I read this book when I was a preteen, and looking at the book now from memory (many years later), the parents didn't protect the children. The children were made to experience being in a fish bowl, for example, interrupted breakfasts, dinners, lunches; (the mother who writes, "we disconnected all doorbells...let them all in (invited and uninvited guests)" ; to frequent house guests (the mother herself writes, "...one memorable weekend we served...meals" and the mother also writes (paraphrasing) , "...one weekend Jimmy came home, and hoped to...but every bed in the house had been taken; even the waterbed...Jimmy's friend looked at him, and asked him, "is it often like this?" and jimmy says "I guess so"); the mother who was often on book tours or speaking engagements, while the father worked. There were also other things that occurred in the family that if I had been one of the kids, I would be very very upset; as it is, Rory fled to Seattle; Kristin to Illinois, and Marie got divorced, and somewhere I read, that Karen had become a lutheran ( I don't know whether that's true or not. Haven't found any website that affirmed or denied it.) Also, at one point in the book, the author said about Gloria in Florida..."Gloria had been to court." Was Gloria experiencing the release of pent up rage in Florida at at having to be "mother's helper" to Marie, at never being sent to school or even asked if she would like to go, at never being officially adopted by Marie and Jimmy even though she was an "unofficial adopted daughter"; at having to wait for Russ having to become Catholic (because he was a non catholic at first, and then became a catholic), six years to get married to Russ in a catholic ceremony; and finally, for the Catholic church to say, yes, you and Russ can get married?