I have stuff in my life. I help others organize so for me to have stuff is really insane. I am constantly telling people I work with that they are holding onto things for a reason. We'll talk about things and either they are ready to get rid of it or they aren't. I don't push. I make suggestions.
So, why was I so stuck when it came to myself? From the Introduction that the author, Peggy Fitzsimmons, wrote, "Everything we hold onto carries weight. It might be mental weight, like the weight of jealous thoughts; or physical weight, like the weight of the old set of encyclopedias in the basement; or the emotional weight, like the weight if conflict with a family member. Everything we hold onto has a cost. It might be an emotional cost, like the cost of keeping up with society's ever-speeding treadmill; a relationship cost, like the cost of not accepting someone's choice for a partner; or a financial cost, like the cost of having to wash the car every week because it doesn't fit in the jam-packed garage."
And bingo...we have a winner! I was able to do for others what Peggy has done for me and what I could not do for myself. I could look at my life and see the "cost" that all these things were bringing to my life. I knew exactly why the things I had "jam-packed" into my garage were there, but I could never "release" those things until now.
Thank you, Peggy, for your insight and for writing this book!