The Purpose and Power of Love and Marriage

by Myles Munroe

HOW MANY OF US TRULY UNDERSTAND LOVE? Probably no other dimension of human experience has been pondered, discussed, debated, analyzed, and dreamed about more than the nature of true love. Yet, for all our thinking and talking, where can we turn for genuine insight in matters of true love? Dr. Myles Munroe provides answers to the questions surrounding the true nature of love as he exposes the false images created in our culture. He shares practical and realistic truths that will enable you to discover and experience love for God, for yourself, for your mate, and for those around you. HOW MANY OF US TRULY UNDERSTAND MARRIAGE? At one point or another every newlywed couple has to face the question, "Okay, we're married; now what? We are in love, but how do we build a successful life together, one characterized by a lifetime of love, joy, friendship, and fruitfulness?" Once again, Dr Myles Munroe provides practical, sensible solutions for couples in the areas of communication, financial management, and true intimacy. This book is a simple and refreshingly usable guide that will help young couples chart their way to marital success and avoid the things that could cause their marriages to flounder.

Genres: Marriage, Christian, Self Help, Nonfiction, Family, Spirituality, Relationships

272 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2005

Reviews

[Tony Rogers Jr. · Rating 5 out of 5]

An absolutely amazing work from Dr Myles on love & marriage.

There are many things I liked about this book, here are just a few
1. The 12 foundations of a happy and successful marriage such as: Love, trust, commitment, respect, and others along with one that I didn't expect him to mention which is financial stability

2. 8 important characteristics of a marriage partner such as: the ability to work through problems, empathy, ability to communicate, similar family backgrounds etc

3. He defined what love is, what love is NOT and how love looks applied in practical situations throughout life (great info!)

4. He covered communication: what it is and how to communicate effectively with your spouse

5. He covered how men and women are wired differently therefore we have the tendency to interpret the world, situations, and words etc differently.

I could go on and on about this wonderful work. I am truly impressed and grateful for this book it will be a treasured resource in my life.

[Michael K. · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was an inspiring book that helps one to realign themselves to their purpose within their marriage. No one is perfect, we can all use some help, but we need to believe that we not all knowing in our marriage and accept the help when it is available. This was a good book with numerous great ideas to aid in building our power and purpose in marriage. Great idea is to study through this with your spouse, even better to go through and study with your spouse to be.​

[Joseph · Rating 2 out of 5]

This book is well interesting. It is only 245 or so pages, but it seems to repeat a lot of what it just said... And while not long, it seemed really long...

I guess the problem I have is while he says Marriage shouldn't be based on love in the earlier chapters, he says it does later in the book. There is a lot of that in other areas...

He believes marriage is above everything and anyone. For instance "Commitment to the marriage, rather than commitment to the person, is the key to success." I agree a little bit, but at the same time shouldn't it be about the person also?

Good parts are:

"A vow is not made to another person. Vows are made to God or before God; in other words, with God as a witness."

"God's attitude toward vows is revealed plainly in the Scriptures. "When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it. He has no pleasure in fools; fulfill your vow...""

There are more good points about marriage as well. I guess I just thought there were a lot of redundant topics and I had to skip a few things.

[Kwenadi]

I just started reading it today.A colleague recommended it, so theres not much to say for now.But i think is a nice book.Preparing people before they say the DO........

[Emmanuel Ayeni · Rating 4 out of 5]

A detailed manual on marriage from biblical perspective and couples roles points.

[Tremayne Moore · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was a simplistic book that is in terms that everyone can understand. Simply put, this book is really about seeking the Word of God as the source for marriage. Through the Word, you can really understand the word agape and how it applies to relationships. The quote that stood out to me the most was this: when love abounds, fear is banished; when fear increases, love diminishes. It tells me that perfect love casts out all fear.

What the late Myles Munroe is trying to convey throughout the book is that knowledge is the key to a healthy marriage and it's through marriage that family/society is formed.

[Tapiwa Chalashika · Rating 4 out of 5]

amazing and insightful book to read

[Afolabi Anigilaje]

celibate, married or unmarried-yet, everyone should study this piece: taught me so much about me, love and marriage.

[Henry · Rating 4 out of 5]

Munroe's work offers a radical reorientation of marriage not as a social contract but as a divine institution operating under kingdom jurisdiction. By synthesizing decades of his relationship teachings with fresh biblical exegesis, he systematically dismantles modern, emotion-based marital paradigms, replacing them with a purpose-driven architecture where couples function as co-regents in God's dominion plan.

The book's transformative power lies in its uncompromising elevation of marriage from the temporal to the eternal realm. Through paradigm-shifting concepts like 'kingdom-first compatibility' and 'assignment-based intimacy,' Munroe provides believers with both the theological framework and practical tools to build covenant relationships that reflect heavenly order.

This is essential reading for Christians ready to exchange culturally conditioned marriage models for a blueprint where every aspect of union from conflict resolution to physical intimacy flows from divinely ordained principles rather than human wisdom or temporary passions.

[Roshelle Speir · Rating 5 out of 5]

My husband and I celebrate 25 years of marriage this year!! When I first began reading this book, I wondered where this book was 25 years ago when we first were talking about marriage. I then began to pray, "Lord why am I reading this book?" He quickly showed me I have daughter who is in a serious dating relationship. She was genuinely excited when I asked her if she and her boyfriend would consider reading the book. So, I have ordered two more copies. Part One lays some great foundational work to discuss before marriage or early on in a marriage.

Part two talks about what love is and why we were created. Much of this was review for me, but I so enjoyed the refresher.

Part three includes very helpful information no matter how long you have been married. Things that as the years go by can sometimes be forgotten or in the rush of everyday life overlooked.

I recommend this book for both engaged couples, newly weds and those who have shared many years together already.

[Godwin Bright]

Every man or woman that is already in the insttution of marriage should read this book because it will help you understand what marriage truly is and how to operate your marriage successully. It will save you all the stress and troubles people are facing in marriages today. And if you are a single male or female desiring to get married soon, this book is a must for you to read. It teaches you on how to pick the right person as your life partner, and how to function properly in the insttitution of marriage in other to be able to have a successful marriage life. I will recommend this book for every individual to read.

[Cordell · Rating 4 out of 5]

A Must Read When Considering Marriage

I was immature and lacking to a lot of valuable information in past relationships. This book expresses the nature and character of a successful relationship/marriage. This is a must read for anybody considering marriage or want to learn how Christ thinks of marriage.

[Anne Kedi · Rating 5 out of 5]

An eye-opening book as it brings to live a vision of marriage which I always thought as a dream. It is a must-read for who really wants to set a relationship and later on a married life under the principles of God.

[Kay-em · Rating 5 out of 5]

Another great read by the author! I came across this book while researching the topic in preparation for a bible discussion on the same. The information is well presented with great insights from the bible.

[Lesego · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book vividly explains the different types of love, the level of love and every area of life that might challenge marriages. It gives you solutions to problem which you might encounter in the future. It is a great guide for successful relationship/marriage.

[Manuel Nunez · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wish I would’ve read it before I married. It puts a perspective on love that cannot be explained in a review, but I highly recommend reading it while you look for that special someone and again once you’ve met that person.

[Mrs. · Rating 4 out of 5]

A great reminder of God's intent for marriage. As with all his books, the wisdom and revelation within these pages are pragmatic, sagacious and life altering. Will recommend for all married couples and anyone preparing for or interested in marriage.

[Georgia Bryce · Rating 5 out of 5]

A MUST read before walking down that isle. Disrupts the misnomers that dominate concerning marriage

[Shantell Rolle-Missick · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome book!

This book gives sound and godly principles about marriage and family. I recommend this book to anyone who is married or planning on getting married.

[Andy Febrico Bintoro · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book could be said a-z in the marriage. How marriage could be last long, and how to walked in love.

[Chelcee · Rating 5 out of 5]

I think anyone courting or engaged or married should give this a read.

[Kina C. · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a great book to read! Agape Love is vital!

[Glenn W · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book, I have so much respect for this man. I wish he was still here. I would recommend this book to any married couple.

[Gideon · Rating 4 out of 5]

Any intending couple, spinster and bachelor need to read this.

[Olubunmi Adewumi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Worth reading over and over again.

[Nyeleti Baloyi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Insightful. Beautiful. 🩵

[Maxine Madison · Rating 5 out of 5]

Dr. Myles Monroe’s timeless teaching on love and marriage helped my husband and I when we were young newlyweds. His messages in the book continue to challenge me and teach me new principles about marriage and God's purpose in marriage. I recommend this book for anyone thinking about getting married and for all married couples.

[Stone Michaels · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was definitely an inspirational book of instructions with regards to what it means to be and stay married. Dr. Munroe really breaks down every page and chapter to easy principles for any reader to digest. While all along, he consistently reinforces them with biblical teachings. He does an exceptional job with etymology throughout the book using typical martial expressions and phrases. It is an outstanding read and spiritual survival guide to marriage!

Stone Michaels, Author of Defining Atlas

[Victor A. Chaungwe Jr · Rating 5 out of 5]

In a world that seems to be so pessimistic about marriage,this book contains insights and knowledge from the Bible.It answered a great deal of questions and doubts i previously held about marriage.
I now understand Marriage from God's point of view,that it was orchestrated at the very beginning of the human family.
Therefore the very success of it is dependent on a couple agreeing and acknowledging God as the center of their marriage,like an equilateral triangle where God his at the apex.

Am glad i read it before i was joined in holy matrimony with my beautiful wife.

[Sarah Roberts Lundy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Scripture states that once you are married you leave your mother and father to begin your own family. Many parents have a hard time letting go of sons and daughters. Genesis 2.

Committing to the institution of marriage is slipping away as most American traditions in our society. I was captivated by the authors points on the topic of creating a healthy life for ourselves and our families.

This is an easy read with great topics to discuss with your spouse.