My goodness. I did not want this book to end! What a big hearted, tender coming of age tale.
I felt a connection to the Neil, the narrator. Growing up in Hammond Creek, GA, his adventures reminded me of my own coming of age in West Palm Beach, FL, also during the Bush/Cheney years.
Though Neil is Indian-American, and myself being Filipino-American, I totally related and inhaled his efforts to please his family, his arguments with parents that he's a slacker and doesn't work hard enough, his close and competitive relationship with his sister Prachi. The very mention of TCBYs, Chick-fil-A's, Waffle Houses, going to college, writing papers, dances, weddings all harked me back to being teenager and a young man during the formative years in which Neil narrates.
Neil has long harbored unrequited love with family friend Anita, whose mother Anjali holds the recipe to a potion that will lead to happiness.
It's main ingredients come from ancient gold from India which is tied to it's complicated history. Anita wants to go to Harvard, and will do anything to get there to succeed. After all, what I related to most is in Asian American families, parents want their children to strive for the best, and connections and reputations matter the most.
After the suicide of a girl named Shruti, who was Neil's date to a high school dance, Neil's life spirals into depression and blames himself for her death. Later the novel shifts from the Atlanta Burbs to the San Francisco area where Neil is finishing a dissertation in History, and reunites with Anita, "From this gold...I just wanted something to make everything less scary.
Sometimes I can't imagine ever feeling at home anywhere in the world" (Sathian 320). Prachi is about to be married, and at a bridal expo, a horrific event of gun violence happens and Neil has to reckon with his past, his love for Prachi and Anita, and the ghost of Shruti who still lingers
This novel made me laugh, cry, and I hugged it after I finished reading it. Ms. Sathian writes with verve and humor, with sentences that jump out with comedic flourish, and a tragicomic tone.
The characters in the novel all jumped out with humor and heart, complete and complicated characterizations of two families who simply want the best for their kids, and yet have to straddle and assimilate in an America that still feels their inferior to their white counterparts. It's perfectly summed up: "Alchemy is bigger than that. We didn't want to steal someone else's ambitions. We were trying to steal from the universe. Steal time itself" (Sathian 314). And why not? Everyone deserves a chance at happiness.