was looking for specific, actionable eating guidelines which the books nor a dietician can give. skimmed the middle and a lot more fluff than the actual book and workbook. still no one can answer:
is it intuitive to honor fullness (body cues) and skip a meal, or is it intuitive (rational thought) to eat anyways because your brain & body need energy? which to honor? and what if intuitively my body craves ice cream but i know that won’t sustain me and should eat a proper meal instead… but then eating both leaves me overly full? what to do then? “try it and see there’s no failure only learning” um yeah if i feel indigestion or bloat that feels pretty failed to me. oh, or what if I know i need to eat xyz for calories and nutrition, but then i bloat or feel too full (from a normal amount of food)? if i ate intuitively i’d either only eat a third of all my meals then wak away, and it’s a waste of food and money; or, i’d likely eat in extremes of either too much or too little. idk, i think some takeaways of IE will stick with me but ultimately I think it overall just doesn’t work for some (me) and structure, predictably, and limited food choices actually enable me to feel well, satisfied, and not worrying about food 24/7. it works for me.
oh - and telling me to do a practice of hugging myself when I just need to know specific balanced snack ideas or real life examples of how “normal” people eat, grocery shop, structure their days it’s unhelpful. like, “here is Suzie. Suzie prefers to eat 3 meals a day spaced out because Suzie has digestive distress otherwise. Suzie also eats a miniml palate because of her medical conditions and preferences. Suzie is dating Beau and Beau has an iron stomach and eats much more and more frequently. Beau enjoys a wider variety of food than Suzie, although they share some overlap. Here is an example of a grocery list, how they shop on daily/weekly/monthly basis, meal plan, enjoy meals together. Oh, and also how Suzie and Beau plan food for their children! Suziette and Beau Jr.” and I already know what my dietician would say - “try it and see! you know your body” bro if i grew up eating 2 bowls of Trix cereal, a pb&j and cookies for lunch, pizza for dinner, and a nightly bowl of ice cream, what makes you think I intuitively know how to grocery shop and meal plan as an adult??? “buy all your favorites and always have options” brother now I am spending 4x on groceries as a 20-something who has other financial goals AND food is constantly going bad. nonsensical. i’m going to let the store store my food items, buy as i need, and keep a few usual daily foods ready to go. /fin