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2,000 Miles Together: The Story of the Largest Family to Hike the Appalachian Trail
As his six children slept on the dirty floor of a women’s restroom while a blizzard howled outside, Ben Crawford had one Have I gone too far?
The next morning, Child Protective Services, along with an armed sheriff, arrived to ask the same question.
2,000 Miles Together is the story of the largest family ever to complete a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail, defying skeptics and finding friends in the unlikeliest of places. On the trail, Ben Crawford battled not only the many dangers and obstacles presented by the wilderness—snowstorms, record-breaking heat, Lyme disease, overflowing rivers, toothaches, rattlesnakes, forest fires, and spending the night with a cult—but also his own self-doubt. In an effort to bring his family closer together, was he jeopardizing his future relationship with his kids? When the hike was done, would any of them speak to him again?
The Crawford family’s self-discovery over five months, thousands of miles, and countless gummy bears proves that there’s more than one way to experience life to the fullest. You don’t have to accept the story you’ve been shown. By leaving home, you’ll find more than just adventure--you’ll find a new perspective on the relationships we often take for granted, and open yourself up to a level of connection you never thought possible.
The next morning, Child Protective Services, along with an armed sheriff, arrived to ask the same question.
2,000 Miles Together is the story of the largest family ever to complete a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail, defying skeptics and finding friends in the unlikeliest of places. On the trail, Ben Crawford battled not only the many dangers and obstacles presented by the wilderness—snowstorms, record-breaking heat, Lyme disease, overflowing rivers, toothaches, rattlesnakes, forest fires, and spending the night with a cult—but also his own self-doubt. In an effort to bring his family closer together, was he jeopardizing his future relationship with his kids? When the hike was done, would any of them speak to him again?
The Crawford family’s self-discovery over five months, thousands of miles, and countless gummy bears proves that there’s more than one way to experience life to the fullest. You don’t have to accept the story you’ve been shown. By leaving home, you’ll find more than just adventure--you’ll find a new perspective on the relationships we often take for granted, and open yourself up to a level of connection you never thought possible.
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Published November 6, 2020
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Ben Crawford
5 books21 followersBen Crawford is an entrepreneur, influencer, and best-selling author of 2,000 Miles Together, who, along with his wife, Kami and their six children, set the record in 2018 for the largest family and youngest female (7-year-old Filia Crawford) to thru-hike the Appalachian Trail. His greatest goal is to discover the full potential of the human family, and to empower people to find freedom by questioning the status quo. Ben’s previous book, Unleash Your Family, details the Crawfords’ approach to turning the chaos of quarantine life into structured creativity. On his YouTube channel, Fight For Together, Ben aims to challenge existing perspectives on marriage, family, parenting, and self-awareness--through everything from running ultramarathons with young children, to experimenting with authority by living a year with no rules. The Crawfords live just outside Cincinnati, where they are currently planning their next adventure.
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November 23, 2020
Watch out, I'm about to gush.
Okay, it's November, I have a few more books to read this year, but this book is definitely in the running for the best book I've read this year. In fact, may be one of the best books I've read my entire life. It may be in my top 5. I have to really think about that, but it's up there.
Not only did this satisfy some wanderlust, some armchair travel desires in the midst of a pandemic, it touches on so many other things. There's a lot of vulnerable and honest parenting experiences, worries, struggles, etc. There is the epic story of bodies, how good they are, how they suffer, how they change (even though this isn't the most talked about part of the whole story, it's very impactful). You have stories of geography and weather, stats, facts, figures. There is the story of rules, of law, of rebelling and obeying, and the story of thrift and luxury. The constant underlying story of never-ending struggle physically, mentally, emotionally. I appreciated all of that so much. But what I loved most of all, is the overarching, never escapable story of relationship. Friend, family, stranger, good, bad, awkward, sad, happy, scary, it's all here, and it's all real. And not just from him, but from the whole family.
Ben writes in a way that makes me feel like I'm sitting outside on a deck, curled up with a blanket, and listening to him tell me the story firsthand. I felt like I was there. I felt like he was talking to *me*. Meghan McCracken writes, "Ben committed himself to the craft of writing, learning as much as he could. Every time we got on the phone, he'd have read another book on storytelling; Stephen King, Joseph Campbell." OH HOW IT SHOWS. I don't know Ben, I have never read anything else by him, I've never really talked to him, so I don't know how it would have sounded without this, but gosh, he can tell a story. And I have a feeling, with all the experience, the stretching and growing in relationships, he wrote this book in a way of drawing us in as friends, to have a relationship with the readers. That's probably what I love so much. I can't point to exact parts that show this, but it's just there. This need to be honest and not hold back. In a way that says he's not only doing it for him, but for us too. I don't know how else to describe it, but it feels personal and I cherish that effort.
Also he quotes Donald Miller a few times, and those books are some of my all time favorites. So, win/win.
This is the longest review I have ever written for a book. And it's all positive. That's gotta mean something.
*I do have one negative thing to say about the physical book, and that is, the pages kept falling out. I blame whoever bound this book. Like, there wasn't enough glue or whatever (you can see in the photos). But in no way does that have any bearing on my rating or feelings about this whole endeavor. Like, if I went back in time, knowing this, I'd buy it all over again. I'm really glad to have my own copy. Wish I could have afforded the signed version (I've rarely ever considered paying extra for that from an author, but gosh when that was offered, I thought long and hard about getting a copy that was signed by all the family), but that's okay. I got mine and it's treasured.
Okay, it's November, I have a few more books to read this year, but this book is definitely in the running for the best book I've read this year. In fact, may be one of the best books I've read my entire life. It may be in my top 5. I have to really think about that, but it's up there.
Not only did this satisfy some wanderlust, some armchair travel desires in the midst of a pandemic, it touches on so many other things. There's a lot of vulnerable and honest parenting experiences, worries, struggles, etc. There is the epic story of bodies, how good they are, how they suffer, how they change (even though this isn't the most talked about part of the whole story, it's very impactful). You have stories of geography and weather, stats, facts, figures. There is the story of rules, of law, of rebelling and obeying, and the story of thrift and luxury. The constant underlying story of never-ending struggle physically, mentally, emotionally. I appreciated all of that so much. But what I loved most of all, is the overarching, never escapable story of relationship. Friend, family, stranger, good, bad, awkward, sad, happy, scary, it's all here, and it's all real. And not just from him, but from the whole family.
Ben writes in a way that makes me feel like I'm sitting outside on a deck, curled up with a blanket, and listening to him tell me the story firsthand. I felt like I was there. I felt like he was talking to *me*. Meghan McCracken writes, "Ben committed himself to the craft of writing, learning as much as he could. Every time we got on the phone, he'd have read another book on storytelling; Stephen King, Joseph Campbell." OH HOW IT SHOWS. I don't know Ben, I have never read anything else by him, I've never really talked to him, so I don't know how it would have sounded without this, but gosh, he can tell a story. And I have a feeling, with all the experience, the stretching and growing in relationships, he wrote this book in a way of drawing us in as friends, to have a relationship with the readers. That's probably what I love so much. I can't point to exact parts that show this, but it's just there. This need to be honest and not hold back. In a way that says he's not only doing it for him, but for us too. I don't know how else to describe it, but it feels personal and I cherish that effort.
Also he quotes Donald Miller a few times, and those books are some of my all time favorites. So, win/win.
This is the longest review I have ever written for a book. And it's all positive. That's gotta mean something.
*I do have one negative thing to say about the physical book, and that is, the pages kept falling out. I blame whoever bound this book. Like, there wasn't enough glue or whatever (you can see in the photos). But in no way does that have any bearing on my rating or feelings about this whole endeavor. Like, if I went back in time, knowing this, I'd buy it all over again. I'm really glad to have my own copy. Wish I could have afforded the signed version (I've rarely ever considered paying extra for that from an author, but gosh when that was offered, I thought long and hard about getting a copy that was signed by all the family), but that's okay. I got mine and it's treasured.
December 13, 2020
I found this family through their Appalachian Trail documentary video on YouTube. Ever since then I thought it was so interesting how a family this large could hike the trail. Even though I knew many of the things that happened along the way, I didn't feel like it spoiled the book. This isn't just a hiking journal either. While the main focus of the book is their AT hike, there's so many other great elements; resilience, comradery and friendship, family and parenting. I was surprised to see that Ben included quite a few of the negative comment they received online. The book is well balanced and doesn't feel like a total downer or a complete happy ending either. There are many parts of the story included that were the lowest points of their hike. I also really enjoyed reading the journal entries and quotes from the kids. This makes it feel like they are all telling the story. Overall a great read.
November 28, 2020
Loved this book. Got me hooked from the start. Definitely makes you think of life in a different way and challenges the "normalcy" in your day to day life. It puts things into perspective and shows what questions you're asking wrong when considering adventure and what questions you should/could be asking instead.
Definitely recommend!
Definitely recommend!
December 9, 2020
First, I want to say that I really loved this family's documentary and that's where I first heard of the Crawford family. I'll tell you what happened.
I always have been curious about the Appalachian Trail. And I always have liked Youtube videos about it. Back when very few vlogged their videos but just shared their slideshows on Youtube was when I first started dreaming about the possibility of a real thru hike. Then, I got married and we had one, then another, then a third child. The idea fell to the wayside.
One night I was having a few drinks and was feeling bold and toasty and told my wife that we could just do the trail AS A FAMILY! She bursted out laughing until tears literally squirted out of her eyes. So in a state of equal parts butthurt and eagerness to prove her wrong I spoke into our voice remote "Family Hikes the Appalachian Trail." And the documentary "To the Treeline" came up, which is their hour long Youtube video of their thru hike with six children in tow. We both were speechless and just blinked silently for a few moments. So at the same time we both said "Wanna watch it right now?" And we sat down and played it right there.
Some people might idolize their family and some people are jealous and some people absolutely hate them and write about it online. But we were just stunned and admired what they did. No one is perfect, and they are not perfect either. We watched as they suffered and laughed and cried and enjoyed this huge journey together on the sacred Appalachian Trail and completed a real thru hike! Wow.... Love them or hate them or don't care about them at all; this accomplishment demands respect.
I ended up going back and watching all of their vlog videos from the trail. I figured that there just had to be some hidden misery and super sweet moments hidden in between these clips. Well, I was right. I don't keep up with their channel and Facebook page religiously because I don't agree with them on everything. But that's ok. This is a big world and a lot of people share it. What's important to me is that people are just kind to each other and live their lives the way they want to live them, and you have to respect this family for marching to their own tune and doing something as epic and cool as thru hiking the Appalachian Trail together.
So through their channel and page I saw they planned to do a book and waited. I was able to buy a signed copy from their personal webstore. I read the entire book via the electronic copy before receiving the actual book this week. I loved this book.
A few moments and parts I really loved:
In the beginning, the author was brutally honest about the suffering at the beginning of the trail. There was no hero talk or illusion here in the first chapters about giving up modern conveniences and what would later be seen as luxuries. I have to respect the honesty here.
On page 69, where the father Ben apologizes to Rainier for flicking him in the lip after he was crying and going nuts was one of the most moving few sentences I've ever read. More honesty here too, and agonizing as decent folks do about mistakes like this. If you could believe it, I at that moment remembered a very similar moment where my own 3 year old son was crying hysterically and I swatted him in the mouth. It was terrible and I always remembered it. Well, I myself got down right then and looked him in the eyes and I apologized. He remembered too.... We had a moment. That part meant a lot to me. While Ben Crawford doesn't seem like a perfect human (no one is), those kids are lucky to have a good dad like him. Lots of kids have dads that couldn't care less about their own kid's feelings like this and this page showed me that little Rainier's dad really loved him. I loved that page, page 69.
The hate comments even this early in the book made me very angry. Not necessary. These are 2 adults and 6 kids thru hiking the AT. Have some mercy and celebrate them instead of going out of your way to be nasty.
Around page 79, they had an experience where complete strangers showed them true kindness at a shelter in the Smoky Mountains. I was very moved by this interaction and it boosted my faith in humanity just a little bit.
Around page 100, some more hateful comments were discovered by their family on a reddit thread. Yikes! How can people be like that? And why?
They mentioned a trail they did that was a 95 mile loop that they did as a family. This inspired me to find a similar trail in my home state and we are already planning a 30 mile section hike in Spring 2021.
Halfway through the Smokies, the internet hate machine caught up with them. In these pages, they had some real self reflection and I felt they showed some real humility here and shared it with the reader. They weren't trying to be superior to anyone, and I respected them for what was written and shared in this section of the book.
Page 106 "Through the brightly lit phone screen, we saw an online world filled with passion and anger and so many opinions—but the second we turned off the screen, all we could see was a dirt path winding its way between trees and rocks. The people we met on the trail cared about us deeply. There was such a stark contrast between the online world and the trail—our real world.” Loved this quote from the book.
After this, someone called CPS on them and they actually showed up. The explanation in the book of how they felt, their fears, their worries, the what ifs was so raw and real and honestly shared that I felt like I was right there with them, in their shoes. I have 3 kids of my own and the thought that someone would report me or my wife for taking them on a long camping and hiking trip infuriated me. I was pissed on their behalf.
At Hot Springs when someone paid part of their bill at a tavern, I thought this was a nice gesture especially after their experience with CPS.
Loved the journal entries from their kids!
Impressive that their teenage son Seven edited the videos on trail! Wow...
When they stayed with a couple who found them by the birth video on their channel, I loved the very truthful and honest statement from their daughter Eden about the CPS incident, who basically said that they were very honest with their parents and not afraid to express themselves. Lots of maturity in these kids.
They stopped to run a marathon. I remember this from the documentary, but it was cool to read more details about this break in their thru hike.
At this part of the book, they give some background of their time living at the poverty line. These aren't rich snobs. They're real people that love their children and each other. This really shined here.
Interesting tale about how their dream to thru hike the AT was born. I won't spoil it but it was cool.
Around this part of the book, they encounter a nice Christian couple who offers prayers and blessings to their family. There are a few critical, vague "religion" comments throughout the book that rubbed me the wrong way, but I appreciated how they accepted the kindness, the prayers and the blessings from this couple.
I loved their interaction with "Gnome," a kind older Jewish man they met on trail that had tears in his eyes as he greeted and spoke with them. I remembered him from their videos, but it was so sweet to read more about this in the book.
Interesting hearing about the Degenerates and Silver and some others. Such interesting tales of camaraderie amongst such motley band of uniquely diverse individuals all drawn together by the Appalachian Trail.
Loved to see how they grew so much as people during this long adventure.
I laughed at some of the comments they shared about "yellow blazing." There was a forest fire, people!
I was moved at the part where their oldest daughter accepted the challenge to carry little Rainier. Reading about how this made her father feel and how everyone banded together for the young boy was awesome to read about.
Felt bad for the hate they took about their little girl having a toothache. I have 3 kids and trust me: They get toothaches. They get cuts. They fall down. These things happen.
Loved the little story about the crazy driving mennonite lady. You'll have this to look forward to when you buy this book.
Loved when they finally met in person the tatted up, dreadlocked park ranger that dismissed their fears about CPS trying to make a case against them.
Interesting stay with the cult.
Loved some of their 15 year old daughter's colorful language in some of her journal entries. Very amusing.
Very sweet moments on Father's day on the trail. Really loved that part.
Loved their first meeting with "Fresh Ground."
Loved reading about Carl the "Omelette Guy," who used his social security money to give trail magic for hikers. This book is full of stories about kind souls like this and you will be encouraged by just how many are out there doing this with their own time and money.
Page 295, I smiled when the Degenerates gave daughter Memory a special gift. Nice moment.
Loved reading about how dangerous Mt. Moosilauke was. Got me very curious about it. Loved this part of the book.
Some great parts of the book when they were going through the White mountains. Their fears, anxieties, etc. Very honest and well written.
There was a powerfully explained interaction between their teenage son Seven and the father later in the book, where the son fell. The self reflection and agonizing over their relationship, and honesty about mistakes made by the father was a very special part of the book. In this section, they said that the first several manuscripts didn't include this, but they decided they should. This part was one of the very best and really let the reader peak into the soul of Ben, the father. An excellent part of the book.
I loved how they as a family decided about what to do about Baxter state park and the summit of Katahdin. I won't spoil it, but it will make you appreciate their relationship and respect for each other. I loved how they handled it as a family. You can see during this part of the book that they truly do "fight for together."
Loved the super thoughtful but simple gift that Culligan of the Degenerates gave to Ben.
Loved the really thoughtful gift that Fresh Ground gave their daughter post trail.
Ending thoughts about this book:
Be careful with your criticism online. In this case, I really felt that all of the hateful comments shared in this book shouldn't have been included. And I don't mean this by saying the writer made a mistake. I say this because the sheer consistence and hostility that this nice family endured throughout their entire thru hike should. not. have. taken. PLACE. I couldn't believe how foul and personal some of these people were towards this family of 8 people. So be careful with your words. 6 children hiking with their parents, giving up modern conveniences like this is something that should be encouraged and celebrated. Not hated.
Their son Seven, is a very strong young man. During that experience near the end when he fell, I felt for him. And Seven, if you stumble upon this, I want you to know that you should be really proud of yourself. And be thankful for your family. I grew up with a stepdad that was heavyhanded and trust me when I say not a lot of dads out there are so sensitive and care as much about how their sons are feeling and just about their sons in general like your dad does. Go read how he poured his heart out about you. The fact that you stayed on trail, and edited all of those videos like that is a feat of amazing proportions for a teenager who was walking and hiking all day long for months. You had the option to give up and stayed the course. You will always have that to carry with you fo the rest of your life. Bravo, young man. I hope I can raise my own son to be as strong as you. God bless you.
This is a great book about how this family thru hiked this trail, about all the undeserved and unnecessary hate they received from random people online and how they grew as a family. I knew I would truly enjoy this book and was blown away by just how much I liked it. I loved all the stories about generous and kind hearted individuals. I loved the obstacles they overcame as a family, both physical and in their relationships with each other. But most of all, I loved how this book really showcased that they really are a family that fights for together.
Go buy this book. You won't regret it.
I always have been curious about the Appalachian Trail. And I always have liked Youtube videos about it. Back when very few vlogged their videos but just shared their slideshows on Youtube was when I first started dreaming about the possibility of a real thru hike. Then, I got married and we had one, then another, then a third child. The idea fell to the wayside.
One night I was having a few drinks and was feeling bold and toasty and told my wife that we could just do the trail AS A FAMILY! She bursted out laughing until tears literally squirted out of her eyes. So in a state of equal parts butthurt and eagerness to prove her wrong I spoke into our voice remote "Family Hikes the Appalachian Trail." And the documentary "To the Treeline" came up, which is their hour long Youtube video of their thru hike with six children in tow. We both were speechless and just blinked silently for a few moments. So at the same time we both said "Wanna watch it right now?" And we sat down and played it right there.
Some people might idolize their family and some people are jealous and some people absolutely hate them and write about it online. But we were just stunned and admired what they did. No one is perfect, and they are not perfect either. We watched as they suffered and laughed and cried and enjoyed this huge journey together on the sacred Appalachian Trail and completed a real thru hike! Wow.... Love them or hate them or don't care about them at all; this accomplishment demands respect.
I ended up going back and watching all of their vlog videos from the trail. I figured that there just had to be some hidden misery and super sweet moments hidden in between these clips. Well, I was right. I don't keep up with their channel and Facebook page religiously because I don't agree with them on everything. But that's ok. This is a big world and a lot of people share it. What's important to me is that people are just kind to each other and live their lives the way they want to live them, and you have to respect this family for marching to their own tune and doing something as epic and cool as thru hiking the Appalachian Trail together.
So through their channel and page I saw they planned to do a book and waited. I was able to buy a signed copy from their personal webstore. I read the entire book via the electronic copy before receiving the actual book this week. I loved this book.
A few moments and parts I really loved:
In the beginning, the author was brutally honest about the suffering at the beginning of the trail. There was no hero talk or illusion here in the first chapters about giving up modern conveniences and what would later be seen as luxuries. I have to respect the honesty here.
On page 69, where the father Ben apologizes to Rainier for flicking him in the lip after he was crying and going nuts was one of the most moving few sentences I've ever read. More honesty here too, and agonizing as decent folks do about mistakes like this. If you could believe it, I at that moment remembered a very similar moment where my own 3 year old son was crying hysterically and I swatted him in the mouth. It was terrible and I always remembered it. Well, I myself got down right then and looked him in the eyes and I apologized. He remembered too.... We had a moment. That part meant a lot to me. While Ben Crawford doesn't seem like a perfect human (no one is), those kids are lucky to have a good dad like him. Lots of kids have dads that couldn't care less about their own kid's feelings like this and this page showed me that little Rainier's dad really loved him. I loved that page, page 69.
The hate comments even this early in the book made me very angry. Not necessary. These are 2 adults and 6 kids thru hiking the AT. Have some mercy and celebrate them instead of going out of your way to be nasty.
Around page 79, they had an experience where complete strangers showed them true kindness at a shelter in the Smoky Mountains. I was very moved by this interaction and it boosted my faith in humanity just a little bit.
Around page 100, some more hateful comments were discovered by their family on a reddit thread. Yikes! How can people be like that? And why?
They mentioned a trail they did that was a 95 mile loop that they did as a family. This inspired me to find a similar trail in my home state and we are already planning a 30 mile section hike in Spring 2021.
Halfway through the Smokies, the internet hate machine caught up with them. In these pages, they had some real self reflection and I felt they showed some real humility here and shared it with the reader. They weren't trying to be superior to anyone, and I respected them for what was written and shared in this section of the book.
Page 106 "Through the brightly lit phone screen, we saw an online world filled with passion and anger and so many opinions—but the second we turned off the screen, all we could see was a dirt path winding its way between trees and rocks. The people we met on the trail cared about us deeply. There was such a stark contrast between the online world and the trail—our real world.” Loved this quote from the book.
After this, someone called CPS on them and they actually showed up. The explanation in the book of how they felt, their fears, their worries, the what ifs was so raw and real and honestly shared that I felt like I was right there with them, in their shoes. I have 3 kids of my own and the thought that someone would report me or my wife for taking them on a long camping and hiking trip infuriated me. I was pissed on their behalf.
At Hot Springs when someone paid part of their bill at a tavern, I thought this was a nice gesture especially after their experience with CPS.
Loved the journal entries from their kids!
Impressive that their teenage son Seven edited the videos on trail! Wow...
When they stayed with a couple who found them by the birth video on their channel, I loved the very truthful and honest statement from their daughter Eden about the CPS incident, who basically said that they were very honest with their parents and not afraid to express themselves. Lots of maturity in these kids.
They stopped to run a marathon. I remember this from the documentary, but it was cool to read more details about this break in their thru hike.
At this part of the book, they give some background of their time living at the poverty line. These aren't rich snobs. They're real people that love their children and each other. This really shined here.
Interesting tale about how their dream to thru hike the AT was born. I won't spoil it but it was cool.
Around this part of the book, they encounter a nice Christian couple who offers prayers and blessings to their family. There are a few critical, vague "religion" comments throughout the book that rubbed me the wrong way, but I appreciated how they accepted the kindness, the prayers and the blessings from this couple.
I loved their interaction with "Gnome," a kind older Jewish man they met on trail that had tears in his eyes as he greeted and spoke with them. I remembered him from their videos, but it was so sweet to read more about this in the book.
Interesting hearing about the Degenerates and Silver and some others. Such interesting tales of camaraderie amongst such motley band of uniquely diverse individuals all drawn together by the Appalachian Trail.
Loved to see how they grew so much as people during this long adventure.
I laughed at some of the comments they shared about "yellow blazing." There was a forest fire, people!
I was moved at the part where their oldest daughter accepted the challenge to carry little Rainier. Reading about how this made her father feel and how everyone banded together for the young boy was awesome to read about.
Felt bad for the hate they took about their little girl having a toothache. I have 3 kids and trust me: They get toothaches. They get cuts. They fall down. These things happen.
Loved the little story about the crazy driving mennonite lady. You'll have this to look forward to when you buy this book.
Loved when they finally met in person the tatted up, dreadlocked park ranger that dismissed their fears about CPS trying to make a case against them.
Interesting stay with the cult.
Loved some of their 15 year old daughter's colorful language in some of her journal entries. Very amusing.
Very sweet moments on Father's day on the trail. Really loved that part.
Loved their first meeting with "Fresh Ground."
Loved reading about Carl the "Omelette Guy," who used his social security money to give trail magic for hikers. This book is full of stories about kind souls like this and you will be encouraged by just how many are out there doing this with their own time and money.
Page 295, I smiled when the Degenerates gave daughter Memory a special gift. Nice moment.
Loved reading about how dangerous Mt. Moosilauke was. Got me very curious about it. Loved this part of the book.
Some great parts of the book when they were going through the White mountains. Their fears, anxieties, etc. Very honest and well written.
There was a powerfully explained interaction between their teenage son Seven and the father later in the book, where the son fell. The self reflection and agonizing over their relationship, and honesty about mistakes made by the father was a very special part of the book. In this section, they said that the first several manuscripts didn't include this, but they decided they should. This part was one of the very best and really let the reader peak into the soul of Ben, the father. An excellent part of the book.
I loved how they as a family decided about what to do about Baxter state park and the summit of Katahdin. I won't spoil it, but it will make you appreciate their relationship and respect for each other. I loved how they handled it as a family. You can see during this part of the book that they truly do "fight for together."
Loved the super thoughtful but simple gift that Culligan of the Degenerates gave to Ben.
Loved the really thoughtful gift that Fresh Ground gave their daughter post trail.
Ending thoughts about this book:
Be careful with your criticism online. In this case, I really felt that all of the hateful comments shared in this book shouldn't have been included. And I don't mean this by saying the writer made a mistake. I say this because the sheer consistence and hostility that this nice family endured throughout their entire thru hike should. not. have. taken. PLACE. I couldn't believe how foul and personal some of these people were towards this family of 8 people. So be careful with your words. 6 children hiking with their parents, giving up modern conveniences like this is something that should be encouraged and celebrated. Not hated.
Their son Seven, is a very strong young man. During that experience near the end when he fell, I felt for him. And Seven, if you stumble upon this, I want you to know that you should be really proud of yourself. And be thankful for your family. I grew up with a stepdad that was heavyhanded and trust me when I say not a lot of dads out there are so sensitive and care as much about how their sons are feeling and just about their sons in general like your dad does. Go read how he poured his heart out about you. The fact that you stayed on trail, and edited all of those videos like that is a feat of amazing proportions for a teenager who was walking and hiking all day long for months. You had the option to give up and stayed the course. You will always have that to carry with you fo the rest of your life. Bravo, young man. I hope I can raise my own son to be as strong as you. God bless you.
This is a great book about how this family thru hiked this trail, about all the undeserved and unnecessary hate they received from random people online and how they grew as a family. I knew I would truly enjoy this book and was blown away by just how much I liked it. I loved all the stories about generous and kind hearted individuals. I loved the obstacles they overcame as a family, both physical and in their relationships with each other. But most of all, I loved how this book really showcased that they really are a family that fights for together.
Go buy this book. You won't regret it.
December 1, 2020
It pains me to give this book 3 stars because of my love for this family, however Ben asked for honest reviews. Please don’t let my 3 stars put you off, I definitely recommend picking up this book (if it’s your type of book)!
I first heard of the Crawfords while they were still doing the Appalachian Trail. They were uploading videos on youtube of their journey, and I happened to see it in my recommended and clicked on it. I immediately became invested, and even now I find myself going back to their channel every once in a while to see what they are up to.
I loved watching their A.T. videos, and was very excited to hear they were releasing a book. With this book came a perspective I had always been wanting: the kids. Throughout the book is scanned images of the kids’ journal entries from the trail. I loved this aspect of the book, and honestly would have liked to have seen more, or even the whole book, shared through journal entries. I’m not sure if it’s because I had already followed the story through the videos, but the book seemed very mundane at points, as it was the retelling of their time on the trail.
Also, the book focused a lot on parenting. Ben mentioned towards the beginning that the book originally was just about parenting, but evolved to include more of the retelling of their experiences. As an 18 year old, I skimmed or even skipped over a lot of the book due to the fact that it had very parenting-focused sections, which I was not interested in.
Overall, though, I definitely have a changed perspective on the Crawfords’ family dynamic, and I especially enjoyed hearing about the people they met along the way (especially the cult they found themselves at!).
I first heard of the Crawfords while they were still doing the Appalachian Trail. They were uploading videos on youtube of their journey, and I happened to see it in my recommended and clicked on it. I immediately became invested, and even now I find myself going back to their channel every once in a while to see what they are up to.
I loved watching their A.T. videos, and was very excited to hear they were releasing a book. With this book came a perspective I had always been wanting: the kids. Throughout the book is scanned images of the kids’ journal entries from the trail. I loved this aspect of the book, and honestly would have liked to have seen more, or even the whole book, shared through journal entries. I’m not sure if it’s because I had already followed the story through the videos, but the book seemed very mundane at points, as it was the retelling of their time on the trail.
Also, the book focused a lot on parenting. Ben mentioned towards the beginning that the book originally was just about parenting, but evolved to include more of the retelling of their experiences. As an 18 year old, I skimmed or even skipped over a lot of the book due to the fact that it had very parenting-focused sections, which I was not interested in.
Overall, though, I definitely have a changed perspective on the Crawfords’ family dynamic, and I especially enjoyed hearing about the people they met along the way (especially the cult they found themselves at!).
February 15, 2021
I started watching the Crawford's' YouTube channel back in 2018 when they first started their AT thru hike and I've been a huge fan ever since. It's so cool to have watched them during their hike, through the process of Ben writing the book, and to now have the book in my hands!
I followed their story pretty closely during their hike, and I have a tendency to go back and rewatch their videos and the documentary, so I thought I was pretty familiar with the general story. However, this book offered a completely new perspective of their journey. This book simultaneously tells the chronological story of the family's adventure, while also weaving in major life lessons and insightful thoughts throughout. One of my favorite things about this story is the fact that Ben included even the negative and hateful comments they received on their videos during their hike, and how much that had an impact on them. I also loved to read about the family the Crawfords found on the trail! I thought this book perfectly showed the culture and community of the Appalachian Trail!
This book makes me want to go hike, and like, hug my family. I HIGHLY recommend. :)
Congrats, Ben!
I followed their story pretty closely during their hike, and I have a tendency to go back and rewatch their videos and the documentary, so I thought I was pretty familiar with the general story. However, this book offered a completely new perspective of their journey. This book simultaneously tells the chronological story of the family's adventure, while also weaving in major life lessons and insightful thoughts throughout. One of my favorite things about this story is the fact that Ben included even the negative and hateful comments they received on their videos during their hike, and how much that had an impact on them. I also loved to read about the family the Crawfords found on the trail! I thought this book perfectly showed the culture and community of the Appalachian Trail!
This book makes me want to go hike, and like, hug my family. I HIGHLY recommend. :)
Congrats, Ben!
July 29, 2021
I would love to read a book by dove for Eden Crawford in 10 years. I could not get past the fathers reckless focus on refusing failure at all costs. He may have initially had good intentions in pursuing this goal for sake of relationship, but I think he is delusional if he thinks this endeavor brought his family necessarily closer. There are ways to accomplish the goal he sought to accomplish without being utterly excessive and neglecting factors that could have turned this whole thing tragic. From page 1 he had this inflated self importance and entitlement. I do feel this book has made me think of what specific goals I have for my own family and Waze we can grow closer. I also will hold on to the idea that negative experiences are only building stories, and no one wants to read a boring story. I’m not really a positive thinker, and I think this last lesson can help me take difficult situations and make them humorous.
July 5, 2021
I have probably read close to 100 books about the Appalachian Trail and this is better than most. The problem I have is believing the author. I casually followed the family's hike on social media as it unraveled. I was rooting for them to complete their hike. I don't understand why the parents needed an incentive to motivate the children if they (children) were truly invested in this hike. An AT thru hike should be a vacation not a death march. By imposing the deadline to make it to their bible camp in August they needlessly introduced stress to what should be a joyful and stress reducing experience. One little thing that bothered me and was not adequately addressed is why they subjected their children to drinking unfiltered/untreated water. They can carry a drone and a laptop but they could not carry a water filter?
December 1, 2020
Brave and honest account
I followed the journey on YouTube as it was happening and loved learning more about the experience from this book. What an amazing family and such an adventure!
I followed the journey on YouTube as it was happening and loved learning more about the experience from this book. What an amazing family and such an adventure!
November 26, 2020
Was so hard to write. Took forever.
September 7, 2022
Incredible family! Their lifestyle isn’t for everyone but they don’t mind. Book was engaging and interesting
January 10, 2021
3.5 stars
I have been following this family on YouTube for quite a while now. I'll admit that before I started watching their AT videos back when they were on the AT, I had never even heard of the AT! Now I would really love to hike that trail myself one day (a girl can dream, right?). When I saw that Ben was writing a book about their experience on the AT, I was a little hesitant about whether to buy it or not. I thought I would know most of what would be in the book, because I had followed their journey closely on YouTube.
I ended up being wrong. The book gave a lot of new information and new insights, which was great. I felt like "we" were walking the AT again. Really loved the snippets of the kids' journals. It is amazing to see/read how they grew as people. It's also interesting to read how Ben viewed things and how he learned new things (about himself and the way he handles things) on the trail. I would have loved to read a bit more from Kami's perspective. I missed that a little, but then again, Ben wrote it and he did include Kami's perspective/thoughts/worries/etc. where needed.
It was very cool to read the story and it was very easy to read as well, which is always great.
A few points I liked a bit less in the book:
- while I know that the (hate) comments on the internet played a big role in their journey, I felt like it was a bit of an overkill at times. 2 comments (maybe adding, 'and there were a lot of similar comments', if you wanted to stress how many there were) would've been enough to make clear what was going on on the internet.
- Often, a chapter was ended with 'little did we know that this wasn't the biggest challenge we had to overcome', or something similar. It felt like the end of many chapters were cliffhangers and we didn't really get answers in the next chapters, so I found that a little bit annoying. They didn't have to have a chapter end with a sentence like that to keep me reading. The story itself was interesting enough!
- At one point, it is stated that for 'the average family' hiking the AT wouldn't be a major challenge financially. This came after they summed up what it had cost their family to hike the trail. While I do believe the AT is something many can do if they set their minds to it and save enough money, I don't think you can state that 'the average family wouldn't have too much trouble financially'. The Crawfords got a LOT of free meals, invitations to sleep at people's houses, shoes, etc. This obviously saves a lot of money. While I realize they are still a larger family, so the costs they did have were almost always multiplied by 8, I still think it's a bit ignorant to just say it shouldn't be the biggest challenge financially, knowing how much they indirectly saved, by getting all those offers. I do believe 'the trail provides', but it helps if you're a family of 8 and out on YouTube posting your journey. And not everybody wants that...
- One last thing that isn't completely related to the book, mostly a question that came to mind while reading... Multiple times, Ben wrote that the biggest fear was that their children would leave/hate them because they had pushed them too much and they're hurt the bond with their kids because of that. What came to mind was the house they bought for their oldest kids recently. Is that a way of just teaching children how to renovate and rebuild a house? Or is it also a way to keep them close? To make sure they don't leave? As I can imagine Dove would feel pressure to stay and renovate the house with her siblings, even if leaving the house and moving out would be what she really wanted. Don't know anything here, but it came to mind. I can see why a parent would think they're doing this to teach their kids important things about renovating a house, but if they take a closer look at their thoughts/anxieties, it ends up being a way of keeping them close. Just a thought.
Overall, I really did enjoy reading this book a lot. Thanks!
I have been following this family on YouTube for quite a while now. I'll admit that before I started watching their AT videos back when they were on the AT, I had never even heard of the AT! Now I would really love to hike that trail myself one day (a girl can dream, right?). When I saw that Ben was writing a book about their experience on the AT, I was a little hesitant about whether to buy it or not. I thought I would know most of what would be in the book, because I had followed their journey closely on YouTube.
I ended up being wrong. The book gave a lot of new information and new insights, which was great. I felt like "we" were walking the AT again. Really loved the snippets of the kids' journals. It is amazing to see/read how they grew as people. It's also interesting to read how Ben viewed things and how he learned new things (about himself and the way he handles things) on the trail. I would have loved to read a bit more from Kami's perspective. I missed that a little, but then again, Ben wrote it and he did include Kami's perspective/thoughts/worries/etc. where needed.
It was very cool to read the story and it was very easy to read as well, which is always great.
A few points I liked a bit less in the book:
- while I know that the (hate) comments on the internet played a big role in their journey, I felt like it was a bit of an overkill at times. 2 comments (maybe adding, 'and there were a lot of similar comments', if you wanted to stress how many there were) would've been enough to make clear what was going on on the internet.
- Often, a chapter was ended with 'little did we know that this wasn't the biggest challenge we had to overcome', or something similar. It felt like the end of many chapters were cliffhangers and we didn't really get answers in the next chapters, so I found that a little bit annoying. They didn't have to have a chapter end with a sentence like that to keep me reading. The story itself was interesting enough!
- At one point, it is stated that for 'the average family' hiking the AT wouldn't be a major challenge financially. This came after they summed up what it had cost their family to hike the trail. While I do believe the AT is something many can do if they set their minds to it and save enough money, I don't think you can state that 'the average family wouldn't have too much trouble financially'. The Crawfords got a LOT of free meals, invitations to sleep at people's houses, shoes, etc. This obviously saves a lot of money. While I realize they are still a larger family, so the costs they did have were almost always multiplied by 8, I still think it's a bit ignorant to just say it shouldn't be the biggest challenge financially, knowing how much they indirectly saved, by getting all those offers. I do believe 'the trail provides', but it helps if you're a family of 8 and out on YouTube posting your journey. And not everybody wants that...
- One last thing that isn't completely related to the book, mostly a question that came to mind while reading... Multiple times, Ben wrote that the biggest fear was that their children would leave/hate them because they had pushed them too much and they're hurt the bond with their kids because of that. What came to mind was the house they bought for their oldest kids recently. Is that a way of just teaching children how to renovate and rebuild a house? Or is it also a way to keep them close? To make sure they don't leave? As I can imagine Dove would feel pressure to stay and renovate the house with her siblings, even if leaving the house and moving out would be what she really wanted. Don't know anything here, but it came to mind. I can see why a parent would think they're doing this to teach their kids important things about renovating a house, but if they take a closer look at their thoughts/anxieties, it ends up being a way of keeping them close. Just a thought.
Overall, I really did enjoy reading this book a lot. Thanks!
March 5, 2021
This was actually 3.5 stars for me. I was back and forth really about the stars and then ended up sleeping on it. I loved this book, but it frustrated me so much. And yet, I couldn't put it down. So, there's that.
The book flowed well and followed a timeline, with some minor repetitions (last two being my pet peeves in memoirs). I loved that this was a family experience. I was also raised differently, especially when it comes to traveling and doing work around the house. Nowadays, I hear parents say, oh the kids can't travel, etc. etc. etc. I have often thought kids could handle an experience like this and would adapt appropriately. So, it was good to see my theories validated. I was so into this family and their trail experience. I absolutely loved the way they ended the trail and I almost think it was a better, most unique experience. I also loved that he included the children's journal writings throughout the book so we can hear their thoughts at that time.
My frustration lies with the constant need to address the critics. I started following this family I think right when they finished or early 2019. I didn't know the backlash they got and well, I wouldn't have cared really. So, for me as a reader, I was annoyed with mentioning it almost in every chapter and multiple times. It was addressed in the Introduction and that was fine with me. I felt like maybe the author was trying to deal with his own issues with the negative criticism, like writing it out to make himself feel better. But for me, it dragged down the book and took me out of this great experience. I hated it. I would have probably easily given it 4 stars, maybe 4.5 stars.
My other frustration was Ben, himself in regards to things. I don't care about the snapping at kids, physically and mentally. There's a reason why people do the trail alone, because you can easily lose your shit, especially when hungry. I know I have on smaller trails with my husband. For me, who cares; I didn't need it mentioned all the time. So, then what was it? Well, it was his decisions. He does mention that he made mistakes. But it's frustrating for me as the reader. My husband and I have a family motto, "fewer things better." He started it to focus me when we travel so I don't get bogged down with wanting to do everything in a short amount of time. Reading this book reminds me how my husband (and Kami) feels when I say, "Oh Easter Island is right next to Chile. We can totally do it." However, I'm extremely grateful to have him reel me in and now I have completely accepted the motto. Ben doesn't have that. And instead of taking their time with the trail, they moved the deadline up when it wasn't happening very well and doing the side trips. I get the hike your own trail and some times, you do need breaks. But COME ON! All unnecessary and gave extra unneeded stress to the family. I yelled out many times, "FEWER THINGS BETTER!"
With that, I did really like the book. I got tearful at the end. And if you are ever thinking about going on any thru-hike with kids, this is the book to read. So, I do recommend it. I just shook the book in frustration.
The book flowed well and followed a timeline, with some minor repetitions (last two being my pet peeves in memoirs). I loved that this was a family experience. I was also raised differently, especially when it comes to traveling and doing work around the house. Nowadays, I hear parents say, oh the kids can't travel, etc. etc. etc. I have often thought kids could handle an experience like this and would adapt appropriately. So, it was good to see my theories validated. I was so into this family and their trail experience. I absolutely loved the way they ended the trail and I almost think it was a better, most unique experience. I also loved that he included the children's journal writings throughout the book so we can hear their thoughts at that time.
My frustration lies with the constant need to address the critics. I started following this family I think right when they finished or early 2019. I didn't know the backlash they got and well, I wouldn't have cared really. So, for me as a reader, I was annoyed with mentioning it almost in every chapter and multiple times. It was addressed in the Introduction and that was fine with me. I felt like maybe the author was trying to deal with his own issues with the negative criticism, like writing it out to make himself feel better. But for me, it dragged down the book and took me out of this great experience. I hated it. I would have probably easily given it 4 stars, maybe 4.5 stars.
My other frustration was Ben, himself in regards to things. I don't care about the snapping at kids, physically and mentally. There's a reason why people do the trail alone, because you can easily lose your shit, especially when hungry. I know I have on smaller trails with my husband. For me, who cares; I didn't need it mentioned all the time. So, then what was it? Well, it was his decisions. He does mention that he made mistakes. But it's frustrating for me as the reader. My husband and I have a family motto, "fewer things better." He started it to focus me when we travel so I don't get bogged down with wanting to do everything in a short amount of time. Reading this book reminds me how my husband (and Kami) feels when I say, "Oh Easter Island is right next to Chile. We can totally do it." However, I'm extremely grateful to have him reel me in and now I have completely accepted the motto. Ben doesn't have that. And instead of taking their time with the trail, they moved the deadline up when it wasn't happening very well and doing the side trips. I get the hike your own trail and some times, you do need breaks. But COME ON! All unnecessary and gave extra unneeded stress to the family. I yelled out many times, "FEWER THINGS BETTER!"
With that, I did really like the book. I got tearful at the end. And if you are ever thinking about going on any thru-hike with kids, this is the book to read. So, I do recommend it. I just shook the book in frustration.
December 30, 2020
I'll just start by saying that I have already recommended to most people in my life to read this book. I absolutely love the Crawford's and have been following their journey since finding their videos when they were hiking the Appalachian trail. They challenge me to think in ways that I wouldn't otherwise and although I don't always 100% agree with the things they say, I think their perspective is really valuable and that applies to this book as well. I honestly didn't really think there would be anything in this book that I hadn't already seen in their videos, but that was very untrue. In his book, Ben includes a lot of information about how they made decisions on the trail and includes stories that weren't in the vlogs. It was super interesting and although I read the book over a couple of weeks, I really read it in a few sittings. Definitely would say this is a quick read– in a good way!
I first heard about the Appalachian trail in 4th grade and ever since, I have fantasized about hiking it. My family has always been a hiking bunch and we've been hiking 14ers in Colorado since I was in middle school. I read Bill Bryson's "A Walk in the Woods" in 7th grade and even though I didn't really like the book, I promised myself that I would hike the AT. Right now my plan is to take on that challenge next year during my gap year. I just love the idea of that kind of a physical and mental challenge that provides a person the potential to learn and grow so much whether they finish or not.
So now that I've been talking about myself for most of this review, I'll talk about the book! I absolutely love the cover and the layout of the book. All of the visuals within made it really fun to read and it's one of those books that I'm happy I own because it's so beautiful! I really liked how Ben focused on a lot of the parenting and decision-making aspects of hiking because I'm just super interested in psychology and how different people think. From a current high schooler's perspective, I think part of the reason I liked this book so much is because Ben articulates the way I feel about a lot of parenting ideas. The way he articulates the way he trusts his kids, but also the way he owns up to parenting mistakes is honestly quite admirable and it makes for really good storytelling and character development. I could go on and on about this book and the number of ideas and philosophies within in that resonated with me, but I really just think it would be better if you read the book. My final take-away is just that in our society, everyone is focused on this idea of doing everything the way it's expected from others, but the Crawfords break out of that box and I also aspire to embrace their somewhat counter-culture view way of life and live the way that works for me.
I don't really have I reason I didn't give this book 5-stars. Even though I loved it, it didn't absolutely knock my socks off and I have to save my 5-stars, ya know?
I first heard about the Appalachian trail in 4th grade and ever since, I have fantasized about hiking it. My family has always been a hiking bunch and we've been hiking 14ers in Colorado since I was in middle school. I read Bill Bryson's "A Walk in the Woods" in 7th grade and even though I didn't really like the book, I promised myself that I would hike the AT. Right now my plan is to take on that challenge next year during my gap year. I just love the idea of that kind of a physical and mental challenge that provides a person the potential to learn and grow so much whether they finish or not.
So now that I've been talking about myself for most of this review, I'll talk about the book! I absolutely love the cover and the layout of the book. All of the visuals within made it really fun to read and it's one of those books that I'm happy I own because it's so beautiful! I really liked how Ben focused on a lot of the parenting and decision-making aspects of hiking because I'm just super interested in psychology and how different people think. From a current high schooler's perspective, I think part of the reason I liked this book so much is because Ben articulates the way I feel about a lot of parenting ideas. The way he articulates the way he trusts his kids, but also the way he owns up to parenting mistakes is honestly quite admirable and it makes for really good storytelling and character development. I could go on and on about this book and the number of ideas and philosophies within in that resonated with me, but I really just think it would be better if you read the book. My final take-away is just that in our society, everyone is focused on this idea of doing everything the way it's expected from others, but the Crawfords break out of that box and I also aspire to embrace their somewhat counter-culture view way of life and live the way that works for me.
I don't really have I reason I didn't give this book 5-stars. Even though I loved it, it didn't absolutely knock my socks off and I have to save my 5-stars, ya know?
May 19, 2022
This is kind of a review about Ben Crawford and his whole family deal, not just the book, as ever since I saw Kara Goucher's tweet about their family marathon I've been on a deeeeeeeep dive about them.
His yearning for connection, closeness, meaning, and yeah, significance (as in, his desire for his life and self to be significant) was very relatable to me. It seems like he and Kami genuinely try to be good parents, and are willing to change their approach and listen to what their kids need. Ben and Kami have grown up together so much and changed a lot in their views and beliefs and approach to parenting, which seems quite rare and I can imagine is very very hard to do. They are open about doing therapy (also counseling, which I think is maybe like Christian counseling in their case?) both separately and as a couple.
I do think there's this way in which "alternative lifestyle" people like this can act like their way is superior even as they proclaim that all ways are equally valid, perhaps out of a kind of defensiveness over how often people criticize them (and worse). Their life seems interesting for sure, and cool in a certain way, but I'd also like to state for the record that I think it's ok to live a "regular life" where you have a job with a boss and your kids go to public school, and it's even ok to feel happy and satisfied with such a life sometimes.
I appreciated how he mentioned his and Kami's need/want to have sex w/ each other (while on the trail), Kami's period (hopefully that was ok w/ her), and his history of addiction, all in a pretty straightforward way, that felt like, yeah these are just human things that don't have to be squirmy or shameful.
Some of the writing was a bit repetitive, and perhaps a bit saccharine at times, but I pretty much like that in an AT memoir.
Finally, as a Jew, it makes me pretty uncomfortable when evangelical-type Christians, such as the Crawfords, observe Jewish holidays like Passover, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, and Shabbat and make them about Jesus.
His yearning for connection, closeness, meaning, and yeah, significance (as in, his desire for his life and self to be significant) was very relatable to me. It seems like he and Kami genuinely try to be good parents, and are willing to change their approach and listen to what their kids need. Ben and Kami have grown up together so much and changed a lot in their views and beliefs and approach to parenting, which seems quite rare and I can imagine is very very hard to do. They are open about doing therapy (also counseling, which I think is maybe like Christian counseling in their case?) both separately and as a couple.
I do think there's this way in which "alternative lifestyle" people like this can act like their way is superior even as they proclaim that all ways are equally valid, perhaps out of a kind of defensiveness over how often people criticize them (and worse). Their life seems interesting for sure, and cool in a certain way, but I'd also like to state for the record that I think it's ok to live a "regular life" where you have a job with a boss and your kids go to public school, and it's even ok to feel happy and satisfied with such a life sometimes.
I appreciated how he mentioned his and Kami's need/want to have sex w/ each other (while on the trail), Kami's period (hopefully that was ok w/ her), and his history of addiction, all in a pretty straightforward way, that felt like, yeah these are just human things that don't have to be squirmy or shameful.
Some of the writing was a bit repetitive, and perhaps a bit saccharine at times, but I pretty much like that in an AT memoir.
Finally, as a Jew, it makes me pretty uncomfortable when evangelical-type Christians, such as the Crawfords, observe Jewish holidays like Passover, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, and Shabbat and make them about Jesus.
December 5, 2020
An epic hiking family adventure
I knew Ben from his past as a Blackjack expert and as the co-founder of Epipheo (an explainer vídeo agency). I lost track of his trajectory for years, until one day, I started noticing many post on Instagram of his family hiking. I blew my mind to learn; 1. He had such a big family (7 kids), and 2. They were hiking the the Appalachian Trail which is over 2,000 miles together as a family (carrying a 2 yo all the way).
The book is the tale of the entire 2,000 mile trip over the span of 5 months. It is an epic story full of highs and lows. They documented the entire trip on Instagram and Youtube. They had hundreds of haters but they persevered, one mile at a time, one day at a time, for weeks, for months. Hiking through rain, snow, freezing temperatures, insane boulder mountains, crossing rivers. It’s an epic story in so ways. An epic adventure, a tale about endurance, a tale about living life as a family on your own terms, ignoring the haters, being vulnerable, and trusting things will turn out all right while facing complete uncertainty.
The Crawford’s tackled the Appalachian Trail, one of the toughest hikes in the world together as a family; as the largest family to ever attempt such an incredible feat.
Time will tell how enduring 5 months of hardship will shape the future of the 7 kids. In a world where so many kids are pampered over protected, it may have been the biggest gift for them. There is nothing these kids won’t be able to endure or accomplish now!
Thanks sharing this unforgettable story Ben!
I knew Ben from his past as a Blackjack expert and as the co-founder of Epipheo (an explainer vídeo agency). I lost track of his trajectory for years, until one day, I started noticing many post on Instagram of his family hiking. I blew my mind to learn; 1. He had such a big family (7 kids), and 2. They were hiking the the Appalachian Trail which is over 2,000 miles together as a family (carrying a 2 yo all the way).
The book is the tale of the entire 2,000 mile trip over the span of 5 months. It is an epic story full of highs and lows. They documented the entire trip on Instagram and Youtube. They had hundreds of haters but they persevered, one mile at a time, one day at a time, for weeks, for months. Hiking through rain, snow, freezing temperatures, insane boulder mountains, crossing rivers. It’s an epic story in so ways. An epic adventure, a tale about endurance, a tale about living life as a family on your own terms, ignoring the haters, being vulnerable, and trusting things will turn out all right while facing complete uncertainty.
The Crawford’s tackled the Appalachian Trail, one of the toughest hikes in the world together as a family; as the largest family to ever attempt such an incredible feat.
Time will tell how enduring 5 months of hardship will shape the future of the 7 kids. In a world where so many kids are pampered over protected, it may have been the biggest gift for them. There is nothing these kids won’t be able to endure or accomplish now!
Thanks sharing this unforgettable story Ben!
July 23, 2021
This book was so interesting! I loved the reflections on parenting and what togetherness looks like for them.
January 24, 2022
Love 'em or not, the Crawford family made quite the splash in the hiking community during their Appalachian Trail thru hike in 2018. They chronicled their journey on a YouTube channel, and my husband and I were totally hooked.
This book is a page turner. It will probably keep you up late at night, especially if you didn't follow their vlog, to learn what unfolds next.
They don't sugarcoat the family thru hiking experience, which only enhances the book. Their candid thoughts and perspectives made it an especially engaging read. Without a doubt, they served their kids well in this endeavor and they still appear to like each other (even more so, it seems) from the shared experience.
In a world of helicopter parenting and many parents never wanting their kids to experience discomfort, this was a refreshing account of parents who let loose of the proverbial reins and had the courage to "fight for together" in a less traditional way.
Finally, as a search and rescue team member who is exposed to a heck of a lot of ways well-intentioned plans can take a really bad turn in the Smokies, I didn't agree with every choice the Crawford family made when the stakes were high with weather. You'll probably recognize the situation I'm referring to if you read the book. Crawford defends his choice. But in my humble opinion, it was still too risky. They got lucky, but many do not in similar situations and it costs them their lives. Regardless, I loved this book and admire and respect the courage and conviction of this family.
This book is a page turner. It will probably keep you up late at night, especially if you didn't follow their vlog, to learn what unfolds next.
They don't sugarcoat the family thru hiking experience, which only enhances the book. Their candid thoughts and perspectives made it an especially engaging read. Without a doubt, they served their kids well in this endeavor and they still appear to like each other (even more so, it seems) from the shared experience.
In a world of helicopter parenting and many parents never wanting their kids to experience discomfort, this was a refreshing account of parents who let loose of the proverbial reins and had the courage to "fight for together" in a less traditional way.
Finally, as a search and rescue team member who is exposed to a heck of a lot of ways well-intentioned plans can take a really bad turn in the Smokies, I didn't agree with every choice the Crawford family made when the stakes were high with weather. You'll probably recognize the situation I'm referring to if you read the book. Crawford defends his choice. But in my humble opinion, it was still too risky. They got lucky, but many do not in similar situations and it costs them their lives. Regardless, I loved this book and admire and respect the courage and conviction of this family.
February 3, 2021
This book showcases the largest family to ever complete the AT and is full of raw emotions, engagement, personal challenges, honest to the extent of what some may consider a fault, incredibly attention grabbing, and so thought-provoking that I have been pushed to share in personal discussions within my own home... I have laughed, reevaluated my own parental guidelines, and have been challenged by their "outside the box" style of thinking numerous times.
I have admired the togetherness of this family since the first day they stepped foot on the trail and even more so after reading this book.
Even though I followed the Crawford’s on the trail, this book reminded me of moments where I laughed with them, moments when I was concerned for them, and the joy I personally felt when they completed their journey of togetherness. Their accomplishments speak for themselves and the sheer willpower that each of them carry actually empowers me in every day life. The Crawford's challenge me in ways they will never know. Complete strangers amongst one another, yet inspired by their footsteps.
By the way, this is the first book I've ever read in its entirety as my attention span lacks engagement with text and movies. So, for me to say this book is a great read, I honestly feel speaks volumes.
Thank you Crawford family. In your own way, you’ve made a great difference in my sweet little family of togetherness!
I have admired the togetherness of this family since the first day they stepped foot on the trail and even more so after reading this book.
Even though I followed the Crawford’s on the trail, this book reminded me of moments where I laughed with them, moments when I was concerned for them, and the joy I personally felt when they completed their journey of togetherness. Their accomplishments speak for themselves and the sheer willpower that each of them carry actually empowers me in every day life. The Crawford's challenge me in ways they will never know. Complete strangers amongst one another, yet inspired by their footsteps.
By the way, this is the first book I've ever read in its entirety as my attention span lacks engagement with text and movies. So, for me to say this book is a great read, I honestly feel speaks volumes.
Thank you Crawford family. In your own way, you’ve made a great difference in my sweet little family of togetherness!
November 27, 2020
4.4 stars. We tend to box people in to make them easier to understand. I thought after getting to know the Crawfords for a while by watching their YouTube channel, following their online posts, and seeing how they advertised this book I might have more of an idea the narrative this story would tell. I even knew Ben would somehow knock me off his feet despite but this one still pleasantly surprised me and then some.
I’ve read most all of the AT stories out there and this one is cool because not only does it really make you feel like you are there (I’ve never been more invested in how someone would get out of their problems) but you also get a strong sense of how as a family unit they worked together. I appreciate the honest voice that came through in writing. You can tell the appreciation Ben feels for each person in the Crawford clan is authentic and not just the bull shit love because one “has to”. There’s some really good quotes found throughout the book, but I’ll leave these for each reader to find. My most favorite thing about this book is how Ben does a such great job allowing people to see how another human can think/do things that go against society (beyond what is trendy or progressive) and yet do it in a way that remains respectable and in such a way I found admirable.
Thanks Ben for allowing us to hear your voice. I hope to continue to hear more.
I’ve read most all of the AT stories out there and this one is cool because not only does it really make you feel like you are there (I’ve never been more invested in how someone would get out of their problems) but you also get a strong sense of how as a family unit they worked together. I appreciate the honest voice that came through in writing. You can tell the appreciation Ben feels for each person in the Crawford clan is authentic and not just the bull shit love because one “has to”. There’s some really good quotes found throughout the book, but I’ll leave these for each reader to find. My most favorite thing about this book is how Ben does a such great job allowing people to see how another human can think/do things that go against society (beyond what is trendy or progressive) and yet do it in a way that remains respectable and in such a way I found admirable.
Thanks Ben for allowing us to hear your voice. I hope to continue to hear more.
November 29, 2020
I have been following the Crawfords on their youtube channel "Fight For Together" since they posted their trail vlogs so I know their story on the AT. This book was such an enjoyable read, even as someone who already knew their story. I thought the book told a side of the story we never got to see on social media/youtube. I have thought social media is toxic for a long time now, but this book really dived deep into how toxic people can be online. It highlighted the struggles that people go through putting their life online for others to see and how damaging that can be for those who share. From another 'outside the box thinker' I commend this family for taking risks and trying things that most people wouldn't dare try. I think this book appeals to a wide range of people- outdoorsy people, AT lovers, parents, and anyone who feels influenced by social media (isn't that all of us?). I'd recommend it to anyone!
I also have to say- I really enjoyed purchasing this book for the 2.99 kindle price on amazon during the first few weeks because I am a medical student with limited funds. I hope to continue supporting the family by watching their youtube. Great work Crawfords!
I also have to say- I really enjoyed purchasing this book for the 2.99 kindle price on amazon during the first few weeks because I am a medical student with limited funds. I hope to continue supporting the family by watching their youtube. Great work Crawfords!
March 8, 2021
I'd been wanting to read this every since I read a friend's glowing review and ended up reading it in February during a nasty ice storm. I've been in a reading funk since late last year, but this took me right of that. I had no power and my girls and I were huddled in one room to stay warm, but this book took me right out of myself and planted me right in the middle of the AT.
Reading this book, I was in the middle of a freezing bathroom or running a marathon or eating endless gummy bears or spending time with other hikers. Ben Crawford tells the story of him and his family hiking the Appalachian Trail in a way that's real and relatable. I don't agree with everything he does, but what shines through this book is the love he has for his wife and kids and how together, they tried to do what was right by their family.
I love how his family grew together, how they bonded and got to know each other in deeper and better ways than before they started this hike. I liked seeing the kids grow up and seeing Ben and his wife grow as parents.
If he ever writes another book, I will definitely be rushing out to buy a copy.
All opinions in this review are my own.
Reading this book, I was in the middle of a freezing bathroom or running a marathon or eating endless gummy bears or spending time with other hikers. Ben Crawford tells the story of him and his family hiking the Appalachian Trail in a way that's real and relatable. I don't agree with everything he does, but what shines through this book is the love he has for his wife and kids and how together, they tried to do what was right by their family.
I love how his family grew together, how they bonded and got to know each other in deeper and better ways than before they started this hike. I liked seeing the kids grow up and seeing Ben and his wife grow as parents.
If he ever writes another book, I will definitely be rushing out to buy a copy.
All opinions in this review are my own.
November 30, 2020
Story of a family through trials and tribulations
I had watched the video on YouTube before this book came. Ben does sometime over share his thought process as some walk away with negative impression as he takes us through is thought process. Those that do watch the fully are able to see how he let us in his innermost thought process showing the conflicts one has in and process through it. Just showing the positives and end result might have appeased some but then would not be much help to people Ben states his goal is with creating these videos.
This is my long winded way to say - loved the book. It has some of the same elements and builds on that. It does complete the picture that I felt was missing from the YT as they pushed through on their journey - the story of a family of 8 keeping together against the odds thrown at them.
Ps. I bought as kindle book so not so much for me, I do think the common novel/book size (~10” diagonal) vs the bigger manual size book format would have been better for those buying a copy.
I had watched the video on YouTube before this book came. Ben does sometime over share his thought process as some walk away with negative impression as he takes us through is thought process. Those that do watch the fully are able to see how he let us in his innermost thought process showing the conflicts one has in and process through it. Just showing the positives and end result might have appeased some but then would not be much help to people Ben states his goal is with creating these videos.
This is my long winded way to say - loved the book. It has some of the same elements and builds on that. It does complete the picture that I felt was missing from the YT as they pushed through on their journey - the story of a family of 8 keeping together against the odds thrown at them.
Ps. I bought as kindle book so not so much for me, I do think the common novel/book size (~10” diagonal) vs the bigger manual size book format would have been better for those buying a copy.
February 4, 2021
I heard about this book on the Fight For Together YouTube channel, which I stumbled upon watching the Appalachian trail vlogs. It follows the Crawford family’s journey hiking the AT together.
Overall, I really enjoyed the book. As someone who is interested in thru hiking, it was interesting to hear about the Crawford’s experience. However, there is so much more to the book than just hiking. The reader is introduced to all of the trail angels and friends the family meets along the way. There are so many heartwarming acts of kindness that helped the Crawford’s achieve their goal, and reading about the goodness and generosity of others honestly made me tear up. The book also delves into Ben and Kami’s parenting style. With honesty and openness, Ben shares the lessons he learned during difficult moments.
I think that there’s something for everyone in this book. It was enjoyable to read and also made more even more excited to start my hike!
Overall, I really enjoyed the book. As someone who is interested in thru hiking, it was interesting to hear about the Crawford’s experience. However, there is so much more to the book than just hiking. The reader is introduced to all of the trail angels and friends the family meets along the way. There are so many heartwarming acts of kindness that helped the Crawford’s achieve their goal, and reading about the goodness and generosity of others honestly made me tear up. The book also delves into Ben and Kami’s parenting style. With honesty and openness, Ben shares the lessons he learned during difficult moments.
I think that there’s something for everyone in this book. It was enjoyable to read and also made more even more excited to start my hike!
December 11, 2020
Unfortunately I didn't know of the Crawfords until after they put out the documentary of their hike. I would have loved to follow the daily journey of their hike. Either way, getting to read about experience on a deeper and more meaningful level was amazing. As someone who is currently working to break generational trauma, I really appreciated Ben's perspective on parenting, children, and getting out of your comfort zone. His ability to see his children in a new light and admit his mistakes was incredible to read about. I'm sure this won't be the last time I read this book as there are so many gems to uncover. Thank you for being vulnerable and putting yourself out there. I can tell you that from a reader's perspective it was worth it.
January 31, 2021
This book! I’m going to be honest, I purchased this book on whim, somewhat ironically. I have seen the YouTube videos a few times, and I find them interesting, but I didn’t really think the book would be all that enjoyable. I like travelogues and I loved A Walk in the Woods by Bill Bryson , but had serious doubts Ben would be a good storyteller (he really drones and on and on in the vlogs).
However, I was so wrong. The story of The Family’s hike was heartfelt, vulnerable and engaging. I couldn’t put the book down. I appreciated how willing Ben was to talk about his mistakes and insecurities. I was rooting for The Family the whole time and was crying real tears by the time they made it to Mount Katahdin.
However, I was so wrong. The story of The Family’s hike was heartfelt, vulnerable and engaging. I couldn’t put the book down. I appreciated how willing Ben was to talk about his mistakes and insecurities. I was rooting for The Family the whole time and was crying real tears by the time they made it to Mount Katahdin.
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March 30, 2021Loved it, I watch them on YouTube and the writing is just how Ben Crawford, the Dad, sounds. The book provides the good, bad, ugly, and 'oh we shouldn't have done that' moments. I felt the voices of all of them within the book but definitely it was from a male perspective, Ben's voice. I think the others voices were in but you know how when you have a dominant personality around you and they push you to do things that you aren't really enjoying but as you start to participate you find that you are learning things about yourself and what you are capable of doing? That's this story. I felt like, as I read, I was able to hear what he thought and what I imagined those with him felt based on how he was telling the perspective. Just loved it, the whole thing.
November 21, 2020
It is the story of a family of 8 going for a very long hike. I had followed it on YouTube and other social media as it was going but I was still very curious to read a written report. Words convey different emotions than videos.
The book does not feel like a repeat of their YT channel but on the contrary, complements it nicely and I could not put the book down. It gave me a new perspective on the way to view family dynamics especially when it comes to hiking which is one of my passions. Would really recommend reading it to anyone enjoying reading transformation stories, hiking stories, and family dynamics.
The book does not feel like a repeat of their YT channel but on the contrary, complements it nicely and I could not put the book down. It gave me a new perspective on the way to view family dynamics especially when it comes to hiking which is one of my passions. Would really recommend reading it to anyone enjoying reading transformation stories, hiking stories, and family dynamics.
December 14, 2020
Excellent book on parenting, bonding hard times and good.
As I was doing my own research on hiking the Appalachian Trail. I came across this family. I watched them on you tube through the whole trip. I cheered them on during their high points and low points. I cried for them when CPS was called, and was throughly pissed at the person who called and felt they knew better. Ben is honest and raw through this story. I applaud his efforts as a dad who wants to be present in his children’s lives and allows the kids to make their own decisions. Bravo...I could not put the book down.
As I was doing my own research on hiking the Appalachian Trail. I came across this family. I watched them on you tube through the whole trip. I cheered them on during their high points and low points. I cried for them when CPS was called, and was throughly pissed at the person who called and felt they knew better. Ben is honest and raw through this story. I applaud his efforts as a dad who wants to be present in his children’s lives and allows the kids to make their own decisions. Bravo...I could not put the book down.
November 22, 2020
Thanks for your insights on your "family's AT"
Your book gave me a deeper understanding of how "the family" hiked their AT, and how they grew together along the way including all the ups and downs. Reading it felt real, raw at times. A break from modern life with all our complexities can be good for the human soul and as you have shown in your AT experience it brings people together. I have walked the Camino Frances across Spain, which for me restored my faith in humanity. Thank you for sharing journey with me. Buen Camino......
Your book gave me a deeper understanding of how "the family" hiked their AT, and how they grew together along the way including all the ups and downs. Reading it felt real, raw at times. A break from modern life with all our complexities can be good for the human soul and as you have shown in your AT experience it brings people together. I have walked the Camino Frances across Spain, which for me restored my faith in humanity. Thank you for sharing journey with me. Buen Camino......
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