Well let's see, it's been almost 2 years since I read this book and I'm not close to getting married yet so we'll see if the 3 year promise holds true! Honestly, it's again some of the same trend of books that came out with the "He's not that into you" grouping of let's use humor and get right to the point about why we aren't finding good men. This one is about the same but uses a little more of the physical appearence factor as well. I guess I still haven't learned my lesson about these books and keep reading them anyway. Some parts were cute, some points were very obvious and some of the words picked me up when I felt down about myself but then again, that is what friends are for, not books. I think we still need to remember that it's not always us and rather than trying to figure out what we're doing wrong all the time, it's so much easier to just forget about it and just be ourselves. That always seems more attractive anyway!