recommended as a presidential biography.
Thanks to Netgalley, Jean Becker and Twelve Books for giving me an ARC after this book has already been published in exchange for an honest review. Recommended this to everyone I know who enjoys positive nonfiction.
Already available: 6/1/21
August 18, 2021
In The Man I Knew, Jean Becker, who was President George H. W. Bush’s Cheif of Staff for 26 years, focuses on his post-Presidential years. I enjoyed hearing her tell stories that told of his sense of humor, his concern and love for others, whether he knew them personally or not, his commitment to raising money for cancer research, his unlikely friendship with former President Bill Clinton, the list could go on…
Among my favorites were the stories of his love for and relationship with his wife of 73 years, Barbara Pierce Bush. They remind me so much of my grandparents, who were married for almost 63 years.
I admire President Bush 41 for his love of God, family, and country. This book made me laugh and it made me cry, especially the last chapter, The Long Journey Home.
Read this, listen to this, either way, enjoy the story of a kind, funny, loving and courageous man (he was shot out of the sky in WWII, and he jumped from airplanes at 80 & 90 years old) who truly lived to serve others.
Among my favorites were the stories of his love for and relationship with his wife of 73 years, Barbara Pierce Bush. They remind me so much of my grandparents, who were married for almost 63 years.
I admire President Bush 41 for his love of God, family, and country. This book made me laugh and it made me cry, especially the last chapter, The Long Journey Home.
Read this, listen to this, either way, enjoy the story of a kind, funny, loving and courageous man (he was shot out of the sky in WWII, and he jumped from airplanes at 80 & 90 years old) who truly lived to serve others.
November 23, 2021
A mostly detailed portrayal of Bush 41, but a lot was not discussed, and one wonders why? Sometimes what was NOT said can be very revealing in and of itself.
I was left with an idealized picture of George Bush as a great man, a great president, a great husband, a great father, a great soldier, a great everything. Now I'm not being cynical, but I know Jean Becker was his personal assistant for about 30 years, and I know she loved the guy as a good friend of 30 years would. So, yes, she is somewhat "prejudiced".
Still, it revealed a lot to me that I didn't know, and a lot that I had forgot, since I lived though most of this man's life.
As is my custom, I am absorbing myself in reading as many other books as I can, in order to get a more accurate description. I am watching interviews on YouTube, and watched his funeral again. I had forgot SO much of the funeral, because it came right after my own brother died of cancer. My mind was elsewhere.
An interesting book, and I'm not sorry I listened to it. I will listen to more!
I was left with an idealized picture of George Bush as a great man, a great president, a great husband, a great father, a great soldier, a great everything. Now I'm not being cynical, but I know Jean Becker was his personal assistant for about 30 years, and I know she loved the guy as a good friend of 30 years would. So, yes, she is somewhat "prejudiced".
Still, it revealed a lot to me that I didn't know, and a lot that I had forgot, since I lived though most of this man's life.
As is my custom, I am absorbing myself in reading as many other books as I can, in order to get a more accurate description. I am watching interviews on YouTube, and watched his funeral again. I had forgot SO much of the funeral, because it came right after my own brother died of cancer. My mind was elsewhere.
An interesting book, and I'm not sorry I listened to it. I will listen to more!
May 26, 2021
This book is a must read for any fan of HW. I received an ARC of this book and 5 pages in placed a preorder for the book to share with family and friends. I wouldn’t recommend it if you’re looking for a tell all exposing the former President, or if you have a preconceived disdain for him.
Jean Becker states at the beginning that this book is not a tell all, but instead is essentially her love letter to the incredible life she witnessed spending so much time with the Bush family. She did not disappoint at all.
Becker shared the soft and loving side of HW through personal stories, a number of beautiful letters to his family and friends, and the eulogies shared at his funeral service.
This book took me longer than expected to read, but it was because I savored every moment. I can’t recommend this book enough.
Becker also is an eloquent writer and the flow of the book kept me hooked.
Jean Becker states at the beginning that this book is not a tell all, but instead is essentially her love letter to the incredible life she witnessed spending so much time with the Bush family. She did not disappoint at all.
Becker shared the soft and loving side of HW through personal stories, a number of beautiful letters to his family and friends, and the eulogies shared at his funeral service.
This book took me longer than expected to read, but it was because I savored every moment. I can’t recommend this book enough.
Becker also is an eloquent writer and the flow of the book kept me hooked.
July 20, 2021
When I saw George W. Bush’s post praising Jean Becker’s new book on his dad, I picked it up — and I’m so glad I did. As Bush 41’s chief of staff from 1994 until his death in 2018, Becker knew the former president and first lady better than anyone outside of the Bush family. The broad strokes of Bush’s retirement years — including an unlikely friendship with the political rival that deprived him a second term, and being the second president to father another one — are well-known. Becker’s book is filled with tiny moments and priceless anecdotes that further illuminate Bush 41’s incredible character. It’s an essential supplement for readers of Jon Meacham’s outstanding biography, “Destiny and Power,” and Bush 43’s own book on his dad … though it is rewarding and uplifting on its own merit. If you want to know just how much one person can impact thousands (maybe millions) of people, check out this touching and often funny book.
January 27, 2023
I heard of this biography while listening to a law podcast, where the author discussed the book.
I was too young to know anything meaningful about George Bush Sr. when he was President. I was much more politically aware during the Bush Jr. presidency, and I was no fan. But I was impressed in the 2010’s at how Bush jr. softened and matured in his post presidency. It is a low bar for sure (especially now in the 2020’s), it obviously doesn’t correct their pasts but it will certainly improve their legacies.
For the most part this is a light book, it doesn’t go into the historical record or political theory; the author had no interest in discussing that side of George HW Bush’s life. I had really high expectations; I thought the podcast discussion was excellent. The writing unfortunately was the same level. But overall this was still a good book and Jean Becker was clearly the right person to tell the story.
I was too young to know anything meaningful about George Bush Sr. when he was President. I was much more politically aware during the Bush Jr. presidency, and I was no fan. But I was impressed in the 2010’s at how Bush jr. softened and matured in his post presidency. It is a low bar for sure (especially now in the 2020’s), it obviously doesn’t correct their pasts but it will certainly improve their legacies.
For the most part this is a light book, it doesn’t go into the historical record or political theory; the author had no interest in discussing that side of George HW Bush’s life. I had really high expectations; I thought the podcast discussion was excellent. The writing unfortunately was the same level. But overall this was still a good book and Jean Becker was clearly the right person to tell the story.
June 15, 2021
Jean Becker is a gifted writer and amazing storyteller. Over the course of 25+ years as President George H.W. Bush’s chief of staff, Jean grew to be one of the President’s dearest friends and his close confidant. The Man I Knew is simply the best book I’ve read in years. At times laugh-out-loud funny, at other times tearfully tender, but above all, always completely honest and real. Jean weaves hundreds of anecdotes gathered over her lengthy career with the Bush family into a coherent story of a senior American statesman who was loved and respected around the world. As Jean aptly explains, President Bush “41” left a blueprint for how we should all live our lives—with a deep love and respect for our fellow humans and with service to our communities and our world. Don’t be content to just read the rave reviews coming in. Read the book!
August 5, 2021
I don't usually read biographies because most of the time I lose interest in the subject before I finish the book. But after reading a review of the book, I thought it sounded interesting. I'm really glad I did. Jean Becker is a wonderful writer. She was George H. W. Bush's chief of staff for 25 years after he left the White House. This book isn't about politics but a very personal look into President Bush's life after his defeat by Bill Clinton. The 2 ex-presidents became very close after President Clinton left office. I laughed out loud often while reading this book. I also cried many times.
Jean Becker also talks about her own family. Coincidentally, I found out that my brother, an attorney for the state of Missouri, knows Jean's sister and has met her brother, the priest. Small world.
Jean Becker also talks about her own family. Coincidentally, I found out that my brother, an attorney for the state of Missouri, knows Jean's sister and has met her brother, the priest. Small world.
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