I loved this book. The two authors are longtime friends, and their unique perspectives on race (Abbott is white, raised in part by a black family, with a black wife, and currently has a biracial family of his own; Jones is black, raised in a predominantly white town, and is also Abbott's brother-in-law) make this collection of essays much more complex than it otherwise would have been. The writing here is deeply heartfelt, authentic, and true. It also had a lot to teach about the qualities of maleness, and the roles ascribed to men both black and white. It's also a page-turner, which surprised me! I read it very quickly, and look forward to rereading.
It would be a great book to include in a syllabus: gender studies, racial issues, education, or first-year seminar type classes.